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Michael O'Connor Obituary
July 28, 2023
Michael John O'Connor, 42, of Hamden, CT, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, July 28, 2023 at his home. Born in Hartford on December 8, 1980, he was the son of Diana Pascarella and the late Thomas W. O'Connor Jr.
In 2005, he enlisted in the US Army for four years where he served his country proudly and participated in Iraqi Freedom. Upon his return from service, Michael used his creative mind and talent to begin his career in tattoo artistry. His designs and memory will live on thru his art work (Mikey HAR).
Michael is survived by his mother Diana and stepfather, Clifford Pascarella of Wallingford; his brother, Patrick S. (Jennifer) O'Connor of North Haven; his nephew, Patrick T. O'Connor; aunt and uncle, Janice and John Grygorcewicz; as well as numerous extended family members and friends. He was predeceased by his father, Thomas O'Connor Jr. and his uncle, Brian O'Connor.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at the Church of the Resurrection, 115 Pond Hill Rd., Wallingford, CT on Monday, August 7th at 10:00 a.m. Military Honors will be rendered following the Mass. Interment will be private.
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Kama
March 17, 2025
Mikey I wish you were here right now. It's been a long time and I'm still unable to believe you're gone me and the Greek miss you. I still regret not getting out to paint or getting the pinup. In another life maybe another world I know well meet again. I'll do my best to keep me head cool but I could really use your guidance and wisdom. Rest in power, King you will never be forgotten and it has always been an honor to call friend or grandfather like it days on social media
William Stewart
August 7, 2023
May the Lord bless you and give you strength during this most difficult time
Joe Eliseo
August 7, 2023
Dear Diana and cliff sorry for your loss may God be with you both in this time of need and may he guide you through this terrible loss
Elliott Persinger
August 5, 2023
To a creative and talented man who made us smile through the worst days of war in Iraq. You will be missed my friend.
Mary Ellen Houston
August 4, 2023
Dear Diana, there are no words to describe your family's grief. Know that you are all in my prayers .
Mary Ellen Houston
Lindsey & Billy Raw
August 3, 2023
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Lindsey & Billy Raw
August 3, 2023
Sending Mikey’s family all our prayers and sincerest condolences. Mikey was truly one of a kind. His incredible sense of humor and positivity will never be forgotten. He cared deeply about others and I’m so grateful to have called you a friend. I will always cherish the memories and all laughs we had. I’m lucky to have some of your beautiful art on me to always remind me of the good times together and the amazing person you were. Hope you’re resting in the sweetest peace. We love you Mikey and will miss you incredibly.
Mike Yac
August 3, 2023
So sorry to hear about the loss of such a great guy who was loved by so many. We haven’t spoken in a couple years but I will always remember the good times in New Haven and Toads Place. Rest in peace brother. I pray god comforts and gives your family the strength they need as they grieve this tragic loss. Till we meet again..
Larry Lazaroff
August 3, 2023
So very sorry to learn of Michael´s passing. Rest in peace.
Chris Balcerzak
August 3, 2023
Mikey Har great friend always stayed in touch and made me laugh and I´ll forever have all my tattoos you are such an amazing artist rest easy my friend
Just another fun HAR banger
Joe "Soler705" Barba
August 2, 2023
DIRT KINGS mid production with Mikey HAR
Joe "Soler705" Barba
August 2, 2023
Har Nero and Sol DIRT KINGS 2009
Joe "Soler705" Barba
August 2, 2023
Million dollar smile Mikey!
Joe "Soler705" Barba
August 2, 2023
Mikey HAR and I chilling at my house with the crew during a BBQ in El Paso Texas.
Joe "Soler705" Barba
August 2, 2023
Catherine MCGARRY
August 2, 2023
So very sorry for your loss of your son Diana. May Michael rest in God's peace. Amen
Kyle Green
August 2, 2023
Such a gifted artist and great storyteller. Rest easy brother
Gregory White Jr
August 2, 2023
It was a sad day to get this news. Michael was a good guy, I’m glad I got to know him and proud to have served with him! God speed!! B.R.O.
SFC White G.
Amy Papantoniou
August 2, 2023
It's not goodbye. It's see you again. You really helped me straighten out my life when I needed help. The 30 years of friendship will forever stick with me. Thank you for everything. Love you ,,,
Amy Papelo Papantoniou
Yani Papantoniou
August 1, 2023
There will forever be a void in my heart by your absence, but I will always cherish all our precious memories together. Goodbye for now, my brother. Until we meet on the flip side. Your brother and friend, YANI.
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