Juanita Lou (Lauesen) Helms passed away Nov. 7, 2009, in Fairbanks. She lived most of her life in Interior Alaska, where she loved the long summer days, the community and being surrounded by her family and friends.
Juanita was born in Chicago on Aug. 3, 1941. She was the daughter of Ella C. Boudry Lauesen and Elstun Wilbur "Bud" Lauesen. Her father, Bud, came to Alaska with the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers and was joined by his family in 1951, arriving by steamship at the Port of Whittier and settling in the Government Hill section of Anchorage. Juanita's mother was an enrolled member of the Lac du Flambeau Tribe of Chippewa and her father, Bud, was the son of a Danish father and Cherokee mother.
Juanita was the fifth of six children born to Ella. Four of her siblings ventured to Alaska and remained here: Raymond, Linda, Juanita and Elstun II. Juanita's two eldest sisters, Alice and Mabel, remained in the Lower 48 with their young families.
After about a year in Anchorage, the family moved to Mount McKinley Park, where Juanita's father became the managing partner for the McKinley Park Hotel Corp. They spent two magical years living in the McKinley Hotel, which Juanita remembered with special fondness. In 1954, the family relocated to Fairbanks and North Pole where Juanita's father was assigned as a civil engineer at Eielson Air Force Base.
As a young woman, Juanita demonstrated an aptitude for dance and became a student and then instructor in all kinds of dance including freestyle, jazz and ballroom dance. Juanita's longtime friends remember her love of Hawaiian culture, especially hula dancing, which she performed with the grace of a Native Hawaiian.
In the 1960s, she met her life mate, Orville R. "Sam" Helms, a brash young construction worker who, while he did not dance, nonetheless swept her off her feet. They were married for 47 years "… until death did they part."
Sam and Juanita are parents to four children: Fawn, Selene, Ren and Karisse. Juanita's devotion to her children is reflected in their love and devotion to her. Juanita was a powerful moral force in the life of her family in the same way that her mother, Ella, influenced her. She was consistently committed every day to do "the right thing"; her only shortcoming in life might have been a lack of fuller appreciation of her own gifts and talents.
Juanita was not only a devoted wife and mother; she was a devoted citizen. She volunteered throughout her entire life as a member or leader of countless organizations and committees and was a regular presence in her children's and grandchildren's schools. Juanita was especially passionate about her work with the Sister City organization and led multiple delegations to the emerging Russian Republic. Juanita and Sam became well-loved personalities to many Russian leaders.
Juanita had fond memories of her time as a carhop at Bill's Drive-In and her years as in-court clerk for Judge Rabinowitz during his time in Superior Court. To her family's great surprise, in the late 1970s, Juanita decided to begin a life of politics. In many ways, Juanita was an ideal candidate. She was honest, fair and had an admirable ability to separate issues from personalities. She genuinely respected differences of opinion and input of people from all different backgrounds, and she truly wanted to serve. Juanita's political career spanned a decade and carried her from Borough Assembly to two terms as our borough mayor, inspiring many along the way.
One of the greatest joys of her life was her role as a loving, committed grandmother who faithfully attended events, however small, no matter her state of health: hundreds of books read, projects sewn, rides given, songs sung, diapers changed, hot meals cooked and puzzles solved. As mediator and calm compassionate voice, she was the constant that brought, and held, the family together. It was having her children and grandchildren near that nourished her, especially throughout the years of her illness.
She is survived by her husband, Orville "Sam" Helms; sister, Linda Brechan; and brother, Elstun W. Lauesen; her children, Fawn Jelinek, Selene Forrestall, Ren Helms and Karisse Ackerman; her sons-in-law, Kevin Jelinek, Geoffrey Ackerman and Francis Forrestall; the apples of her eye, her grandchildren Lucas Connor, Heather Norman, Kieran Duffy, Jacob Shilling, Dylan Nixon-Helms, Grant Ackerman, Owen Ackerman and Lilyanne Ella Jelinek.
Her parents; brother, Raymond Lauesen; and two sisters, Alice Wilson and Mabel Wayman preceded her in death.
The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to a local charity.
A celebration of life will be announced at a later date.
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November 17, 2009
Sam - We just returned from out of town. So sorry for your loss.
Avan and Beverly Brees
Lucas
November 15, 2009
I am so sorry for the lost of your dear loved one. It's comforting to know that God cares for all of us and losing a loved one is something we cannot get used to. The Bible gives us hope that one day we can see our dear loved one again. On behalf of all mankind Jesus surrender his soul for many. John 15:13 says “No one has love greater than this, that someone should surrender his soul on behalf of his friends.” Truly I am sorry to hear of the loss of your dear loved one and I hope these few words will bring you comfort and hope.
Suli & Thom Nee
November 11, 2009
We're temporarily in Tucson and learned the news of Juanita's passing via a loving email sent out by Helen Brown. We send our condolences to all who had the joy of knowing Juanita, with a special note to our dear old friend, Butch (Elston II).
Martha & Howard Harrell
November 10, 2009
Dear Sam, Children and grandchildren,
we are so sorry for the lost of Juanita. I had just moved to Fairbanks and was working at the Borough, when she ran for mayor the first time. She was one person I could talk too. She helped me several times along the way. I will miss her. Howard also worked for her when he retired from the Army, and had a very good relationship with her.
Carol Buzby/Bailey
November 9, 2009
Juanita was my closest and best friend during all our years of high school. We did everything together; skated in the winter carnivals,rode in all the parades, worked at the fairs and had lots of fun with her big sister's little car! Our favorite food was tuna sandwiches and french fries! I am so thankful that I got to visit with you Sam and Juanita when I was in Fairbanks several years back. We had lots of laughs and tears! Juanita, my dear sister in Christ, you will be greatly missed. My prayers to you Sam and the family. Juanita's smile and laugh touched so many hearts, especially mine!
John and Karen
November 9, 2009
Thank you for blessing us with your presence. Thru the generations whose lives you have touched, you shall always be alive in the Golden Heart City.
Richard Robinson
November 8, 2009
Sorry to hear of Juanitas passing. She was a great lady.
Jim Immel
November 8, 2009
To Sam and Family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Juanita did so many things in her life but I remember most her time on the Assembly. She always took time to listen and showed so much respect to any citizen who testified even though she may not agree with them. I will miss her.
November 8, 2009
Sam and family-
I am so glad that I got to see you, Sam, and Juanita when I was in Fairbanks summer before last. She was one of my best friends and I will miss her. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sheri (Strickland) Stephens
Janet Lee Kelly
November 8, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
November 8, 2009
Sam and Family,
Juanita was a bright and truely friendly person. I am so glad I was able to see her this summer at our 50th class reunion,
She did so many positive things in her life, that most can only dreams of.
I know she will be missed by everyone she knew.
Jack Hillman
Classmate of the class of 1959
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