Dr. Vijay Manu Patel

Raleigh

Dr. Vijay Manu Patel passed away unexpectedly and suddenly in the early morning of August 31st, 2016. He was a mere 49 years old and desired to practice at his solo family medicine practice for many years to come. Vijay served as the primary doctor to much of the Raleigh downtown and surrounding areas as for over 20 years after he graduated from the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill. He prided himself on having a kind, mutually respectful, and personal relationship with all of his patients and was known to take a lot of time with anyone who needed him any time of the day or night.

He practiced his medicine and his life as an art. He loved working with and encouraging students of all ages, showing them how much they could learn, basking in the pride they felt when they learned that they were capable of fulfilling their dreams. He worked closely with all of his staff and patients and thought of them as his family. He was a kind and generous husband and friend. He loved the simple things in life; walking the dogs, sharing a meal with friends, watching a movie and no one was a stranger.

He is survived by his wife Tove Arwen Moore, his father Manubhai Patel, his stepmother Kokila Patel and his siblings Raksha Patel Basuroy and Dr. Shahil Patel, Dr. Kshamata(Dolly) Skeete and Alpa Patel Fador and his father-in-law John Moore. He was preceded in death by his mother, Jayaben Pateland his mother-in-law Judith Moore.

In lieu of flowers, Tove is setting up a scholarship at UNC Medical School in Dr. Patel's name. In lieu of condolence cards, please share your memories on Dr. Patel's page on the Brown-Wynne website so everyone in the family can take the time to read them.

Arrangements are under the care of Brown-Wynne Funeral Home 300 Saint Mary's St. Raleigh, NC 27605.

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Published by The News and Observer on Sep. 4, 2016.

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277 Entries

Eric Simon

June 29, 2018

Still to this day I am trying to find a Doctor to replace Dr. Vijay Patel. It is very rear when you feel totally comfortable with a Doctor the way I did with Dr. Patel. I miss him and was thinking about him just now and wanted to let the Patel Family Know yes still. RIP

December 13, 2017

When you think of Vijay, please remember that he saved many lives, including ours - we will be eternally grateful
Chip and Janet DePaoli

Matthew Burford

December 12, 2017

I didn't want to say anything. He was a great person. My only comment to his his wall here is: Gratitude. Thank you for being alive at the same time that I was. You were a joy and a privilege to know.

Ralph Savino

November 7, 2016

Was so sorry to hear of Vijays passing. Last time I saw him was at the 20 year reunion where he later introduced me to his father. Through our early years in elementary school and high school Ive never known anyone to have a bad word to say about him, and Vijay never had a bad word to say about anyone else.May he rest in peace and prayers to all his family and friends, he will be greatly missed.

Debamitra Mukhopadhyay

October 25, 2016

Dear Tove and Family, we have just found out about Dr. Patel and don't have any word of condolences. Dr. Patel was always there when we needed him; be it on the weekends or late at nights. We felt Dr. Patel really cared for us like family. We will miss the doctor patient relationship that we had with him. He touched our hearts and he will always live in our memories.

Finally, the scholarship will make Dr. Patel's dream come true.

Debamitra and Pushpal

Ashley Hipp

October 25, 2016

I just found out today that the most amazing Doctor passed away. I have no idea how something like this could happen to such a beautiful person and Doctor. He was irreplaceable. It's a very very sad day. His family will be in my thoughts.

Lynn Burke

October 6, 2016

Dear Tove,
I just learned of Dr. Patel's passing yesterday. I was so stunned and had to look it up, when I was told. I am so heartbroken to hear this news. He was one of the BEST doctors I have ever seen. Always so kind and compassionate. He always acted like I was his only patient and he had all the time I needed to take care of me.
I am praying for your, and the staff's, comfort and strength as time goes by. I pray you will gain some comfort in knowing Dr. Patel was so loved and highly thought of. Many praters and much Love to you.

Lily Baughman

October 4, 2016

Dear Tove & Family, we are so heartbroken over this news. My husband has been a patient with Dr. Patel from the very beginning of his career. I have never been more comfortable with a doctor as I was with Dr. Patel and the kids absolutely adored him. He had such a calm and caring spirit that will be sorely missed. Words cannot adequately express our gratitude for all of the wonderful years of thoughtful care we received. He represented the best of humanity and surely a star has gone out in the sky due to his passing. Sending all of our love & deepest condolences. Ben, Lily, Katelyn, Alex, Christian & Jacob Baughman.

The Baughmans - Dr. Patels grateful patients

Lily Baughman

October 4, 2016

Dear Tove and Family,
We have just found this out and our family is heartbroken. He was a wonderful person and doctor. My husband has been seeing him 16+ years. He will truly be missed for his kindness, professionalism, generosity and light. Sending our love & deepest condolences,
Ben, Lily, Katelyn, Alex, Christian & Jacob Baughman

Benjamin Baughman

October 4, 2016

There are no words that can match the actions I saw taken by this great man. He saved countless lives and helped many of us recover from illnesses with a holistic approach. I can think of several times over the years he has provided a beacon of hope, a genuine concerned ear, and words of wisdom for me. His life will be celebrated for many years to come along with the loss of his steady presence. Both Dr. Patel and Tove always went above and beyond the call of duty. I am deeply sorry to hear of such a great loss to this world. We will be keeping Tove and family in our thoughts and prayers.

