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Michael Spade Obituary
He was born at Bloomsburg Hospital, Bloomsburg, Nov, 18, 1993.
Michael was in his first year attending Coastal Carolina University where he received a full athletic golf scholarship. His aspiration after his graduation from college was to teach young children the joys and techniques of golf; the game he so loved to play. He was a 2012 graduate of Shamokin Area High School, where he was an honor roll student. While attending Shamokin Area, "Spadie" played on the varsity teams in golf and basketball and also, in earlier years, played on the baseball team. In high school, he was a member of the 1864 Club and Family and Consumer Sciences (FCS) Club.
Michael enjoyed being active in the outdoors, whether golfing, fishing or camping. He also enjoyed playing guitar and video games. He loved spending time with his family, but especially dear to him was the time he spent socializing with his many friends.
He worked the past two years at Knoebel's Three Ponds Golf Course, Elysburg, in the Pro Shop and as an assistant-to-the-pro.
In addition to loving and adoring parents, his mother, Peggy Delorso, of Coal Township, and father and stepmother, Michael R. Spade Sr. and Mandy (Brassington) Spade, of Shamokin, Michael is also survived by his maternal grandparents, Frank M. and Sandra Delorso, of Shamokin; maternal great-grandfathers, Frank Delorso Sr., of Sunbury, husband of the late Jane Delorso, and Dave Reed, of Shamokin, husband of the late Peggy Reed; paternal grandmother, Anne Spade, of Shamokin; paternal grandparents, Daniel and Terrie Bamford, of Paxinos; special cousins, Travis Wegrzynowicz, who was more like a brother, of Elysburg, Ryan Schuck, of Shamokin, and Tommy Reed, of Shamokin, and aunts, uncles, cousins and numerous friends.
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SPADE — Michael Richard Spade Jr., 18, of 11 N. Grant St., Shamokin. A religious funeral service will be held at noon Wednesday at the James Kelley Funeral Home, 1001 W. Arch St., at Maple Street, Coal Township, with the Rev. Barbara J. Welsh, pastor of Ash Grove United Methodist Church, Paxinos, officiating. Disposition will be held at a later date. A visitation will be held from 10 a.m. until the time of the service Wednesday in the funeral home. The family requests as an expression of sympathy, memorial contributions be made to the Michael R. Spade Jr. Memorial Golf Fund, c/o M & T Bank, 265 S. Market St., Elysburg 17824. The fund will be used for his passion, to teach young golf enthusiasts.
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Spade
eric barcavage
September 19, 2012
Sorry to hear of Michaels sudden passing. Eric Barcavage
Kim (Shurock), Tommy "Tucker" & Tom Hine Sr.
September 15, 2012
Mike & Mandy,
We are so very sorry for your loss.
Nothing that anyone says or can do will ever fill the void you both must be feeling.
Wishing you strength & guidance as you look to God for answers & wisdom during this difficult time.
We're hoping that you can find comfort as you reflect upon the many happy memories you've shared with Michael ... We're sure there were many, as he was a very kind-hearted lovable person who brought joy & smiles to everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.
He'll live on in your hearts forever.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Kelly Battista
September 14, 2012
Cheryl & Family,
May God bless you and your family in this time of saddness. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Deb Powell
September 14, 2012
Mike and Peggy, all I can say is May God Bless You. Words will never be enough to comfort you in your loss of a loving child. As loving family friends you are in our thoughts. We will continue to pray for you.Our love and support will be with you always.
Hornberger
September 13, 2012
Mike,Peggy,Mandy,and family..
We are so sorry for the loss of Michael,no words could explain.We send our prayers and sympathy.Spade is a funny,handsome young man and will always be remembered,Natasha adored him and will hold all her memories close to her heart as we hope you all do.He is in a good place now and at peace.
The service and turnout were beautiful and that shows you all how he touched many people.
May "Spadie" rest in peace and we pray for the entire family and all of his friends,he will forever be present in the hearts and minds of everyone that met him.
