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Benjamin Hager Obituary
July 13, 2002 - January 19, 2019
Charlotte
Benjamin Joseph Hager, 16, of Charlotte, died unexpectedly on January 19, 2019. He was born July 13, 2002 in Atlanta, the son of Scott and Lori Hager. He attended Myers Park High School where he was enrolled in the International Baccalaureate program and a Varsity Athlete on the MPHS Swim Team. Benjamin also swam for SwimMAC Carolina where he was one of their top-ranking swimmers.
Benjamin is survived by his parents, Scott and Lori Hager, brothers, Thomas and William Hager; maternal grandparents, Carol and Jerry Lynn and paternal grandparents, Linda and Frank Hager; aunts and uncles, Linda and Jeffrey Johnson, Thomas and Karen Lynn, Mark and Holly Hager; and his beloved dog, Pepper.
A service to celebrate Benjamin's life will be held at 10:00 AM on Thursday, January 24, 2019 at Myers Park Presbyterian Church, 2501 Oxford Place, Charlotte, NC.
Donations are being accepted by Myers Park Presbyterian for the creation of a scholarship fund to provide young swimmers the chance to pursue their passion of swimming in college.
Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, Charlotte, NC 28204; . Online condolences can be shared at www.ken nethpoeservices.com
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Ed Cullen
January 26, 2019
We miss you Ben. Hard to believe a week has gone by since you left us. Your teammates and friends mourn your loss. Your love of competition and swimming is missed every day. We will continue to compete and race for you this season and beyond. You forever touched our hearts and we will make you proud!
Kimi Davidson
January 26, 2019
Benjamin had an incredible attitude, amazing sense of humor, and was a tremendous leader among his teammates. I enjoyed coaching him at SwimMAC, and will always remember how hard he worked, but even more, how nice he was. I send love and prayers to Benjamins family, and everyone who knew him.
ann marie smith
January 25, 2019
Please accept my condolences. I just heard today and am so heartbroken. Scott, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
ann marie smith
Ferguson Charlotte.
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January 25, 2019
Ben was an amazing friend and teammate. His kindness and compassion for others was truly to be admired. He was one of the most hardworking, passionate, friendly guys I have ever met. My deepest condolences go out to the entire Hager Family. SwimMAC has lost one of its brightest and most vibrant athletes. Although Ben can't be with us in the pool anymore, he will surely not be forgotten.
Theresa Keisler
January 24, 2019
It was such a beautiful service today for an exceptional young man. Ben will be deeply missed. He has left an undeniably positive mark on this world in such a short time. His loss will continue to be deeply felt within the swim community. Our thoughts & prayers are with your family as you grieve this profound loss. May you feel Gods presence & His loving arms surrounding you at this unimaginably difficult time.
The Keisler family
January 24, 2019
I have just heard this news and I am heartbroken for your family. "The righteous cry out and the Lord hears them
January 24, 2019
I have just heard the news and I am heartbroken for your family.
"The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them;
he delivers them from all their troubles.
18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
I will keep you in my prayers.
Robin Hazen
Ferguson Enterprises
Kimberly Owens
January 24, 2019
It is my deepest hope that with the passage of time and the recollection of fond memories, this pain you bear will ease. My boys are all in IB at MPHS, and they spoke well of your son. Your family will be in my thoughts.
Christina Girouard
January 24, 2019
I have no words to express how incredibly sorry I am for the loss of your dear sweet son, Ben. My heart breaks for your family. I feel blessed that I got to share a small part of his life as his teacher. I will forever remember his smiling face and cheerful personality. Sending prayers and a huge hug!
Anon
January 23, 2019
Ben- you were one of the kindest and nicest people I have ever met. You asked so many questions and were so inquisitive. You will be dearly missed by all at Myers Park.
January 23, 2019
When our loved ones falls asleep in death, the memories we have of them become our treasure. May these cherished memories of your loved one bring you a measure of comfort. God's promise at John 6:40 also gives us peace of mind.
