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Deborah Balak Obituary

Balak - Deborah Lynn Anderson was born Friday June 16, 1967, in Syosset, NY to Carlton Edwin and Diane Louis (Sullivan) Anderson and died Saturday May 11, 2024, in Ardmore, OK at the age of 56. Deborah grew up in Cold Spring Harbor, NY and graduated from Cold Spring Harbor High School with the Class of 1985. After graduating high school, she attended college at the University of North Carolina and Johnson and Wales College of Arts & Sciences and graduated with a Culinary Degree. She was a talented and passionate Chef. Deborah lived in Fernandina Beach, FL, for 20 years and had a stunning career as a chef on Amelia Island at both The Ritz Carlton and The Inn at the Plantation. She was also the chef that catered the wedding of John Kennedy Jr. and Caroline

Basset in Jekyll Island, GA. Deborah was predeceased by her brother, James Anderson; father, Carlton Anderson Sr.; maternal grandparents Frank and Lila Sullivan. She is survived by her son, Matthew James "MJ" Balak; mother, Diane Anderson Barry and her husband Daniel of Huntington

Bay, NY; sister, Diana

Anderson Yeisley and her husband Jonathan of Simsbury, CT; brother, Carlton Anderson of Greenwich, CT; sister-in-law, Carolyn Anderson of New York, NY; nephews and nieces,

James and Charlotte Anderson,

Carter and Sarah Yeisley,

Tyler and Elizabeth Anderson; aunt, Donna Folkerts and her

husband Bill; and cousins, Billy,

Michelle and Andrea; and their families. Please consider donating to Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory's pancreatic cancer research center in Deborah's memory. Give at https://give.cshl.edu/ or call 516-867-8471.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Newsday on May 17, 2024.

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Tyler Morris

August 5, 2024

A Memory That I Remember About Deborah Is That Her & I Were Buddies. She Loved Me So,Very Much. I Was Her #1 Top Favorite Buddyy In The World. And We Loved Watching My Favorite Movie "Disney o Pixar's Finding Nemo" (2003 Film) Together Along With Each Other. She Would Always Take Me To Our Favorite Place "Moon River Pizza" In Fernandina Beach, Florida. She Taught Me About Basil & Olive Oil. She Helped Out Along With My Mommy & Daddy To Get Me Through School & Taught Me So,Very Well About Life. I Love Deborah So,Very Much & I'm Going To Miss Her! I Really, Really, Really Am!!!!!!!!!!! But She's Always Going To Be There For Me In My Heart. Friday, 6/16/1967.
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Tyler Morris

May 21, 2024

Deborah Was A Good Friend And I Really, Really, Really Am Going To Miss Her So,Very Much!!!!!!!!!!! Friday, 6/16/1967 You Deborah. I Love You, Deborah!

Dawn Hutson

May 20, 2024

So very sorry to hear about Deborah's passing. Prayers for peace and comfort for MJ, along with family and loved ones.

Terri

May 16, 2024

My prayers go out to the family she was a wonderful lady

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