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John Spender Obituary
John (Jack) Alan Spender, 81, of Bethany, CT was called into the Lord's presence February 22 after a very brief, unexpected illness.
He is survived by his wife Ruth, daughter Sharon, son Jonathan (Kimberley), granddaughter Joanna and many friends and relatives who look forward to seeing him again soon. (I Thessalonians 4:12-18) He is predeceased by his daughter Bethany.
A memorial service will be held at Waterbury Christian Fellowship at 7 p.m. Friday, February 28th. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be sent to CMML (www.cmml.us), PO Box 13, Spring Lake, NJ 07762.
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Mike giacalone
May 4, 2025
So sorry to hear of his passing many great memories of hearing jack speak at the old manchester Bible chapel mike g
Michael and Dorothy Bonett
March 3, 2025
To the Spender family, and Waterbury Christian Fellowship, we offer our condolences on the loss of Jack. We first met him in the early 1980s when we attended West Woods Bible Chapel. His preaching and teaching definitely aided our spiritual growth, and we continued to follow his information on the internet after we moved from Connecticut. Though there is earthly sadness at this time, we have eternal heavenly gladness that he is with the Lord, and that one day we will be with him and our Lord and Savior.
Sharon
March 1, 2025
Dad - I don't have many words for now, but I'll say what you always said to me: Get some good rest.
Loretta Bennett
February 27, 2025
Bible studies in Dorm F, 32-A! Hebrews study on Saturday mornings! I learned so much from Jack. I can't think of anyone who had more impact on my early years as a Christian.
Bill Kane
February 27, 2025
My mind and heart traces memories back to a Bible Study at Quinnipiac 1974...Romans... a night that redirected my future path. Sprinting/ floating down dorm road with the joy of a new believer. Part of the Q few crew.
Who was the Bible study leader? Jackson ( my nickname for him)
I told him often during 42 years @ WWCA... IF God kept track of assists... he, Jackson, was the league leader of anything good that happened at WWCA.
Stanley MacMillan Jr Fire Marshal
February 26, 2025
Spent many and evening with Jack and his crew doing fireworks. What a kind and caring man he was. He will be greatly missed.
malachy pierre
February 25, 2025
From Valley Bible Chapel, up in Madawaska, Maine: Our deepest condolences and sympathies to the Spender Family. Jack and Ruth visited our assembly several times over the years. His teachings have made great impact on the saints. His love for the Lord and the Lord's people shined through powerfully. I will miss his counsel and encouragement. He is one of the brethren that helped me the most in ministry.
We are looking forward to seeing you again around our wonderful Saviour.
Ryan Gentile
February 25, 2025
Jack was a light to all who knew him. My condolences to his friends and family, and to everyone at Waterbury Christian Fellowship.
Ciucci Family
February 24, 2025
A wonderful faithful servant of God. Has blessed me and others immeasurably! Our deepest sympathies to the WCF family. Looking forward to our heavenly reunion!
JoAnn Savino
February 24, 2025
Ruth & Family,
Sincere condolences on the passing of your husband & father.
Did firework shows with Jack & you and had a great time. Great person & may he rest in peace. JoAnn Savino
Maria
February 24, 2025
There are too many memories to mention...too many spaghetti dinners after and between Bible studies, too many hymn sings, too many private prayer times and many, many wonderful memories at the cabins.
Your friendship, training, help, encouragement, and faithfulness will always reside in my heart. Until we meet again, love you always, Teech!!
Sandy and Kevin Bedient
February 24, 2025
Heartfelt condolences to family and friends. Jack was a dedicated servant for the Lord. He will be missed by all. Rest in Peace in the arms of Jesus.
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