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John Lawrence Belford Jr.

John Lawrence Belford Jr. obituary, West Islip, NY

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John Belford Obituary

Belford - John Lawrence, Jr., at the age of 82, passed on October 30, 2023, after a valiant battle with Alzheimer's Disease. He is survived by his beloved wife Mary Susan and four children John (Carolyn), Timothy (Carmela), Brian

(Stafi), and Mary Elizabeth Bolz (Henry). "Pop" was the cherished grandfather of

Anthony, Joseph, Moira, Sarah, Julia, Safi, Brian Jr., Adam James, Andrea, and Henry. Beloved brother of Paul, Michael, Andrew, and Anne (Ryan). John was born in NYC and raised in Bay Shore. He attended St. Patrick's Elementary School, Chaminade High School, College of the Holy Cross and Columbia Law School. He served in the Navy after college and was Lieutenant Junior Grade on the destroyer USS Davis during the Vietnam War. John was a member of the St. Patrick's Parish Council. John was a past member of the Board of Directors of Good Samaritan Hospital. He was chosen "Man of the Year" by Bay Shore High School Athletic Sponsors. He is the past president of the St. James Chamber of Commerce. John practiced law in St. James for over 30 years. A Celebration of the Liturgy of Christian Burial on Monday, November 6th at 11:00AM at St. Patrick's R.C. Church, Bay Shore, NY. Interment to follow at St. Patrick's Cemetery, Bay Shore, NY. In lieu of flowers, please send donations in John's loving memory to the Alzheimer's Disease Resource Center, 200 Carleton Avenue, East Islip, NY 11730 or visit www.adrcinc.org/donate/ to donate. Reposing at the Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home, 1225 Montauk Hwy. (1/4 mile west of the Robert Moses Cswy.) on Sunday, November 5th from 2:00PM until 5:00PM and 7:00PM until 9:00PM. www.chapeyfamily.com

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Published by Newsday on Nov. 2, 2023.

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Br. Jordan Baxter

November 15, 2023

My prayers for the repose of the soul of John and for the wonderful family he leaves behind. John and I were classmates at Chaminade High School and our families knew each other in Bay Shore. I will keep your family in my daily prayers.

Bro. Jordan (Dick) Baxter. S.T.
(Formerly from Garden City, NY)

Ellsworth V Bahrman

November 2, 2023

Johnny and I first met in kindergarten at St. Pat's and were fast friends until, inevitably. life saw us transiting different paths. My deepest condolences to Susan and family, and to all who loved him.

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1225 Montauk Hwy, West Islip, NY 11795

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7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Fredrick J Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc. - West Islip

1225 Montauk Hwy, West Islip, NY 11795

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Liturgy

11:00 a.m.

St. Patrick's R.C. Church

Bay Shore, NY

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1225 Montauk Hwy, West Islip, NY 11795

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