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Bob Heslin
July 27, 2024
I was an 8 yr old in her 3rd grade class at Hayes School and remember her fondly, she was my first crush. I also remember her coming into the classroom after lunch crying because President Kennedy was shot. She was one of the best teachers and she made learning fun.
MARK LANDRY
January 23, 2022
Without question the most influential teacher of my life. Even after leaving Hayes School and moving forward I would return periodically to visit and chat. She was indeed a special teacher and more to the point a special person.
Maryann Atlas
February 22, 2021
I just found out about Mary’s passing. What a great teacher she was. I had her as my teacher at Hayes School. Mary left a beautiful impression in many of the students she taught May she Rest In Peace.
Judy Mautte
October 4, 2019
Miss you every day. I seem to say daily, wish Mary was here she would give me the answer!
Love you, keep my seat warm
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October 16, 2016
Sad to hear of Mary passing. She was a strong woman and a great classmate. Fond memories. Rest in peace Mary.
Celia (Neumann) Lenkiewicz
George Scharf
October 16, 2016
Mary always had a Smile and Hello every time we crossed paths in High School. Mary will be missed by all of us in the Class of 58.
October 15, 2016
Thank you, Miss Riccio, for your dedication to and high expectations of your students. Rest in peace.
Jennifer Palmer
October 13, 2016
Thank you for being an inspiration and symbol of strength and hope
Santha Martin
October 13, 2016
Very sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She had a smile that could light up a room. Her experience, strength and hope were so inspiring to me, and many others, over the years. Sending love and prayers to her family.
Elissa Ruby D'Onofrio
October 12, 2016
Like so many others, Miss Riccio was my favorite teacher. 4th grade was a long time ago, but a year filled with fun, hard work and a memories due to the dedicated, inspirational teacher she was. Mary touched so many lives and influenced our future by doing something she loved, teaching. I kept in touch with her long into adulthood and had the pleasure of meeting with her many years later with my son when he was in 4th grade. Rest in peace, dear Miss Riccio. You were loved and admired by so many students; you will not be forgotten.
Dawn Squires
October 12, 2016
So sorry to hear this loss, I remember her from Hayes school. She will be sadly missed.
Gina Apicella-McNew
October 12, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Riccio as she was one of my favorite teachers. I wanted to take a moment to post here in hopes her family members might read this. I learned of her passing from a post on FB from a former neighbor and what has since spilled out on that thread has been amazing. I guess none of us ever knows the legacy we will leave behind as in that's not why we get up every day. But Mrs. Riccio...I hope you know, I wish you could see how memories of you have brought forth wonderful, conversations and 'reunions'in so many of us who knew you as 4th graders. You impacted our lives in ways you could have never known. May God rest your soul. May he also bring peace and strength to your family. Thank you for having been such a special part of my life. xoxo
Ted Arabolos
October 12, 2016
Mary: Your happy spirit, wonderful energy, and beautiful smile have remained with me for all these many years. It was a privilege to have been your classmate. You were special.
Teddy "58"
Barbara (Luzzi) Bellucci
October 12, 2016
I was so lucky to have had Miss Riccio as my 3rd grade teacher at Hayes. She was a gifted educator - inspired so many students to do their best! We remained in touch for many years - I can still hear her voice and see her smile! Amazing to think of how many lives she touched - may she Rest In Peace!
Larry King
October 12, 2016
It was with deep sorrow that I received notification of Mary's passing. My condolences to the Montesanto and Riccio families. Mary and I went through classes together from First Grade In Tuttle Elementary to graduation at East Haven High School in 1958. She was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.
Carol Hunter
October 12, 2016
Remembering the times we shared on April vacations, going to the islands to get a start on our summer tans--will miss your wonderful smile and sparkling personality.
May you Rest In Peace.
Linda (Smereczynsky) Montagna
October 12, 2016
My sincere condolences to Miss Riccio's family and friends. Miss Riccio was my teacher at Hayes School and she was my favorite of all. Years later, as an adult, I ran into her at the deli/store on Hemmingway Avenue and she remembered me! Called me by name when I said hello. Very sorry for your loss.
October 12, 2016
Shirley and Ralph I am so sorry to hear about Mary "Toots",I will always remember her at Beacon Ave with Cookie laughing and fooling around and me aggravating them!Love you Toots,God Bless you,love Jackie.
Diane Wilson
October 12, 2016
I was so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She often substituted for me in my special needs classroom in East Haven. She always told me how much she enjoyed working with my students in small groups. I always knew that when Mary was subbing my students would be in good hands. I send my sincerest condolences to her family and friends.