Sonya,Brian,Natasha,Seth,and Faith
September 12, 2012
Our family have been praying everyday for God's healing for your hearts in any way. CCU family from Pennsylvania
Nikki
September 12, 2012
Peggy and Family,
So very sorry for the loss of your beloved Michael. May you find comfort and strength in the days ahead. May you feel his love and presence all around you. May the memories you now treasure carry you through. You will forever be in my prayers.
Lori & Joe James
September 12, 2012
Peggy, Mike, Mandy and families, My heart is heavy for you, it's a loss that cannot be fathomed. Please accept our sincere condolences. Michael was an amazing kid and you all had so much to be proud of. I wish there was something I could do to take away your pain. You were amazingly strong and poised. I found this prayer I thought might be appropriate, God Bless you all.
“God, bring comfort and peace. Peace is your essence. Peace is your name. Bring peace to the Spade/Delorso family who has lost their precious Michael in death.
We come to you, God because we know that you sorrow, and are acquainted with grief. You too have endured the loss of a child. You empathize.
We can't help but ask, “Why?” Forgive our insistence, our confusion, even our anger. We believe that you are just, and we ache to understand how this tragic death is an expression of that justice, how it expresses your love. We also know – in our minds at least – that you seldom answer the “why?” question. We press you, but on these matters you are mostly silent.
What we ask instead is “how?” How can we move forward? How can this bring us together and not tear us apart? How can we now live under the shadow of Michael's untimely death? Answer this prayer with your comfort and guidance.
There is no way to remove the pain. The grief is real. The only sanity is to know, to believe, in a life beyond with you, when all the scales are righted and the sufferings are made good. We trust you and your promise that while this child's life on earth is done, his life beyond has just begun. With that release we lose him and let him go into your arms, then by faith receive in return the boundless comfort of your presence. That is all, that is enough. In Jesus.”
September 12, 2012
We are connected,
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye.
It's not like the cord
That connects us 'til birth
This cord can't been seen
By any on Earth.
This cord does it's work
Right from the start.
It binds us together
Attached to my heart.
I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me.
The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied.
It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight.
And though you are gone,
Though you're not here with me,
The cord is still there
But no one can see.
It pulls at my heart
I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.
I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away!
Author unknown
Trish Kazmerski and David Carey
September 12, 2012
Our deepest condolences to you Peggy and Mike, and your entire family. May the love and support of our Lord, your family and many friends, wrap and protect your hearts in this great time of sorrow. All our love,
Tiffany Witcoskie
September 12, 2012
Peggy, No parent should ever have to endure the pain of the loss of a child. I can't even fathom what you and your family are going through right now. Please know we are all thinking and praying for you at this difficult time. Bless you.
Traci Weikel-Alleman
September 12, 2012
Mike,
It has been along time. Our son Uriah rememebrs the time he spent playing youth basketball with Mike. May God wrap his arms around you and Peggy during the difficult time. Focus on the beautiful memories that you made with your son. His laughter, smile and personality will bring you joy. Hold onto that dear friend. May the Lord give you comfort and heal your pain. Blessing to you my friend.
In Jesus name,
Traci (Weikel) Alleman
Kelli Lewis-Lehman
September 11, 2012
peggy,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know I am thinking of you in this time, sending love, hugs, and prayers.
Kim Tharp
September 11, 2012
My heart aches over the loss of Michael. I have such great memories of time spent w him at Busy Bees that I will treasure forever! My thoughts and prayers are with u and ur family.
September 11, 2012
The loss of spade has had a devastating effect on everyone I know. We were really close friends all through middle and high school, he had a way of making every day a little brighter and easier not just for me, but for everyone who knew him. He could easily brighten a room and have everyone laughing. He was a great person and it's really heartbreaking to see him leave us. I send my thoughts and prayers to his family and the rest of his friends.
September 11, 2012
I'm so sorry for your loss. There are no words that will help, I too lost my teen daughter. Time will ease the pain. His spirit will always live within you. Sending prayers of strength to you.
