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Danny LaValley
Yesterday
My heart goes out for Charlotte and the Perry family. I met Denver in 1976 in Lakeview. He was a good friend, great family man,and just a great person. In the 90's, I got a position at UAF Facilities Services, thanks to the recommendation from Denver. He will be dearly missed and never forgotten.
Kelly Houlton
Yesterday
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you with comfort and peace.

Your loving Sister
November 20, 2025




DeLisa Froland Newstrom
November 20, 2025
I Was Wrong
I was wrong...
I didn´t want to walk into the cold and the night.
I wanted to stay in the warmth and sunshine-
to feel the sand beneath my body,
to smell the sea in the air,
to let the sun thaw my soul.
He was supposed to be there with me-beside me.
We had planned to share that earthly paradise
at least one more time before time ran out.
I didn´t want to leave.
I thought, if I just stay here, he will come here.
But that was not to happen.
I had to set my grief aside and prepare to leave.
I had to walk into the cold and the night,
no matter how unprepared I was.
For months, my mind had been flooded
with memories of our childhood-
memories that had sustained me
through difficult times in my life.
But I wanted to live out our visions for the future-
the plans and hopes we shared
of being neighbors in paradise,
drifting with the turtles in the ocean,
barbecues, drinks on the lanai,
days on the beach-and joy, unadulterated joy.
My brother is the funniest person I know.
I can´t remember a time
when we were together that we didn´t laugh out loud. A lot!
Yet I knew this was his path,
and I was honored to walk it with him.
I am blessed to be by his side-
I am blessed for lifetime of friendship that we share.
and I am blessed to be here when he crosses over.
I will be forever blessed for knowing him.
So I reminded myself to rejoice-
for this chance, this precious opportunity
to be with and hold my sweet, loving brother
while he was still here,
on this side of heaven.
So I made the journey home.
It was like walking through quicksand-
with every step forward,
I felt myself sink deeper into the earth.
Weighted and heavy, I continued on.
I was wrong...
It was night and cold when we arrived in Fairbanks,
the heart of my childhood memories.
I was exhausted and numb-completely dialed way down.
I didn´t want to put one foot in front of the other.
I didn´t want my brother to die.
I just wanted it all to be different.
I wanted us to have another twenty years-
to keep living our lives,
enjoying our friendship,
and laughing until it hurt.
I was wrong...
I had fallen asleep next to my brother that night.
I slept all night holding his hand.
I woke the next morning to a sky full of snow,
yet the sky only allowed fairy-sized snowflakes to fall-
to a frozen ground barely dusted,
still showing the memory of summer,
as blades of green peeked through the frost.
There was an odd kind of light that surrounded the house
as I looked out the window-
a soft, quiet glow
that seemed to envelop the whole world.
Strange, but very familiar-comforting and known.
I was wrong...
I had forgotten how wonderful and cozy
this time of year in Fairbanks could be.
I felt a peace wash over me.
I was exactly where I was supposed to be-
and so was my brother.
I no longer felt weighted down.
The dread of cold and night had passed.
The sadness was still there,
but I knew we were surrounded by an unexplainable light-
a soft, quiet glow
that brought peace and comfort.
I was wrong...
My family fills my brother´s house as I write this,
and so do a legion of angels.
I know it. I feel it.
My brother is safe.
My brother is loved.
My brother will be welcomed home with open arms.
He is just a man-
he suffered from humanity, as we all do.
He is not perfect,
but he is loving,
he is kind,
and he laid down his life for me everyday of my growing years. He always covered me and protected me. I wanted for nothing.
The Word says there is no greater love than this.
My brother is a remarkable man-
a husband, a father, a friend, and a brother.
I love you Brother, and I would walk into the cold and the night for you everytime.
Marilyn Accola
November 20, 2025
Sorry for your loss
Rusty and Debbie Stith
November 20, 2025
Denver and Charlotte were one of the best neighbors and friend. We had many good times sitting in our sun room visiting. We will have many good and cherished memories of our time at the Taklanika river property with your family. Will miss him dearly.
Clinton Snyder
November 20, 2025
A good man gone to early. My deepest heart felt condolences to Charlotte ,Moses and Kyle. Denver always had the time to teach and instill in me a great sense of pride in my own work during the many years I got to work along side him. Thanks Denver
Corinne
November 20, 2025
Denver was such a kind man and pillar of the family. I send my love to all of you as you heal. I will always remember Denver and Charlotte's love. I think of them fondly as folks who loved me through a hard time.
Michael McGhie
November 20, 2025
I went to school with Denver and we were friends. Of course, we get older, and all go different ways. I lost touch with Denver but always had great fun when I saw him. I wish that I had stayed more in touch with me boyhood friends. He was a great guy, obviously turning into a great man. He has left his mark on this world. God Bless you Denver, I will see you again.
Karen smock warren
November 19, 2025
I send prayers and love for Charlotte and family
Calais
November 19, 2025
I love you uncle denny!!! Forever
Mary Hudler
November 19, 2025
Sending love and prayers to you all. Words can not express how deeply sad I was to hear of Denny´s passing. Hugs to you all. Love from the Perry family. N
Owen
November 19, 2025
So long for now Denver. I'm sure we'll meet again some day in God's house in heaven. Thanks also Den for making me so welcomed in your home near Fairbanks in 2004. It was a joyful two weeks filled with family and friends and full
of good memories that have lasted a lifetime. Heartfelt condolences to Charlotte, Moses, Kyle and all the Perry family and friends who are greatly missing their huggy-bear Denver.
Paul & Betty Rodgers
November 19, 2025
We are so sorry for your, he was one of the good guys
Mare Leuer
November 19, 2025
I too lived in Fairbanks, and grew up in Lakeview till May 1974, then moved to Chugiak when our dad was transferred to Ft. Richardson. Denver was in several of my grades and we shared teachers; remembering our 6th grade teacher, Mr Milles at Hunter Elementary. He made us square dance partners in the gym and he tripped over his own feet, which made us chuckle. He was fun to be around. My sisters (Deborah & Vivian) knew his sister, whom we called 'Lisa'. We were from the Vernon & Dorothy Hunter family (sp 601, Lakeview). I drive out to Lakeview now and again as I have family buried in FBKs, it looks nothing like the 60s now! :( It was a fun place to grow up! Prayers for healing in your time of sorrow. Mareldine (Hunter) Leuer in Anchorage
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