FML
January 23, 2019
Words fall short of expressing my sorrow for your loss. As the coach of Weddington swim team many have shared what an amazing teammate, friend and athlete Ben was to all. I pray for comfort for your family in your time of overwhelming grief.
P. Holley
January 23, 2019
As a member of the Myers Park swim family, we will all miss him. Our team, nor the world, will truly be complete without him.
Brent Weir
January 23, 2019
Scott nothing I could ever say could express my families sadness for your loss. We just want you to know, you and your family are being lift in our prayers daily!
Amanda Lanier
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January 23, 2019
Please know there are so many people in the SwimMac Family who are thinking of you all and praying for strength and peace in the coming days. May you continue to be surrounded by family and friends to lean on and the wonderful memories of Ben you hold close.
Wendy Patterson (SwimMac/Senior 3/Mom)
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January 23, 2019
My deepest sympathy to the family for the loss of your loved one. May you find comfort in knowing the promises of our loving and caring God and his son Jesus Christ. Jn.5:28-29.
Martha Hocutt
January 23, 2019
May memories of Ben and the love of family and friends surround you all and give you strength in the days ahead. We pray that memories of Ben's smile and laughter fill your house and warm your hearts in the days ahead.
January 23, 2019
Your family is wrapped in prayer an love.
The Harding Family - Jeff, Melissa, Lauren, Mason
Michelle Bednar
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Jones Family
January 23, 2019
Our sincere condolences for your loss. It is so heartbreaking to experience such pain, so we pray that you will find comfort from your many fond memories.
Lenda &Marion Jablonski
January 23, 2019
We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Lenda & Marion Jablonski (Dataw)
Keith Willing
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Tony & Missie Reed
January 22, 2019
Our hearts are deeply saddened to hear of your tremendous loss. Our prayers are with each and every one of you during this most difficult time.
Jack Chen
January 22, 2019
It's sad to hear this tragedy. My son Lucas in D3 will definitely give William a hug Wednesday. Life is short, but love forever. Prayers to your family!
Pamela
January 22, 2019
When someone we love falls asleep in death the memories we have of them become our treasure, may those cherished memories of a life well lived and Gods promise at John 6:40 bring you a measure of comfort. My condolences to the family.
Casey Wilson
January 22, 2019
We are so sorry for your loss. Our daughter was in physics this past semester with Benjamin, and this news hits very close to home. We can't imagine the pain you are going through, and hope you are able to find some comfort in the times you had together. Deepest sympathy sent your way.
Clay & Martha Rogers
January 22, 2019
We are so deeply sorry for your tremendous loss. Your entire family is in our prayers. God bless you all.
a loved one
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Nagle
January 22, 2019
Our deepest condolences Lori & Scott. May the wonderful memories of Benjamin and the love of your family and friends surround you during this difficult time.
Thomas Janice Sagedy
January 22, 2019
No words can express our sadness for your loss.No words will heal the pain.Know you are in our prayers.Such a wonderful young man.Bless you.
Me'Sean Brack
January 22, 2019
My prayers are with your family for God to watch over you in your time of need.
Me'sean Brack
Swimmac Family North
Robert Folk
January 22, 2019
My sincere condolences to the Hager family. Ben is remembered and lifted up in body and spirit by all in our school community.
January 22, 2019
Expressing my deepest sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. May you find comfort in knowing that God is near to the brokenhearted. I pray that God will raise you up during this time. - S. Watkins (Columbia, SC)
a loved one
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Lib Parkin
January 22, 2019
With love to Benjamin's entire family,
Lib Parkin
Lisa Vazquez
January 22, 2019
Our deepest sympathy...sending prayers and love to your family.
Elaine Powell
January 22, 2019
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Sharon Watters Fuller
January 22, 2019
Prayers lifted for your entire family. Sadness and grief beyond words, so incredibly sorry.
DAVID and LAURA ONEILL
January 22, 2019
Prayers for your family
January 22, 2019
Rest in heaven
January 22, 2019
My deepest sympath for you all.
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