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for Brian White
Melissa Martins
October 27, 2008
Dear Brian,
I can't believe it's been a year already. You have impacted so many people’s lives. I don’t think I will ever forget this day when I found out the news. Just seeing your sister broke my heart. She’s such a strong girl please keep helping her stay this strong. I will never forget this memory of you; when my cousin Patrick picked you up to go to school and you were running late. You get in the car and you ask Kerry “Did mommy give you money for us?” She said no. You asked Pat if you can run inside and just grab money. All of a sudden you were taking awhile. You get back in the car with your hair done lol. I will never forget the nickname you gave me Issey. Hearing your sister talk about all of the memories she had with you crack me up. You impacted her so much in such a good way. Please protect my best friend / your sister I know you have and will keep protecting her.
Love Always,
Debra Sliney
October 27, 2008
Dear Brian,Here I sit the night before the the worst day of my life.It was 1 year ago today that you walked through the front door with all your gear,all excited about your orders and telling uncle Jim all about your new gun asking questions asking him to take you to the range so you could show him how good you were.Brian you never had to show him he knew it all along.The whole time we were worried about you going and maybe not coming home uncle Jim said he wasnt worried he knew youd be back,you were that good.I cant thank you enough for coming home that day and coming up to me and telling me that you loved me, and hugging and kissing me in that annoying way where you put your arms around me so I couldnt move my arms to push you away or just hit you.We always called the 3 of you kids our american express cards because we never left home without yous.We always went on vacations together and had the best times,Bermuda and hammertime,Florida in Disney, Virginia Beach and the pepper spray P.A. at the house where you learned to shoot , Lancaster at dutch wonderland,are just a few of our great times we will remember forever,thank you for all of them.Uncle Jim and I couldnt of loved you kerry, or kevin any more than if we had you ourselves.You were such an easy going kid it never mattered what you had or where we went you were always happy very easy to please and always trying to please others.Uncle Jim was honored when you asked him to pin your cord on your sleeve at boot camp graduation.He took that as a great honor.I can only hope that you knew when you left how much we loved you.Your passing has left such a hole in our hearts that can never be filled no one will ever take your place there,we miss you so very much and our love for you never ending. I PROMISE you we will do our very best to take care of your brother and sister. Bye for now always on my mind missing you like crazy remember our song WE ARE FAMILY. lOVE YA AUNT DEB (DOOBIE)and UNCLE JIM.
cindy Herdter
October 26, 2008
Brian,
I am sitting here dreading tomorrow; I know I will be replaying every minute of the day in my head as it went 1 year ago. From the horrific phone call to the most difficult thing I ever had to do in my life, tell Kerry you were gone. I can still remember the scream it gives me chills every time I think about it. & seeing you so beautiful so handsome & so still. I don't think I have ever seen you still. You looked so handsome, I remember seeing the skating video at the funeral polar and thinking God I didn't realize how talented you were. You made it to sniper school that's crazy, not many people can say they were accepted to sniper school. You definitely found your place in the Army; it’s so unfair you were taken away so soon. I know you are watching over us with your Mom at your side, I am sure you are both so proud of Kerry, she is struggling but she is strong & Brian it is you that gave her strength. You gave her your strength leaving little for yourself. I miss you so much, I miss your silliness your laughter. Give your Mom a kiss for me I miss her too.
Love you Always,
Aunt Cindy
chris lanci
September 8, 2008
Brian i still cant belive your are gone you were one of my best friends you always made everyone laugh you will be missed my parents loved you to i hope you know that they always asked about you and how you were doing if you didt stop by for dinner in a few weeks but i love you and miss you ill see up there Lanci
r.i.p.
