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TJ Lobraico Obituary
SSgt TJ Lobraico, Jr, USAF., of Sherman, cherished son of MSgt Todd J. Lobraico and Maj. Linda (Strid) Rohatsch, and beloved stepson of Dr. Robert Rohatsch and Dianne Lobraico, was killed in action while serving active duty in Afghanistan with the United States Air Force. He was born in New Milford on November 23, 1990 and was a graduate of New Fairfield High School, Class of 2008. He attended Western Connecticut State University studying Justice and Law Administration and aspired to continue his public service as a police officer. TJ graduated from Security Forces Technical School with distinguished honors.
TJ was continuing the family legacy of military service that began with his grandparents. He was serving with the 105th Security Forces Squadron at Stewart Air National Guard Base in Newburgh, NY, where his parents still actively serve. He had also served active duty with the USAF from 2010 until 2011 at Balad Air Base in Iraq.
TJ was known to live life to the fullest, he was spontaneous and could bring about laughter and joy in every aspect of his life and those around him. He was generous with a smile, or a kind word to anyone in need.
In addition to his parents and stepparents, he will be sadly missed by his sisters, Jessika Lobraico of Sherman, Haley Rohatsch of New Fairfield, and Alexa Lobraico of Sherman; his brother, Nicholas Lobraico of Sherman; his grandparents, Timothy and Kathy Cole of Sherman, Frank and Sally Lobraico of Sherman, Rob and Janie Rohatsch of Florida, Les and Charlotte DeBetta of Sherman; and his loving girlfriend, Jessica Germano of New Fairfield. He is also survived by his "brother from another mother," Jeff Archer; a devoted circle of friends; and his canine companion Gus.
Funeral Services will be held at the O'Neill Center at Western Connecticut State University Westside Campus on Friday, September 13th at 11:00am. Burial will follow in North Cemetery, on Church Rd in Sherman.
The family will receive friends at the O'Neill Center on Thursday, September 12th between the hours of 3:00 and 7:00pm. The Cornell Memorial Home is in charge of arrangements.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the SSgt. TJ Lobraico, Jr. Scholarship Fund, c/o Wells Fargo, 1 Eagle Road, Danbury, CT 06810.
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Memories and Condolences
for TJ Lobraico
Marcia Carpenter
September 7, 2018
To the family, friends, and military unit of SSgt. Lobraico, Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss of T.J. He is a true American hero. All Americans are grateful for his service to defend freedom and protect our way of life. May he rest in Peace and may you have healing for your loss. Marcia C.
September 6, 2018
Dear SSgt.,
Tho we never met I have learned through the eyes of your family what a wonderful young man you became, complete with the desire to help make our country a safe America. While you lay resting please know that you are a GREAT NEPHEW. With love, Aunt Susan
Hero
CHARLIE COX
September 5, 2018
T. J.'s Squad Leader, retired. I loved T.J. and I miss him and he was a hero. I can only hope my 2 sons become the young men that you were. On the anniversary of your death I remember you and mourn you. I think of you and all of my other friends that died every single day.
Michael Lobraico III
January 11, 2015
Our prayers are with you and your family.
Dayna Lobraico
May 29, 2014
God Bless you and your family. My husband called my attention to the many articles written in your honor. I am not sure but we may have a family relation through past generations. Nevertheless I was compelled to extend my condolances and gratitide through this site. May God bless and keep you for your courage and honorable service.
Very Respectfully,
Dayna T. Lobraico
LCDR/MC/USN
S. Kronenwetter
October 17, 2013
To the Family of Staff Sgt. Todd J.Lobraico, Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your love one Todd, and my sincerest gratitude for his service.
God Bless you Staff Sgt. Todd J. Lobraico...you will not be forgotten.
Parag Kulkarni
October 4, 2013
Dear Rohatsch & Lobraico Fmaily,
May god give you strength to bear the unfortunate loss. We feel proud of TJ and are grateful for his service to the country. May his soul rest in peace.
