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for Joseph DiPalma
L.R.
April 20, 2022
Rest in Peace Joe. Gone, but not forgotten.
Adele Rodriguez
January 15, 2011
I went to junior and senior high school
with Joe. He was always honest and hard-
working. He'd been in the fire department
for as long as I could remember. He will
be remembered for being involved in the
West Islip Community.
Diane Kinney
October 8, 2010
I worked with Joe for several years,through North Fork Bank and Capital One he will be sorely missed. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Edward Hausdorf
May 8, 2010
Joe worked for me and I can say he was smart, hard working, sensitive, caring, considerate and extremely humble. Joe was extremely well liked by everyone he made contact with. His level of respect for others was evident with every encounter he had. His manners were impeccible and he was a shining example of how a true gentleman should act. Because he was so humble Joe may not have realized but he was "North Fork Bank Security"-everyone knew who they could count on for the correct answers and who the "go to guy" was if you had an emergency or needed something done in a hurry. Joe always was there at the ready and never lost his composure. Joe I just want to thank you. I will never forget you. My prayers and condolences to your family for their loss.
May 6, 2010
I work with Joe in the QSTF, May you rest in peace. God bless you and your family.
CF&EMS F Foley
May 5, 2010
Joe, you will be truly missed. To your wife and daughters, my condolences. From probie to chief-you were always thinking of others first. May your family, friends and the community, know that when they hear a siren or see a fire truck, know that you will always be looking over them, keeping them safe.
ALL UNITS 5 and 25 when secure.
The Argento Family
May 5, 2010
Dear Debbie and family, we are so sorry to hear about Joe. He could always be relied on for help and support in any situation with genuine respect and a warm smile. We are grateful for his service to WIFD and our family, and especially for his brotherhood with our son (and brother), Joseph. We pray that God will grant you His comfort and grace, and that Joe may rest in peace. Sincerely, the Argento family, Patrick & Gloria and Dede & George Heron
May 5, 2010
Dear Debbie and family; we are so sorry to hear about Joe. He was someone you could rely on and always responded with sincerity, kindness, and a warm smile. We are grateful for his service to WIFD and our family as well as his PD brotherhood to our son/brother, Joseph. We pray God bless you all with His grace and comfort, and that Joe may rest in peace. Sincerely, The Argento Family (Patrick, Gloria, and Dede)
Paula Dejuri
May 5, 2010
Joe and I first met when we worked together in North Fork Bank's Security Department. What started out as a working relationship quickly turned into a friendship. We had both moved on to other job opportunities and I'm happy to say we remained friends. We exchanged emails and phone calls right up until the end.
I will miss the man I shared many moments with but have my memories that will continue to bring a smile to my face. Joe was a family man and was so proud of his family. I had the pleasure of having Joe and his family at my house for a Memorial Day Bar-B-Que two years ago.
Joe, may you have found the peace you have been searching for.
Your Pal~
John Capilli
May 3, 2010
I am very sorry to hear of Joe's passing.
He was a good person and friend and he will be missed.
John Capilli
Eric Muller
May 1, 2010
I want to say how sorry I am to hear of Joe's passing. He was good and kind man. He treated people with respect. He was there when my grandfather passed. I will never forget him. My prayers are with his family.
Peter Spina
May 1, 2010
My sincere sympathy to the DiPalma family. I had known Joe from the Burn center Steering Committee. He always had a smile on his face and a good word for everybody.
He was truly one of God's Angels and will be missed. West Islip has lost a sincere asset to the community. May his memory keep on living through his Fire Department Family! Now he is in heaven keeping it safe.
God Bless You Joe. Chief, Associate and most of all Friend!
Pete Spina
monica dipalma
April 29, 2010
ciao AQUI'.... ci mancherai tanto ! con tutto il nostro cuore e affetto ci stringiamo fortissimo a tutta la famiglia .... E' STATO PER ME , TUA CUGINA, UN ONORE CONOSCERTI E VOLERTI BENE. Salutami papa' MONICA E MAURO con ZIA IRIS italia
April 29, 2010
We can only echo what has already been written and posted before us...
Joe was the first one on the scene when Rob's mother passed... He was there for us that day, 26 years ago. We want to be here for you, today.
Lovingly and Respectfully,
The DiOrio Family
James
April 28, 2010
I'm incredibly sorry about your loss. I saw Mr. DiPalma a lot from the end of the summer to the end of the year. He was truly a great guy and helped other people a lot. Im really sorry you have to deal with tragedy, and I offer your family my deepest condolences. I'm very sure he will be missed. He helped my father a great deal with his election and I am forever grateful for that. I was lucky to have met him, he gave off this very happy presence, and he didnt like to stop working. I'm incredibly sorry for your loss and there will not be anyone like him. May he rest in peace.
Barbara Christie
April 28, 2010
My deepest sympathies for family. My son, Michael passed away the
same way this past October and I feel your pain. He was a firefighter
for East Islip Fire Dept.
God Bless family and try to hold on to each other for comfort.
matt paules
April 27, 2010
I consider myself a lucky man for having had such a wonderful friend.Joe you were my mentor both professionaly and personally.I miss you so so much. You had a heart of gold and made others around you shine.