Amy Clum
September 11, 2012
May God's light guide you and give you hope.
Amy Clum
September 11, 2012
May God bless you and your entire family during this time of sorrow. Allow him to comfort & shelter you during your most time of need.
Emily Seeley
September 11, 2012
I am deeply sorry for your loss, but my prayers are out to your family, and may your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate the life that was lived.
Courtney Krieger
September 11, 2012
I graduated with Michael and was in several classes with him. Every time he walked into the room, the air was thick with his energy and there was never a dull moment. He was somehow able to make a boring subject like probability and statistics turn into a fun and humorous class with numerous random discussions that would take most of the class period. He and I weren't friends or anything, but he was one funny guy. My condolences to the family and friends. I know how close Ryan Schuck, Tommy and him were from a bystander's point of view and I can only imagine how much pain everyone is feeling. You are all in my thoughts.
Lonie Feudale
September 11, 2012
Mike, Peggy and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you with the strength to get through this difficult time.
Cindy Lee Olcese
September 11, 2012
Frank, Sandy, Mike and Peggy,
My deepest heartfelt sadness to each of you at this time of great loss. Although I only met Michael once, he was a truly special young man at a young age. He will never leave your memories and your heart. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this time of deep sorrow.
Chris Hodrick
September 11, 2012
Peggy
Please accept my most heartfelt condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Beaver Family
September 11, 2012
Sandy,
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of Michael. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
September 11, 2012
What words do you say, how do you explain that you share in the heartache of this loss. It's obvious that Michael was special. He touched many people the moment he came in contact with them. He was a true gift from God. He is now at peace in his arms. May you all find peace and strength.
September 11, 2012
I can't imagine what you are going through...put your trust in God to help you through the next few days...your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Your friends at Harry's
September 10, 2012
Dear Peggy, our hearts ache for you. Please know that everyone is praying for you and know that your son loves you and is looking down, hoping for you to heal. Know that he is in a much better place and that he is at peace. Our deepest and most sincere condolences,
September 10, 2012
Our family is heartbroken over the loss of Michael. We met Michael briefly on move-in day at CCU and found him to be a friendly, outgoing young man, excited about being in the PGM program and starting his adventure in SC. We pray that God will wrap his loving arms around this family and sustain them in their grief. We will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Franz and Leigh Holt, parents of Skyler Holt (roommate)
Sue Clark
September 10, 2012
My heart aches for Michael's family and friends. Even though Michael's life was short he left an imprint on many people. Mike spent a great deal of time in my room helping with the FCS club. His smile, sense of humor and compassion for others will live on in our memories. R.I.P. Michael and give my son a hug. Thoughts and prayers to your family.
CCU Family
September 10, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Our son is also a Freshman at CCU. Please hold on to the wonderful memories of your son!
Jennifer Makowski
September 10, 2012
Mike, Peggy and Family,
I had the pleasure of teaching Michael his junior and senior years at Shamokin Area High School. He was such a wonderful young man, full of happiness, laughter, kindness and love. The joys he brought to all of our lives will never be forgotten. My heart aches for your family and friends. May you find strength and comfort in god's love to help guide you through this difficult time. My sincerest condolences.
Bradley Myers
September 10, 2012
Rest in peace Mike you were a good guy. It was good being your roommate. My condolences go out to your parents and all your family!
Sam Myers
September 10, 2012
My brother was Michaels roommate for the last few weeks. Him as well as my family are thinking about your family during this time. Brad was grateful to have Michael to be able to golf with and share their passion of the sport. May you rest in peace Michael.
Ruth Hale
September 10, 2012
I was so saddened when my son shared the death of your son with us. Keeping you and your family in my prayers and those at CCU.
September 10, 2012
We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. God bless.
charley butler
September 10, 2012
I din't know Michael personally, but I am a student at CCU. My prayers go out to the Spade family.May God be with you all during this time.
lori moore
September 10, 2012
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
A CCU PGM mother
September 10, 2012
I didn't know Michael, but my heart has been aching for you since my son, a sophomore PGM student at CCU, told me the tragic news. From the photo, I can see he was a beautiful young man, inside and out. Please know that Michael and your entire family have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly. May God bless you and bring you peace.
