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for Matthew Baylis
May 26, 2018
I remember and honor Matthew's courage and devotion this Memorial Day. Thank you.
Claudia Budd [Wolff]
April 15, 2018
I grew up with Richie in Massapequa Park; I never knew Matt. But Rich, Thank God for Dads like you who raise Heros. Matthew, thank you for your service- you are a hero to an entire nation. God bless Richie and the entire family.
January 19, 2015
Matt; Marc, Michelle and Violet have moved into there new home in Oregon. They need you to watch over them. I miss you, Love Dad.
May 21, 2014
Happy Birthday Matt....I love and miss you every day. I like to think of you and Grandma together. I love being your godmother. Keep shining your light on us....
Alissa
June 18, 2013
My brother Eric and I are members of the MTAPD, and my Brother recently became a k9 cop. He choose to name his dog after you after hearing your story and all the countless things your family has done for other military families. It is an honor and a priviledge to have "Matty" as a new member of our family and to be able to memoralize you. We will treat him well and I know he will represent your name proudly!! Thank you for all you have done and your sacrifice for our freedoms! God bless and RIP
Jennifer Corkins Rodney Roberts
May 31, 2013
Matt,
We think of you often. Rodney remembers every conversation you guys ever had at the old
detail shop. Your picture was
hanging in our daughters HS
as a Memorial Day honor to
the soldiers we lost. It is an
honor to have known you. We
will never forget your sacrifice
C Worthey
May 30, 2013
Still think about you brother.
May 30, 2013
Matt, Tomorrow is the 6th anniversary of the day you left us. We just celebrated your 26th birthday last week and we survived the past 10 days of pain. We tried to remember the good times and your special smile but always tears come to our eyes. We miss you more than anyone could ever imagine. I hope and pray that your blood spilled in Iraq has a positive meaning one day. You are missed. Love Dad.
Trey Lockley
May 29, 2013
I was Baylis's team leader at ft Carson and in Iraq. I unfortunately go wounded before I could see him for longer. I Love you man. I really miss you!
Donna Bard
May 11, 2013
Thinking of you today and praying for your family & fiends. You will always be missed & remembered. Love The Bard Family
May 11, 2013
Thinking about you today and praying for peace for your family & friends. We miss you and will never forget you. The Bard Family.
May 9, 2013
MacArthur Airport is having aVeterans 5K run. I will be putting up a sign in honor of "PFC Matthew Baylis- Fallen Hero" along the runners route.
Robert Schaefer-Airport Commisioner
December 23, 2012
You touch our lives more than you will ever know...your buddy Joe Bard has the most positive attitude toward life ...all because of you! God Bless you and your family this holiday season...Donna Bard
December 23, 2012
Thinking of you and your family this holiday seaon
Last photo taken; 22 May 2007
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Matthew; Another Christmas without you here, but you are in my heart always. I think about you everyday and pray that you can watch over your mom and brother. Love Dad
October 21, 2012
I knew you as a young child, knew your Mom as you were growing up. I live in Oakdale and will never forget that devastating day we heard the news- I think of you and your Mom and Dad often- you will never be forgotten and my heart pours out to your parents every day. -karen krzos
Sue Sternbach
September 14, 2012
You would be so proud of the beautiful tribute at Connetquot High School last night...all of your friends were there telling stories and missing you soooo much...we love you!!!!!
Jonathan Falsetta
June 13, 2012
Matt,
I still remember the times we had together, as kids. I will never forget you, and I will never forget the feelings I had when I learned of your death. I think about your mom and dad and brother a lot as well.
You will never be forgotten!
Jonathan
Susan Lyons
May 31, 2012
"There are some who bring a light so great to the world that even after they have gone, the light remains." Matthew, your light always shines on us. I miss and love you forever-Susie
May 31, 2012
Miss you
May 28, 2012
Praying your family is finding strength in your bravery. We miss you.
Peggy Childers
May 27, 2012
May 31, 2012
To the family and friends of Pfc. Matthew E. Baylis:
Always remembering Matthew. "Some gave all."
