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Peter Eichenberger Obituary

Peter Nils Eichenberger aged 54 died at his home the morning of November 25 2010, while reading the paper and drinking a cup of tea. He was looking forward to a morning of writing, and spending Thanksgiving with his family. Peter was born in Cincinnati Ohio on November 27th, 1955. He was the son of Frederick Charles Eichenberger a WWII vet and NCSU School of Design Professor, and Betty Joan Blomgren Eichenberger Adams, professor emeritus at St. Mary’s College in Raleigh.
Peter was an accomplished mechanic, product designer, writer and story teller. He excelled at narrow escapes from both death and the law. His son David Eichenberger noted that Peter was a master of Word Fu when confronted with difficulties. His brother John remembers the time Peter rebuilt the distributor of his police special 440 Fury with a pocket knife. Brother Kurt recalls the time Peter rebuilt the engine of his ‘49 Chevy while suspended over a ditch somewhere in Illinois. Brother Tom recalls the time he was tackled by an NCSU football player while running through the Rose Garden. His brother David recalls when he affixed the trucker girl mud-flap silhouettes to the Time and Light Tower on Capitol Boulevard.
Peter is best known for his writing and opinion pieces for various print and online publications including the Spectator, the Independent, the Downtowner, Metro, and the PetrBlt column in various online incarnations, plus numerous letters to the News and Observer. Much of his work can be found online. Peter wrote in the same high risk style as he lived his life; Intense, opinionated and over the edge.
In 2004 Peter was involved in a near fatal bicycle accident. He emerged from a two week coma with a profoundly changed outlook and point of view.
He was also an accomplished bicycle mechanic. After hurricane Katrina, Peter joined the relief effort, and lived for nine months in the lower ninth ward resurrecting flood damaged bicycles for those in need. He received no compensation for this effort. He continued with his bicycle repair work here in Raleigh until his death.
Peter received a Bachelor of Environmental Design in Product Design from NCSU in 1982. He receive and MFA in creative writing from the University of Florida in Gainsville in 1988.
He is survived by his mother, Betty Joan Eichenberger Adams; stepfather, Allen Adams; son, David Eichenberger; special friend and former wife, Sandy Shultz; brothers, Kurt and wife, Donna, Tom and wife, Christine, David and wife, Jennifer, John and wife, Amy; step siblings, Ann and husband, Bill, Jeff and wife, Dorota and Spencer and wife, Dennise; nieces and nephews, Erin, Carmin, Ethan, Lauren, Kevin, Will, James, Caroline, Stefan, Eva and Morgan.
A remembrance for Peter will be held December 4th, 2010 at a place to be announced.
In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Alliance Medical Clinic located at 101 Donald Ross Lane.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer on Nov. 28, 2010.

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Janice Sears

December 6, 2010

Peter, you will be missed! I will never forget the young teenager who used to squeeze into the cubbyhole of my mom's vw to go with us on all our adventures in high school, including Fluff Coleman's trial for littering the Raleigh Christmas parade in 1969! I will miss your blog. You really made me think! Janice Vuncannon Sears

Tracey Farber

December 5, 2010

Peter, we are better people for knowing you! i can't believe you are gone so soon. You are the most unique person i've ever met and i am blessed to have known you. i have so many fun memories of you and you will be missed greatly. the daytona gang will never be the same without you!!

December 5, 2010

Peter you were one cool dude, we will miss you very much!

Peter walking along the river on very cold day

Dixie Dobyns

December 3, 2010

Peter's gloved hand holding antique folding key

Dixie Dobyns

December 3, 2010

the bicycle shop at Oaklana

Dixie Dobyns

December 3, 2010

yet another picture of Peter

Dixie Dobyns

December 3, 2010

another picture of Peter

Peter at Oaklana Farm, Bertie County 2008

Dixie Dobyns

December 3, 2010

I was invited to Oaklana farm in Bertie County to test drive a bed and breakfast menu. I attended as a friend of a friend and had not previously met any of the other guests. Peter, one of the helpers, was my first acquaintance on this bitter cold weekend. His stories captivated me and as the weekend progressed, I was swept into a world that Gertrude Stein, or Alice B. Toklas, or Thornton Wilder might have enjoyed. There was a dog in a fez, and Peter in his smoking jacket, and very snappy reparte and martinis all around. The picture I am sharing was taken while waiting for the guests to arrive, outside at the huge fireplace. I am sorry that I didn't have the opportunity to know him better; I shall never forget him.