Christina Willis
September 10, 2012
Peggy,
I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Michael. Being a mother, it touches all of us, and my heart is heavy for you. May God grant you strength and peace, comfort and love in the prayers of friends. And may the memories that you cherish the most, carry you through this difficult time.
Uncle Buddy and Aunt Faith Brassington
September 10, 2012
Mandy and Mike, know that we are holding you tight to our hearts right now. Michael was such a sweet kid. We are praying that God will bless you both with a peace that has no end. Love to you both.
Ruth Brassington
September 10, 2012
I pray may the Family find peace and comfort in this time of great sorrow. God Bless. I am very sorry for your loss.I loved Michael and I will miss him.
CCU Parent
September 10, 2012
As a parent of A CCU student I am heart broken for this entire family. When my Son called me to tell me the news I was devasted. He was in the same program as my son but they had not had a chance to meet yet. May his heart and soul rest in peace, and I hope his family can find comfort in their wonderful memories
Susan Chiavaroli
September 10, 2012
Michael spent alot of time with my daughter during grade school and junior high school. He visited my home many times and I found him to be a beautiful child with a beautiful soul. Being a parent I would have been honored to have him as my son. God Bless Michael and all of his surviving family.
Joseph Purcell
September 10, 2012
Mike & Peggy, Sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Wendi Lee
September 10, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this very difficult time.
Nelljean Rice
September 10, 2012
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We will remember Michael and his love for golf. Peace be with all of you who loved him.
September 10, 2012
Lord God, source and destiny of our lives. In Your loving providence you gave us Michael to grow in Wisdom, Age, and Grace. Now you called Michael to yourself. We grieve over the loss of one so youngand struggle to understand your purpose. Draw him to yourself and give him full stature in Christ. May he stand with all the Angels and Saints, who know YOUR love and praise, your saving will. Amen
Brandy
September 10, 2012
May God bless you in this time of sorrow.
Shay Manuel
September 10, 2012
My deepest sympathies are with you. Be strong. Peace and blessings that you find comfort.
CCU Staff Member
September 10, 2012
Please know that you are all in the hearts and minds of all of the Coastal community. We will continue to pray for each of Michael's loved ones.
Kelly
September 10, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of your unimaginable loss. Your family is in my thoughts as you navigate these unwelcome waters. When I heard of Michael's passing, my first thoughts were to check with my own college freshman to ensure his safety. I cannot begin to imagine what your family is going through and I can only hope for some peace and a new normalcy to embrace you soon.
CCU Student
September 10, 2012
I'm sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers!
Faculty Member CCU
September 10, 2012
Just know that the CCU family is keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. I pray that you find peace at this very difficult time.
Nancy Burton - CCU staff member
September 10, 2012
Please know that we at CCU are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. May God send his angels to surround you and bring you comfort and peace during this most difficult time.
A Coastal friend
September 10, 2012
To describe the loss of such a promising student and rising star simply cannot be done. May you find peace in God's love and know your son is now one of His angels. I am so sorry.
CCU Junior
September 10, 2012
Although I did not get the pleasure of meeting Michael in person, my thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends at this time. As a member of the CCU community, we are deeply saddened of the loss of a fellow student. May he rest in peace.
Tasha
September 10, 2012
The entire community of Coastal Carolina is mourning the loss of Michael. He was a great student and athlete and all of hearts are saddened by his passing. Our prayers, thoughts, and deepest sympathies are with you as you remember his life and the joys he brought to your family. May you find peace in God's presence during this time.
Senior student at CCU
September 10, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. My sister and I both attend CCU and we did not know Michael, but we have been in grievance these past few days, as well as the entire CCU community. Many prayers for the Spade family.