September 6, 2008
2nd platoon
September 6, 2008
me whitey bautista bersani
tom nicholson
September 6, 2008
brian,i miss you so much bro theres not a day that go's by that i dont think about you,im in afghanistan now and i know your watching my back keepin me safe,ive had 10 good years as your freind and im greatful for that.your a good soldier and freind and i will never forget you,i will keep you in my heart, mind and prayers always i miss you kid-tommy
Matthew & Brian on Top of the World
Michael Douglas
June 20, 2008
Dear Brian,
I am sitting here today thinking of you, as I do often. I don't really share my feelings about your untimely passing and it starts to hurt. My love for you will alway go on and I will NEVER forget your good heart. Your smile and eyes are burned into my memory forever. I know that you can't be with us now in person, but if GOD gives you the opportunity to be in our dreams once in a while, come visit me... I also want you to know that I will ALWAYS watch out for Kerri and Kevin. My dear GOD son, you have touch so many lives in so many ways and I being one of those lives. THANK YOU for being you in this world. I am proud of the person you are, so keep it real up there in Heaven. Please say hello to your Mom and grandma for me.
I got your back down here on Earth.
Matthew, Erica and Diana miss you. Matt and I would have liked to play paint ball with you, but now you can watch our backs from above.
I LOVE YOU Brian, stay in touch in my mind and my heart.
Uncle Mike
Chris Polish
May 31, 2008
I miss you bro. R.I.P
Tara Gugliuzza
November 5, 2007
Brian,I cannot begin to express to you how much you are missed. I will forever remember your smile, and those bright, big eyes of yours. I have prayed for you everyday since I heard what had happened and will continue to pray for you and your family. I will always remember you as my first boyfriend, and I will never forget the amazing times we shared together, I love and miss you so much,God Bless and Rest in Peace.
Melissa Douglas
November 1, 2007
Brian, I still can't believe you're gone. I just want you to know how proud you've made the entire family. You finally found your place in the National Guard and from what I hear, you were one hell of a soldier. I know Kerry is so proud of you. You've touched my life more than you will ever know. I'll never forget growing up with you on Hudson Street and experiencing your wacky sense of humor first hand. You were such a great person and your time here has been cut way too short. I love you and will truly miss you. Rest in Peace Brian.
Kerry, you know I love you so much. You are my sister. Whatever you need, I'll be there every step of the way. Stay strong.
Danny,Lauren,Lily,Joanie,Tammy&Ryan Cymerys
November 1, 2007
Brian
The night the angels took you to live with them above-The world we live in down below lost someone truly loved.......
Sleep Loved.
Lori K
November 1, 2007
Brian, I will never forget the time i met you when we were in 7th grade. you gave everyone soo many great memories! RIP. u will be missed so much.. xoxo
Cindy Herdter
October 31, 2007
Brian,
I am your Godmother and Aunt, I was there at your Birth. I held you when you were Baptized, You were always so silly & made everyone laugh. I was so proud of you when you Graduated from Boot Camp you made us all so Proud, I remember watching you and thinking it is so sad that your Mother is missing this she would have been so Proud. It was so sad when she was taken away from us, and now you....Today I was so Proud of you my God a Police escort, closing off the Parkway, you left us as a Star. You would have been so proud of Kerry she held up like a trooper you made her strong and so Proud. To your Army buddies they all held tough they really love you & I thank them all for their kind words and beautiful job they did. God bless you say hello to your Mom & My Mom & Daughter for me. I love you always, Aunt Cindy
Nikki Hughes
October 31, 2007
Brian, you will always be in my heart and on my mind.I was so lucky to have you as a friend.I love you forever RIP <3
KRYSTAL COLAO
October 31, 2007
I CANT EVEN BEGIN TO EXPRESS HOW I FEEL IN ONE WORD LOST IT HAS NOT SUNK IN YET I DONT BELIEVE OR WANNA BELIEVE IT I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH AND I WILL REMEMBER YOU FOREVER YOU LEFT ME AND EVERYONE WITH GREAT MEMORIES YOU ALWAYS MADE US LAUGH U WERE GOOD AT THAT AND NO MATTER HOW HARD THINGS IN LIFE GOT YOU STILL SMILED AND JOKED AROUND THAT WAS YOU AND THAT WAS A GREATT THING... I WILL HOLD YOU IN MY HEART EVERYDAY N ALWAYS.. I LOVE YOU BRI ALWAYS ALWAYS N ALWAYS <333
Stacey Lanoix-Moylan
October 31, 2007
Dear White Family,
I would like to send my sympathy and heart to you in your time of sorrow. Brian has touched me now, in death as he did in life. The memories will never fade that I have of him nor will the pain that will throb in your hearts. I only hope that God will give you some comfort through this dark time as He is bringing a fallen angel back to heaven. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
Lucille & Gerald Franks
October 31, 2007
Our thoughts & prayers are with the White family members in this time of sorrow.
