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Gary Schenzer Obituary

Gary R. Schenzer
Gary R. Schenzer, age 86, of New Milford, CT died peacefully at Danbury Hospital on June 16, 2025. He was the beloved husband of Mary A. (Bennitt) Schenzer for 58 years.
He was born on October 6, 1938 in Scranton, PA, the son of the late Robert D. and Helen G. (Beynon) Schenzer. He graduated from Danbury High School and served in the U.S. Army for 3 years. He went on to become a cable splicer at S.N.E.T., where he worked for over 30 years, retiring in 1993.
Gary held many diverse interests and hobbies throughout the years including woodworking, tennis, golf, poetry, art, skiing, bowling, sailing, fishing, and skeet shooting. He was a friend and mentor to many as well was a captivating story teller, whose contagious laughter will be remembered always.
In addition to his wife, he is survived by his daughter, Ellen L. Schenzer of Ka'a'awa, HI; and his grandchildren Naomi, Tori, and Alexis Fields. He was predeceased by his son Darryl W. Schenzer.
He is also survived by his brother Daniel E. and his wife Barbara (Meyers)Schenzerof Sandy Hook, CT, his very special brother-in-law Paul J. Bennitt of Danbury, CT and several nieces, nephews, and cousins.
A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, June 24, 2025 at 4 p.m. at The First Congregational Church of New Milford, 36 Main St., New Milford, CT. A private burial at Center Cemetery in New Milford will be held at the family's convenience.
Donations in his honor can be made to The First Congregational Church of New Milford's Baby Bundles program. Arrangements are being handled by the Lillis Funeral Home, 58 Bridge St., New Milford, CT.

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Published by New Milford Spectrum & Danbury News Times from Jun. 20 to Jun. 27, 2025.

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Darlene Siepmann

June 24, 2025

So very sorry for your loss.

Steven McCarthy

June 21, 2025

Rest In peace ,We will watch over Mary for you .

Judy Messer

June 21, 2025

Dear Mary, Ellen and Family,
We are so saddened to learn of Gary's passing. We always loved running into you both time to time. As we have known you for many years, it is increasingly difficult loosing each and every one when that time arrives.
Our association in D. A. R. also brought us together in happy times.
Sincere sympathy and blessings to you all. Pete, Judy and Christine Messer

Joan (Begnoche) Pekar

June 21, 2025

My condolences to the family. Gary was a great man, funny, helpful and giving. Love and prayers to you all.

Ken Lowell

June 20, 2025

A good friend for many years. Will miss sitting on Gary´s front stoop solving all the world´s problems over a cup of coffee.
Lori and I send our condolences to Gary´s family....

Nadine Devine

June 20, 2025

Mary, so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you. Nadine Devine

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