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Nathan Addison Gray

Nathan Gray Obituary

Heaven welcomed another beloved soul on Saturday, May 9, 2009, when our dear husband, father, son, brother and friend Nathan Addison Gray died tragically in a motorcycle wreck.

Nathan was born June 14, 1980, in Cleveland to Timothy and Terri Gray. He lived there for the first six years of his life, and in 1986, he moved with his family to Fairbanks.

The Gray family lived at 16 Mile Chena Hot Springs Road, and this is the home where Nathan and his siblings Deven, Ruthann and Ryan spent their childhood. Raising sled dogs and horses, snowmachining and playing in the woods were some of their favorite pastimes. Nathan and his family were members of Bible Baptist Church, and this is the church where Nathan grew up, was saved, was educated and served the Lord.

Nathan played baseball and basketball, and his love for sports eventually led him to Nenana where he met the love of his life, Annie. They had their first child, Kaitlyn Rose, in 1999, and in 2002, they were married at Bible Baptist Church. Nathan and Annie welcomed their second child, Regan Elizabeth, in 2003 followed by their two sons, David Aaron, born in 2005, and Ethan James, born in 2008. Family was everything to Nathan, and he loved nothing more than his wife and children.

Nathan was a staff sergeant in the Alaska Air National Guard at Eielson Air Force Base, where he worked as an administrative assistant for the Commander Support Staff of the 168th Aircraft Maintenance Squadron. Nathan loved working in the Guard and acquired many friends during the eight years he was there. While serving in the military, he was able to travel to Guam, Norway, England and Qatar.

Some of Nathan's favorite things included going to church, dating his wife, playing and wrestling with his kids and being surrounded by people he loved. Nathan had a passion for motorcycles. This passion was shared by his father, Tim; his brother, Ryan; and many of his close friends.

He faced one of the biggest trials of his life when his father passed away in the summer of 2008. After that, he took on the responsibility of being the head of the Gray family and caring for his mother. Nathan will be remembered as an outgoing, loving person who made friends wherever he went. He knew the value of living each day to the fullest, not taking for granted the time God gave him and though we mourn the loss of Nathan here on Earth, we rejoice in the promise that we will see him again in heaven. 

Nathan was preceded in death by his father, Timothy A. Gray; and nephew, Cameron L. Gray.

Nathan is survived by his wife, Ann K. Gray; mother, Terri L. Gray; daughters, Kaitlyn R. Gray and Regan E. Gray; sons, David A. Gray and Ethan J. Gray; sisters, Deven K. Whorley and Ruthann Gray; brother, Ryan F. Gray; nephews, Austin M. Burleson, Tristan C. Duran, Xander A. Duran, Tre' M. Aguilar, Killian F. Gray, Martin R. Frankson, Raymond J. Vance and Blake T. Gray; nieces, Whitney A. Parzick and Ashlynn F. Macchione; fathers-in-law, James S. Allen and Roy J. Vance; mother-in-law, Rosemary G. Allen; brother-in-law, Kevin G. Vance; sisters-in-law, Laura Vance and Emily A. Vance; honorary aunt, Traci Boschert; honorary brother, Dominic J. Macchione; honorary sister, Laila E. Fullford; and many other loving relatives and friends.

A funeral will be held at 3 p.m., Thursday, May 21, at Bible Baptist Church with Pastor Douglas Duffett officiating. Burial will follow at Northern Lights Memorial Park and a reception will follow at the Westmark Hotel at 5 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Nathan A. Gray Memorial Fund at Wells Fargo.

Arrangements were by Chapel of Chimes Funeral Home.

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Published by Daily News-Miner on May 17, 2009.

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Terri Taylor

May 28, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

May 26, 2009

Knowing that God always has a bigger plan, God has an AWESOME plan for Nathan.

Frank and Kim Bodiker

May 21, 2009

Nathan, our loss is truly Heavens gain. You will be missed but know that your family is surrounded by those that love them. Your caring ways and dedication to your family is an encouragement and testimony to all those who had the privilege of knowing you. See you up there. To the Gray Family, you will continue to be in our prays. We love you all!

TSgt Dawn Boyer

May 21, 2009

Nathan

You touched the hearts and souls of so many. You will be remembered with great fondness by all who knew you.