May 23, 2012
Matthew...memories of you, Frank, Joe Bard and Joe Vitale playing in the river when you were small stay in my mind. My heart goes to your family, we'll see you on the other side. Barb Trapani
Troy Murphy
May 22, 2012
Happy Birthday Matt. You are always in my thoughts
May 22, 2012
Thinking of you today...you are missed by the Bard Family. Rest peacefully.
Jim B.
May 21, 2012
Happy Birthday Matt. You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
May 21, 2012
Matthew, We think of you today and every day. We miss you so much. You will always be our hero! Happy Birthday. Love, Mom and Dad
May 20, 2012
Still Remembered and Honored. We appreciate his service to our nation.
February 1, 2012
Our thanks & Prayers for your Ultimate Sacrifice for Us all. Keeping you & your loved ones & All Service Members in prayer & heart each day. May The PErpetual Light SHine UPon you forever & Comfort you family. AMEN
Donna bard
November 13, 2011
You are remenmbered each and every day. Rest peacefully.
donna bard
November 13, 2011
You are remembered each and every day when I look at my memorial tatoo in honor of you and my daughter Lauren who was born on the 4th of July.Both gone too soon.
Jessica
October 9, 2011
Peace be with you your son brother family or/and friend Is ok an safe.. Take comfort I'n that please.
Frank
August 18, 2011
Matt,
Its hard to believe its has been over 4 years since the last time I saw you. One of these days I will go to NY and visit you one last time.
we miss you man,
Troy Murphy
June 1, 2011
No matter what did it is you are always remember. But Memorial weekend will always seem much more to those who you've touched. Thanks Bro
Missing you
Troy
Doc Worthey
May 31, 2011
A drank a beer for you today brother.
Carissa Mihm
May 31, 2011
I never got the chance to meet you but you changed my husbands life...and he finally called and talked to your parents he has been talking about doing it and finally did it...Your name sake is going to be 2 this year and he can say his colors...He will know about you his dad your friend will make sure of it. You will never be forgotten...never met you but you sounded like a great person.
Peggy Childers
May 31, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. Matthew E. Baylis:
Please accept my remembrance of Matthew on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Lee norberg
May 29, 2011
yours truly frequents the idle hour deli in oakdale (for the past thirty-six years) and noticed a picture of a young us army soldier posing with iraqi kids near the register.
last friday 5/27, was in deli and saw a gentlemen cleaning the picture, had to ask: your son and reply was "yes".
briefly chatted with mr. baylis about his son and the ultimate sacrifice matt made for his country. i'm proud to have met mr. baylis, understand the story behind the picture and feel the tragedy in the loss of his son.
May 26, 2011
Memorial Day is days away. Every night I think of the day you were taken from us. I hear the bullet, I feel the pain, I am there with you; you saved your buddies. I miss you. Love, Dad
Doc Worthey
May 25, 2011
I still think about you all the time.
Susan Lyons
May 21, 2011
Happy Birthday Matt- I know you are celebrating with your Heavenly Band of Brothers. I lit a candle and sang Happy Birthday to you. Miss and love you so much, my Godson...
Jennifer Corkins & Rodney Roberts
May 5, 2011
We think of you often & wish you were here. You gave your life for our country- you will never be forgotten
May 2, 2011
Matt, yesterday they killed Bin Laden. I wish I had put the bullit in his brain. Bin Ladens orders to crash planes into the WTC inspired you to avenge those who died by joining the infantry. You can rest now, he's gone, but I miss you so much each day and his death gives me little solace. Love Dad
Jonathan Falsetta
February 20, 2011
I won't ever forget you Matt. I think about you often. Wish you were here with us.
Jonathan
Doc Worthey
May 31, 2010
I loved you like a brother and will never forget you.
Peggy Childers
May 31, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. Matthew E. Baylis:
Remembering Matthew on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Sarah McCann
May 21, 2010
Matt - Happy birthday cousin....not a day goes by that I don't think about you or do something that i'm sure you'd laugh at. I miss you man....love you
Sarah
May 20, 2010
Dear Matt,
Its your 23rd Birthday tomorrow. I remembered the day you were born and how you were placed in my arms seconds after birth. I can still feel your warmth. Happy Birthday son. Love Dad.
Gary
December 25, 2009
Remembering Matthew on this Christmas day.A true American hero.
