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James Kilmartin Obituary

Captain James Hardy Kilmartin "Jim" passed away on September 21, 2025, at Augusta Health in Fishersville, Va. Jim was born in Farmville, Va., on January 26, 1949, to his late parents Joseph Hardy Kilmartin and Edith Juanita Foster. After graduating from Nelson County High School in Lovingston, Va., Jim enlisted in the U.S. Army, where he earned a bachelor's degree and attended Officer Candidate School. He served his country with honor and distinction for a successful career spanning approximately 23 years, serving tours in Taiwan, Germany and South Korea, among others. Jim was multi-lingual, speaking the language of each of these foreign locales in which he served his country. Jim embodied the values of duty, honor and loyalty throughout his career and his life, and will always be remembered by his friends and family for his quick wit, generous spirit and unwavering integrity.

Jim is survived by a daughter, Michelle Lewis and husband, Michael of Columbia, Md.; sister, Tanith Knight and husband, George of Faber, Va.; brother, Thomas J. Kilmartin and wife, Kathleen of Milwaukee, Wisc.; and sister, Tesi K. Lamb of Staunton, Va.

A funeral service with full military honors will be held at the Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia, on a date not yet determined.
Published by Nelson County Times on Oct. 16, 2025.

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Amanda cook

October 21, 2025

To Jim´s family so sorry to hear about his passing. I knew him when he lived in the apartments in Staunton off of west bev. We was neighbors. And then he met my sister Anna and been friends ever since. He was a great friend. Jim you will be missed

Shorty

October 21, 2025

To my dear neighbor,
I wish you didn't leave us so soon. What you have done for me and my family these past 14 years I will be forever grateful. I am so happy to have called you my neighbor, friend and family. I love you and you will forever be missed but you also always told me " a good soldier never dies, they just fade away."

Linda Saunders

October 21, 2025

Jim was my neighbor and a very great friend. I remember the day he moved into the neighborhood, I took him flowers from garden and introduced myself to him and his sister Tesi .I told him welcome to the neighborhood, I don't bake, but I can grow just about any kind of flower. He laughed. From then on I was miss Linda, and because of that name. All the children I know in the neighborhood call me miss Linda. I miss him more than I can say...but rest well my friend, I hope to see you again..

Ella and Frank Wood

October 19, 2025

Dear Tesi, Tanith, and Tommy, You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We have wonderful memories of Jimmy. What an amazing life he had.

Lyna Phillips Watson

October 19, 2025

Tabitha, Tommy and Tesi so sorry to hear of Jimmy´s passing. May your precious memories bring you comfort.

Navy Chief Sandy Schilling

October 18, 2025

Hooah Captain!!! May God welcome you to the Military Heavenly Guardian Ranks to continue your chosen career!

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