Danielle Catucci
October 31, 2007
Word's can't even express how I'm feeling right now. Your smile will forever live on in our memories. I will never forget you and all the great times we shared...
Rest in peace angel 0:)
Lori G
October 31, 2007
Brian,
Sorry it took me so long to write/speak. I wasnt really sure what to say. To tell you the truth I am still not so sure what to say. You could light a room with a smile. So full of life and laughter! You are a special person and I will never forget you. I promise.God Bless your family.
Denise Williams
October 30, 2007
To the White and Douglas families,
May God be with you and carry you through this time of great suffering. It has been quite some time since I have seen any of you but I think of you often. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Brian is in heaven with his mother. Brian and Leslie are beautiful people, inside and outside. Kerri and Kevin I miss you both and love you too as I loved your brother and mother.
Meghan heavey
October 30, 2007
I dont even know what to say, i just talked to you the other day. i will miss you very much. i will miss the random drop in's.. i will watch out and take care of sister if she ever needs anything. your in a better place now, with your mom.with a heart so big God Couldn't let it live..RIP Bri
steve glenz
October 30, 2007
Brian,
It's been a long time man. I saw u about a year ago in 7-11 and we talked for a little bit about how we both served our country and what we were planing on doin for the future. You were a great kid man. We had some good times playing lax in high school. you will be missed. R.I.P brotha
Lauren
October 30, 2007
My sincere and deepest condolances for your family and friends Brian.
debi & lou lombardi and family lombardi
October 30, 2007
To all of your loving family - our thoughts are with you all.
Diane Serafin
October 30, 2007
R.I.P. Brian...you'll be in my prayers, such a tragedy what happened:( *May the angels keep you safe...and always light the way*
Diana Dagnone
October 30, 2007
It seems like only yesterday that you were in my house, and I thought how beautiful Leslie's children are. I adored your dear sweet mother, and knew I had to look after you. Be at peace.
Merry Weber
October 30, 2007
How do I begin to express the impact you have made on so many lives. This whole ordeal still seems surreal. Like I'm gonna be waiting on line at Fig's one day and you'll just pop up with your smiling face. You are so loved Brian by so many people. I don't think I know one person who went EMHS that doesn't hear Whitey and think of you. You were such a strong person through it all. Even through all the pain and grief this causes us, it makes me feel better to know you are in heaven with the angels free from all the pain you suffered down here on earth. You are safe now with your mother in heaven. Rest well sweet friend. I'll see you again one day.
Lord our God, You are always faithful and quick to show mercy. Brian was suddenly taken from us. Come swiftly to his aid, have mercy on him, and comfort his family and friends by the power and protection of the cross. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Christina Papa
October 30, 2007
Brian- its has been a while- but I will always remember the times we spent together-I can't put you in the past tense so I will say you ARE an amazing person and myself and everyone else will greatly miss you. For all the tough times you had been through you kept your head high. Your qualities as a person will never be forgotten.
evan prager
October 30, 2007
brian i will never forget all the good times we had and i will definitley miss your phone calls everyday you were like a brother to me i will never forget you love evan
Abe Ohanian
October 30, 2007
To all that were blessed with the gift that God gave us, Brian was one of the brightest lights to shine that one could ever know. You already know whatever room he might have been in at the same time as you, he no doubt illuminated it, and everyone around him...there was never a moment that he could not make you laugh, even through all he had been through...he always did for other what he could and made your smile as big as his in the blink of an eye...no words could ever explain the experience that one would have from knowing such a bright star as Brian, although the gift of his life we were lucky enough to be blessed with ended way to early...Brian White is never gone from our lives but just in a lot of a better place than we are, until we meet him again in time. Brian, we know you are not gone, just looking over us, illuminating that sky from a better place as you lit up every where you stepped to...Love you kiddo, until then I know we could look up and it won't be hard to know that you are the brightest star watching over us from above...