December 24, 2009
Dear matt,
I come to another Christmas without you and I miss you even more. I looked at photos of you and Marc from Christmas's past and I am sad. You have appeared in my dreams and you took my breath away. Life will never be the same without you. Love, Dad
Susan Lyons
August 5, 2009
Hi Matt- I went to Fort Carson today and saw the memorial with your and Brynn's names- I left stones for you. I liked seeing beautiful mountains and knowing that is what you saw,too. I know now you are jumping from mountain peak to peak. It was really windy today and I felt you all around. Love and miss you forever, susie
Lois
July 7, 2009
To the family and friends of Matthew Baylis:
I received a flyer in Oakdale about erecting those white pillars on the corner of the block like the ones from the Vanderbilt estate. I hope you don't mind that I had one erected on my corner which is Shore Dr and Hollywood Dr. It is to honor Matthew's memory and sacrifice. It was finished today. Some of the neighbors thought it would be nice to have a dedication. He was a fine young man and a true patriot. Matthew, his family & friends are often in my thoughts & prayers.
Marcy
July 6, 2009
I was out at calverton cemetary and walked past matthews headstone all decorated for the 4th of july and i stopped and read the words . All I could think of that he was somebodys baby. My heart goes out to his mother and the rest of his family.May matthew rest in peace.
Peggy Childers
May 31, 2009
To the family of Pfc. Matthew E. Baylis:
Matthew gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Susan Lyons
May 21, 2009
Hi Matthew- Thank you for sending us this beautiful day for your birthday. I know you were here with us. We love you and miss you and keep a special place in our hearts that forever will only belong to you. Love you forever, Susie
troy murphy
May 21, 2009
Happy Bday Matt
Don't forget I'll bring the beers
love ya murphy
May 20, 2009
Matt, Tomorrow is your 22nd birthday and I miss you so much. Never a day goes by without me thinking about you. I go down to the marina many times each week waiting for you to come around Nichols point in your boat heading for the Beach Club to dock your boat. I stood there so many times when you were 16 waiting to see you and make sure you were OK. You never knew how much I looked over you when boating and then driving. I stayed in the shadows waiting to protect you from harm, but I could'nt do that in Iraq, and I'm so sorry. I would have taken the bullet for you. Love, Dad
they count on each other
May 15, 2009
He will always be watching over us
May 15, 2009
this is my boy, Matt
May 15, 2009
what a hansome man
May 15, 2009
Matt loved the kids
May 15, 2009
Matt and his brother Marc
May 15, 2009
Troy Murphy
May 14, 2009
Hey Matt is Murphy
I just wanted you to know I miss you and brynn. We will always be brothers to the end I look forward to meeting you. Remember on your last day with us you and I had a frozen latte and muffins. I miss you tons You'll always be my brother.
Love Murphy
Jonathan Falsetta
May 9, 2009
Matt, I think about you a lot. I'll never forget any of the times we spent together as kids, going to Islander games, WWF matches, or just messing around with GI Joes at my house. I wish you were still here so we could laugh and talk about our childhood. I will never forget you.
Love,
Jonathan
Ray Wood
May 7, 2009
My sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Pfc. Baylis. I did not know this brave young soldier, but I will never forget his sacrifice for America. My flag flies in his honor. He may be gone but not forgoten; nor shall he ever be.
SMSgt. R.E. Wood, USAF/ret
Vietnam Veteran 69-70
Carey Worthey
May 6, 2009
Matthew, you were a friend and a brother to me. I wish I could have helped you. You died a hero and I will never forget you.
Lisa Peterson
March 9, 2009
God Bless You Matthew. I just watched the movie "Taking Chance" I Couldn't help but think of you. Your Dad Rich is amazing. The problem is that he does not think so. Please God, Bless this family and help them have peace. As we all know, life is too short. As Matthew would probably say... Life life hard!
Kim Smith
January 24, 2009
Although I did not know Pfc. Mathew E. Baylis, I Hold him and his family in my heart and prayers. Remember when times get tough, that he is looking down from heaven and smiling at you, and protecting you.