Lynne Neibert
October 1, 2013
Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who work to send handmade prayer shawls and/or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one while serving our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church would like to extend our sincere sympathy and to honor your loved one's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a prayer gift which will be mailed to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses of those who would like to receive one and which gift they would like to receive. We will send our gift as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved on who died while serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne
Angela Simons
September 23, 2013
We can't even imagine the loss that you are feeling. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with the Lobraico family. T.J. is our hero.
September 17, 2013
Your ultimate sacrifice will resonate in this small town forever TJ. I see the impression you've left every single day. Thank you for your service. May you rest peacefully. Your family, friends, girlfriend, and doggy remain in all of our prayers here. You are truly a hero; missed every minute of every day.
Gallagher Family
September 17, 2013
Rohatsch & Lobraico Fmaily - My deepest condolences to you all. TJ will forever be remembered as a TRUE AMERICAN HERO. My the memories of his sense of humor, love and antics always make you smile through the heartache. My love to you all...
Casey Rhodes
September 16, 2013
There are no words to express my gratitude or my sadness. May the road rise to meet you TJ...God Bless
September 16, 2013
Our family knows the pain & heartache your family is going through. We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts & prayers.
The Kirton Family
Army CPL Brandon Kirton
KIA 5/18/11 - Afghanistan
Colin, Rosebeth, Paris and Tom Holliday
September 16, 2013
Words cannot express the humble thanks our family feels for the service, dedication and sacrifice your son gave so we can live free. He will be missed, but never forgotten.
SSG Vincent Lombardo TF 105/56Bde NY Guard
September 14, 2013
My sincere condolences to the Labraico family and Todd's team mates. May God bless him and grant him eternal peace.
Joanne Sterk
September 14, 2013
Sally and Family, I am so sorry for the loss of your grandson. Sending prayers for your healing.
James Masi
September 14, 2013
We honor SSGT Lobraico's sacrifice, we pray for comfort and peace to his family, and comrades in arms.
Respectfully,
SSGT Masi
TF105/56th Brigade NY GUARD
William Jones, Jr.
September 14, 2013
With the very deepest sympathies to T.J.'s family, and with the fondest memories of the completely fine person that T.J. was and will always remain in our hearts, and with greatest appreciation and reverence for his service and sacrifice,
Love and deepest condolences,
The Jones family
charlotte porto
September 14, 2013
To the Lobraico family, my sincerest sympathy, love, and prayers to you. I only wish you peace in your heart.God Bless you all!
S. Kronenwetter
September 13, 2013
To the Lobraico Family, Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your loved one and hero Todd, and my sincerest gratitude for his service for our country.
God Bless you Staff Sgt. Todd J. Lobraico...you will not be forgotten.
Brian Kinsella
September 13, 2013
Our deepest Sympathies and Prayers go out to Todd sr. and all of the Lobraico family during this time of pain & sorrow!! Todd Stay Strong Bud!! The AT&T LINEGANG.
September 13, 2013
My heart breaks for your friends and family. Thank you for service and sacrifice. Semper Fi
Linda Queiroz
September 13, 2013
My prayers go out to the family and friends of TJ Lobraico Jr. He is a true hero.
God Bless!
Liam Glynn
September 13, 2013
My heart felt sympathies to the LoBraico family. Thanks for your service to our country Todd, Liam, John, Suzanne and Malachy
Janet Rodriguez
September 13, 2013
My memories of this family as a young girl tell me that Todd Jr. was a wonderful young man.I send my deepest sympaties to the entire family. i will pray for all you that you will find some peace and understanding.
September 13, 2013
RIP young Warrior
Tonya and Marlow Dunham
September 13, 2013
My heart aches and goes out to all of you. Your loss is felt by so many, and the prayers of our church family continue. Thank you so much for your commitment and service to our country and your community. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Jennifer Caoili & Family
September 13, 2013
Major Rohatsch and family,
I am so deeply saddened to hear the news of your loss. My family and I will continue to pray for your healing. Your son is a true American hero.
Cathy Renzulli
September 13, 2013
Thank you for your sacrifice. May your family find peace and strength during this difficult time.