**R.I.P Brian K. White AKA Whitey**
Bryan Scipione
October 30, 2007
Whitey..... we had some good times and i will never forget you. You touched many peoples lives in your 23 years and you will be deeply missed. Rest in peace kid.
Michael Bogdonoff
October 30, 2007
It's a shame when anybody leaves this life at a young age when they never gotta chance to experience all that life has to offer. He will be missed, Whitey- RIP...
Walter Maciura
October 30, 2007
Brian,
I remember all the good times I had with you and my cousin Since we were kids. From Back when we were 9 Years old at dougs house, To Me you Doug and Martucci and everyone else jammed in my old Grand Am when I first got My license and up until the last time we all were together...I'm going to miss you Brian, Rest In Peace.....
kerry white
October 29, 2007
My Brother and BEST friend,
i love you so much and i will never forget you. you are my life and i cant thank you enough for everything you have done. your with mommy now and i know your in a much better place. i love you bri. you are my angel. please look after me! rest in peace babe!
Spc. Riley
October 29, 2007
White I will never forget you. You ARE and always will be my brother in arms and I consider it a blessing to be a part of your honor guard. I will miss you and your silly ways. Rest Easy Young Soldier you have in so many ways earned it.
Nicole
October 29, 2007
RIP Whitey, you'll be forever missed.
Paul and Carol White
October 29, 2007
To Neil and Kerri
We were saddened to hear of Brian's death. Please feel free to contact us at any time.
Paul and Carol White formerly of East Meadow
Sean Kelly
October 29, 2007
R.I.P. Brian, you will be missed...
ash
October 29, 2007
RIP Whitey. You will forever be missed and forever in my heart.
randi
October 29, 2007
You will be missed R.I.P.
Sal Gambino
October 29, 2007
Damn man...i cant believe this is real..we had great times in high school...we havent talked much since but i always remembered you for all the crazy times we had with everyone...RIP bro..youll be deeply missed, but never forgotten...
Laura, Thomas & Christian
October 29, 2007
Neil, Kevin, Kerry and the entire Douglas and White families,
May you know how many of us are praying for you that God gives you the courage and strength to make it through this difficult time. No words can take away the pain that you are feeling but know that there are so many people who care about you and will do whatever it takes to help you through the pain.
MISS ME BUT LET ME GO
=====================
When I come to the end of the road,
and the sun has set for me.
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little—but not too long,
and not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that was once shared.
Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take,
and each must go alone.
It’s all a part of the master’s plan,
a step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart,
go to the friends we know.
Bear your sorrow in good deeds. Miss me,
but let me go.
-- Author Unknown.
Denis Barchi
October 29, 2007
Brian,
you were the funniest guy i knew. from playin handball at the park, and doin the luck of the irish tap, to beatin me in cards cause you were a great blufer, you were always just a good guy. this is a shock man. hurts ya know. ill never forget you tho white. hope you make room for me when i get there. my thoughts and prayers to kerry and his family. this is crazy, i just cant belive your gone man. rest in peace white. forever missed.
Jennifer Rizzo
October 29, 2007
My name is Jennifer and I was driving on the parkway today running errands for work and I saw the precession it melted my heart and I just started to cry, there were so many people. I had looked on line to find the guest book I rememberd the name from the precession. I did not know Brian but it deeply sorrows me to see that some one with so many loved ones, who was clearly so cherished has passed so young. My deepist sympathys.
Kristi LaCentra
October 29, 2007
Brian, We've been friends since we were kids, and I'll never forget all the good times we've had. All I have to say is You'll never be forgotten but you'll forever be missed. Your at peace now and your with your mom again. Love you and Miss you. RIP
PFC. Brandon Figueroa
October 29, 2007
I cant believe you're gone...I just saw you the other day. You will be missed. RIP battle.
