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Phyllis Pasqua Obituary

Pasqua - Phyllis, of Baldwin, passed away peacefully, and surrounded by family on Wednesday, June 18, at the age of 94. Born to parents Irving and Pauline Feuerstein on September 3, 1930, she was predeceased by her loving husbands, Lester Kaplan (1970) and Daniel Pasqua (1987); her brother, Stanley (1994); and her daughter, Andrea (2017). She was a long-time owner of Tudor Wines & Liquor in Elmont, NY.

She loved her family, travel and food, and is remembered for her incredible strength and generosity. She is survived by sons, Ira (Joanne) Kaplan and Michael (Barbara) Kaplan; grandchildren, Lisa (Joshua), Stacie, Malcolm (Elizabeth), Annika (Alexander), Walter,

Nicole (Benjamin) and Daniel;

and great-grandchildren, Camryn, Cassidee, Francesca, Ivan, Gilda, Renata and Tessa.

The family would like to thank Phyllis' aide and friend Geeta Misir for her unwavering care and love in her final years of life. There will be a graveside service at Mt. Ararat Cemetery in Lindenhurst, NY on Friday, June 20, 2025.

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Published by Newsday from Jun. 20 to Jun. 22, 2025.

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Lois Wildmann Olivari

September 3, 2025

I met Phyllis many years ago when my Dad, Frank Wildmann remodeled Tudor Liquors. She & Lester became dear friends. My parents loved your family.
I remember fondly the laughter shared!

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Eric Feuerstein

June 21, 2025

Aunt Phyllis will be greatly missed. She was such a big part of our lives especially as kids. It´s impossible to encapsulate who she was in a paragraph or two as there was so much to her.

She could be so funny and she wasn´t even aware that she was. There could be books written of the things she has said over the years that still to this day stay in my memory. She was quite a personality. We will miss her greatly.

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