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Joe Deane, 23, of Madison, CT was killed on December 7th in New Haven, CT and declared on December 9th.
Born Joseph Peter Deane at Yale New Haven Hospital, our family received a gift from God.
He attended Daniel Hand High School in Madison CT, leaving at the end of his junior year for Williston-Northampton where he played football, hockey, and lacrosse, leading the colonial league in tackles for football and dominating the field in lacrosse.
From Williston, Joe attended Bridgton Academy where he excelled in Lacrosse, wearing #34 for the Wolverines. He graduated in 2014 and went on to play one season of Lacrosse at Springfield College. After one year Joe decided it was time to go to work and immediately started with his father and brother at Dichello Distributors before landing a position on Wall Street as a broker for Premium Merchant Funding in Manhattan.
Joe leaves behind his beloved parents Peter and Lisa Deane of Madison, along with his Irish twin brother Michael.
Adoring Aunts and Uncles, Dina and Tim LaMotte, PJ and Miriam Cambo of Wilbraham MA, Philip and Kathy Cambo of Sturbridge MA, Ned and Teresa Deane of Boston MA, and Deb and Jeff Jankot of Ipswich MA.
Joe's heartbroken and loving grandparents are Tess and Paul Cambo of Wilbraham, MA.
Joe grew up close to his several cousins, who became like loving brothers and sisters in life, as he was always happiest in their company. They are Neddie Deane of New York NY; Cam, Jake and Avery LaMotte of Wilbraham MA, and Mckenna Cambo also of Wilbraham MA.
He was pre-deceased by his uncle Michael Lindsay Deane. Michael served our country honorably in Vietnam with 101st Airborne and was killed in action. His paternal loving grandparents were Lee and Edward Deane.
Joe was an organ donor. Shortly following his death his donations were all successfully transplanted, saving the lives of four people.
A Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, December 15, 2018 at 12 Noon at St Cecilia's Church 42 Main Street Wilbraham, MA 01095. There are no Calling Hours. Burial is private.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Stavros foundation at [email protected]. Helping to improve the quality of life of our disabled veterans.
The Deane family will be forever grateful to the staff at Yale New Haven hospital MICU. Their care and respect for Joe was extraordinary. A very special thank you and an abundance of love to Ana, Jenn, Toni, Patrice, Jen, Catherine, Paula and Bow.
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Holly Dorsey
December 9, 2024
Thinking of your family today and how much your missed. The Dorsey´s
Holly Dorsey
December 8, 2020
Lisa and family
I know it’s been so hard for you. But you should be proud of all you have accomplished in joes memory. If anyone can fight for rights it’s you mini Tess. He will always be in your heart and I know he is proud to. Always thinking of you. Love you Holly Dorsey
Commercial Cabinet The Brown's
December 8, 2019
Keeping Joe's memory alive and thinking of the Deane Family on this sad anniversary.
The DeMatteo Family
December 23, 2018
We are so saddened to hear about Joe's passing. He was a great young man. Our thoughts are with Peter, Lisa and Michael during this difficult time. God Bless you!
Holly Dorsey
December 18, 2018
Lisa Peter Michael and the Deanes and Cambo families
So sorry for the loss of Joe. He was a wonderful and kind young man who was taken way to soon. He was loved by so many and he loved you all back. You can be proud of all he accomplished. He will always be in your hearts.
Love Holly and Kevin Dorsey and family
Lynn LaMotte
December 18, 2018
Lisa, Peter and Mike so many happy memories of Joe. He was a gift and I feel your sadness. Love and prayers to the family
Debby Wade
December 17, 2018
Peter,Lisa & Mike so sorry about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Steven Brown
December 17, 2018
Dear Lisa, Peter & Mike. A mutual friend shared with me this horrible news. I send you my heartfelt condolences. There is no pain greater, for a parent, than losing a child. My son Matt's 2 year anniversary was 12/14/18. He will always be 28. So sorry for your loss of such a handsome and talented young man. My thoughts are with you and if I can offer any support please feel free to contact me.
Mary Rowland-Doud
December 17, 2018
Lisa & Peter & Mike, I am so sorry, words can not begin to help but love does, just know I love you Lisa! Time is the best healer of all. Much love to all of you in this difficult time. Lisa I am here for you you always.
Love Mary
December 16, 2018
Peter and Lisa,
Our hearts and thoughts are with you.
Very fond memories of Joe. He inspired others.
We pray you find peace.
John and Michele Scoopo
Nicole Velez
December 16, 2018
Extremely saddened by the loss of joe, what a wonderful person he was! I am so very sorry for your loss!
Love Nicole
Neal Leclerc
December 14, 2018
Rest in Peace Joe,God Bless you and your family.
Tell the old butler hello.
Randy Braren
December 14, 2018
Peter and Lisa, there are no words. We are so deeply sorry for your unimaginable loss. Joe was a great kid. Our thoughts are with you.
Randy and Alexa
December 14, 2018
I am very saddened by the news of Joe passing. My heart goes out to you and your family. Love, Lynn
Sue Kruczek
December 14, 2018
Peter, Lisa and Mike,
Our hearts are so heavy. We will miss Joe's big embracing hugs, huge smile and larger than life laughter. He was such a pleasure to know and talk to. We truly loved him.
Sending you all so much love,
Sue and Kyle Kruczek
Joe Gallagher
December 14, 2018
Words can not express how sad we are about the loss of Joe. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Truly, Joe, Joni, Lauren, & Chris
December 14, 2018
So very sorry for this tragic loss...a wonderful life taken way too soon. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Deane family...sending love to you all from the Ewalds.
-Karen Ewald
Jeff Richard
December 14, 2018
Everyone loved Joe Deanne. What a wonderful young man. Our family's heart aches today for the Deanne family. Rest in peace Joe, you will never be forgotten and the memory of your time here on earth will always be treasured.
The Richard Family
Kim Castaldo
December 13, 2018
6 Castaldo hearts are broken over this remarkable young man. A bright light gone out far too soon- we love you Joe!
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