Arthur Webster
October 29, 2007
brian we will misss you kid ...so many memories growing up so many good laughs ..i know your shining down on everyone now with your mom by ure side to guide u through the gates on the other side ..see you in heaven budddy ..u will not be forgoten ..RIP
Maureen & Larry Douglas
October 29, 2007
Brian, We watched you grow up since you were a baby, through happy and sad times. The last few years we know you struggled. We believe you were really trying to succeed in your choices. Life has ended much too early for you. Your mother and grandmother have made room for you. You will be truly missed. May you rest in peace and watch over the rest of us.
Megan D'Amato
October 29, 2007
Brian aka Whitey
I love you Brian. You are the strongest person i know. Thanks for lookin out for my brother i will never forget you for that. Thanks for me being such a good friend. When you died a piece of my heart went with you. You always Brigtned up a room and especially my life. i will never forget the times in High School that we all had together. My sympathy goes out to your family especially your sister Kerri. I will look out for her like you did my brother. You are and always will be the most beautiful, sweetest person i will ever known
If Tears could Build a Stairway
And Memories were a Lane
I would walk right up to Heaven
And Bring you home Again.
No Farewell words were spoken
No time to say Good-Bye.
You were Gone before i knew it
And Only God knows Why.
My Heart Still aches in sadness.
And secret tears still flow.
What it means to lose you,
None will ever know.
You and Angels around God's happy throne.
I would have held YOU closer IF i had known.
Love Always
Jessica Roggenkamp
October 29, 2007
Brian you will be missed!
R.I.P
Love,
Vanessa Gomes
October 29, 2007
Brian, We grew up together from 1st grade all the way through high school.... your a great guy and you will never be forgotten.... I know you will watch over all of us... See you in heaven brian
Karyn Nino
October 29, 2007
I remember seeing you at the E.M. Deli a couple of years ago and I remember thinking to myself "I haven't seen this kid since I went to Woodland and wow he has beautiful eyes!" Your father then interuppted my thought and said "let this beautiful young lady go first" and we all kind of laughed. Then that night I had a dream about you and it remains fresh in my memory till this day. I wish we could've been more than just acquaintances and had a real friendship. I will always remember you regardless of how well I knew you. My prayers go out to you, your family and friends.
Jackie
October 29, 2007
RiP<3
MICHAEL AND JENNIFER WATTS
October 29, 2007
WE WOULD LIKE TO EXTEND OUR SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILY OF BRIAN K WHITE, ESPECIALLY HIS SISTER KERI. ALTHOUGH WE DID NOT KNOW HIM WELL, WHAT WE DID KNOW OF HIM WAS OF A RESPECTFUL, POLITE YOUNG MAN. MAY HE BE BLESSED WITH GODS LOVE FOR ALL ETERNITY AND MAY GOD PROVIDE COMFORT FOR HIS FAMILY DURING THE HARD TIMES ON THIS EARTH.
Tara Colao
October 29, 2007
Brian,
where do i start? i really cant believe this is real..you are loved Bri and you impacted many peoples lives. it feels like it was just yesterday we lived together and i saw u everyday..wish i could see you one last time to tell u how much u meant to us..until we meet again..RIP-your with the angels now and i know you are looking down on all of us...i love you ..we all love you whitey...always in our hearts..you will never be forgotten..and to brians family i am very sorry for your loss..brian was a good kid ,he had a heart of gold and could always light up a room and put a smile on anyones face...he is missed deeply.
Paul Addams
October 29, 2007
Love u kid, sun is shining brighter than ever today...
Rebecca Piscopo
October 29, 2007
Brian, I will never forget the warmth and comfort you brought to my heart. I will never forget you.
Jane McGee
October 29, 2007
To Keri & Brian's Dad
I am so sorry for your loss. Brian was a good kid. I always liked him. I remember Brian when he was younger with Johnny, James, & Mike, & Chris. I wish there was a way to make things better for you. If you need anything please Keri call us. Johnny, Brian or myself. We are all here for you. Brian's death came as a great shock and something I will take very hard as he was like one of my own.
Janie, Johnny, Brian, Robert & Jeanette McGee
Philip Silva
October 29, 2007
Brian we all loved you and you will never be forgotten, you were a real man and a patriot to our country. You will always be in my heart and so will your family.
John E. LAWLOR
October 29, 2007
JUST RESPECT !
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