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Owen Darnell Obituary

A celebration of a life of service for retired U.S. Merchant Marine Capt. Owen "Duke" J. Darnell, 84, South Beach Street, Daytona Beach, who died Monday, July 11, 2005, at The Regency House, will be 11 a.m. Saturday, July 16, at the chapel of Pinello Funeral Home, 1036 Derbyshire Road, Daytona Beach. A reception will follow. Born July 27, 1921, to Joseph and Ethel (Pender) Darnell, Capt. Darnell was born in Cripple Creek, Colo., and moved to this area in 1984 from New Orleans. Capt. Darnell's father had been a gold miner in Talkeetna, Alaska, before the young couple moved to Cripple Creek where his father supervised several silver mine operations. Owen was only 15 years old when his father died of silicosis. In 1994 when his wife of 40 years died, Capt. Darnell characteristically found a way to help others coping with similar problems and loss. He became a speaker advocate for Alzheimer's caregivers and wrote a booklet, "A Room Without Doors," and was published in 1996 by the Volusia/Flagler Chapter of the American Alzheimer's Association. Capt. Darnell sailed in various unlicensed capacities on tankers, freighters and troop transports in North Africa and in the South Pacific. During World War II, he retired as a captain from the Merchant Marines. He then went to work with the Lykes Brothers Steamship Company and retired as a corporate level manager. He loved jazz, a good cup of coffee, big hugs, boxing, football, and poetry, but most of all, he loved people and helping people. He is survived by his companion, Patricia Bays; brother, Dr. Frank and Frances Darnell; three sisters, Minnie Perry, Mary Wank and Laura and Richard Murphy; 10 nieces and nephews, Sara McGee, Ann Hunter, Julia Archer and Sarah Robicheaux and Carol Guerrero-Murphy and Gail Coray, Richard Murphy, Joe Darnell, Al Darnell and Steven Owen. Capt. Darnell was predeceased by his wife, Esther, and his older brother, Richard. Capt. Darnell wishes were to be cremated and his ashes scattered in the Atlantic Ocean. Arrangements and services entrusted to Pinello Funeral Home, Daytona Beach.

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Published by Daytona Beach News-Journal on Jul. 15, 2005.

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Julie

December 15, 2024

The Alzheimers Poem I read out at my Mothers funeral May 2024 after giving a tribute to my Mum. It was so poignant & well written. There were approx. 140 in attendance and many more online. Thanks to Owen Darnell who looked into the heart of those trapped in their world of dementia and into the world of the families who are also somewhat helpless. Stick with your loved ones, be their voice, never fail them, love them to the end.

Christine whitby

October 1, 2024

Your poem has helped me so much. I treasure it. My mum is in a home now. That poem helps me cope. Sorry you are gone.

Ralph and Regan Morris

August 9, 2005

You are the kind of man who makes people want to try to get better. You are an inspiration to everyone. Your body has left us but your spirit grows for everyones recovery and blessings

Phoebe Brown

July 15, 2005

One of the first people that inspired me on my road to recovery was "Duke", he had a great sense of humor and I could always be assured to hear great words of wisdom when he spoke. My thanks to God for having blessed the world with such an endearing soul

Whit Stokes

July 15, 2005

I knew Duke through AA and always looked forward to seeing him. He was a person whose message was one of encouragement and notwithstanding his many years of sobriety he didn't flaunt his "seniority". His message was simply that you can do this one day at a time just like everyone else in the fellowship. On my periodic visits back to Florida I usually saw him at a meeting or the state convention. I'll miss him and so will so many other people.

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