Marilyn Loden
1946 - 2022
Marilyn (Teresa) Loden, a passionate advocate for diversity in the workplace, and the originator of the phrase "the glass ceiling" - which she was saddened to know would outlive her - died Saturday, August 6, 2022, in St. Helena, CA. She was 76 years old. Her nephew announced her death, which followed a year-long battle with cancer.
Ms. Loden was born on July 12, 1946, to Patrick and Mary Downey in New Hyde Park, NY. She graduated from Syracuse University in 1968. While working in the HR Department for AT&T in 1978, Ms. Loden appeared on a panel at the Women's Action Alliance Conference in New York City. It was during this panel that Ms. Loden coined the term "the glass ceiling," to describe the invisible barriers to advancement that women managers face. After leaving AT&T, Ms. Loden became a leading authority on managing change to support and leverage diversity in the workplace, consulting to a wide range of entities, including blue chip organizations such as Citibank, NASA, Procter & Gamble, Shell Oil, and the University of California. Her engagement for the U.S. Navy is emblematic of her effectiveness; her efforts led to policy changes increasing leader accountability for sexual harassment, and the lifting of the ban prohibiting women sailors from serving on submarines. In 2016, she was awarded the civilian Superior Service Medal by the U.S. Chief of Naval Operations for her "insightful leadership in refining policy and strategy to support an absolute commitment to nondiscrimination and uncompromising standards of performance related to matters of diversity and gender equity."
Ms. Loden was also a prolific author and sought-after speaker. She wrote three books about employee diversity. "Feminine Leadership or How to Succeed in Business Without Being One of the Boys" (Times Books, 1985), was the first business book to define the unique management style of many women and the glass-ceiling issues they face moving up the career ladder into visible leadership roles. Selected as one of the 50 best business books of the year by The Library Journal, Feminine Leadership has been published in six languages. She followed that up with "Workforce America! Managing Employee Diversity As A Vital Resource" (Irwin Publishing, 1991), the first comprehensive text about diversity management written for executives and human resources specialists, and "Implementing Diversity" (McGraw-Hill Publishing, 1996), which outlined the practical steps for leading a culture change to increase and leverage global diversity.
In 1972, Ms. Loden met her future husband, John Loden, while attending a "singles" event on Manhattan's Upper East Side. Together, they forged a loving and devoted relationship that lasted a lifetime. Their mutual love of dogs - particularly Yorkshire Terriers - travel and the Napa Valley influenced many of their life choices, beginning in 1986, when they moved from New York City to San Francisco. Mr. Loden passed away in 2021 from complications of Parkinson's Disease.
Ms. Loden was a benefactor for many causes including global health, animal rights and organizations supportive of democracy, and in recent years she and her husband were involved in fundraising for Napa County hospitals. At nearly six-feet tall she cut an imposing figure, both physically and intellectually, which served her well as she navigated male-dominated industries to advocate for change. She was passionate and beautiful, and a fierce proponent for the causes she believed in, even - in her final months - speaking with the employees at St. Helena Hospital about forming a union. Friends and family often described her as "the smartest person I know," and she could be wickedly funny. Throughout her many years as a consultant, speaker, and author, she attracted many women who were inspired and motivated by her own story and passion.
In addition to her husband, Ms. Loden was predeceased by her parents. She is survived by her sister, Patricia Pollok; two nephews: Jeffrey and Christopher Ferro; and two grand-nieces. And she leaves behind a number of close friends who loved her dearly.
Of her tireless work fighting for diversity, Ms. Loden had this to say when interviewed by the Washington Post in 2018: "I thought I would be finished with this by the end of my lifetime, but I won't be." And she understood that her most famous utterance will remain needed for a while longer, saying, "I'm hoping if it outlives me, it will become an antiquated phrase. People will say - There was a time when there was a glass ceiling."
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Odette
October 8, 2022
Condolences to the Loden's family. May God comfort the family and love ones now and in the days and months ahead.
Chantal Veevaete
September 17, 2022
Marilyn,
You have been an inspiration to me from the time we met and you imparted your expertise and helped us refine our DEI strategy at our company. You were one of the key pioneers in the space of Diversity Inclusion and the world is a much better place because of you. Your legacy lives in each of us you touched over decades.
I miss you my dear friend and all our get together with John - the love of your life - in Naples after I retired, and the many one-on-one dinners we enjoyed while you were in the Houston area for business.
My deepest sympathy to her sister and nephews and in particular Jeffrey who spent lots of time in St Helena caring for Marilyn as she courageously battled her illness.
Lynette Zirges
September 11, 2022
Marilyn was an amazing and wonderful lady. I met Marilyn in the 90s for a Diversity and inclusion program. We continued our friendship and I enjoyed visiting her and John in Florida. I will miss-the world will miss Marilyn for all her life work in educating others in DEI. She was definitely ahead of her time and made a difference! I´ll miss you my friend, Rest In Peace with John. Your legacy will live on
Julie O'Mara
September 5, 2022
To many of us in the Diversity Equity and Inclusion Profession, we most know her as the originator of the model on The Primary and Secondary Dimensions of Diversity. In fact, that was just mentioned a few days ago on a Zoom session of the OD Network sponsored course on OD. She made a wonderful and long lived contribution to DEI. And she was ahead of her time.
Eleanor Rosenthal
September 3, 2022
So sad. She was an extraordinary person, and will be missed by all who knew her!!

Cynthia Garrett
August 26, 2022
I loved Marilyn. I'm deeply sorry to hear that she is no longer with us. My late husband David and I shared so many lovely meals/occasions with Marilyn and John over the years. We often dined at each other's homes and even traveled together. I will always remember our friendship with great fondness and I will miss our talks. This is a photo of Marilyn with John and David - sadly all three are gone now. My condolences to her family. I know she greatly appreciated her nephew Jeffrey's care and support during her illness. I am going to imagine these 3 friends are having a lively chat about politics and current events once again. I miss them all so much.
With much love, Cindy

Rich and Peggy Borrmann Alpin
August 24, 2022
Sending sincere condolences to Marilyn's family. Marilyn graduated high school with us, and lived around the corner from Peggy (on Iris Lane). She is fondly remembered by our classmates and we are saddened to hear of her passing. She certainly had a wonderful life with many fantastic accomplishments.
Love from her classmates in the New Hyde Park Memorial HS, Class of 1964.
Robin hassenday
August 21, 2022
Thank you - the lovely Ms Marilynn for giving the world your knowledge and presence. Now educate those angels and you are now with your John and those precious pups

Mark Hassen
August 21, 2022
Marilyn, it was an honor to have you as a friend. THANK YOU for making a difference in the world.
Peace be with you.
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