October 3, 2016

Dr. Patel, was a kind and caring physician and a true example of what a family physician should be. I work for the NC Academy of Family Physicians and I would always reference my doctor as what every family doc should be. Thank you for being my family doc and you will be missed.
Marietta

Sudhir-Amola Vaishnav

October 2, 2016

Vijay was a Gem of a Person!
I and my wife were his patient for last 4 years.
We never had a Family Physician in past who was so caring and concern like Vijay was. He used to spend time with his patients explaining every good & bad things and importance of what and why he is advising certain things.
He will remain in our memories for ever!
Sudhir-Amola

Rich Bolton

October 2, 2016

Raleigh has lost a good doctor and a good man. Through the years Dr. Patel and I had many fascinating discussions covering a wide array of topics from the mundane to the philosophical during my visits to his practice. He was smart and kind, a too rare combination. On August 30th I was in his office we talked of the heat finally breaking. Vijay told me how the day before he and his wife had taken the dogs for a walk in the cooler weather. Then he showed me on his iPad photos of the dogs and in this eyes I could see the love he had for them.
Though the total time, through the years, of my visits to Veejay's practice don;t add up to a considerable time, I'm already missing him. He had unknowingly become more than a doctor to me.

Mike Nichols

September 29, 2016

Vijay was my physician for the last 10 years or so and I will always be grateful for the excellent care, compassion and support he provided to me.

I was diagnosed with a life-threatening illness a year ago. If you've ever had the misfortune of finding yourself in that type of situation, you know that a doctor's words mean more to you than almost anything. I'll always remember the conversation we had when I was first diagnosed and the encouragement, compassion and perspective he gave me. His words helped carry me through some of the toughest days of my treatment regimen and I'll never be able to repay him for that.

Vijay was simply a wonderful doctor and, I think, an even better human being. I will miss him tremendously.

My thoughts and prayers go out to Tove, as well as the rest of Vijay's family and friends.

Anony myus

September 28, 2016

Dr. Patel was the best doctor I've ever had, and I even told my friends and family that, and I truly meant it.

It's really sad to hear that he passed away at such a young age. The world is fickle and cruel. I would trade places with him in an instant, because I know he had the potential to help more people than my life is worth. I could only imagine being such a good man....

Connie Bragg

September 27, 2016

Dr. Patel was my Dr. for almost 15 years and he was a dear friend and I'm going to miss him so much. Every time I went in for my appointment, as soon as he saw me, he knew if the visit was going to be good or bad. If he came in and I was already crying, he had the tissue box ready, if I was smiling he had his smile ready! Always a hand shake and a pat on the shoulder!
I just saw him July after they had been on vacation, I asked him how was it, Dr. Patel said, they had a nice time, but after a week, he was ready to be back, he said, he felt he needed to be back with his patients. He said, I guess I'm lucky, to want to be back at work, I said, you are blessed, Dr. Patel just smiled and said, Yes I am!
To Tove, you have always made me feel welcomed with your smile and your sweet personality, I'm just so sorry for your loss and will be praying for you. To the staff and Dr. Patel's family, you all are in my prayers. Dr. Patel will live on Always in our hearts. I see he touched so many lives. He helped save my life, and I learned so much from him, now I will carry that on and keep his memory alive.
I believe Dr. Patel will be working from Heaven here on out, until we all meet again!!

September 23, 2016

I still feel pain in my chest every time Dr. Patel crosses my mind, which is daily. It is so hard to trust another doctor to take the same care as we've all experienced through this wonderful doctor and friend. Friends thought we were exaggerating when we encouraged them to just try Vijay. Without fail they would let us know they felt the same, almost as if it was the first time you had seen a doctor who truly cared and paid attention. Our hearts go out to Tove, Vijay's family and everyone in the practice.

Sydnie Eder

September 21, 2016

He was Vi to me. We became friends in our 20's. I ate his mother's lovely food, and ate his left overs out of the frig all the time. I saw him fall in love with his wife. I watched him navigate the challenges of med school. I saw his beautiful black hair turn grey. We like to have long chats about life, and its meaning.He was a Doctor, but I always liked to put that aside when we hung out together. I respected his soul, his brilliance, his intensity, and his love for others. I will forever carry Vi in my heart...My condolences to Tove and family.

September 21, 2016

Dr. Patel was a kind and caring physician. He listened and didn't stop until he found the answer to what was going on with his patients medically. He will truly be missed. Tammy H.- former patience

Elizabeth Thompson RD

September 21, 2016

Dr. Patel gave me a chance to expand my practice through his office. His, and Tove's, kindness toward me will always be remembered. I am grateful to have experienced his wonderful spirit.

Amber Wells RN

September 20, 2016

I only had the pleasure of working with Vijay and Tove for a year, but it was a wonderful learning experience for me. Vijay was truely a rare breed. He really enjoyed listening and caring for his clients. I know he touched so many people's lives. It is so sad that he had to leave this world so early in life. I am so greatful that I got to be a part of his journey, even if just for a little while. My heart goes out to Tove and the family they made together. I pray for all of you during this difficult time.

