Mr. Ashby Lee Milstead, Jr., age 83 of Lynchburg, passed away on August 19, 2023, at Heritage Green Assisted Living. He was the son of the late Mr. Ashby Lee Milstead, Sr. and Mrs. Pauline Jenks Milstead. Ashby passed away peacefully from a long battle of dementia and other complications.

Ashby was devoted for 37 years as a biology teacher at Brookville High School/Central Virginia Community College. Ashby assisted families for many decades as a butcher within the community. He enjoyed deer hunting, dancing, and maintaining his wildflower gardens. He was a devoted lifelong friend to many of his classmates at Brookville High School. He enjoyed all things about baseball, from playing the sport at Brookville and Lynchburg college, collecting trading cards/memorabilia and coaching Americas favorite pastime. He was offered a position with the Pittsburg Pirates as a pitcher but turned the offer down to pursue a career in teaching. He encouraged higher education and earned his bachelor's degree from Lynchburg College and a master's degree from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.

He was preceded in death by his sister, Cary Farthing (Tommie). He is survived by his wife, Mrs. Juanita Harris Milstead of Lynchburg; one daughter, Ashley Milstead Gouldthorpe (Matthew), of Lowry; one stepdaughter, Rhonda Marston Link (Bryan) of Hubert NC; two stepsons, James (Jimmy) Marston (Sheryl); Michael (Wayne) Marston (Jill) all of Lynchburg. Two grandchildren, Luke Gouldthorpe and Matilyn Gouldthorpe; two step granddaughters Jessica Marston Curling (Daniel) and Megan Marston Lacy (Michael).

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, August 26, 2023, 1 p.m. at Timberlake Church, 21649 Timberlake Road, in Lynchburg, followed by visitation and reception. During the memorial service we are encouraging those in attendance to share with the attendees a fond memory about Ashby as a teacher or friend. Ashby was always devoted to the Bee nation. He may be gone, but his teaching legacy will remain for decades to come.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Brookville High School and Lewy Body Dementia Association www.lbda.org or mail to 912 Killian Hill Road S.W. Lilburn, GA 30047 reference donations as Ashby Milstead 1540 Country Estates Dr, Lowry VA 24570.

Tharp Funeral Home and Crematory, Lynchburg is assisting the family. To send condolences, please visit www.tharpfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The News & Advance on Aug. 24, 2023.

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Calvin "Butch" PerDieu

August 29, 2023

Mr. Milstead was a class act. He actually cared for the kids he was teaching. I feel sorry for those that never was in his class so got to know him. He lived a couple of streets down from us so we also talked during the summers too....He will be sadly missed by all. Condolences to the family & all his friends too.-Butch PerDieu

Arlene (Witt) Gunter

August 26, 2023

So sorry for your loss.
Mr. Milstead had worked for my dad (Alvin J. Witt Plumbing and Heating), as a helper. I´m guessing he was just out of high school or in college. When I got to BHS he would always ask me about my dad and tell me stories about working for him.
May God give you His grace and comfort through the days ahead.
Arlene (Witt) Gunter

Sheila "Wade" Tolley Class of 70

August 24, 2023

I had Mr. Milstead for Earth Science when I was in the 8th grade at New London Academy (we were housed there because there was no room for us at BHS). Science was not a favorite subject of mine but he made it fun and interesting. After I graduated I would see him at the grocery stores where he worked. He was always himself - smiling - laughing- such a wonderful man to talk with. He will be missed by so many. His mom was my 1st grade teacher at Mountain View Elementary. She was a precious lady who calmed the fears of this scared little girl on so many days.

Debra "Bomar"

August 24, 2023

I was a 1970 graduate of BHS. Mr. Milstead was a great teacher. I had him for 8th grade Earth Science the year 120 BHS 8th graders used part of the New London school for classes. Mr. Milstead truly cared about his students. May God bless and comfort his family.

LaTrina ( Trina) Scott

August 23, 2023

Sorry for loss. I enjoyed taking care of him thank you for trusting him in my care. I will miss him. And you as well Ashley. Your family keep your head up may God bless you all . You will be in my prayers

HOWARD MASON

August 23, 2023

GREAT BALL PLAYER, GREAT MAN, THE MASON BOYS IN EVINGTON

Marie Marshall Stanley

August 23, 2023

Heartfelt condolences as we, the Class of 73, celebrate our 50th reunion this Saturday we know Mr Milstead will be smiling down upon us
He will forever remain in our hearts

Linda Claytor Critcher

August 23, 2023

Sorry to hear about Mr Milstead´s death. I was in his class in 8th grade at Brookville HS in the year 1963-64. I´m thinking it was science but unsure. I believe this was his first year teaching but not sure. He was a joy of a teacher and I loved being in his class. Praying for the family & friends.
Linda "Claytor" Critcher

Jestina Barber

August 23, 2023

Mr. Milstead was my senior biology teacher and I always admired how he would tell it like it was. Once, in particular, when I walked into class and he practically yelled and told me to go make sure I didn't need his class to graduate. You will be missed, Mr. Milstead, there was no one quite like you. Jestina Barber (Burgess)

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Wayne Lair

August 22, 2023

My life has been much more blessed by knowing Ashby. I will always remember the honorable lessons he taught me. Rest in peace my dear friend.

garland william johnson

August 22, 2023

Like to thank Mr. Milstead for teaching me in school. He was also a friend for life .. always there to help me and a smile on his face .. you and John Bruce Jr. Can have a big cookout now .. love you forever. Praying for family

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