Thank You for serving our country to keep us safe, You are Truely a HERO. May He Rest in Peace with the Lord, and Your hearts heal in time.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends" John 15:13
Proud Wife-to-Be of a Marine in Iraq. Please keep him and all the other Soldiers in your Prayers.
Kenna Larra
January 20, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Susan Lyons
December 22, 2008
Hi Matt- It's you second Christmas in Heaven. Just want you to know that-
When we light our Christmas trees,
When we open our gifts,
When we sing the Christmas songs,
When we give our Christmas hugs-
You are with us.
Your smile, your spirit, your love never leave us.
Merry Christmas, Matthew. Be sure to put a Christmas bow on Kelly and give her lots of treats.
Love you always,
Your godmother Susie
Love you always- Miss you always
Grant Hubbartt
November 28, 2008
We All miss you brother
Lois Stafford
November 2, 2008
To Matt Baylis' family and friends,
When I met Matt he was dressed as a soldier trick or treating at my house on Halloween in 2004. (Other kids from the area may know my house, it's the one made to look like a haunted castle with a haunted graveyard tour.) He was so handsome and he looked so much like a soldier. I asked him if he, in fact, was a real soldier taking his little brother or sister around? He laughed and said, "No, but I will be one soon." I paused for a moment in thought and he said, "What, you're not going to try to talk me out of it?" I guess that's what most people did. My two older brothers served in Vietnam and it left lasting scars. I told him what he was doing was a noble thing and something to proud of. Then I urged him to try for an ROTC scholarship first and go to college for he was so young. He said, "They need me now." And they did. It was a hard argument to make. I told him I would pray for him and as he walked down my driveway I yelled "What's your name?" " Matt Baylis", he yelled back with a great big smile. That image is forever frozen in time in my memory. I did pray for him but he didn't make it. When I found out he was killed, I cried a river of tears.I attended his funeral and stood outside the church with a hundred other people. Most didn't even know him. You could hear a pin drop outside during the service. The only thing you could hear were people crying. Many were hardened Vets and Patriot Guard bikers who didn't even know Matt, but we all shed tears.
On Memorial Day, while visiting my Dad's grave at Calverton, I visited Matt's grave to place some flowers and had the honor of meeting his parents. At least I got to tell them how Matt inspired me to volunteer at the VA and write to soldiers and send packages to them through anysoldier.com. to let them know how much their service is appreciated. Two days ago on Halloween, I placed some flowers by the street sign named after him in Oakdale to remember that handsome brave young soldier who gave all for his country. He will always be a "Hero of the surge " to me. I will continue to honor his memory and pray for his soul and his family daily, but especially on Memorial Day and Halloween.
With deepest respect and sympathy, Lois Stafford
rich
August 6, 2008
Matt, my son. I miss you more than anyone could know. I feel as if I have lost a piece of my soul and so much of my heart. I am sorry if I let you down as a dad, but I tried my best to guide you. Tomorrow is my dads birthday, so tell him I love him just as I love you. Love, PA
Keith Falsetta
July 7, 2008
What a brave kid you are, you did something that took so much courage and strength. There are not many like you out there. You are loved and missed by many. Love Keith Falsetta
June 28, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Baylis!
As we used to call each other in the stickball days...MnM....Mike And Matt
June 26, 2008
u know everyday...i think of Matt....and everytime i try and turn that thought into something very positive....and I say to myself....Matt..that was my good friend...not only was he my friend...but he was the bravest person I ever met...and he taught me something that no one could of taught me..and that was to follow my dream...May Laurie Rich and Mark be proud...to have raised such a man
Idle Hour Crew
June 20, 2008
Growing up in Oakdale we had that group of friends....we did everything together....Matt was the one you could always count on...he was the one to always have your back....the one to always give you advice....he was brave and courageous......he never let you down....never let you down.. the crew misses you Matt
In Memory of Matthew ~ (Debra Estep)
May 31, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Matthew, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
Visit this link to hear the song.
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Nancy carew
May 29, 2008
Matt,
I am so glad you came over that night in February when you were last home. The last hug we shared only made me realize that we would soon be bridging the age gap and hanging out together when you came home. We think of you everyday and you are many times the topic of our breakfast or dinner conversations. I can still see you so clearly and hear your voice, which I have not always been able to do with others. The heavy ache in our hearts has not gone away. I believe it will always be there. Our family has been able to have some good times and laugh together again, yet we will never be the same. We are all missing you terribly. It's strange how we speak of you with such sadness and pride at the same time.