Hillary Bost

September 19, 2016

Dr. Vijay took the time to listen and was a great doctor, He will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

June Wright

September 19, 2016

Like others on this site and so many others in this city of Raleigh, Heather and I will miss Dr. Patel deeply. Vijay has been my primary care physician since 1995 and his loss is more than just superficial. My heart goes out to Tove and all his staff at this time. The world has truly lost a most genuine and caring person. My prayers will be with all of you during this difficult time.

June and Heather

Haida Salazar

September 15, 2016

Dr.Patel was the best doctor I've had in my entire life. He is irreplaceable. He will truly be missed.

Keisha P

September 14, 2016

You will be missed.

Kirsten Wille

September 14, 2016

I was so deeply saddened to hear this news. It still seems so surreal. Dr. Patel has cared for me and my family for years. When I say I trusted him completely it is a powerful statement about his character, compassion, practicality, and humor. He will be greatly missed. Tove, his staff, and family continue to be in our thoughts.

Eric Simon

September 14, 2016

Tove, I never had the pleasure of meeting you but Like I said earlier. Dr. Patel and I shared many stories and personal interest's we did like friends do. He always spoke so Highly of you, I kind of feel like I did know you. He had never met Carlena but asked for her by name. He was a GREAT Dr. and a wonderful individual. This past year with all the insurance crap that happened, I stayed on with him and paid out of pocket because I did not want or think I would ever find someone even close to the Dr patient relationship we had. Ask the staff, I always had a huge smile on my face and lifted my spirits after seeing him. I miss him already.. RIP

Mia Matthews

September 13, 2016

So deeply saddened by this news. Dr. Patel was so thoughtful and compassionate, and gave so much to all of our lives. He will be greatly missed.

Bernard Bridges

September 13, 2016

Dear Tove and the rest of Dr. Patel family and friends . I am so very lost in heart and mind right now . I pray that God will continue to bless and heal your spirits as each day passes. I know I lost a great doctor, man and dear hearted friend. I am so blessed to have been a small part of his life. I will never forget you "Doc!"

Bernard Bridges ...Raleigh

Eric Simon

September 13, 2016

Dear Tove, Family & Staff,
I just got home from a cruise & got the terrible news. I am at loss for words and deeply saddened by this. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, the rest of the family and the staff. I will miss him just as I know everyone else will that he touched. I was his Patient but I was also his friend and over the last few years we shared many stories with eachother. Dr Patel helped me in many ways and ALWAYS spent enough time with me to listen and answer all my questions. He was the Best and I feel Lucky to have had him in my life.

Albert Munn, MD

September 12, 2016

Dr. Vijay Patel and I shared many patients together and became fast friends when he and Tove first came to Raleigh. He established his medical practice in Raleigh to serve the vibrant downtown area. His patients often related stories of his calm, wise demeanor while never rushing through their medical visit. If a patient had a difficult medical or social problem, he would just pull up a chair and listen. His patients loved him for that, as they often told me. He was a steady leader and medical doctor. He will be greatly missed by friends and patients alike. I feel that his passing has left big shoes that can never be filled in the Raleigh medical community and in my life. "Too soon" doesn't begin to express my sorrow that I will never see his smile again.

September 12, 2016

Farewell Dr. Patel. The best doctor I have ever had. It hasn't sunk in yet that you are not here. I will miss you. You brought light into my life that will forever shine bright. Carolyn J.

Earl & Yvonne Griffin

September 12, 2016

Dear Tove,
Words can't express how heart broken we are over the passing of Dr. Patel. He was so kind and gentle. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, the rest of the family and the staff. We will miss him.
Earl and Yvonne Griffin

Dionne McGee

September 12, 2016

Dearest Tove, Family, Staff, Patients, Colleagues and Friends, I am praying that God comforts us all during this time of bereavement. My heart is extremely heavy! I have been a patient of Dr. Patel's for over a decade. He was the best Dr. that I've ever had. He was caring, compassionate and down to earth. We had a great Dr./Patient relationship. He would always tell me...."Dionne your Google search does not trump my medical degree". Then he had the statement framed and matted in the office. I thought it was hilarious! I will never be able to replace you Doc! -Dionne McGee (Garner, NC)

Carla Thorpe

September 12, 2016

I have been a patient of Dr. Patel's for many years. I just found out about his death when I was scheduling an appointment with someone that he had referred me to. I am in shock and greatly grieved. He was a very good doctor and a good person. My condolences go out to his family and all who loved him.

B. Ward

September 12, 2016

My heart is broken with the passing of Dr. Patel. He was truly one of the kindest, compassionate and caring doctor I every had the fortune of knowing. He was truly a great listener and had a great bedside manner.
I continue to be in shock with his sudden passing and my heart goes out to his wife and family during this grieving process. I know that only time will bring some peace to such a unimaginable end to a wonderful life.

Andrew Grieshop

September 11, 2016

My wife and I are still in shock about Dr. Patel's passing. He truly had a gift and shared it openly with us and all of the many patients he clearly touched. I felt instantly at ease and cared for when I first saw him, and was always so impressed by his warmth and willingness to talk through all of my questions, and how he could cite the latest clinical research when answering questions. He was a gem. Sending strength and solace to Tove, his family and staff and all who he touched. He left us way too soon.