Cheryl Peglow-Borsanyi
April 27, 2010
Joe and I grew up on North Dyre Avenue. He was a great friend and wonderful neighbor. We went to school together from kindergarten through graduation. He was always a kind and thoughtful friend. My deepest sympathy to his dear
father, sister Carmella, his wife and daughters. May Joe rest in peace and know that he was loved.
deidra Obrien
April 27, 2010
Dear Debbie, I am truly sorry for your loss. He was upstanding kinda man, and loved by all his true friends.
Peace be with you and the girls.
Love Deidra Obrien, former West Islip Firefighter.
Pattie Alcus
April 26, 2010
Dear Debbie, Jaimie & Brooke,
We are so very sorry for the loss of your husband-father. He was a wonderful man & a good friend. He will be sorely missed! May you cherish all of your fond memories forever.
Love always, The Alcus Family
keith yacobellis
April 26, 2010
I KNEW CHEIF JOE FROM THE WEST ISLIP FD.HE WAS A GREAT MAN.HE WILL BE MISSED.
Anthony Quintal
April 26, 2010
To the family of Joe, our deepest sympathy on the loss of your Husband and Father, I knew Joe through the TOI Coalition of Chambers. He is a great man that will be missed by all. Anthony Quintal and Family
April 26, 2010
April 26, 2010
I am saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May the fond memories help to comfort you.
I did not know Joe personally but knew of him through my son John McAuley who is the head of the EMT Squad at the West Islip Fire Department.
God bless Joe & his family.
Joan Marshall, Staten Island, NY
Maureen Bonamasso
April 26, 2010
I knew Joe From the fire dept. when my husband was alive, in fact my sister and i just saw him on tuesday at Chilis, I am so sorry for your loss.
April 26, 2010
Joe - We met through business but over the years became friends. You were one of the good guys, always willing to help. May you rest in peace and may God comfort and protect your family.
Bernice Fitzgerald, AFA Protective Systems, Inc.
Nefi Pongas
April 26, 2010
You will be truly missed and your kind words and bright smile will never be forgotten. Rest in peace my friend.
Nefi Pongas, Capital One Bank
Jennifer Gallozzi
April 26, 2010
You will be truly missed by so many, as you touched so many lives with your enthusiasm and love of our small community.You were always so helpful when anyone or any group needing direction or help stepping up for the betterment of our town. Such a warm, friendly, caring man-treating everyone with respect. Making everyone feel included.Even now, you remind us how powerful words can be! You seem to have stood tall behind yours. I hope your life stands testimony to how all of us should slow down, treat each other better and focus on the good in our neighbors.
You were a community leader I was proud to know and deal with when Long Island children needed a humble friend to get the word out on what they were lacking.
May God Bless you as you watch over , your daughters and wife !
Sincerely, Jennifer, Robert Gallozzi and daughters-Helping HAnds in West Islip. Inc. (or just west islip neighbor/friend)
Dawn Peterson
April 26, 2010
Dear Jamie & Family - I am so sorry for your loss; your dad was such a sweet man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He will truly be missed. We are here for you Jamie - always!
April 25, 2010
To the whole DiPalma family: Words can not express how sad I am to hear of your loss. Joe and I go all the way back to high school and the fire house. No matter what Joe was always there to lend an ear! He truly will be missed. May your family find confort and peace in the weeks to come. I truly know how hard it is to loose a love one as we recently lost a love one as well. Kathleen Squillanti Diamond and family
The Culmo Family
April 25, 2010
Jaimie - Our hearts, prayers and condolences go out to you and your family. If there is anything that we can do to support the DiPalma family, please let us. The community is here for you. We love you! The Culmo Family
Anna Poventud
April 25, 2010
Joe- it was a pleasure to have known you. There are very few men out there that can stand up to you . You were a Caring loving and honest man. May the lord bless your family in this time of need. You will be missed not only by your family and friends but also by your associates. Rest In Peace Joe.
Barbara sebor
April 25, 2010
Dear Jaimie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this very trying time.
I also send my hearfelt condolences to your family, Jaimie.
God bless you.
Barbara Sebor
West Islip, New York
Jim Miele
April 25, 2010
Knowing Joe was definately a pleasure. He was one of the most caring people you could ever want to know. Joe will be missed not only by his family but also by all his friends. He was one of a kind . Our prayers and thoughts go out to his family and all his friends. May he rest in peace .
Kevin Micucci
April 25, 2010
Joe was a good man and a pillar of the West Islip community. He will be missed.
ELLEN KOLB
April 25, 2010
Joe and I have been friends for years,He was a very good Man and will be missed my prayers are with you at this time
KOLB FAMILY-WEST ISLIP
Jackie Capewell
April 25, 2010
"Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted." May your family find comfort and peace in the loving grace of our Lord.
L. Romano
April 25, 2010
Joe-
You were one of the good guys and you will be dearly missed buddy....it was a pleasure knowing you (even if it was for such a short period of time). Rest in peace Joe.
Anne and Joe Davidson (LI Road Gents)
April 25, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
He was a wonderful man and will be missed by many...
Karen Fahrion
April 25, 2010
I knew Joe through my brother Bob Coppola. My prayers are with his family and friends. He was a wonderful person and he will be missed . Deepest sympathy Karen Fahrion
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