The Herring Family
September 13, 2013
Thank you for your service and sacrifice.
sue cole fiello
September 13, 2013
Rest in peace, young Hero. You are loved.
Colleen Jones
September 13, 2013
As a former Sherman resident, this truely hits home to our small town. My thoughts,prayers and love Go out to the Lobraico Family.
Donna/Manny Matula
September 12, 2013
Dear Sally and the entire Lobraico family, we were very saddened to hear about your loss, our deepest sympathy and our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you, and may god be with him and your family and in honoring him for serving our country, may god bless you all
September 12, 2013
TJ's family,
Our hearts break for you. We know your pain. The Reich family of Washington, CT sends you our deepest sympathy. Our country, our community and our families can never replace the loss you have suffered. The Reichs, also a Gold Star family.
September 12, 2013
To the Lobraico Family: My Heart is hurting for your pain. You raised a Wonderful Son who is a true "AMERICAN HERO"' May God give your Family the strength to get through this time. { A Mother of a Soldier} New Fairfield
Joe Castellano
September 12, 2013
My deepest condolences on the passing of TJ. Thank you for your service and sacrifice to this country young man and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. A true American Hero.
Angela and Brian Butler
September 12, 2013
Dear Todd and Family,
Our heart breaks for you all. May God comfort you all during this very difficult time. We are here for you. We love you and are grieving with you. We are praying for you and keeping you in our thoughts. God bless you!
Marcia and Peter Bennett
September 12, 2013
Todd and Linda, So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. We remember the days in Sherman when Joe and Kristan were friends and classmates of yours. God Bless you all.
Valarie and Donald Primerano
September 12, 2013
We are deeply sorry to hear of your families loss. We will keep your family in our prayers. He was a true hero and a blessing from God. Hold your memories close and know someday you will be reunited together again.
Diana & John Reynolds
September 12, 2013
Words cannot adequately express our deepest sorrow and heart felt condelences to the family. Linda is my husband's Commander at the 105th and our hearts are beyond broken for her and the entire family as well as the 105th who suffered a loss as well. Forever in our prayers!
weasel
September 12, 2013
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Reverend Liz Wold
September 12, 2013
Forever in our hearts.
God's Lent Child
I'll lend you for a little while, a child of mine, God said
For you to love the while he lives and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or forty-two or three
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you and should his stay be brief
You'll always have his memories as a solace in your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught below I want this child to learn.
I've looked this whole world over in my search for teachers true
And from the folk that crowd Life's lane I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love and not think the labour vain,
Nor hate me when I come to take this lent child back again?
I fancy that I heard them say “Dear God, thy will be done.
For all the joys this child will bring the risk of grief we'll run.
We will shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may
And for all the happiness we've ever known, we'll ever grateful stay.
But should the angels call him much sooner than we'd planned
We will brave through the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.”
~ Author Unknown -
Eileen Kroboth/ Beanie
September 12, 2013
Linda, I am deeply sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Jen , Steven and Sean Sperazza
September 12, 2013
We share your grief and wish you comfort.
Suzanne MacDaniel
September 12, 2013
I know there are no words to say at this time, except how sorry that I am. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Todd will never be forgotten.
For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I'm home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I'm only a civilian
And I don't even know if it's allowed
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
For those missing in action;
for those who didn't make it home.
I know you're in God's presence you are not alone.
For every neatly folded flag;
for every shattered family
I will do the only thing I know to dignify your memory.
I salute you, allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
my humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you .
I Salute You.
Suzanne MacDaniel - A Proud Aunt
Colonie, NY
SGT. David M. Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 - Iraq -
September 12, 2013
So young. We honor you with our flag at half-staff and will be thinking of you all on Friday.
Wickham Park, Manchester, Ct
David Hallock
September 12, 2013
To Mr. Lobraico and Mrs. Rohatsch. My prayers are with you and the rest of your family. I am terrible sorry for your loss.
The Geraci Family
September 12, 2013
Linda, Todd Sr., and family,
TJ is (and always will be) a source of courage, strength, and pride to everyone who had the honor of knowing him; he is a real hero.