Sandy Mishoe
September 10, 2012
I am sorry for your loss. May God be with you. Employee at Coastal.
Jim Zablosky
September 10, 2012
Mike and Peggy
I am so sorry for you loss. Please let all the great memories carry you through this time of sadness and you grieve. You have my deepest condolences and will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Shelly Rainier
September 10, 2012
I am so sorry for you loss. You are in many of our thoughts and prayers. Our hearts ache for you and your family.
Kelly Cook
September 10, 2012
As a parent of another freshman at CCU, my deepest sympathy goes out to your family at this time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family and friends. Prayers for strength and peace. My son had not met Michael, but he has been on our minds everyday. So very very sorry for your loss. May God ease your pain.
With much love,
The Cook & Massie family
Barbara Steinhart Jones
September 10, 2012
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
DIANNE LEBO-CAMPBELL
September 10, 2012
PRAYERS TO THE DELORSO FAMILY HES W/GOD NOW.
Frannie Conroy
September 10, 2012
I'm so sorry for your loss! Michael was a great kid! My deepest condolences to his family. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
a coastal PGM mother
September 10, 2012
My heart goes out to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Dear Lord, grant this family some sort of peace through all of this.
Sharon Abromitis
September 10, 2012
Prayers go out to family and friends ..so sorry for your loss
Haley Zink
September 9, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss, Michael was a great kid! We went to high school together, he could always make anybody laugh. He will never be forgotten. Thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends. Rest easy Mike
Cassidy Coveleski
September 9, 2012
I hadn't known Mikey the best, but I've had such a heavy heart hearing the news. It is so upsetting to lose the life of a loved one at such a young age. May God be your strength and comfort in this difficult time. My prayers go out to his family with lots of love.
Bethann Shaffer
September 9, 2012
I taught Michael during his 10th grade year at Shamokin Area. He was a pleasure to have in class. His beautiful eyes and smile, his charming personality, and his ability to always bring a smile to my face are what I will miss most. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Please know that in the short time he spent on this earth, he brought much happiness and joy to those around him. Thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Dee Orabona
September 9, 2012
Dearest Mike & Peggy, We are so sorry about your terrible loss. We pray that our God will comfort and help you during this extremely difficult time.
September 9, 2012
Mike and Peggy, I'm so sorry for your loss.
September 9, 2012
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with Mike's family at this time. The loss of one so young cuts deeply, especially as a new phase of life was about to take root. I will remember that smile of his, those persistent efforts to convince me of anything he especially wanted to happen at our school, and the image of this golfer who just treasured the game and its relaxation. You know how to reach me as you begin life with memories, not the person.
Dr. Diane C. Serafin
Danielle Wagner Koser
September 9, 2012
Mike, Peggy, and family~
My words cannot express to you how saddened I was to learn of the loss of your son. My heart goes out to all of you during this tragic time. My god shed light on you with your precious child as your guardian angel. My sincerest condolences.
September 9, 2012
Michael was a wonderful young man! I am thankful that I had the opportunity to get to know Michael in my daily activities as a teacher at Shamokin Area High School. Michael was kind, polite, and genuine. He never failed to greet me with a warm smile and a hello. I'm so sorry for the loss of such a beloved boy! Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this awful time!
Sincerely,
Suzanne Kerr and family
Professor at CCU
September 9, 2012
Even though I did not have the pleasure of meeting Michael in person, I was filled with great sadness when I heard about his untimely passing. May he rest in peace.
Cristen James
September 9, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss Mike and Peggy. It was such a pleasre getting to know Michael on a personal level and professional; teaching him through his senior year. He will never be forgotten. We are sending thoughts and prayers to you both! <3
Professor at CCU
September 9, 2012
God bless Michael, the newest member of our university family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and friends.
Dr. Debbie Conner
September 9, 2012
The Coastal Carolina University Community is broken over the loss of Michael. Thousands of prayers are raised up for your family and his dear friends.
Randy Smith
September 9, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss Mike and Peggy, may God watch over both of you in this time of healing.
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