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Buttolph, David David Lyman Buttolph, 89, of Branford, CT, died Monday, April 22, 2013, after a period of failing health. His beloved wife, Ewa, and daughter, Katherine, were at his side. He was born in White Plains, NY, on August 21, 1923, to James Elliott and Edna Gibson Buttolph. A graduate of The Gunnery School, David received a B.A. in Music from Yale University in 1944, where he counted himself lucky to have worked with Paul Hindemith. David served in the US Navy in World War II as an officer in the USNR, with destroyers in Atlantic, Mediterranean, and Pacific operations, and was in combat. Upon returning, he completed a B.A. in piano and MS in conducting from the Juillard School of Music. He also studied in Paris with Nadia Boulanger and Felix Passerone, at Tanglewood with Hugh Ross and Eleazar de Carvalho, at the cole Monteux with Pierre Monteux, and in NewYork City under Saul Goodman. David wrote and arranged music throughout a career that included positions as timpanist with the New Orleans Philharmonic Symphony; Chairman of the Music Department at Dillard University; member of the conducting staff at Manhattan School of Music; and director of musical theater productions in the New York metropolitan region and east coast venues from Florida to Canada. He spent from 1966-88 at SUNY Binghamton, conducting major choral works with orchestra, and led national and international concert tours. He also taught theory, percussion, elements of Kodály training, and was founder/director of the Elizabethan Madrigal Dinner evenings, an ongoing annual event. As an educator, David took particular pride in the formation and development of choirs: as founder/director of the Louisiana Choral Society in New Orleans 1954-63, conductor/director of the Saint Cecilia Chorus of New York, The Harpur Chorale, The University Chorus, Binghamton University. From the 1970s, David was an avid proponent of the Kodály Method of Music Education. He studied at the Kodály Musical Training Institute in Hungary. In the US, he developed a Kodály Training Chorus, presented invited lectures on the Kodály method, and did extensive teaching of the method in a variety of settings. He served in 1978 as president of the America Kodály Music Institute. During his professional life, he directed and conducted the Utica Symphony Orchestra, the Cornell Glee Club and Cornell Chorus, the Buffalo Symphony, the Oneonta Community Chorale, the Catskill Choral Society, SUC-Oneonta Choir, and Tri-City Chamber Singers. His numerous invited guest appearances as conductor included the All-State Chorus under the Georgia Music Educators Association; the All-County Rockland Music Festival; New York State School Music Association in Whitesboro; and the National Conference of the Organization of Kodály Educators. Also a noted composer, arranger and lyricist, David counted among his creative highlights He Is Born The Beloved Child, The Beatitudes, He's Gone Away, Psalm 118, and numerous folksong arrangements; Touch of the Child, a musical by Max Showalter, choral arrangements; and the music and lyrics for The Best of Intentions, an original musical. In accordance with his firm belief that music transcends international boundaries, he sought funding, sponsored, and served on host committees for the Brno Academic Choir in Czechoslovakia; the Hart House Chorus from the University of Toronto, Canada; the Szczecin Technical Institute Choir, from Szczecin, Poland; and the Treklangen Choir, from Sweden. During retirement, David was fortunate to be able to indulge in his second career, the theatre, performing in South Pacific and Inherit the Wind in Endicott, NY; Ten Little Indians at Ivoryton Playhouse; The Sunshine Boys at Stony Creek Puppet House. He also sang the role of Simeon in Touch of the Child, and twice conducted that musical at Ivoryton, Clinton, and the Garde Theater in New London, Connecticut. During a conducting tour to Poland in 1988, David, who had been widowed, met Ewa Borowiec, who became his second wife and loved and loving companion for the last 25 years of his life. After his retirement, he returned to Indian Neck, Branford, CT, a place he'd spent childhood summers with his grandparents, parents, and two late beloved brothers John and Bob. He was loved and respected by many students, colleagues and by family, friends, and neighbors in the Indian Neck community. He was an active volunteer with the Shoreline Arts Alliance. David Buttolph is survived by his wife, Ewa Buttolph; children Katherine, Peter, and James Buttolph and Diana Norcross (Alastair), and step-daughter Agnieszka Rybkiewicz (Mark); eight grandchildren, and two great-grandsons, and Ewa's two grandchildren; nieces Carol Williams (Alan), Janet Brown and Barbara Sargent (Ron); nephews Stephen (Judy) and Brian (Ellen) Buttolph: first cousin, Philip Buttolph, and sisters-in-law Frances Buttolph and Anne Howe. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Janet Howe Buttolph. All who knew David especially appreciated his sense of humor, kindness, warmth and outgoing and gracious personality. Memorial services will be held on Friday, May 10, at Green Wood Cemetery in Brooklyn, NY, at 11 AM, and on Saturday, May 11 in the Dwight Chapel of the Yale University Old Campus, at 11 AM. In lieu of flowers the family asks that contributions or donations be made in his memory to The Shoreline Arts Alliance Scholarship Funds in Guilford, 725 Boston Post Rd, Guilford, CT 06437, or to The Gunnery School, 99 Green Hill Rd, Washington Depot, CT 06793. Arrangements are with the Hawley Lincoln Memorial, New Haven.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Apr. 25 to Apr. 26, 2013.

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Laurie Goodheim-Levine

April 11, 2014

David Buttolph was the BEST choral educator I have every worked with. Although his best efforts failed to make me a timpanist, I continue to add my voice to others as a result of his ministration. I remember his wife Janet, his son Peter, his eulogy of Leon Glow, and his expressive eyebrows.

Valerie Rosenfeld

December 22, 2013

B allowed me to join his wonderful Harpur Chorale in 1986. I learned from him a deep beauty of music I had never known. His kindness, great warmth and true beauty have never ever left me. It was a great honor to sing under his direction, to travel with him to Poland, Hungary and Austria and sing the Carmina Burana. I tell people about the time at the Black Madonna Shrine how he was trying to remember the beautiful melody we heard there. He did it by translating it into solfeggio. I felt that I was in the presence of true greatness when I was with him. I loved him and have continued to carry his spirit with me whenever I am lucky enough to be touched by beautiful music. I am so sorry for your loss, and for ours. He was one of a kind.

November 16, 2013

It was my honor to have known David through four years of Harpur Chorale and University Chorus, and on the 1988 tour to Poland, Austria and Hungary. He was a wonderful, warm, and talented man, and we were lucky to have been able to work with him. I had not seen him since 1988--but suddenly the world is a colder and emptier place knowing that he is gone. Still, what a pleasure to read about how full his life was after retirement. My (belated) thoughts are with his large, loving family.

Jennie Faith

November 16, 2013

David, "B", was like a father to me during my years in his Harpur Chorale. From our first meeting in January, 1984 at my audition, he embraced me both as a singer and as a person. Over the years he became my friend. When he left on sabbatical my senior year, there was a hole in my heart. "B", know you have been thought of over the years warmly, always wishing you lived close enough so that I could drop in and visit with you. You will be missed, but you will always be loved. My condolences to your family.

Rich Wiebe

November 4, 2013

Mr B was my conductor in the Harpur Chorale many years ago, and his dedication, musicality, and enthusiasm helped make that one of the best experiences of my life. He will be missed.

Sandra Vlock

April 26, 2013

What a privilege to know David, and both of you. An extraordinary life! Our love to you, Ewa.

Joe Roma

April 25, 2013

I was fortunate to have studied percussion with David at Binghamton University in the early 70's. His passion for music inspired me and I use many of his methods as a teacher and as a performer to this day. His interest in the Kodaly method was so helpful to my ear development, too. I wish all of his family my sincere condolences.

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