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Mary E. "Butterfly" Rucker

1956 - 2020

Mary E. "Butterfly" Rucker obituary, 1956-2020, Maryland, VA

BORN

1956

DIED

2020

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Waynesboro, Virginia

Mary Rucker Obituary

Mary E. "Butterfly" (Randolph) Rucker

Maryland - Mary E. "Butterfly" (Randolph) Rucker of Bowie, Maryland was born on January 25, 1956, in Staunton, VA. She went home to glory on August 10, 2020 in Maryland. She was the only child born from the union of the late Crawford Houston Randolph and Lina Edna (Frye) Randolph.

She graduated from Wilson Memorial High School and retired from Diplomatic Security at the U.S. Department of State after 25 years of service.

She accepted Christ as her Lord and Savior at an early age and served at Mt. Marine Baptist Church faithfully.

Mary leaves to cherish her memory her devoted and loving husband, Dennis L. Rucker of 43 years; mother, Lina (Frye) Randolph; two Goddaughters, Demetra Davenport and Dominique Gaines; a host of cousins, other family and friends.

Out of an abundance of caution due to the Coronavirus outbreak, a public viewing will be held Friday, August 21, 2020 from 10:00-10:45 a.m., and a private family funeral service will be held after viewing at Mt. Marine Baptist Church. Burial will be in the church cemetery. Services will be streamed live on Mt. Marine Baptist Church website-https://mtmarine.org and relatives and friends may share condolences with the family and view complete obituary online by visiting www.mccutcheonandjonesfh.com Professional services provided by McCutcheon & Jones Funeral Home (540) 943-6938/(540) 886-2601.

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Published by The News Leader from Aug. 18 to Aug. 21, 2020.

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JOAN WILLIAMS

August 22, 2020

Dennis, may the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Mary Elizabeth was a remarkable person and always with a smile. She will truly be missed.

Crystal Reed

August 21, 2020

Mary Elizabeth and i were so close but so far away. I remember going to the Randolphs home for dinner with my mother the late Mrs. Olive Reed, and we had the best times. Mary Elizabeth was the best girl i ever met in my life and up to this day she never changed, always had a smile on her face and remained blessed. R.I.P. Mary Elizabeth, i love you forever

Carol Harris

August 21, 2020

Dear Dennis and Aunt Lina,
My deepest sympathies go out to both of you. I offer you my thoughts, prayers, love and well wishes to you. May God give you the peace that you seek. Mary is in Heaven rejoicing with our love ones and the Lord!
Love always
Carol Harris and Family

Aloysius C.

August 21, 2020

I came to know Denis recently and Mary was such a loving person. She was always so jovial and would speak with my granddaughter at length when my wife picked her up from the bus stop.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Denis and family at this difficult time.

Bitsy Unkle

August 20, 2020

I worked in Diplomatic Security, State Dept. for a no. of years. She was one of the sweetest, and most easygoing people you would ever meet. My heart goes out to Dennis and her whole family. We loved her dearly.

Joyce Alcorn

August 19, 2020

Mary (and Dennis) have been our neighbors for over 25 years. She had a smile as bright as the stars; she will be deeply missed. Sending prayers of peace and comfort for Dennis and the family.
The Alcorn Family - Anthony, Joyce, and Simone

Sam & Sandy Waters

August 19, 2020

Mary was an extraordinary woman and an awesome friend. We will always remember her as a very loving and caring person. We have so many fond memories that we will forever cherish.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Dennis and Ms. Randolph during this most difficult time. Please accept our deepest condolences and know that God loves you, he will strengthen you, restore your spirits, and give you peace.

Alcorn Family Alcorn

August 19, 2020

Dennis and Family,
Praying for your Peace and Comfort. Thank God for allowing us to meet Mary over 25 years ago as neighbors. Her smile was as bright as the shining stars . Now when we look in the sky at night, the brightest star is Mary.

Barbara Lee

August 19, 2020

I only knew Mary thru her mom and Dad and I am sending my condolences to the family.

Jaszmyn Gray

August 19, 2020

Sending prayers and love.

Linda Diggs

August 19, 2020

Mary was more like a sister to me than a friend. We used to called each other sis, because either one of us didn't have any sister. I am going to miss those long phone calls, and getting together when she would come in to see her mom. Heaven has definitely gained a beautiful Angel. I will always love you, Mary, and I know that we'll see each other again someday in that Beautiful and eternal Home!!

William and Pamela Woods

August 18, 2020

Thanking God for allowing Mary to be a part of our lives. We will always remember your beautiful smile and kindness. May it comfort the family to know you're in our thoughts and prayers now and in the days to come.

Mary Powell

August 18, 2020

Mary has been my friend for twenty + years. Her death was a great shock to us. To Dennis and Mother Randolph, our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you with peace and comfort during this difficult time.

MARY MEADOWS

August 18, 2020

Mary was a very close friend of mine during high school. We had some very good times in the classes we shared. She was always so friendly and helpful to anyone she met. I am saddened to hear of her passing, but I know God has just received a special Angel. Her Dad will be there waiting to take her by the hand once again. My prayers go out for her Mom and husband Dennis. A friend always, Mary Parrish Meadows.

sarah crenshaw

August 18, 2020

Mary I will always remember your beautiful smile and the friendship and fun me, you and Mary Robinson shared during our years in high school. You loved the Lord and he has now called you home with him and your dad. I pray continue strength and comfort to your mom and husband from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Deborah Teta

August 18, 2020

Mary was my friend and neighbor for 33+ years. She was our neighborhood greeter, watch, organizer, and leader. She was always smiling and loved life! She helped me through good times and bad. I will miss her zest for life. She loved the Redskins and was their VIP fan. Dennis and Mrs. Randolph, Thank you for sharing her with us. Prayers to all her family and friends. Deborah Teta and Blake Wimberly

Sandra Tram

August 18, 2020

Mary was an Angle on earth She was my best friend and Sister known her all my life her parents was my Godparent we shared every thing with each other we cried & laughed together , Mary and I would be on the phone for hours my heart hurts I will miss her dearly but I know she is with her daddy smiling ! My heart goes out to Lina, mom and Dennis they will need prays and support . Love and miss you my friend !

Mary Robinson

August 18, 2020

God has received another perfect angel. I'm sure her Dad is waiting to welcome her through those pearly gates. Mary and I were friends for so long. I still cannot bring myself to believe she's gone. Although she's no longer with us, we all have the memories to share of her. May God comfort Dennis, her Mom and the rest of her family during these times and see them through the long hard days that lie ahead. My thoughts and prayers will be with the entire family.

Mamie Williams

August 15, 2020

Dennis and Family
We share in your loss. Lifting you and Family in prayer. Praying for peace and comfort.
Michael and Mamie Williams

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