I know you are around us. I wish Emma was right when she said on our flight that we could go visit you in the clouds......
All my love ~ Nan
susan lyons
May 22, 2008
Hi Matt- We were all with you yesterday on your birthday- Hope you could feel our love- We carry your heart in our hearts- We are never without you- Where we go, you go with us. Love you always- your godmother Susie
William Young
May 22, 2008
May the god LORD give you peace at this trying time. We know exactly what you are going through. We must believe that GOD has a plan for both our family members who have made the ultimate sacrifice. may they stand with HIM renewed and forever young as Angels of the Realm. GOD bles and keep the Baylis family.
The Youngs.
the Buck family
May 21, 2008
To the family and friends of Pfc. Matthew E. Baylis, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God comfort and bless your family.
May 7, 2008
Matt. I miss you with all my heart and soul.
love,
Dad
Dewayne S.
April 25, 2008
Rest in peace PFC. Baylis. God bless you.
madan price
March 30, 2008
matt was my roomate in iraq. I called him Kid, compared to me. Miss you man..keep living the high spirited life in heaven...keep on drumming...
matt was a kid . A damn good kid.
March 30, 2008
Sue Lyons
March 17, 2008
Hi Matt- Was just really missing you- I love you, godson- You are in my heart always.
Love,
Susie
karen krzos
January 22, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
MARK BALDWIN
December 20, 2007
I JUST CAME ACROSS A PICTURE OF MATT WITH FRIENDS TROY AND BRYNN IN A STORY IN THE NEWS PAPER. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS DURING THIS TIME OF SORROW AS YOU SEE I JUST MET TROY TODAY AS HE ESCORTED BRYNN NAYLORS BODY HOME TO HIS FAMILY TODAY- WE WILL MISS OUR HEROS MATT,BRYNN WE LOVE AND WILL MISS YOU. AND IN THE SAME BREATH I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY FOR IF YOU DID NOT DO WHAT YOU DID FOR THIS COUNTRY MY CHILDREN MAY NOT HAVE THE OPPERTUNITY TO DEFEND THIS GREAT COUNTRY OF OURS-WE LOVE YOU AND WILL MISS YOU
SFC Koontz
December 19, 2007
Matt was a good kid and a good soldier. I love you and miss you.
shane bourbon
December 10, 2007
matt was my friend and battle buddy in basic. there is not a day that goes by i dont think about him. i can only hope to be the man he was. he will always be missed and never forgotten.
Noreen Carew Sadoff
November 26, 2007
I am thinking of all of Matthew's family as the holidays begin.
You are in my family's prayers.
God bless you, all.
August 16, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Baylis and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
August 7, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 12, 2007
To Matt's family and friends,
this poem helped a close family member of mine deal with a great loss. Maybe it will help each of you a little. Not a day goes by that we are not thinking of Matthew. We dedicate each and every unique sunset to him until we meet with him again.
When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared-
Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the Maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss me, but let me go.
We love you Matt.
Annie Pannell
July 11, 2007
Dear Family Of PFC Baylis,
No words can convey my heart felt feelings for your loss. Nor can they ease your pain, but I do pray that
knowing you are not alone and Mattew's sacrifice will not be forgotten, shall at some point help
bring you comfort.
May God Bless all of you
Tom Ruley
July 9, 2007
Dear family of Pfc. Matthew E. Baylis,
I am deeply saddened by the death of your loved one Matthew. I offer my most sincere condolences.
I am sorry that I was unable to attend his burial service to honor him and pay my respects to your family.
I hope you will find some comfort in knowing that countless Americans grieve with you and they greatly appreciate the ultimate sacrifice made by Matthew in the name of freedom. He died as a true American hero.
I hope also that one day in the not to distant future, on every occasion when you think of Matthew, that PRIDE... will be your strongest emotion.
I pledge to never forget his sacrifice... and yours. Rest in peace soldier. Job well done.
My sincerest sympathies,
Tom Ruley
Founder and President
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Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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