We extend our hearts and hands to you at this time of deep sorrow.
Lisa Vakassian Cody
September 11, 2013
Todd, Linda and all your family: my heart hurts for you.
Sincerely
Your old classmate
Terri Barry
September 11, 2013
Thank you for serving!
Danielle McDermott
September 11, 2013
Our sincerest condolences to the entire Lobraico family. I teach at the high school but never had the pleasure of meeting TJ. However, my husband's family knew him well and spoke so highly of him. My husband and I had the honor of meeting Todd Sr. just 2 weeks ago. Our hearts break for your family in this terrible tragedy. TJ is a true hero for all he gave and fought for. He will never be forgotten. Danielle & Dan McDermott
The Joseph Family
September 11, 2013
To the Lobraico and Rohatsch Families,
We are so sorry for the loss of your wonderful son and brother TJ. He will be remembered for his incredible bravery, respectful manner and uplifting smile. Thank you TJ your selflessness and dedication to preserving our freedom. We are forever grateful. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
judy wilms
September 11, 2013
Words cannot express how sad we all are. R.I.P. T.J.
Greg & Cory Gomes
September 11, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
Joe and Jo Welter
September 11, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with all the Lobraico family. May God take care of TJ and comfort you. He truly is a "Hero"... taken too soon.
Amanda Ireland
September 11, 2013
Todd, Linda, Jessica and family- my heart breaks for all of you...... Know TJ is a true American hero and his legacy will live on,
Much love
Eileen & Odie Masztalics
September 11, 2013
Todd and Linda, we are so sorry for the Passing of your son. Please accept our heart felt condolences.
A Stranger
September 11, 2013
Thank you for your service young man. You have made your country and your family very proud. God bless.
A Stranger
September 11, 2013
Thank you for your service TJ. You've made you parents and your country so proud.
The Finkle Family
September 11, 2013
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. My family will keep you in our prayers as well as your family and all other military who fight for our freedom. May God grant peace to the Lobraico Family.
Bill LoRusso
September 11, 2013
A brave young man gave the ultimate sacrifice to secure our freedom.
May God Bless You & Keep You!!
Our condolences, Coreen & Bill LoRusso
September 11, 2013
Todd/Linda,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. TJ is a Great American Patriot.
Wayne Chapman
Jodie Yankanin
September 11, 2013
On behalf of the staff at the Orange-Ulster BOCES Career and Technical Education Division, I would like to express our condolences to the Lobraico Family and the 105th. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
September 11, 2013
From one military family to another, thinking of you all during this time. The Pinckney Family, Montgomery NY
Wyckoff Family
September 11, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and forever!
Linda Barbour
September 11, 2013
TJ - Thank you serving our country. My thoughts and prayers are with the Labraico family. Rest in Peace.
Fleming Family
September 11, 2013
Thank you for protecting our Freedom
September 11, 2013
My condolences to your entire family. We at the 105Th all feel the pain and the sense of loss as you do. May God wrap his love and warmth around your entire family and his friends to bring comfort and ease the pain that we all are experiencing. His name will live on in our hearts and minds for eternity. May all of you be blessed and be strong.
September 11, 2013
To the family, friends, and military unit of Staff Sgt. Lobraico, Please, accept my deepest condolences for your loss of Todd. We will not forget his brave service or ultimate sacrifice to defend freedom and protect our way of life. He is a true American Hero. May he rest in Peace and may you have comfort and healing for your loss.
Joe Keenan
September 11, 2013
Linda, Todd Sr. and all TJ's family. TJ was a warrior and a true American Airman. My heart goes out to all of you. May the love of friends and family carry you through these difficult times.
Alexis Van Sauter
September 11, 2013
To the Lobraico family, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I will never forget TJ's smile that was just as big as his heart. He will be truly missed.
September 11, 2013
Thank you young man for serving our country,for your bravery & giving of yourself for freedom..
With deepest heartfelt sympathy to your family,friends & fellow comrades.
