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Shirley Conner Obituary

Shirley Ann Conner Shirley Ann Conner, age 67, of Danbury, formerly of New Fairfield, and Little Falls, N.J., died on Sunday, October 12, 2008 at her home. She was the wife of the late George W. Conner, Jr. Shirley was born November 29, 1940 in Paterson, NJ, the daughter of the late Gus Jr. and Anna (Drol) Bianchi. Raised and educated in New Jersey, she was a graduate of Passaic Valley H.S. and the Katherine Gibbs Secretarial School. Shirley was employed as an executive secretary in the legal offices of the PraxAir Corporation, Danbury, and was a former employee of First Brands Corporation. A former resident of both Bloomfield and Montville, NJ, she moved to Taylor Drive in New Fairfield with her family in 1979. She had been a resident of Danbury since 1999. Shirley was an active volunteer with the Danbury area American Cancer Society, and the Dorothy Day Hospitality House. She was a parishioner of St. Gregory the Great Church, Danbury, and was a member of the local Red Hat Society. Shirley is survived by her three daughters: Carolyn Conner-DiMiceli and her husband, David of Brewster, NY, Kathleen Goccia and her husband Richard of Mystic, and Kelly Findlay and her husband, Anthony of Middlebury, one sister: Patty Marx and her husband, Ron of Frederick, Md.; three grandchildren: Kimberly, Michael, and George; and many nieces and nephews. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday October 16, at St. Gregory the Great Church, Danbury at 11 a.m. Burial will be in the Mountainview Cemetery, New Fairfield. The family will receive friends at the Green Funeral Home, 57 Main Street, Danbury on Wednesday from 5 thru 9 pm. Memorial Contributions in honor of Shirley are requested to be made to the Susan G. Komen Foundation for Breast Cancer Research, P.O. Box 224523, Dallas, TX 75222, or at www.komen.org

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Published by The News-Times on Oct. 14, 2008.

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Rose Ann Merenda

October 16, 2008

Shirley is an inspiration to all women. A true survivor, an amazing vitality for life, a contagious laugh, and someone you can always turn to for advice. In recent weeks I had the privilege of having Shirley a part of my life and maybe one day we'll meet again. God bless Shirley and her family.

Anicia Aquino

October 15, 2008

Dear Caroline, Kathleen and Kelly; and sister Patty,

No words can describe the sadness in my heart for losing a great and beloved friend. Shirley will remain in my heart as she truly has touched my life. I will always love her and keep her in my prayers. May God bless us all.

Joyce Miller-Reed

October 15, 2008

Words have not been coined to express my feeling of loss at this time. As your passing now serves to grieve us, let us remember the one who stands there to receive us. God's great promise is that we can all meet again on that beautiful shore. Shirley will be there in all her radiant beauty.

Until then my friend,

Elaine and Peter Arrison

October 15, 2008

To Shirley's Family -- A note to express our deepest sympathy for her loss. Her family and her friends were the most important part of her life. A part of her will always remain with each of us who knew and loved her. We are truly honored to have shared this friendship.

Maureen Greco

October 15, 2008

Kathy, Carolyn, Kelly,
I am very sorry to hear about your Mom. I will keep you all in my thoughts & prayers.

Jeanette johnson

October 14, 2008

My love and prayerful thoughts to Carolyn, Kathleen, Kelly and your extended families. Your Mom was a truly remarkable lady and inspiration to so many. I thank her for the precious gift of her friendship. Now we have an extra special guardian Angel to help watch over all of us.

Pam Gardner

October 14, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the Conners and extended family. May God watch over you and comfort you.

Joe Furey

October 14, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Natalie Hensley

October 14, 2008

Our prayers are with the family, especially Shirley's "three girls." Rather than dwell on her light being extinguished from this world, it's comforting to know that she lives on in each of you. Shirley was a very dear friend. We shared many health history scenarios, and she was always there to guide and encourage. We were part of a wonderful "sisterhood" of friends, and each one of us has many treasured memories of Shirley that we will always carry in our minds and hearts.

Elizabeth Pokrinchak

October 14, 2008

Kathy, Carolyn & Kelly,
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Betty Pokrinchak

Patricia Long

October 14, 2008

My prayers are with your family. I worked with Shirley at First Brands for many years and she was a lovely person. I myself am a 3-year breast cancer survivor.

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