Anita Bestelmeyer

September 10, 2016

To Tove and Family, We just wanted to express our extreme sympathy at the loss of such a great person and doctor. My sister referred us to Vijay several years ago and we made an instant connection to him. He treated me and my sons with compassion, patience and wonderful medical advice. He felt like a dear friend and extension of our family. Tove, thank you for all that you both did for us. He will be sorely missed and it is our great pleasure to have known him. May he rest in peace and may you treasure all the special memories of his life. Love and thoughts to your whole family.

Pat Steward

September 9, 2016

Tove,
Please know that we have thought of you every day and have so few words to express our sincere appreciation for his care and our deepest regret of your loss.

Pat and Roger Steward

Towanda Wiggins

September 9, 2016

Dearest Tove & Family,

My heart was so heavy upon learning of the passing of my kind, compassionate doctor of nearly 10 years. I met Dr. Patel at Urgent Care in Wake Forest. He showed great concern for my health on that day, gave me his business card and asked me to follow up with him. I loved visiting his office/offices. I was always made to feel like family there. Tove, thank you for sharing him with all of his patients. You have always been so considerate and helpful and I love and appreciate that so much. I will truly miss Dr. Patel.

Blessings unto you!

Sincerest Sympathy,

Sophia Khotil

September 9, 2016

Tove and to the Patel family, Vijay was such a light in this world. His compassion and friendship will sorely be missed. I am still without words. We have had many pleasant memories with the both of you. You guys were there on one of the happiest days of our lives and he was one of the first ones to hold our first born. Memories of delightful conversations over dinners will never be forgotten. He took excellent care of my mother and for that, we are forever grateful. I am so glad to have known such a great man. May he rest in peace.

Beverly Gaither

September 8, 2016

I was a new patient of Dr. Patel in June of this year. I knew the moment we met he loved what he did as well as his love for people. May God strengthen the family.

September 8, 2016

Dear Tove & Family, Words can not express the shock I had to read of Vijay's death. I am so sorry for your loss! Vijay and you were more then a doctor & spouse to me..more like family/friends. Vijay was so caring. A great doctor & human being! 15 years of exceptional medical treatment will not soon be forgotten! Thank you Vijay for your service & you will be missed!! Love Patricia Bruen

Samantha Moore

September 8, 2016

I will truly miss you Dr. Patel. You said let you worry for me, instead I should have been worried about you. I know you loved your work and you truly took the pressure off many of us.

However, God makes no mistake and you were needed in heaven. God surly pressed his emergency button because you left us too soon. I'm sure you and my mother are sharing your stories about me.

You will truly be missed

Jeff Omans

September 8, 2016

Dr. Patel is the best doctor we have ever had. He was attentive, kind, thorough, funny, knowledgeable, and so much more. To us, he exemplified what a family doctor should be. He was truly a one of a kind doctor and person. We are deeply saddened by this huge loss and we send our heartfelt sympathy and love to Tove and the rest of his family.

Sincerely, Jeff and Amal Omans

Ceil Hall

September 8, 2016

Losing Dr. Patel is one of the biggest losses in my life. He was not only my physician, he was my friend, and he was the best doctor I've ever seen in my life, bar none! Not only did he treat me as a partner in my health maintenance, he cared about me as a person and saw me through a very trying divorce, encouraging me and helping me cope with that loss. I am sadder than sad, and my heart goes out to his patients and especially to his wife and staff members.

Celeste Fisher

September 8, 2016

In 2013 when my husband passed in his sleep Dr. Patel said his practice wouldn't be the same without him.we had been going to Dr. Patel for over 15 years. Whatever practice I choose isn't going to be the same without him! I will also deeply miss Tove. Karen and the staff will are the best. My heart is heavy , farewell friends.

Ruth Clayton Putnam

September 8, 2016

I knew Vijay years ago at UNC and am deeply saddened by this news. I'm very sorry for your loss...

Mike Fischer

September 7, 2016

He was a joy to talk to - the best doctor anyone could hope to have. Kind, thoughtful, dedicated and warm. I will remember him fondly forever.

Caitlin O'Sullivan

September 7, 2016

Dr. Patel was the best doctor I ever had. He always remembered the little details about my personal life and took the time to give me thoughtful advice-both medical and personal.

He had a sense of sense of humor that always made me feel more comfortable and was a superb listener.

My thoughts and prayers are with the Patel family. Tove and administration were always so kind and generous. It is going to be difficult to find another doctor like this one.

September 7, 2016

I saw Dr Patel by accident 16 years ago when my regular doctor was not available at a practice in Cary. I was so impressed by his thorough approach and pleasant demeanor that I eventually joined his practice when he started on his own.

He was an excellent detective in finding out what ailed me or my loved ones. I had visited several doctors and urologists for a condition that he found a treatment for quickly.

He also successfully managed my thyroid over the years and saved me from the aggravation of finding a specialist.

When I was going through a a very serious personal situation where I did not have the strength to go on, Dr Patel not only alleviated my pain through meds but also listened to me for as long as I wanted and gave me good advice as a friend.

