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Patricia Carter Obituary

CARTER - Patricia, on October 8, 2018 age 78 formerly of North Massapequa, LI. Beloved Wife of the late William James Carter, III. Devoted mother of Wil. Loving sister of Mary Ellen Harrigan. Reposing at the Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Bethpage Funeral Home, 20 Hicksville Road. Mass of Christian Burial, St. James R.C. Church, Seaford, LI, Monday, 10:15 AM. Interment St. Charles Cemetery, Farmingdale, LI. Visiting Sunday 2-4:30 & 7-9:30 PM.

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Published by Newsday on Oct. 11, 2018.

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Janene Wilson

June 2, 2020

Our Dear Pat, I just searched for you because I have not heard from you in several years, and found this....your obituary. Have thought of you often! May you rest in peace!! You were such a good and valued friend to my mother, Kathy. We all appreciated and loved you. I am so sorry that time got away from us, and we were unable to see each other. You have been dearly missed! Love always! Janene

MARY HARRIGAN

October 6, 2019

WELL, SISTER DEAR, IT HAS BEEN A YEAR SINCE YOU WENT TO A "BETTER PLACE". NO PAIN, ACHES AND NOW BEING WITH FAMILY/FRIENDS THAT HAVE "PASSED" EARLIER. I DO HAVE TO SAY, WHEN YOU LEFT, I FELT A PART OF ME WAS "GONE". HOWEVER, I KNOW THAT NOW YOU HAVE BEEN JOINED BY MY DEAREST FRIEND, JOANIE SHANNON, AFTER A 48+ FRIENDSHIP AND OUR COUSIN, GHERI ROBINSON. I AM SURE YOU HAVE MANY MEMORIES OF THE "MARY HARRIGAN" STORIES WHERE YOU ALL PLAYED "FEATURED" ROLES !! AS BOB HOPE WOULD SAY, "THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES".

ALTHOUGH I DO NOT "SEE" YOU, I KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING OVER ME AND MANY TIMES, I AM IMPRESSED HOW "PATSY CARTER" I REACT TO SITUATIONS/PLANS/ETC THAT COME UP IN MY DAY TO DAY HAPPENINGS..... THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU AND I'LL SEE YOU AGAIN. I LOVE YOU.......

October 15, 2018

May the God of all comfort sustain your family during the days ahead Psalms 119:76

MARY HARRIGAN

October 11, 2018

I WILL MISS MY SISTER, PATSY, VERY, VERY MUCH! ALTHOUGH WE ARE AS DIFFERENT AS "NIGHT AND DAY", SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME WHEN I NEEDED HER (EVEN AS A CHILD AND NOW 1,000 MILES AWAY !!). SHE WAS KIND,LOVING AND GENEROUS. ALTHOUGH, EVERY NOW AND THEN,HER "IRISH" WOULD SURFACE AND SHE WOULD "CLEARLY" STATE HER "WISHES/WANTS/NEEDS". HOWEVER, SHE NEVER DID IT WITH MALICE OR TO HURT ANYONE.

SHE TRULY IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW - NO PAIN, ONLY THE GOOD LORD, BLESSED MOTHER, SAINTS, ANGELS, FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS. GOD REST YOUR SOUL, SISTER DEAR, AND SAY HI TO EVERYONE FOR ME. I LOVE YOU.....................

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Oct

14

Reposing

2:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Fredrick J Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc. - Bethpage

20 Hicksville Rd, Bethpage, NY 11714

Oct

14

Reposing

7:00 p.m. - 9:30 p.m.

Fredrick J Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc. - Bethpage

20 Hicksville Rd, Bethpage, NY 11714

Oct

15

Mass of Christian Burial

10:15 a.m.

St. James R.C. Church

Seaford, LI, NY

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Fredrick J Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc. - Bethpage

20 Hicksville Rd, Bethpage, NY 11714

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