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Arlene Guider

1943 - 2022

Arlene Guider obituary, 1943-2022, West Islip, NY

Arlene Guider Obituary

GUIDER - Arlene (nee Curtin), 79, of West Islip, NY, passed away peacefully on July 30th, 2022. She was the loving wife of the late Cornelius J. Guider, Jr., and devoted and doting mother of Rosemary and Eileen. Born on February 21st, 1943, in Brooklyn, NY, to the late Everett and Rita Curtin. Sister to Maureen Dixon (Ken) and Kathleen Winti (John) and aunt to many nieces and nephews. Arlene is a proud graduate of Our Lady of Mercy Academy in Syosset, NY, and St. John's University in Jamaica, Queens. Arlene obtained her Master's degree plus 75 credits from Long Island University in Greenvale, NY. Arlene also attended the Teacher's College at Columbia University. Arlene was a dedicated educator. She spent 38 years teaching elementary school in Deer Park, NY, retiring from many years at John Quincy Adams Elementary School. She found it to be the most rewarding job in the world. In retirement, Arlene continued her passion of teaching as a volunteer religion teacher at her parish, St. Joseph's in Babylon, NY. Reposing at The Frederick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home, 1225 Montauk Hwy., (1/4 mile west of the Robert Moses Cswy.). Celebration of the Liturgy of Christian Burial Friday, 10:30 am on August 5th, 2022, at St. Joseph's Roman Catholic Church, Babylon, NY. Interment to follow at St. Charles Cemetery, Farmingdale, NY. The family will receive visitors on Wednesday, from 7:00 pm until 9:30 pm, and Thursday, from 2:00 pm until 4:00 pm, and 7:00 pm until 9:30 pm. www.chapeyfamily.com

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Published by Newsday on Aug. 2, 2022.

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Aug

3

Visitation

7:00 p.m. - 9:30 p.m.

Fredrick J Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc. - West Islip

1225 Montauk Hwy, West Islip, NY 11795

Aug

4

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Fredrick J Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc. - West Islip

1225 Montauk Hwy, West Islip, NY 11795

Aug

4

Visitation

7:00 p.m. - 9:30 p.m.

Fredrick J Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc. - West Islip

1225 Montauk Hwy, West Islip, NY 11795

Aug

5

Liturgy

10:30 a.m.

St. Joseph's Roman Catholic Church

Babylon, NY

Funeral services provided by:

Fredrick J Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc. - West Islip

1225 Montauk Hwy, West Islip, NY 11795

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