Tove and Dr Patel were always compassionate. Tove would find me a slot the same day or next whenever I really needed it. One time we damaged Tove's car in the parking lot and they agreed to handle it such that our insurance would not go up.

Indian and American values found an ideal combination in Dr Patel. He would emotionally connect with his patients and also be precise and objective.

This world is much smaller with him not in it.

John Marks

September 7, 2016

Dear Tove,

I am heartbroken for your loss. I have enjoyed my professional relationship with Vijay over the years sharing a love for patient care in a solo practice setting. He was always my go-to provider because I knew my patients would get the most competent and compassionate care. I will miss him along with many, many citizens of Raleigh.

There is no mention of a funeral in the paper or on this website but it would be my honor to attend if one is planned.

With my most sincerely condolences, John J Marks, MD

September 7, 2016

I am so sorry to hear about Dr. Patel. He was a very nice man and he treated me so well and took his time with me and truly cared. So shocking. So sorry!
Cindy Conyers

Bettie Moore

September 7, 2016

We were so shocked and saddened by the death of Dr. Patel. He was such a kind and caring doctor with a great patient understanding.
We will miss him. Condolences to his family.
Jim and Bettie Moore Garner NC

September 7, 2016

I'm so very sorry to hear about the sudden loss of such a great doctor and friend. He was my health care provider for 15 years. Raleigh has truly lost a great person. I send my deepest condolences to Tove and the entire family.

Sincerely,

Dean Sadarangani

September 7, 2016

Dr. Patel was great doctor and even greater man. I trusted his judgement 100% and knew that he was looking at a health issue at all angles. He was an amazing medical diagnostician. He knew his patients. He was always of highest ethics, always very compassionate, and always very responsive. Someone that I could count on.

I will miss his smile and friendly demeanor too. Even though I was usually not feeling well when I visited, he always offered a nugget of sage advice. He was interesting, wonderful, and uplifting. I know that I will never have another doctor like him. I miss him already.

Tove, my heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers too.

Sincerely,
Jenny Helms

Dr. Anjali Sues

September 7, 2016

Dear Tove and entire Patel family,
I had the honor of working as a colleague with your husband, Dr. Vijay closely at Blue Ridge Family Practice.
We often shared our love and similar philosophy of caring for patients there and most recently he was exceptionally caring when my nephew who was his patient was going through some extremely difficult medical issues. I was able to find out first hand both professionally and personally what a unique physician and person that he was. You and your entire extended family have been in my thoughts and prayers since his passing .Take care . Dr. Anjali Sues

September 6, 2016

Dear Tov and family:
I will miss my visits with Dr Patel. I'm thankful for the good care you, your husband, and team gave me there at his practice. I pray the Lord blesses you even in these hard days.

With Jesus Love!
Stephen Morris

Peter Mwangi

September 6, 2016

Am still in shock and can't come to terms on how such a noble, intelligent, caring, among other things Dr. Patel was. He was humble and connected with me on a personal level. Easy to talk to and a great listener. It will be a difficult to find another caring physician like Dr. Patel. I guess heaven needed you more.

Phyllis Moroge

September 6, 2016

I was heartbroken to hear we have lost such an amazing doctor. Dr. Patel was thorough, compassionate, and always had the time to listen to my questions and concerns. He was truly one of a kind. My heart goes out to Tove and the family. I am thankful for having known such a remarkable doctor and will truly miss him.

David Wilson

September 6, 2016

I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of such a wonderful person. Dr. Patel was one of the most kind and compassionate people I have known. He always felt more like your friend than your doctor. He will be deeply missed.

Tove, we are so sorry for your loss and are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

David and Heather Wilson

Jason Bocarro

September 6, 2016

Tove, our heart sank when we got the email about Dr. Patel last week. Over the past 11 years, I felt, like many others, that Dr. Patel, yourself and others in the office were so much more. I loved discussing with you and Dr. P. what book I was reading and sharing our love of traveling. I loved Dr. Patel's philosophy of medicine as he reminded me he was one of 2 in his medical class at UNC who graduated with a liberal arts undergraduate degree. I remember the laughs we shared as he spent years giving me allergy shots and seeing my reaction. But most of all I'll remember the genuine care as he would call on a weekend to check up on either myself or Melanie if we had seen him during the week. Melanie and I will truly miss all of you so much.

Jeffrey Nuckolls

September 6, 2016

Dr. Patel cared about me. He listened to what I said and he was interested in who I was and what I did. He was one in a million. I will never find a better doctor. I am sad that he has left this place so soon. Thank you, Vijay for stopping by this planet for a while. Meeting you was my privilege.

Noelle Hartbarger

September 6, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss, and I'm sorry for our loss, for everyone who felt Vijay Patel was part of their community. My deepest condolences to you, Tove. You, Dr. Patel, and the whole office staff have made my life better by being in it, and I'm so very grateful.

There are many things I could say that would be true about Dr. Patel. He was kind. He was patient. He had excellent bedside manner, and an unexpected sharp sense of humor.

