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Paul Warhola Obituary
Memories and Condolences
for Paul Warhola
6 Entries
September 24, 2009
Besides the sorrow, the tears and the grief, death reminds us of our mortality. It brings us closer to our loved ones, it forces us to be vigilant and appreciative of the love they give us. In the bible,
John wrote “Greater love hath no man, than to lay down his life for his fellow man”. And this love that we share with Paulie and his family is what brings me to the alter today. It is this love that makes us all brothers.
I could spend hours talking about the kind of friend Paulie was, the way he was always around to lend a helping hand, the way he spoke so highly of his family and the good times we all shared on his boat. There are just too many memories to list here.
Instead I’d like to take this time to talk about what I have learned from having a friend like Paulie. Paulie was one of many that I have looked up to in the firehouse, he taught me how to be a good fireman. He always told me to stop, look around and take it all in.
When it came to fishing, he was the king. He was always the first to hook up on a nice fish. He once told me to be patient and let the fish come to you.
Paulie also had another talent. He could build or fix just about anything. When I bought my first house, Paulie was there the next day with his tool bag in his hand. Almost everything I know about home repair, I learned from him.
Most importantly, I’ve learned from Paulie how to be a good friend, a great husband and one day an excellent father.
Henry David Therow once wrote that “the hero is commonly the simplest and obscurest of men”. The way Paulie lived his life, the way he treated his friends and the way he loved his family unconditionally, makes him nothing short of a hero.
There will never be a day that goes by that we won’t think of Paul Warhola, he will always be in our hearts as well as in our memories. We truly love and miss you Paulie.
Forever rest in peace brother.
-Christopher Dominici
Christina Mason
August 20, 2009
Dear Arlene,Paul and Tiana,
It is with a heavy heart and tears in my eyes that I write this.I can not even imagine the feelings that you are having to go through right now. I am hoping by the time that you are presented this book in one year that all these memories will help lessen the pain.
As I write this I believe that I am one of the lucky few that can sit in my den and view the craftmanship of the great Paul Warhola. When I first met the Warholas and was invited to their home I was given a tour. Arlene, you were so proud of the beautiful work that he had done. The kitchen, the bathrooms and the den. Years later when I did my addition I had asked you if Paul would do my fireplace mantel. Thankfully he said yes. I was not quite sure what to expect- I knew it would be beautiful work since I had admired his own fireplace. Days went by and Paul was busy making my mantel and bookcases in his basement. Arlene had to contain herself and not let me look at the work prior to it being finished. A while later Paul and Paulie came to my house and installed my mantel and built in bookcases. I was truly amazed at his workmanship and detail. The bookshelves had arched tops to match the fireplace.It is now painted and decorated with my family memories and looks just like the picture I had shown him from a magazine. This is my favorite room in my home and the work that he did is the centerpiece of our family home. His craftmanship has been admired by many. Of course I was thinking -what else can I hire him to do? I did need him a few months later when we purchased a new fridge- of course we did not measure- I just picked the one that I wanted. I think Frank should have listened to Paul when he said-"measure twice cut once". I think Frank's favorite quote was " a little caulk a little paint and you make it what it aint". He came over with Arlene and I showed them this big beautiful stainless fridge with the ice and water on the outside. Since the fit was so tight we could not open he door. He looked at me like I was crazy and said "what is the problem get a different fridge!" I explained to him that the smaller one did not have the water and ice on the outside. I think Frank and Paul were on the same side. Arlene and I thought -take the wall down and make the fridge fit. He did!
I have many other great memories of Paul. I remember when he started his beautiful garden in the backyard. He always shared the fresh vegetables with our family. And of course you cant forget the fish- Frank and my dad savored his fresh catches many times. Not sure if they were cooked as well as if Paul had cooked them.
I spent many a day at the Warhola's and will forever remember the smile that he always had on his face. He was a true jokster. I think he may have been the funniest guy I have ever met. I still picture him sitting in the corner of the couch in his spot in his flannel pjs-sorry Arlene!. Hey he survived Arlene and I creating the Revolution. I'm sure he thought we were nuts. He never said much in front of me but I guess he figured when you get two hard headed women like Arlene and myself and we have a goal in mind-it is happening.
I found it so unfair that Paul was taken so soon but after hearing his friends,family and fellow NYFD brothers speak- I believe he did his job here on earth. As I am finishing this note I still have tears in my eyes -actually I am sobbing-but I feel better. I remember Paul for all his greatness and accomplishements not for his death. This is why I hope when you read this in a year from now you will feel some comfort.
Arleen you could not have chosen a better man.
Paul and Tiana -probably the best Dad you could have. To my daughter Dakota- she thought of him as a second father.
On 9/11 the angels watched over him and helped him get the job done and get home safe to his family. His return home was a gift from God. On 8/14 we were not so lucky- i guess the angels needed him on that day.
Godspeed Paul-you were a great man and will be missed.
August 19, 2009
Arleen, Paulie & Tiana:
I'm so sorry about what happened. I wish Paul was still here & I will miss him. Love you all,
Shelley
August 18, 2009
Dear Arleen, Paul, and Tiana,
My deepest condolences to a wonderful family.
Sincerely, Mrs. Kromhout
August 17, 2009
Arlene and family we are so sorry to hear about your loss. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Always remember the good times.
Patti Teverbaugh and Joseph
Karen White
August 17, 2009
Arleen and family,
We are all saddened about the loss of Paul. We know how much you love him and we will never forget his generosity to us in allowing Eddie to wear his uniform in the fashion show.
We want you to know that you are in our hearts and our prayers. If there is anything you need--please let us know. You will always be part of our "team".
love your AHRC family
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