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1950
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2025
Deborah Brogden Obituary
Deborah is preceded in death by her parents, Ann and Joseph Gary, Jr. and her husband, Blackwell Brogden. She is survived by two daughters, Meredith (Brad) Reed and Heather Brooks (Chris Parton); 7 grandchildren, Graham, William, Anna, James, Ailsa, Miles and Connor; and her sister, Pam (Bob) Skillman, and brother Joseph Gary, III.
A celebration of life will be held November 1 at 2 p.m. at Pullen Baptist Memorial, 1801 Hillsborough St, Raleigh, NC 27605. And it will be live streamed on the church's website: Pullen.org.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Pullen Baptist Memorial. Pullen.org/give.
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for Deborah Brogden
Carrie Blattel
December 10, 2025
I'm so lucky to have spent time with Deborah in Durham! My young daughter Camille and I met Deborah by chance at Cocoa Cinnamon a couple years ago. Ever since, we'd get together for crafts or story time or other after school activities. I'm so glad she was able to join my family and friends at Belmont Park for an Easter potluck earlier this year. I only just saw the news of Deborah's passing in the WHHNA newsletter. I'm sorry for your loss, but glad she was able to spread so much joy during her lifetime.
Vickie Martin
November 1, 2025
Deborah remained a dear Pullen friend, even though my husband Dick Evans and I moved to California 26 years ago. We would still get together from time to time when I was on the East Coast or when she was on the West Coast. I feel blessed to have had her in my life and cherish the many fond memories of our times together. Condolences to Deborah´s family, to her spiritual community at Pullen, and to her many friends.
Lib Tuten
November 1, 2025
Deborah serving tea in her Teardrop.
I have been friends with Deborah since we both worked at Wake County Social Services in the 70s.
I will miss her friendship. She "seized the day" and I was blessed to be included in some of those moments. Lib Tuten
Maggie Stewart
November 1, 2025
Deborah was the life of the party! Good hearted, generous, and funny.
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Christa Elaine Wood
November 1, 2025
Meredith,
I am so sad to hear of your Mother’s passing. Although I did not have the opportunity to know Deborah, I am so blessed to know her beautiful daughter. I pray you and your whole family find an abundance of grace, comfort, and peace during this difficult time.
Robb Epps
October 31, 2025
So sorry to hear about her passing. All the best to the family in their time of loss.
Kathy Widenhouse
October 31, 2025
Deborah was open minded and upbeat and loved her family and sharing stories about them . She was generous and welcoming and great with people. Her personality was just right for social work and teaching . I will miss her astute advice on being a grandma and mother in law .
Jeri McClenaghan-Ihde
October 31, 2025
Deborah was my adventure friend while living in Durham. We had lovely days exploring art and shopping in the Triangle. Her interest and joy in all things...bright colors, wonderful hats, teaching kids to drive, bubbles, sitting around the fire, and art, her own and all other art that is made a shared. Look out your window, find an item of beauty and think of your/our friend Deborah.
Elizabeth Norval
October 29, 2025
I enjoyed Deborah`s company tremendously. I will be forever grateful for the time I spent in her home in Asheville.
Together about high school age.
Susannah Rose
October 29, 2025
I have known Deborah since we were about 12. What keeps coming to mind is a haiku that she loved and had posted in her room as we were growing up together. I think it goes like this: When I went out to gather violets in the mountains, I enjoyed myself so much I stayed all night. Deborah knew how to enjoy and savor things and get into the spirit of them. I am grateful to her for helping me through a difficult childhood and for steady friendship for years thereafter.
Sarah Almblad
October 28, 2025
Time spent with Deborah at Pullen was limited but memorable. She was a wonderful human being.
Alan Eakes
October 27, 2025
Will see you again one day
Bill Birmingham
October 26, 2025
We will all miss Deborah as she was always fun to be around and everyone loved her.
Steve Gurganus
October 25, 2025
So sorry, and startled, to hear of Deborah's passing. Will miss seeing her at Pullen. My deepest condolences.
Susan G Hodge
October 25, 2025
Dear Meredith and Heather, I worked with Deborah and we were active in Singles Unlimited. I remember we went to the Rocky Horror Picture Show at the Rialto. We had many friends in common over the years. I am sad for your loss. Cherish your memories.
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