What I appreciate the most is the least poetic. He did not make me feel guilty for being sick. He listened. He often helped me, and was compassionate even when illness could not be helped. For someone who is often sick, I felt safe, and that's very rare.

Part of Dr. Patel's particular gift was not just being a good doctor, but having a big heart. Perhaps he ran out of heart, having given so much of it to others.

Shelley Summerlin

September 6, 2016

I cannot express how much we will all miss Dr. Patel. He was more than just the best doctor that I've ever had, I felt like he was a trusted friend. He truly cared about each and every one of his patients and took the time to help us whenever we needed him. Tove, you and your family, are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry for this enormous loss.

Zipporah Scott

September 6, 2016

To Tove and Family,
I send my deepest condolences to you all. Words can not express the hurt and sadness that Dr. Patel's passing has brought to me. He was my doctor for 6 years, and the best doctor that I have ever known. His kindness and caring heart will never be forgotten. I always felt like I was in the presence of a friend because of his welcoming spirit. I will miss you also Tove, as you were as inviting and kind as he was. I pray that God will comfort you all through this difficult time and that he will strengthen you as time passes on.
Prayers, Love, and Blessings.

Tracie Arnold

September 6, 2016

My deepest condolences to Tove and family! My heart is broken over the loss of such a great man. Dr. Patel was the greatest and most caring doctor that I have ever had, and I will miss the chats and many laughs I had with him. I am honored to have had him in my life, and will be forever grateful for the amazing care and support he has given me! He will be greatly missed! My heart goes out to Tove and family!

charlena stroud

September 6, 2016

I just heard this morning. I'm so sorry Tove for your loss. I'm thankful that I got to meet him. He was a sweet dear man. You are in my prayers.

Gary Scalf

September 6, 2016

We have lost an excellent doctor and close friend. It is a stunning loss for the Raleigh community that will be felt in my house for years to come! Deepest condolences to you, Tove, and all your family.

September 6, 2016

Tove, he was a great physician, and colleague. I so enjoyed sharing patients with him. He really cared. Besides a personal loss, a huge loss for our community. Alan Kritz

September 6, 2016

To Tove, everyone at the practice, and all who loved Vijay, I send you my very deepest, heartbroken condolences. I am a writer, but I can barely find words. The news was such a shock, and I am so so sad. He was truly one of a kind, but then you all know that. Given all of Ed's medical issues, we had kind of given up on finding someone who could help him...or even listen to him. And then we found Dr. Vijay Patel and all of you. What an absolute gift. It helped so much and instead of dreading doctor visits, we actually looked forward to seeing them and Vijay. We were relieved to have him lead us, guide us, help us and he brought about healing in Ed. I thank God for the time we had with him and only wish it could have been longer. We send our deepest love, thanks and gratitude for being able to work with all of you and we send our deepest sorrow to you all for his loss. We cannot imagine your pain. Much love, Deb and Ed Bailey

Graham Banister

September 6, 2016

Our deepest condolences to Tove and Dr. Patel's family. We, as so many others will greatly miss this talented, compassionate, kind man. Our hearts break for all who loved him. We consider ourselves very fortunate to have known him.

Graham and Jill Banister

Christy Perrin

September 5, 2016

My heart is broken to lose Vijay so soon. For you, Tove- for his family, for all the patients who clearly loved and relied on him, for my son who won't get to know him as he grows up, for my partner Ev who has lost a dear friend. His sudden passing is an important wake up call for us to appreciate each other daily, to live in a way that leaves others feeling cared for, like Vijay lived his. I'll miss him. We love you, Tove.

Ruth Arnette

September 5, 2016

Tove and Family, I am so sad we lost our Dr. Patel. He was more than my Dr. He was a kind, sweet soul and more like family. He would always listen and take time for us. I just knew he would be my Dr. for life, but God had a better plan for His angel. Rest in peace, Dr. Patel. Tove, you and all are in our prayers. Ruth and Ervin Arnette

Ruth Arnette

September 5, 2016

Tove & family I am so sad we lost our Dr Patel he was more than my Dr he was a kind sweet soul & more like family he would a always listen & take time for us I just knew he would be my Dr for life but god had a better plan for his angel rest in peace Dr Patel we loved you tove you & all are in our prayers Ruth & Ervin arnette

Rachel Jones

September 5, 2016

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Dr. Vijay Patel. He was one of the best doctors I have ever had. He was such a patient, kind, professional doctor and friend. It was always a pleasant experience to go to Dr. Patel's office. He had a wonderful staff. He will be missed tremendously. Tove, I will be praying for you and your entire family during this difficult time. May the Lord blanket you with his love and peace.

Rachel Jones

September 5, 2016

My heart goes out to Tove and Dr. Patel's family. I am still shocked at the loss of such a great doctor and friend. I have never met a doctor like Dr. Patel, he was never in a hurry and always spent quality time with me each time I went in. All of Dr. Patel's staff have been like family. I will truly miss him and his incredible staff. Praying for all of Dr.Patel's family during this difficult time..

