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Sherwin Nuland Obituary
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for Sherwin Nuland
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Dr amal harsha de silva
May 28, 2024
When ever I come to usa I really remember his hospitality the humane brain power and the extra mile he went towards helping tsunami victims in sri lanka in 2024 he was a great friend to me who is not at all replaceble leaving s major void
He would have been delighted to hear both my son and daughters are in the USA working as doctors in NY he made USA proud
Carol Reed
March 29, 2019
I read Dr. Nuland's book, "How We Die," about 20 years ago, and it was the first--and only--book that I ever read that I went back to page 1 and immediately read again. I am now reading it for the 4th time, and am as mesmerized as I was the first time I read it. I decided to Google Dr. Nuland's name and was sad to hear that he had died in 2014. My condolences to his family and friends who must still be missing him, indeed who will always miss him. I am grateful for having known this remarkable man through his books.
Abner ("Biff) Bevin
May 30, 2018
Shep was Chief Resident in Surgery while I was a Yale Medical Student and later a Resident in Surgery at Yale. He was so demanding of himself that at first I thought I wouldn't survive the pyramid of the Residency but I realized he was setting the norm for me and my colleagues. I learned the "toughness" working (for Shep) I sensed while a Resident behind him was only his way of making me want to be the best resident I could be. I wanted to be the Chief Resident at Yale too and in 1966 I was chosen as the Chief Resident in Surgery at Yale.
Peace! Shep.....
Peace! Shep......
Kathleen Clarke
October 23, 2014
The love and grace of Dr Nuland continues on. I have just finished his book and have a new sense of peace and understanding-as I try to accept a poor diagnosis. My gratitude and my prayers to the Nuland family.
Betsy Stone Mazzoleni
March 18, 2014
For someone so curious, probing, and full of kindness and wonder, I agree with Doug's wish -- that the mysteries of his final journey be fulfilling and beautiful. He was a remarkable person. He helped so many people and knowing him personally and through his writing enriched my world.
March 12, 2014
MAY GOD BE WITH YOU HE HAS SAID"I-I MYSELF AM THE ONE THAT IS COMFORTING YOU PEOPLE."isa.51:12...d
March 10, 2014
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Back in the late 1970s Dr. Nuland wore a gold chain around his tie--he took it off one day so that I could make a tracing of it and make a similar one for my Father. He was gentle and seemed to always be smiling. So, so sorry.
Mary Maloy
Dee Holme-Werner
March 10, 2014
Dr Sherwin B Nuland's books brought wonder and understanding to my life and my work. He is an irreplaceable loss.
Joann Massari
March 9, 2014
I met Dr Nuland in the early 80's when he was a practicing surgeon and I was a new Radiologic Technologist at YNHH. The first time I walked into his OR he asked my name and remembered me every time thereafter with kindness and a smile. We spoke was about three summers ago when we were dining in the same restaurant. He was still the kind, genial and gracious man that I remembered and I was honored that he still remembered me. I will always remember Dr Nuland for his gentle demeanor and dedication to his patients.
Patty Kiefer-Severud, MA, MSW
March 9, 2014
I am very sorry to read of the death of Dr. Nuland. His book, How We Die, has been my reference for guiding people through life, hospice care, and death. I wish I could have met this man who enriched my life. May God bless him and his family. The world lost a truly wonderful man.
March 8, 2014
What a courageous man and a caring presence on this earth.....He has made the world a better place.
michelle plakas-kaiser
March 7, 2014
rip
March 7, 2014
I send my condolences. May God be with you in this time of grief.
T L.
March 6, 2014
I am so very sorry for your loss. Soon death will be a thing of the past and all those who have died can live again on a paradise earth forever. John 5 verses 28, and 2Peter 3 verses 15.
elise
March 6, 2014
I never knew him but I was deeply moved by his memoir and was very touched by his life and by his philosophy about death.
Kim Carter
March 6, 2014
Dear Sal,
We were so sorry to hear of Shep's passing and feel so fortunate to have known him and the entire Nuland family. We wish you all support, love and strength during this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts.
Doug
March 6, 2014
May the mysteries of his final journey be fulfilled. I pray they were beautiful. May the Everlasting light shine upon you Doctor Nuland.
Angela
March 6, 2014
Rest in peace Shep. It is a cherished memory to have known you when you were a medical student in the 1950's.
My condolences to your family.
Lauren Darman
March 6, 2014
Read his book in 1994, and then again in 2010 - he told the truth, and for that I am deeply grateful. He helped me to understand what we can treat, and what we shouldn't as well as what happens towards the end.
CAROLYN BALEDES
March 6, 2014
A FRIEND AND DOCTOR..MY FAMILY LOVE HIM FOR ALL HE DID FOR ROBERT DEMATTEIS WHO HE WROTE ABOUT IN HOW WE DIE.GIFTED SURGEON.AND AUTHOR..I AM HONORED TO HAVE KNOWN HIM
Jane Dowling
March 6, 2014
God bless you and your loved ones ~ Rest in peace.
James Quigley, D.M.D.
March 5, 2014
He was a light to me every time I had the privilege to see Shep.
His advice led me to choose my doctors including him. I will truly miss him.
James Quigley, D.M.D.
March 5, 2014
He was a light to me every time I had the privilege to see Shep. His advice led me to choose my doctors including him. I will truly miss him.
March 5, 2014
Wonderful thinker. Peace be with you and your family. Sherman, Ct
Cynthia
March 5, 2014
May the God of comfort be with your dear family.May your father fond memories stay close to your hearts.
Marlene J.
March 5, 2014
He sounds like a wonderful man who left an indelible mark on the world. May God comfort his family and give them peace.
juoaquim-redeemer r barbosa
March 5, 2014
condolences
CAROLYN BALEDES
March 5, 2014
I KNEW DR N.WHWN I WAS A STUDENT NURSE,WHEN MY HUSBAND NEEDED SURGERY YEARS LATER. IKNEW WHO I NEEEED.,HE WROTE ABOUT US IN HOW WE DIE,A WONDERFULL MAN.SO SENSITIVE TO THE NEEDS OF HIS PATIENTS.
March 5, 2014
Dear Sarah: Such a wonderful man - sewed up my third son's toe when he was little, and was such a wonderful colleague in our early CT Hospice days. We are so sad for you, but hope memories of the many years you had together help overcome the sorrow. Thinking of you both with true fondness and admiration. Nikki and Sam Lindberg
Brenda Kane
March 5, 2014
We will miss "Uncle Shep" dearly. He was a beautiful soul and heaven has gained an angel.
Ruth Ray
March 5, 2014
Feeling sad to hear Sheppy is gone.
Ruth Nuland Ray (daughter of his cousin Dr William Nuland).
marvin cohen
March 5, 2014
No finer human being than dear friend Shep Nuland.
Lauren Beresner-Kesten
March 5, 2014
I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Dr. Nuland was a fine gentleman and I consider myself very fortunate to have had the pleasure of knowing him. My family used to sit right by him and his beautiful family during the Jewish holiday services at Cong. B'nai Jacob. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Nuland family.
March 5, 2014
We wish to extend our deepest sympathy to all the family. Dr. Nuland was an exceptional man, who cared for me during my extensive hospitalization. He was always there for me (sometimes three times a day and even when he was vacationing he rushed to attend to my needs.) We will always be grateful for knowing such a dedicated man.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Bill and Carol Mathews
Ron Chapnick
March 4, 2014
In loving memory of a dear old friend, from Rachmiel and all the Chapnicks.
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