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Gary Mongillo Obituary

MONGILLO, GARY F. Gary F. Mongillo, 59, of North Haven, formerly of Hamden, passed away on Saturday, May 17, at the St. Raphael’s campus of Yale–New Haven Hospital after a brief illness. He was born in New Haven on March 7, 1955, the son of Gloria Davis Mongillo, of Hamden, and the late Ferdinand Mongillo. He was the beloved husband of 32 years to Eileen Wade Mongillo. In addition to his mother and his wife, Gary is survived by two loving daughters, Siobhan Marie Day and Maureen Catherine (Joseph J., III) Cruz, both of North Haven; a sister, Nadine Avellani-Mongillo; and a niece and goddaughter, Nicole Perrelli, both of East Haven; and three grandchildren, Ethan Alek Day, Audrey Lily Cruz, and McKenzie Elise Cruz. Gary had been employed at Stop & Shop in Hamden since 1987, working as a member of the store’s night crew. He was an avid bowler, participating in the Stop & Shop league; a talented woodworker, and a diehard sports fan, especially of horseracing, the New York Yankees, and the Miami Dolphins. He was part owner of the Hamden Kennel Shop for over 30 years. He loved trips to the casinos and to the beaches at Misquamicut and Montauk, singing, and enjoying cigars and scotch, and he was also a local baseball coach. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Blessed Sacrament Church, 321 Circular Ave., Hamden, CT at 10 AM on Thursday, May 22. Friends may visit with his family at BEECHER & BENNETT, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden, on Wednesday from 5 to 8 PM. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Gary’s memory may be made to the ARDS Foundation, 3330 Dundee Rd. Suite C4, Northbrook, IL, 60062, or given online at www.ardsusa.org. For more information or to send a condolence to his family, please see obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com.

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Published by The New Haven Register from May 19 to May 20, 2014.

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John Nuzzi

May 26, 2014

Gary will be missed very much by all who knew him.He was a good friend who I was fortunate to have in my wedding party. My first hunting experiences were with Gary and his father Freddy. We became close friends. His father was my Godfather and had a great love of animals of all kinds. He gave me my first puppy dog, a Beagle. He ran a pet shop on Dixwell Ave. back in the 60's that was a sight to behold. Every pet imaginable was on display. His father was alway very kind and generous to me. Many times I felt he treated me as though I was a second son! Gary's mother Gloria was and is a loving mother who always welcomed me at their home.
My sincere condolences for the loss of Gary.

Diane Lepper

May 22, 2014

Eileen, I was shocked to hear about Gary. I just read about it today. He was a very special person. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and the girls in my prayers. Love Diane

de s

May 21, 2014

We were so sad to hear of the loss of Gary.our prayers go out to you Eileen and family.may Gary rest in peace.

Ted Haussler

May 20, 2014

My condolences to you Eileen and your family. I'll miss my sports chats with Gary whenever I bumped into him. His spirit lives on....and I hope he's hanging with Tony Ucci and the other departed souls enjoying eternal life!

Conor O'Daly

May 20, 2014

So very sorry to hear about your loss Eileen. My thoughts are with you and your family. Gary was truly a great guy and will never be forgotten!!

Earl Potter

May 20, 2014

My most heart felt sympathy to Eileen and Gary's family. Gary was a great guy! May he rest in peace.

Mike Luzzi

May 20, 2014

To the Mongillo
I'm lost for words only to say that I new Gary and his family for many years and as younger adults we hung out together. We shared a lot of good times together.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Mongillo family's during this difficult time.
Gary May you rest in peace
Mike and Laura Luzzi

May 20, 2014

To Gary's Family,
Sorry for your loss. I knew Gary for many years and always talked sports when I would see him at Stop & Shop before I left Hamden. May he rest in peace.
Carmen Sacchetti
South Carolina

Linda Guerra

May 20, 2014

So sorry for your loss. Gary was a great person. Prayers sent.

May 19, 2014

rip my friend.

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