A grateful American
The Simoneau Family
September 10, 2013
Todd and Family, Words cannot express the sorrow that My Family as well as our Entire Nation feels for You and Your Family!
Bob & Colleen Morris
September 10, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Lobraico family during these trying time. Peace of the Lord be with you and all the family and friends of Todd.
Grandinetti family
September 10, 2013
Rock the heavens!!!
U will be missed...
True American hero!!
Erich and Venessa White
September 10, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Lobraico family and all his friends and family. Thank you for your service. May you rest in peace.
Shanna Wilkes
September 10, 2013
Kathy sorry for yours and your families loss ....you all are in my prayers . Im thankful to your grandson for all he has done for our country ...may his name be remembered for all he has done .
September 10, 2013
Thank you for your service.And to the Lobraico family: I believe our time on earth with our loved ones is but as quick as the blink of an eye and the time we have to look forward to with them after this life is eternal and will be eternally sweet.May the good Lord grant you peace through this most trying time.
Susan and Frank Thomas
September 10, 2013
May you rest in God's everlasting arms, as all heroes do, and may he bless and comfort your beloved families.
A Friend
September 10, 2013
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. My family will keep you in our prayers as well as your family and all other military who fight for our freedom. May God grant peace to the Lobraico Family.
John Barry
September 10, 2013
my good friends Todd and Dianne we are very sorry for your loss of TJ when Tina and we met him at your pig roast a few years back it was like we knew him a life time our heart goes out to you and your whole family really wish we could be there with you love the Barry's
Bill & Ellen Hipp
September 10, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to the Lobraico
family. Our thoughts are with you.
September 10, 2013
Thank you for serving. May God watch over you and your family
Danielle Carollo O'Rourke
September 10, 2013
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Stephen DeVito SPD retired
September 10, 2013
Brother Todd, I cannot imagine the grief you and your family are going through. I pray for you as you mourn the loss of your beloved son. Find comfort that he is at peace and without pain in the arms of the Lord. SSgt. TJ, thank you for the ultimate sacrifice in love for your family and country. Rest in peace.
Susan Szold
September 10, 2013
Though we do not know you personally, we share your sorrow and wish you courage and healing. The Szold Family, New Fairfield
September 10, 2013
With Deepest Sympathy to the Lobraico family. Our son was serving with your son at Bagram AFB and had nothing but good to say about your him.
Sincerely,
The Rabbitt family
Kathleen Lindenmayer, CAPT, USN (Ret)
September 10, 2013
Thank you, TJ, for giving everything you had for America. Our soldiers are our greatest treasure-we owe you everything. Linda, Todd and families-please accept our humble thanks and sympathy-you will remain in our hearts and prayers.
Lisa and Megan Webb
September 10, 2013
Praying for your family.. Thank you for serving our country.
Michelle Collins-Purpora
September 10, 2013
My prayers go out the Lobraico Family. May you find peace at this difficult time
Fran Watson
September 10, 2013
My heartfelt sympathies go out to the entire Lobraico family. Thank you TJ for your service to our country. Your spirit will live on forever...xoxoxo
Patty Prestera
September 10, 2013
Our deepest sympathies to the Lobraico Family.
Anthony & Patty Prestera
Joseph Ricci
September 10, 2013
Thank you for making your service and life a gift to our country. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in God's arms with all our other heroes.
Donna Seamon
September 10, 2013
Rest in peace TJ. Thank you for all you have done to protect us. There is now an angel & hero in heaven. Our deepest condolences to your family & loved ones. The Seamon Family
September 10, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to all the family. The Wayne's
Kenneth & Kathy Grant
September 10, 2013
Wishing peace to all of TJ's family at this difficult time.
September 10, 2013
My sincere condolences to the Lobraico family, my sympathy, thoughts and prayers will be with you at the time of your tragic loss. From your brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers at the NC Air National Guard.
Ridgefield Police
September 10, 2013
TJ was a true warrior. He will be dearly missed but never forgotten. We want to thank him for his service. Our thoughts and prayers are with our brother Todd and the Lobraico family.
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