Chris Nelson

September 5, 2016

Having been a patient of Doc Patel's for years until moving out of state, this news was devastating. One of my main regrets when I moved was that he would no longer be my primary care physician, as there was no one I would rather entrust my health to than him. He was the best doctor I've ever known -- Kind, patient, understanding, and knowledgeable -- and I believe that is owing to the fact the measure of his humanity was equal to that of his expertise. He was one of those rare people who touched all who came into contact with him for good. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, and I simply cannot express how great a loss this is. So compassionate, so caring, so missed.

Ed Bailey

September 5, 2016

Words fail me. I am heartbroken for Tove, and for those who spent their days with Vijay. It's just not fair to have to say goodbye to Dr. Patel so soon.

The way he would listen. The way he would collaborate when it was time to make a change: him, the medical expert, and me, the expert of living in this body of mine. Together we would figure it out.

The way he would connect. The way, at the end of each appointment, we'd shake hands (of course), but more importantly, there'd be that hand on my shoulder, that pat, that gentle squeeze, that said, we've got this; it'll be fine. And it was fine.

The way he would justbe. You can tell a lot about someone by watching them interact with others. People came away from their time with himbe it a patient in for an appointment, or a quick exchange with the office staffjust a little bit better than before. People could be the flawed human beings we all are, and that was OK with him. He'd meet you where you were, and take you with him.

Goodbye Dr. Patel. You will be missed.

Kim B

September 5, 2016

Tove and Dr. Patel's family, this has taken me days to write, and I'm still in shock. Simply the Best!!! Godspeed Doc. Simply the Best!!!!!!

Cristine Gresko

September 5, 2016

I had the honor of being under the care of Dr. Vijay Patel for the last 10 years. Many of those years I was plagued with anxiety and various health conditions. But no matter how difficult the time, I was always comforted knowing Dr. Patel was there. I moved out of state in April and made an appointment just to thank him for all that he had done for me over the years. I will cherish that last visit with Dr. Patel forever. He gave me comfort, hope and the warmest hug.

Tove, family, fellow patients, and office staff, my heart goes out to you all in this time of suffering. Tove, you were instrumental in Dr. Patel's life and my heart aches daily for your loss. Dr. Vijay Patel was one of a kind and I am so thankful to have been his patient. Thank you for sharing him with us all.

Vicki & George Beliveau

September 5, 2016

It is with very heavy hearts that we want to express our thoughts and prayers to all of Vijay's family and those with whom he worked and laughed daily. Dr. Patel has been our connection to hope during the past two years of losses. He kept us physically, emotionally and mentally healthy. His holistic gift will not soon, if ever, be able to be replaced. Thank you for your generosity in sharing this wonderful man with us.

Linda Joseph

September 5, 2016

I live in Florida and know Dr. Patel only through my son who has been his patient for a few years. I have felt such gratitude for the kind and sincere attention he has given my son who has been in constant pain for seven years and seen by many, many doctors to whom my son was more of a commodity. I cannot believe this good man has been lost at such a young age. I extend sincerest sympathy to his grieving family and wish them to know that I grieve with them.

Frances Porter

September 5, 2016

September 5, 2016

I just saw Dr. Patel last week. He was my doctor for about 15 years.
The first time I went to see him he greeted me with a smile and a
soft voice. Sometimes he said "what's up?" It does not seem possible
that he has died. We have lost a very special doctor, a one-of-a-kind
doctor, and a dear friend. He was a gifted listener and never rushed
through your appointment. It seemed like you were his only concern
when he was with you. TOVE, Vijay could not have been the person
he was without YOU. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your
staff, and family. Thank you ALL for the exceptional care, love, and
support we all received. His gentle spirit and desire to help each
of us will live on in the lives that he touched. Vijay, may you rest in
peace.

September 5, 2016

Dear Tove and the entire Patel family,
I had the honor of experiencing first hand the beautiful philosophy of practicing medicine as an compassionate art directly with Dr. Vijay Patel as a colleague at Blue Ridge Primary Care as well as when he took my nephew under his wing during some trying medical times recently. He was a beautiful person inside out and the medical community will always be shaped by the special way he practiced medicine for years to come . I will miss him professionally and personally. Dr. Anjali Sues

Kevin Bridgewater

September 4, 2016

I have been a patient of Dr.Patel's for About 10 yrs. and found him to be very competent,intelligent, kind and with a good "bedside " manner that alot of doctors lack. He always took the time to explain and answer questions where you understood fully.In the last few yrs. my insurance was not in network but didn't mind paying more because Dr.Patel was worthy. I last saw Doc on August 23rd. for my physical and had planned a followup call this week. I so dread trying to find a new doctor in the same mold as Dr. Vijay Patel. My sincere and heartfelt condolences to his wife Tove,Family, friends and staff. May God rest his soul.

