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JAMES R. SPINATO

1951 - 2016

JAMES R. SPINATO obituary, 1951-2016, Hamden, CT

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JAMES SPINATO Obituary

SPINATO, JAMES R. (JIM) James R. Spinato (Jim), beloved husband of Elaine M. (Stanley) Spinato of 43 years, passed away peacefully on April 27, 2016 at Connecticut Hospice. Born June 1st, 1951 in New Haven, CT to the late James J. Spinato and Dorothy Allen Spinato, Jim graduated from West Haven High School in 1969 and received a Bachelor of Arts degree in criminal justice and computer science from the University of New Haven. He retired from the Yale University School of Medicine in 2010 where he was a senior ITS developer for 16 years. Upon his retirement from Yale, Jim served as a private consultant, specializing as a Microsoft applications developer for online Upwork, a global freelancing platform. He combined his programming talents with his love for animals, helping to design and maintain the websites for the Friends of the New Haven Animal Shelter and Petfinder, an online animal adoption site. Besides his family, Jim was especially fond of English bulldogs, having owned four throughout his life. A typical afternoon was spent sitting on his front porch, laptop on his knees, smoking a good cigar, and having his bulldog by his side. His most recent dog, a rescued Chihuahua, enjoyed the same quality time. Jim’s interest in film noir was especially keen, often quoting some of the most memorable movie lines from a Raymond Chandler, Dashiell Hammett, James M. Cain, or Ben Hecht script. He often said that chatting with Robert Osborne, host of Turner Classic Movies, was his long time wish. His collection of ‘The Honeymooners’ episodes was a special favorite, with the antics of characters Ralph Kramden and his neighbor, Ed Norton, always lifting his spirits. During the summer months, Jim could be spotted riding his Harley-Davidson motorcycle along the shoreline, a journey he always loved.Besides his wife Elaine, Jim is survived by his son Paul J. Spinato of Clinton, CT, his sister Kathy Spinato-Grant of North Haven, CT, and brothers Gary and Billy Spinato, both of Boise, Idaho. He is also survived by 21 nieces and nephews and his special canine nephew, Butchie. The Spinato family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks to the staff at the Smilow Cancer Center at Yale-New Haven Hospital and Connecticut Hospice, where Jim received the most comprehensive, professional, and compassionate care. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Monday at 10 a.m. in Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church. Friends are asked to go directly to church. Calling hours are Sunday from 4 - 7 p.m. in Sisk Brothers Funeral Home 3105 Whitney Ave. Hamden. In lieu of flowers, please send memorial donations to the Friends of the New Haven Animal Shelter P.O. Box 9056 Brewery St. Station, New Haven, CT 06532 or Vista Life Innovations, 1356 Old Clinton Rd, Westbrook, CT 06498. To leave an online condolence please visit www.siskbrothers.com

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Published by The New Haven Register from Apr. 28 to Apr. 29, 2016.

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Edmund Siecienski

May 22, 2016

Dear Elaine & Family. I am deeply sadden to learn of Jim's death, just found out today. I'm lost for words at this time. Will continue to try to contact you.

Neil Hunt

May 6, 2016

So sorry Elaine and Paul. Jim is out of pain. Rest in eternal peacelove your cousin, Neil

Robyn Healy Jenkins

May 2, 2016

Dear Ellen and Family...My sympathies for your loss....I work with Ellen and she often spoke of her brother-in-law, putting up a valiant fight...I'm sorry to hear he has passed. Sending many prayers for your comfort and healing.

Glenn Zullo

April 30, 2016

Sorry to hear about James. We all grew up together in Meadowbrook. Although James was a little older. He'll always be remembered as a quiet ,mellow kind of guy to me Just a real nice guy. Condolences to the entire Spinato family

Bill Horowitz

April 29, 2016

I worked with Jim at Yale for a couple of years. He was a nice guy to work with. My condolences on your loss.

Sue Wydra

April 29, 2016

Elaine my deepest sympathy for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. May your wonderful memories get you through
this loss.

Ed Goglia

April 29, 2016

I am sadden to hear of JIms passing and extend my sincerest sympathy to the Spinato family. His love for his dogs ( and " all creatures great and small " ) was what Jim was all about.

Dr. Ed Goglia

Sandra Weir

April 28, 2016

Elaine and Family, so sorry to read of Jim's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. I worked for many years at Yale with Jim, he had the cubicle behind me. We all shared many laughs and stories.

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