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Kenneth McCoy Obituary

1-27-24 – 9-29-12. Ken McCoy was born January 27, 1924 in Snyder, TX to Charles Augusta McCoy and Lucy Clotiel McCoy and passed away suddenly on Saturday, September 29, 2012. The McCoy family moved to northwest Louisiana near Elm Grove, where his father was a cotton farmer, when Ken was 10. He attended LSU on an ROTC scholarship. He left his sophomore year to train to be a pilot in the Army Air Corps, and served as a B24 instructor during the WWII. At war's end he returned to LSU and earned a degree in aeronautical engineering with a minor in mechanical engineering. Ken entered a PHD program at Cornell University where he met Mary Lou Patterson in the registration line his first week. He left Cornell to return to LSU and started a crop dusting business and was a flight instructor for the LSU flight school. While a graduate student at LSU, he was instructor and shared an office with Humphries Turner. After graduating from LSU, Ken married Mary Lou and moved to Grosse Pointe, Michigan where he worked for the airplane division of General Motors and was also an instructor at Wayne State University where he was pursuing a graduate degree. Upon the death of his father-in-law, he took over the family company. He developed it into K.L. McCoy & Associates, which did engineering consulting and represented HVAC manufacturers. After Mary Lou's death, he married Florence Turner of Baton Rouge, retired from K.L. McCoy & Assoc. and moved to Baton Rouge. Ken and Florence enjoyed years of traveling and fun with their buddies in the Claycut Road Country Club. He loved gardening, refinishing antique furniture and caning chairs for family and friends, and playing tennis. After Florence's death, Ken developed a loving relationship with Florence's friend, Snookie Daniel, that endured until Snookie's untimely passing. He is pre-deceased by his parents, his wife Mary Lou; wife Florence; and very special friend Snookie Daniel; his brother, Charles Augusta; twin sisters, Marge McFerren and Marion Mardis; and a son, Thomas Stewart McCoy. He is survived by "his three families". His immediate family includes his daughter Rebecca McCoy and husband Dan Simpkins; son John, son David and wife Mary Ann; son Todd and wife Carol; grandchildren Sarah Simpkins, Ben Simpkins, Alex McCoy, Jack McCoy, David McCoy, Jr., Karlyn McCoy, Michael McCoy, Andrew McCoy, Courtney McCoy, Kevin McCoy and Kyle McCoy. He is survived by stepchildren Jim Turner, II and wife Deborah, Florence Turner Bethard and husband Jim, Lib Turner Gilreath and husband Scott, and Martha Turner Thompson and husband Kim; step grandchildren Sarah Anne Turner, Jim Turner III and Scott Turner, Jay Bethard, Shirley Bethard Hagemeier and husband Todd, Henry Bethard, Ben Bethard and wife Meg, Courtney Gilreath Manship and husband Matt, Philip Gilreath and wife Andrea, Martha Gilreath , Scott Gilreath, Allen Gilreath, Turner Gilreath, Tab Hirschey, Virginia Hirschey, Ann Thompson and McKinley Thompson; and step great grandchildren Chloe Gilreath, Bennett Austin, Lex Tangman, Gray Bethard and Eli Hagemeier. He is also survived by his adopted family Danny Daniel and wife Lori, Colleen Daniel Williams and husband James, Pam Daniel Anderson and husband Jeff; and their children, Kristen Daniel James, Matt Daniel, Annie Grace Williams, Catherine Williams, Gunther Anderson, and Grace Anderson. Visitation will be Friday, October 5, 6-8pm at Rabenhorst Funeral Home East on Florida Blvd. and also Saturday, October 6, 12:30 at Our Lady of Mercy Catholic Church, directly followed by the service at 1:30. There will be a reception following the service at the church. A memorial service and interment ceremony will be held at 2:30 on November 24, at Christ Episcopal Church, Grosse Pointe, Michigan. A reception will follow at the church. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the American Cancer Societ. A guest registry is available at www.Rabenhorst.com.

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Published by New Haven Register from Oct. 1 to Oct. 5, 2012.

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October 4, 2012

MCcoy family take comfort in knowing that by trusting in Almighty god. He will be a refuge for you if you pour out your heart to him. (Psalm 68:2) I extend my condolence to the family.

Jill Davis Rider

October 4, 2012

I was very saddened to learn of Kenneth's passing. He was always the sweetest, best of men as I knew him over the years through the Bethard family. He obviously was very well loved. My thoughts & prayers are with all his families.

October 4, 2012

To Ken's family,
My wife Cassie and I would like to extend our sincere condolences for your loss. We had the pleasure to visit with Ken both in New Orleans and in Baton Rouge. He was a very special person and we enjoyed his comapny and visits. He certainly was intersting and a pleasure to be around, God Bless all of you,
Bob and Cassie Pritt

For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud

October 4, 2012

The Final Salute

“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.

This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to Kenneth Lucian McCoy our “Brother-in-Arms”. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Ken. And to Ken it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the devoted and selfless service he rendered to his country during WW-II while serving as an Instructor Pilot in the U.S. Army Air Corps. Ken, you are a true patriot, who served with honor and distinction. You upheld the finest qualities of an American patriot warrior: courage, commitment, generosity, sacrifice, love and devotion to family and country. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at Ease. Rest in Peace.

On behalf of the 1,261 military veteran Legionnaires of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Ken's family and loved ones.

Stephen J. Lavery, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109

Rita Farris

October 2, 2012

To the family of Mr. McCoy: Your father was a wonderful kind soul we were truly blessed when he would come in to Clegg's and buy his plants or just come by to see if anything new was available. Peace be with you.

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