Mona Ford

September 4, 2016

Tove, family and medical staff, Words alone cannot express what a great loss and sadness we all feel at this time. Dr. Patel was simply the "Best". I felt God sent me my guardian angel when I became his patient. He will be so missed but I know he is definitely an angel now watching over his beloved wife, Tove.... Rest In Peace, Dr. Patel

Vaughan Adams

September 4, 2016

When I saw the news this morning of the untimely passing of my friend Vijay, it took me to my knees. I have never had a doctor that was as caring and loving as that man. He always had time to talk a little bit after a visit and made you feel like he really care about the whole you, not just what may be ailing you that day. It is so hard to believe that I will never see the smile or feel the warm handshake of this wonderful man. Godspeed my friend and we will meet on the other side.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Tove, and the rest of the family.May God hold you close and comfort you.
Vaughan Adams, Raleigh, NC

Mattie Mayes

September 4, 2016

I am still in shock and disbelief about the passing of Dr. Patel. About 9 years ago, I was talking to Chico about finding a new doctor. He told me about Dr. Patel and I've never stopped thanking him. Dr. Patel was very compassionate about taking care of his patients. No matter how busy his schedule, he always took time to listen to you. I never got upset when Dr. Patel was running behind and I had to wait because I knew that he probably had to spend extra time listening to another patient like he had done for me many times. That was Dr. Patel, at that moment it was all about you.

I have often told my family and friends how much I loved my doctor and have referred several of them to him. Even after retiring and moving back to my hometown, it was worth driving the hour and fifteen minutes to see Dr. Patel. I just knew that I had a doctor for life. I know that I will never find another doctor like Dr. Patel.

Tove, I hope you know how much he was loved and respected. I have lost a wonder doctor as well as a wonderful friend. I will never forget him. Heaven just got a wonderful doctor.

Anita ------

September 4, 2016

He carried out God's work by deeply caring for his patients, always listening to them patiently and by helping them heal.

M W

September 4, 2016

Doc - you will truly be missed. Thank you for the care that you provided my family as we will never find a doctor quite like you!

Wendy Geigel

September 4, 2016

My heart broke hearing the news of my sweet Dr Patel's passing. He's been my Dr for 9 years and I absolutely dread the thought of having to look another. Dr Patel was a wise and kind soul that had that extra something special that's really hard to find...he cared. To Tove and all the medical staff that had the pleasure of working with Dr Patel; I pray for peace during this sorrowful time and hope you find comfort in knowing how very much he was loved and admired. He will be eternally missed.

Terry O'Brien

September 4, 2016

After having read all these examples of Dr. Patel's love for his patients, I feel obliged to share my initial experience with him. A painful ingrown nail took me to Kaiser Permeate, where I was fortunate enough to see Dr. Patel. He shared the fact that his time per patient was quite limited by house rules, and protocol called for him to send me to a specialist. Rather than leave me in pain while waiting for a new appointment, he asked me to stay in the room, and that he would be back during his lunch break. He did just that, he had grabbed a snack, and fixed my problem.

We lost a great and generous man!

Thoughts and prayers to his loved ones.

Mickey & Erin Holt

September 4, 2016

Such a loss! He had a brilliant mind and a good heart. Dr. Patel was a dedicated and caring man, even encouraging us to call his personal cell phone should we need him. The world will not be the same. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family as you navigate this difficult path. Mickey and Erin Holt

Tracy Barnes

September 4, 2016

When I heard the news on Wednesday August 31, 2016, I gasped as it took my breath away. I had only known Vijay and Tove for 2 years. My husband and I met them at an outdoor event on a Wednesday evening in Glenwood South. We walked over to introduced ourselves as he was still in is scrubs (he had just finished working). Once Vijay found out I was an owner of a Speech/Language Therapy office in Fuquay Varina, he asked if I would be interested in opening an office in their new building at 1520 Glenwood Avenue. It wasn't just the fact that the new space would only be 1 mile from my home and it was stunning, it was the fact that he was so accommodating. The next week, I took a tour. After the tour, he sat down with me. He could tell I was a little apprehensive about the new venture. He said, I truly want to help you build a successful business here in Raleigh. I want you and your business to be here long term. It will be great to build a full service medical office for the residents in Five Pointes. I couldn't resist and signed the contract.

Tove and Vijay were both pioneers in the medical field. They had such great plans and aspirations to help the local community with health care options. Especially for those without any health care benefits. It would have totally changed the way small businesses in our area could access health care. We all wish Tove and Vijay's dreams could have come to fruition.

Although my company will continue to enjoy their beautiful space on the second floor at 1520 Glenwood Avenue, it just won't be the same. Tove, my husband and I are truly sorry for your loss and still can't believe Vijay is no longer with us. It is with such great sympathies,
Love Tracy and Rob Barnes

Scott Abbott

September 4, 2016

Shocked at the sudden passing of my friend Vijay. He was a great friend and and outstanding physician. I am honored to have gotten to know him. Prayers for Tove, his staff, and his patients whom I know grieve this loss.

Paul Akins

September 3, 2016

I am so sad to hear of Vijay's passing. I have fond memories of him from junior-high & high school. Godspeed my friend. Condolences and prayers for his family for such an unexpected loss.

Shareasa Dunn

September 3, 2016

My heart is sadden by the news of Dr. Patel's passing. Although I wasn't his patient very long, he will always be remembered as a great physician who took caring for his patients with the greatest level of dignity and generosity ever imagined. My eyes filled with tears quickly when I read the email but I'm at peace now knowing that the work he's done for me was not in vain (this is my honest opinion, hands down, no doubt about it).

To his family, I pray for peace and comfort to be with you during this time of bereavement. Dr. Patel will be TRULY, TRULY missed by me. My prayers are with you.

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