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Bessie Lenora Marie Fitch Bailey

Bessie Bailey Obituary

Mrs. BessieLenora Marie Fitch Bailey, 93, of Daytona Beach, FL, passed away on Saturday morning at her home. She was born on June 25,1915, in Washington, D.C. to the late James Otis Fitch and Myrtle Willis Fitch. She attended public schools in Washington, D.C. After graduating from high school, Mrs. Bailey attended Minor Teachers College in the D.C. area. Mrs. Bailey was introduced to Dr. Mary McLeod Bethune, founder of Bethune-Cookman College, by a friend, and later became Dr. Bethune's Personal Secretary for 20 years at the National Council of Negro Women Headquarters in Washington, D.C. She met her beloved husband, the late Lt. Charles P. Bailey. Mr. Bailey was introduced to Bessie by Dr. Mary McLeod Bethune. They married on June 30,1946. To this union was born two sons, Charles P. Bailey Jr., and James A. Bailey, Sr. Upon Dr. Bethune's retirement from the National Council of Negro Women in Washington, she brought Mrs. Bailey with her. A position became available in the President's Office at Bethune-Cookman College. Dr.Bethune agreed to transferBessie to the President's Office where she served 25 years as Executive Secretary to Dr.Richard V. Moore, President. She spent the years since retirement collecting memorabilia of her husband, a Tuskegee Airman; and of Mrs. Mary McLeodBethune, Founder of Bethune-Cookman College and the Founder of the National Council of Negro Women, and relaxing at home. Her greatest joys were her sons, grandchildren, family pets and daily crossword puzzles. She leaves to cherish her memories, children: James Baily, Sr. (Wanda), CharlesBailey, Jr.; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren; Goddaughters, Elizabeth Moore-Johnson, Patricia Bethune; a foster daughter, Essie Smith; and a host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends. Funeral Services will be 1 p.m. today (Thursday, Dec. 11) at Stewart Memorial United Methodist Church, with the Rev. Dr. Walter E. Monroe, Jr., Pastor, Officiating.

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Published by Daytona Beach News-Journal on Dec. 11, 2008.

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THE BLAKE FAMILY

December 11, 2008

Remember

Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation

PASHAYA KIRDON

December 11, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

RUBYE WILSON

December 11, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

SEABREEZE HIGH SCHOOL

December 11, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Christine Anderson

December 11, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

THE FAISON FAMILY

December 11, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

DEBBYE ALEXANDER

December 11, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

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