Diane Wilson
Mark Cretela
October 12, 2016
Very sad day. Miss Riccio was my favorite teacher at Hayes School. Fourth grade was filled with wonder and adventure she inspired us all. Peace
Janis Ardito
October 12, 2016
Although I didn't have Miss Riccio when I was a student at Hayes School, I do remember her as being a vibrant lovely lady. I used to see her at the New Haven Blades hockey games (man years ago), and she would always smile and say hello. She was a pure example of what "great" teachers are. May she RIP. To her family, I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Brad Smith
October 12, 2016
It's been 50 years, but I will forever remember my you as my teacher. You are remembered and will live forever.- Brad Smith
Michele Platt
October 11, 2016
Our family is sad to hear about Mary. She was a part of our life through important milestones and celebrated many happy events through the years with us. She is now with my Dad and her parents. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time and sending many blessings to all that were part of her life. Especially, her sister, brother-in-law and nephews. With Sympathy <3 The Platt family
John Green
October 11, 2016
May God bless Mary, her family, friends and many former students. May the peace of Christ be with you always Mary.
Gregory Thompson
October 11, 2016
Miss Riccio was my teacher in Hayes School. I always enjoyed her class and she was a GREAT teacher. We needed more like her. My prayers go to the family.
Kathy Savino Raveneau
October 11, 2016
I was so sad to read this. Miss Riccio was my 4th grade teacher at Hays School and always my favorite. I think she was everyone's favorite, both my brother and sister had her for a teacher as well. She touched so many lives and in a very positive way. I hope she knows how much she meant to so many young & impressionable kids. She was loved & will live on in our fond childhood memories. Rest in peace.
Doreen Marino
October 11, 2016
So sorry to hear of Mrs. Montesantos passing. Such a sweet lady and I enjoyed working with her at Momauguin. Condolences to her family.
Sylvia DePalma
October 11, 2016
My deepest sympathy to the Mary Riccio Montesanto family on the death of a very special family member. I taught with Mary for many years at Hayes school and then in different schools subbing after we retired.
She will be missed.
Robyn Healy Jenkins
October 11, 2016
I didn't appreciate what a wonderful woman "Miss Riccio" was until after getting out of 4th grade. In meeting up with her in my adult years, she was always so warm, kind and caring. I am glad my own daughter got to meet her, as I was able to introduce her as one of the best teachers I've ever had. My sympathies and prayers are with you all.
Roberta Monaco
October 11, 2016
God bless you Mary. I have many, many fond memories of our childhood together--we shared many laughs and secrets. I will always remember and pray for you, my friend.
Elizabeth Zalonski
October 11, 2016
Mary,
I was so fortunate to be in high school with you in the E.H.H.S. class of 1958. I remember what a great cheerleader you were as well as a great student. I was fortunate to be able to have some lunches with you at Doody's and reconnect after many years as I have lived in Wallingford since 1962. God speed Mary! LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP, BETTY
Richard / Ann Kross
October 11, 2016
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Patty Giaimo Gambardella
October 11, 2016
I was deeply saddened to read of Mary's passing. I have so many fond memories of our 9 years teaching across the hall from each other at Hays School and, subsequently, seeing her over the years when she substituted at Ferrara School. Back in our "hay day," we enjoyed many evenings socializing and Mary was always "the life of the party." She will be missed by all of her East Haven friends and family. May she rest in peace.
October 11, 2016
We were saddened to read of Mary's passing. May she now rest in peace after such a long hard struggle.
Mike and Linda Montesanto
Judy Mautte
October 11, 2016
Mary, my best friend. We had so much fun together over the years. Thank you for always being there for me with a smile and good advice. I'll miss your smile and all the fun times we had . Now you are at peace and with all your loved ones who went before you and were waiting for your return to the Lord. Rest In Peace
Michele Listro Andree
October 11, 2016
"Miss Riccio" was my 4th grade teacher at Hayes School back in the seventies. She was my favorite teacher and to this day, I still think of her often. She was so kind to me and did great things for my confidence. I truly think she changed my life. There is no better legacy that a teacher can leave than that. Rest In Peace, Miss Riccio. I will never forget you.
John Grieco
October 11, 2016
Mary was a wonderful friend to so many of her East Haven classmates. She was kind to all and an East Haven loyalist, terrific dancer & wonderful teacher. She will be missed by many.
Pattie and Sam Bello
October 11, 2016
Remembering a former colleague, a great teacher, and a caring individual. We never met her when she did not have a story or a laugh to share. RIP Condolences to the family. Pattie and Sam Bello
Joann amento Esposito
October 11, 2016
With heavy heart i send my love, so sorry for your loss. Love Joann amento esposito
Cookie Acampora
October 10, 2016
Oh Mary....I cannot believe you are gone. I remember the days when we were both teaching, going to the hockey games together, going out to eat and just doing so much laughing. Well, now you can laugh again, smile that beautiful smile and be with Tony and all the family. God be with you. Now you can rest Mary! Love you....
Cookie
Robert Trotta
October 10, 2016
To the Monsanto Family-
I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. I always remember Mary as a smiling and happy person whenever I would see her at meetings. May she rest in peace.
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