scott bryan

December 3, 2010

I remember the day I first met Peter Eichenberger.
It was in the cafeteria at Daniels Junior HS.
It was the day after the Kent State Massacre.
Peter was sitting at a table by himself eating his lunch out of a brown paper bag.
He wore a black armband.
I had finished my lunch and was returning my tray. Instead of returning to my table I walked up to him and made a comment about the horrible tragedy. He looked up and responded in kind. I pulled up a chair and for the next ten minutes or so we talked about what had happened and what was happening to the country. We were both very young. I was just beginning to be aware of what was going on in the world. Peter’s awareness was much greater than mine.
For many years we had conversations and adventures. Only now with his passing are the memories of that time flooding back.
The last time I saw Peter he told me he was going to study journalism.
I said that sounded like a good idea.
One thing I know for sure is that Peter cared very deeply about peace and justice.
From his writing in more recent years it is clear that he never stopped.

carol vargo

December 2, 2010

Good bye Peter. My world changed forever the day I met you. I will see you in the clouds, the wallpaper, the blobs of paint left behind, the shadows, and always, in my heart.

Carol

Rhonda Tyson

December 1, 2010

A comet indeed. Peter's energy could catapult you; he was brightly and intensely alive. He would ramble and curse, then with complete clarity tie up the issue with an indelible image or pronouncement that showed his genius.
My memories include- a pre-Christmas impromptu in Oakwood. Peter's house had a gaudy tangle of big colored lights on the handrails, while neighbor's stately white twinkled. There were 4 of us; 5 including his terrior with a Fez, Peter in a red velvet smoking jacket, martinis just made ready; 1960s 007 music, and dancing. The party then traveled thru Oakwood, with unraveling laughter.

Bobbie Lawrence Wells

November 30, 2010

Bon voyage, Peter. One of our quirky crowd from the teen years. Indelibly, uniquely, etched in our memories. Will fondly smile when I hear the wind call your name. Check it out for us Bro. We will be a blink of an eye behind you in the greater scheme of things.

Wendy Brenner

November 30, 2010

Peter, no one who met you ever forgot you. Besides making everyone's lives a lot more interesting and making us all feel more alive, you had the biggest heart and never quit speaking the truth -- you are a comet streaking through my memories of Gainesville, Florida. As a friend said on your Facebook page, "please save me a spot out there in infinity."

November 29, 2010

you were always very very kind...

Trevor Griles

November 29, 2010

a disjointed rambling of unsourced claims and mutual deference, mostly on my part as I prefer not to talk when someone else can do it better. then, when I point out that he's taken a conspiracy theory a little too far, he raises his eyebrows (while looking at me from an angle with a nodding grin above sparkling blue eyes) and replies, "That's what you think!" as though he had just solved Einstein's Equation. we laugh...and then we drink more Scotch. that's what it was like. that and him walking around in a bathrobe (at one of his upstairs parties) with a gin drink in one hand and a gun in the other. they don't make them like Peter anymore.

Ed Gaddy

November 29, 2010

Cyclelogic will miss Peter and his visits.

Great Times will live on !

November 29, 2010

Peter...I"m so sorry I didn't get to say goodbye ..Saying it like this is not the same. You will be missed my FRIEND, Proud to call you Friend ! The times we spent together are forever etched in my mind! :) Sitting around the fire conversing and having a Guinness or 2 and some great laughs ...I'll see you again..I knew better but you knew BEST ! Love ya ...Tinman

Oas-Carter

November 28, 2010

Thanks for the fun bike rides. You will be missed.

Suzy Lawrence

November 28, 2010

I still have a vivid image in my mind of Peter as a scrawny 14 or 15 year old from when he hung out with us in Raleigh. I was 2 or 3 years older & was good friends with his older brother, Kurt. Peter was always fine to have hanging around with us - he was a part of our kind of hippie gang. It was amazing so many years later to read his "over the top" & generally "right on" columns in The Independent & Spectator. I really enjoyed his writing & unique view of our world. Suzy Lawrence, Chapel Hill

Maggie Rose

November 28, 2010

Never knew or met Mr Eichenberger, but from the words in the lovely tribute, cannot help but believe that anyone who did not know him has missed a wonderful experience. my sincerest condolences to his family and loved ones, I know you have many wonderful memories to sustain you.

Aldert

November 28, 2010

We had our differences over the years - and a few adventures - but we had a certain mutual respect nonetheless. You'll be missed, Peter. Ride on.

Aldert

David Van Gieson

November 28, 2010

Peter was a true individual.

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