Melody Pernell

May 21, 2009

Well, I suppose, like most everyone, the one thing I'll never forget about Nathan was his smile. Rarely did you see him without it! And the times he DID get mad or upset, he was always the one to reconcile. You couldn't stay mad at him for long, that's for sure!
Annie, you were a wonderful wife for Nathan, and a great mom to his kids. I hope we can always be friends.
Ruthann, Deven, Ryan, and Mrs. Gray, you're in my thoughts and prayers. Yours is a close family, and I know it's rough. About the Lord: If you seek Him, you will find Him, and He will be your comfort and your strength.

Lorri Heneveld

May 20, 2009

Nathan,

I didn't know you well, but you were always there when I needed help with a project at work. I sang a song for you today, and I will attend your memorial service tomorrow. Rest in peace, my friend. We miss you and love you.

Your fellow Admin troop,
MSgt Lorri Heneveld
168 ARW, AKANG

Jeff Bartley

May 20, 2009

Hello my friend, I just heard the news it caught me by surprise I must say. I say that because I didn't think that a MAN in every sense of the word could leave this world so soon. I remember when I met you and Jay it was incredible 2 guys who wanted to do what I did play basketball and enjoy life!! I only lived in the Banks for a short time but I never forgot you and always wanted the best for you and Annie! There is such thing as goodbye so I will catch up with you later!!

Ruthann Gray

May 19, 2009

Hey Big Brother...I love and miss you so much already! Im so jealous of you that you got to see Dad and Cameron before me. Life will never be the same without you! Give Dad and Cameron the biggest hug you can for me and tell them I love them and will see them soon! Just want you to know that your family will be takin care of and you have nothin to worry bout. I see you in your kids so much. You have the most beautiful family in the world and the strongest wife anyone could ever imagine! I love you so much...this is not goodbye cause I know I will see you again someday!! Til then Big Bro! Love Always and you are Forever in My heart!!
Your lil Sis,
Ruthann

Dan "Shrek" & Gena Lescault

May 18, 2009

I only met Nathan a few short times but Dan, my husband worked with him in the Guard and at Fred Meyers for a short time. They loved to talk and play Call of Duty together once in awhile. Nathan and Dan spent Friday (the day the Lord called him home) picking out Mother's Day cards and having lunch together. Dan will always treasure his friendship and memories of Nathan. R1Racer, you will never be forgotten!! Our prayers and hearts go out to the Gray Family!

Jennifer McCormick

May 18, 2009

Nathan, Thank you for being my husbands best friend. You will never be replaced and always be cherished. I will miss our double dates, Nick and I will be there for Annie and your beautiful children.

Emily Vance

May 18, 2009

Yo bro - I will miss you!!! I love you - and give Cameron a huge hug from me. Tell your dad he is missed and loved. Nothing will be the same without you around and i miss you already!!! See you again!!

Wendy Cloyd

May 18, 2009

There truly are not words for this time, but my wish for you all is that moment by moment you are bathed in heavenly balm by the angels that are compassed about. You are in my continual prayers.

Damon and Cindy Willford

May 17, 2009

Annie, you and your entire family are in our prayers daily, if not hourly. You are an amazing person Annie. What a wondeful testimony you are to those around you. God Bless The Willford Family

Deven Gray

May 17, 2009

Words cannot express how much I miss you little brother. And even though our hearts are hurting right now I know that God doesn't make mistakes. I am so glad that I can still see you in the faces of your children. It must have been amazing to see Dad and Cameron again. I know you will be looking down from time to time and I'll be looking up, cause I know this is not goodbye.

Love your big sis,

Deven

Lance Jennings

May 17, 2009

The measure of one's life is not duration, rather it is donation. Nathan by all accounts exemplified this in his life.

Angelic Cheers & Alleuia's resound to ultimately drown sadness, grieving, loss.

My personal condolences together with staff

Ch, Lt Col Lance Jennings
168 ARW
Wing chaplain
Eielson AFB, AK

CMSgt Jerry Hanson

May 17, 2009

Nathan was always a positive, upbeat young man, always smiling and a pleasure to visit with and to be around. He will be missed!

Michael & Danielle Burleson

May 17, 2009

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

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