Jane Kraver
Jane Kraver age 57 passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Saturday, March 28, 2020 in Bethel. Jane was raised in Fairhaven, MA and is survived by her loving husband Steve, children, Michael his wife Sarah, Daniel his fiancée Morgan, daughter Sarah as well as her mother Anne, brother Walter, sisters Audrey and Martha as well as many nieces and nephews. There was nothing more important to her than family. Her definition of family was not just her blood relatives, but close friends as well. She opened up her heart and home to everyone and dared to be her most true self.
She touched the lives of so many people; from the students she taught at Bethel High School to random strangers she helped. She was always the first to "pay it forward" at the Dunkin drive through and lived her life with the motto of "Be Kind". Jane was the glue to her family and to her friends.
When Jane was around with a glass of wine, a party was never far behind, whether it was one person or a whole neighborhood. People were just drawn to her. Her infectious smile and laugh were contagious and often said, "There is no bad day that a good dance can't fix".
She truly lived her best life she knew how to, making sure that she always put others before herself. Jane had more friends than one could imagine, from the Bethel Daisy's and her book club of over 20 years to her new friends in North Carolina and always made space for one more. Although she lived in Bethel for over 20 years she never lost her Massachusetts roots and fiercely defended it with her strong accent.
The family will hold a private service, and a celebration of life is planned for the spring. In lieu of flowers please pay it forward with a random act of kindness, as she would have wanted.
If desired donations can be made to the Scotty Fund - PO Box 1080 Bethel, CT 06801.
Bethel Funeral Home is handling arrangements. To leave an online condolence, please visit hullfuneralservice.com.

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Published by Danbury News Times on Mar. 31, 2020.

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Nota Family

April 17, 2020

Dear Sarah & Family:

Our hearts are so sad these past 2 weeks knowing what your going through. Your mom had a smile and laugh that was so captivating.
May you find all the memories will help to ease the pain in time.........
Love, prayers, and condolences

Jim, Sue and Andrew Novicky

April 13, 2020

I am so sad to hear this! Jane was truly one of the good ones! So much fun, love and laughter! Sending prayers and loving thoughts from our Family to yours

Lynn Fenn

April 6, 2020

Jane was a wonderful person. Her love of life was always evident when she worked with children from elementary school to high school. She will certainly be missed!
Sincerest condolences.

Carol Dutra kennedy

April 4, 2020

We met in first grade. By middle school, when my parents said You are grounded I knew that they didn't mean from riding my bike or watching TV, I knew that I was grounded from hanging out with Jane! We had A LOT of fun together! Years later, when she told me that she was having twins she said Me!! I never even babysat!

One day we were sitting in her little house on Cherry street and her boys weren't yet two. One was on the floor chewing on some unidentifiable object and the other had climbed the curtains and was standing on the windowsill. I kept jumping up to save their lives. Finally, Jane said Sit! They are fine! And she was right. They were fine. They grew up to be two wonderful guys and, as far as I know, all their limbs are still attached. When Sarah was born Jane's world was complete. It was always My Sarah... Her precious baby girl.

Steve and her children put joy in her days and love in her laugh. .

We will all miss her forever.

Joyce Filosi

April 2, 2020

I remember Jane bringing Sarah to preschool. She was a terrific Mom, and had a fun personality! What a precious loss for your family. Wishing you strength and comfort in the months ahead...

Paul Foster

April 1, 2020

I remember hanging around with Jane in the neighborhood and then attending Fairhaven High School together, graduating in 1980. Jane always had a great attitude and a fun laugh. She was a wonderful person. I want to extend my sympathy to the Kraver and Silveira Families. Take care.

April 1, 2020

This is so sad to hear. I remember Jane from the schools and even working out in the gym I belonged to. Blessings from Kelley Perry Kinnicutt.

Donna LaBate

April 1, 2020

Both Joe and I were very sorry to hear of Jane's passing. I saw her recently, and as always, she had a kind word and smile. Our sincere condolences to her whole family.

NANCY LOBALBO

April 1, 2020

Thinking of you all. Especially Michael, Daniel, Sarah. Your mom was simply the best of us all and I will miss running into her and "catching up". Such a fun, wonderful, big hearted person. You are all in my prayers. Thinking of Jane and paying it forward!

Joe Query

April 1, 2020

Please know that you are all in my prayers.
"Mrs. K" was the kindest, most welcoming person to me and my children. Standing with Jane at BHS games was so much fun, and her love for all was infectious!

The world has lost a great force for good - it will take all of us to replace her graciousness in our communities.

April 1, 2020

Jane, you now know the mystery of life. I always enjoyed seeing you at Berry School when you volunteered your time in the classroom. The two of us with our Boston Accent!!!!!! You always made me laugh! Such a wonderful mother you are, you were always so proud of your children and your family. Rest in peace Jane. May the Lord comfort your loved ones during this difficult time for all. Julie Corsak

Rick Staples

April 1, 2020

Jane was a wonderful person, terrific mother and wife, with a wonderful smile that made us all feel better when we heard her voice. I am so sorry for your loss, but so blessed to have known her.

Carole Chuslo Castonguay

March 31, 2020

I'm shocked and stricken to hear of Jane's death. Steve, you loved her so well, and she loved you so well. You both grabbed life and shook out its fun and beauty together, and taught your kids through your lively example. I send you strength and love to share with your whole beautiful family.

Nina & Krsiten Seturins

March 31, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Kraver family at this difficult time. Jane was a great neighbor and I never saw her without a smile on her face.

Anneke and Paul Sylvia

March 31, 2020

Our fam. is heartbroken.. we all were so lucky to have had you in our lives. Gone way to soon my dear friend. Keep giggling up in heaven honey. Love you.. rest in piece my angel.

Patricia Broadhurst

March 31, 2020

Jane was an awesome woman. Jane loved and spoke of her children with a smile and gleam in her eye.She always had a smile on her face .she made coming to work a fun place. She will be greatly missed. She had a heart ❤ of gold.
Pat Broadhurst

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