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John Falletta Obituary

John Falletta

September 3, 1940 - January 31, 2025

Chapel Hill, North Carolina - John Matthew Falletta, 84, a long time professor and professor emeritus of pediatrics at Duke, died unexpectedly at his home on January 31, 2025.

John will be remembered by his family, friends, and patients as a kind, compassionate man; someone who was able to focus on anyone he encountered who was in need of his help.. He cared deeply for his patients and their families, and worked hard to insure that his young cancer and hematology patients received the best care.

John was an excellent student, athlete, and an accomplished pianist during his high school years. He graduated magna cum laude from the University of Kansas where he was president of his fraternity, Beta Theta Pi, and a member of Phi Beta Kappa. He married Carolyn Ontjes after his first year in KU medical school where he later earned his MD. Two years at the CDC took them to Houston where he did research into childhood leukemia clusters. That work intensified into a life long interest in pediatric oncology. He remained at Baylor to complete his training and then spent several years on the pediatric faculty there. Duke recruited him to rebuild the pediatric hematology/oncology program in Durham in 1976. John and Carolyn moved with their two small children to Chapel Hill.

At Duke, John built his division from one full time physician, a nurse practitioner, and a secretary into a thriving practice focused on patient care, research, and an advanced training program for young doctors. His Fellows all praise him for teaching them the value of genuinely caring for individual patients and their families, and relating to them in a way that made a huge difference in the course of illness.

Early on, John saw a need for a Ronald McDonald House for his patients and their families. With the help of Duke, a wonderful board of patients' parents, and others the first RMC House in the area opened in 1980. He maintained his dedication to the Ronald House until the end of his life, and spent many years on both the local board and the international McDonalds Charities Board in Chicago. He loved working with people from the business world, where he was affectionately known as "Doc". He consulted on all things medical (both personal and RMC related) with many of the RMC friends he made.

After more than twenty years at Duke, John turned his attention to leading the Institutional Review Board for all human research at Duke. As the need increased he built a single review board into multiple boards that were responsible reviewing hundreds of research projects over the years. He was active in helping set up other IRB programs as far away as China.

He retired from Duke in 2015, and concentrated on his love of gardening and travel. Over the years he and Carolyn traveled extensively, enjoyed seeking out new restaurants, and adding to their eclectic art collection. After moving to the Cedars Retirement community, John enjoyed meeting a whole new circle of friends and loved singing with the Cedars Singers.

In addition to his wife, John leaves behind two grown children; a daughter Liz Falletta (with husband Thurman Grant) and son, Matt Falletta, both of Los Angeles. In addition, he leaves a brother in law, (Sam Ontjes, with wife Judy Ontjes, and their grown children and grandchildren); the grown children and grandchildren of his other brother in law, David Ontjes (deceased); and three grown children of his sister, Norma Berry (deceased).

A memorial service will be held at 2PM on Saturday, February 8 at University Presbyterian Church in Chapel Hill.

Memorial gifts may be made to Ronald McDonald House, 506 Alexander Drive, Durham, NC 27705.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer from Feb. 4 to Feb. 6, 2025.

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Angela Chambers

February 8, 2025

We are so sad to lose John. He was a good friend and neighbor and he and Carolyn were like other parents to our son, Justin, growing up. He was always kind and generous with his wonderful garden offerings and extra plants. And he was a good listener. ...he will be missed. Angie and Jack Chambers.

Egla Rabinovich

February 7, 2025

Dr. Falletta was my attending during my pediatric residency. He was such a great physician; always had the patients best interest in mind. He had such high standards that he expected everyone to have. We all tried to do better because of him. Years later he was my mentor at the IRB, and again raised the ar. He will be missed. May he rest in peace. I am sorry I am out of town this weekend and will miss the service.

Marie L Thomas

February 6, 2025

My condolences to the Falletta family. I was fortunate to work with Dr Falletta during his tenure at Duke University Medical Center. He was always very professional, cordial and extremely nice to work along side. I am sure he will be missed.

Marie L Thomas
Department of Patholgy
DUMC

John Foreman

February 6, 2025

John was a great and caring physician. It was always a pleasure to work with him. He was a great human being. He will be missed.
Dr. John Foreman

Michael L. James

February 6, 2025

I knew John for many years through Duke's IRB. Always respected his thoughtful opinion, even when I vehemently disagreed with it. He will be missed.

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