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Perri Carlson Obituary

Perri Carlson, nee Patricia Colleen Parr, passed away peacefully in her home at Raven Landing on Aug. 26, 2015, at age 67.
She was born June 6, 1948, in Vienna, Austria, to Charles H. Parr and Eloise Perdue Parr. She came into a family with twin 2-year-old boys, Charlie and Chipper.
About the time she came to Alaska with family in 1961, she insisted on being called "Perri" instead of "Patsy" as she had been known until then.
Her determination, insistence and persistence eventually got the whole family to comply and she has been Perri to all since then.
Perri attended Main Junior High School and graduated from Lathrop High School in 1966.
In 1969, she married Vern Carlson, and they had two children, Sonja Diane and Charles Vernon Carlson III, known as Bjorn. Sonja died unexpectedly young in 2008, leaving behind her husband, John Quebbemann, and daughter Kalina, of Fairbanks. Bjorn and his wife Baylie (Gray) and their children, Freyja and Ogden, moved to Virginia in early August of this year.
Perri worked with Vern in establishing and running his business as a State Farm agent. She also returned to school, earning a degree in early childhood development from the University of Alaska Fairbanks.
Perri was predeceased by her biological mother, her father and her daughter.
She is survived by her husband, Vern, of Chicago; her mother, Karen Parr, of Fairbanks; her son, Bjorn, and his wife, Bailey, and their children; her son-in-law, John Quebbemann, and granddaughter Kalina, of Fairbanks; her brother, Charlie, of Fairbanks, and his wife, Marilyn Biagi; brother Chipper and his wife, Sandy, of Juneau; and sister Maria Sample and her husband, Roger, of Charleston, South Carolina.
She also is survived by a niece and nephew she helped raise, Chrissy McHugh, of Seattle, and Jason Parr, of Vashon, Washington. Other nieces and nephews include Charlie Parr, of Fairbanks, Elizabeth Parr, of Seattle, Jesse Parr, of Juneau, Suzanne Morris, of Juneau, and Kari Stevens, of Phoenix.
Perri touched the lives of many with her kindness, generosity, and love. She will be greatly missed by all of us.
Her family invites you to join them in a celebration of her life beginning at 3 p.m. Sunday, Aug. 30, at the Raven Landing Community Center. For information, please call 374-9085.
Please visit www.legacy.com/obituaries/newsminer to sign an online guest book.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily News-Miner on Aug. 29, 2015.

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Randi Helton-Kile

August 23, 2023

Perri and Vern Carlson were both long term friends. My husband, Wayne Kile (deceased) and I were married in their home. Vern officiated. It was always lovely to run into Perri at Fred Meyers. She usually had her granddaughter with her. Perri would always take the time to catch up with me regarding life and family. She had a calming and loving presence. Her passing was a loss to her entire family and the Fairbanks community. Randi Helton-Kile

Randi Kile

August 23, 2020

I still miss Perri. I always remember sharing with her, maybe it was just a quick talk as she walked through Fred Meyer with her beloved granddaughter. I always felt a lift after a talk with her. I'm the same age now as she was and I say again, she was gone too soon. My love and prayers to the family she left behind. Love Randi Kile

Eunice Fowler

September 5, 2015

So sorry to hear of Perri's passing. She was a true friend of many years and working with her in various ways in the Fairbanks community was always a pleasure. Her love of her family was amazing. She was a gracious hostess and always willing to help those in need, especially young people. Condolences to the Carlson and Parr families and Perri's beloved grandchildren. Rest in peace.

Ray Martinez

September 4, 2015

To Karen, our former long term neighbor, please accept our sincerest condolences for your loss.

Karen Swerman

September 2, 2015

So sad to hear of Perri's passing. Will remember her kindness and sweet smile.
Karen Swerman

nansi and mike norum

September 1, 2015

karen, john and kalina,
condolences to each of you and your family. may perri be resting in peace.
blessings

September 1, 2015

Dearest Karen and family, Our prayers go out to all of you at this time of your deep sadness. May God's love give you peace and comfort.
Our thoughts are with you.
Love from Jo and Dick Scott
Manhattan, NY

Randi Kile

September 1, 2015

I'm sorry for your loss Vern and family. Perri was always wonderful to talk to. She had a beautiful outlook on life, seeing the upside of everything. Love Wayne and Randi

Mitch Miller

September 1, 2015

My thoughts and prayers for the family. She and Erin are together.

September 1, 2015

I learned of Perri's passing yesterday through an old friend. I'm sad to hear of this loss, but will hold to the memories of her gracious spirit. I'm forever grateful for the time Perri and the entire Carlson family took me in during my senior year in high school. Hold to memories for they are truly precious in times like these.
DeNina (Brannam) Scott

Debra Simonar

August 31, 2015

My condolences to Perri family. I have known Perri for 7 years. She was a very kind hearted and sweet person. She so loved her family & always talked about her Grandchildren when I would see her. She will be deeply missed.
Sorry I am late with this but I just got back from being out of state.
Debbie Simonar

Good Times. We love you Perri

Emily Proper

August 31, 2015

Julia storm

August 30, 2015

This woman was one of the sweetest people I have ever worked for and with! She gave me a job when I needed it and treated me like family! I will always miss her! My family sends our prayers all the way from Alabama!

Julia Storm

Gladyce Lofthus and Michelle & Dave Proper

August 30, 2015

Perri was my favorite mom of a friend and I'm sure others feel the same way. Such a generous person who gave her time, talents and friendship freely. We will miss her much. Our love to the Carlsons, the Parrs and the Quebbemanns.

August 30, 2015

Thank you, Perri, for my 2014 Christmas present from you: "Where you place your Will, There you Will Achieve" Thank you to your family for making me welcome! Blessings!

Laura Saunders

August 30, 2015

Very sorry for your family's loss, Vern. I knew Perri years ago when she showed dogs...Great Pryrenees, if I recall. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Cindy Hardy

August 29, 2015

So sorry to hear this. Our lives touched in all the little ways lives touch in Fairbanks--not close friends, but always a presence in the community. Condolences to Karen, Vern, and all the Parr and Carlson family.

mark mead

August 29, 2015

So sorry to read about Perri. Nothing I can write will take the hurt away but I want you to know I am thinking about you.

Bonnie Navin

August 29, 2015

I was so shocked, and terribly saddened, by the news of Perri's passing. My love and wishes for peace and strength to Karen, Chip, Charlie and Bjorn...and to all who shared with and loved her.

Jim and Connie Bradbury

August 29, 2015

It is with great sadness when we read of Perri's passing. We enjoyed many good State Farm trips together. She will be missed by many.

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