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Stephen V. Flagg

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Stephen Flagg Obituary

Stephen V. Flagg
January 8, 2022
Dr. Stephen Vreeland Flagg of Sanibel, FL, a plastic and hand surgeon, died at age 85 on January 8, 2022, in North Branford, CT. Born in Hackensack, NJ, to the late Irene F. Richardson and John H. Flagg, he grew up in Oradell and Englewood, NJ. Dr. Flagg was a longtime resident of New Haven, CT, where he was in private practice for 35 years. He was an old-school doctor who devoted considerable time to caring for each patient, and his love of medicine and teachable moments continued throughout his 16 years of retirement. His humor and interest in people never diminished.
Dr. Flagg attended the Englewood School for Boys and Deerfield Academy ('53). He went to Yale University ('57), where he rowed for four years and was captain of the Lightweight Crew. He was a member of the Ring and Candle Society and treasured the friendships made there.
Dr. Flagg went to medical school at the College of Physicians and Surgeons, Columbia University, where he trained at The Roosevelt Hospital and did his residency in plastic surgery at New York University Medical Center under Dr. John Converse. He served as an assistant Senior Registrar at the Royal Victoria Infirmary, Newcastle upon Tyne, England, and then did a hand fellowship with Dr. J. W. Littler and Richard Eaton at The Roosevelt Hospital. He was an Assistant Professor of Plastic Surgery at Yale from late 1971 to 1973, the Associate Section Chief of Plastic Surgery at the Yale University School of Medicine from 1993-2000 and a Clinical Assistant Professor at Yale School of Medicine from 1973 until his retirement in 2006.
Dr. Flagg was awarded the Robert M. Goldwyn, M.D. Lifetime Achievement Award by the New England Society of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeons in 2010. He was one of the founding members of the New England Society of Hand Surgery and later its president. He also served as the president of the Connecticut Society of Plastic Surgeons and president of the New England Society of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeons (2005).
Outside of medicine, rowing was Dr. Flagg's passion. He joined the New Haven Rowing Club in 1982 and assisted in building their boathouse on the Housatonic River in Oxford, CT. He was president of the NHRC 1999-2000. He competed in Masters rowing events around the world, winning numerous medals. However, it was the friendships he made through rowing that he cherished most.
Dr. Flagg spent his summers at Point O' Woods, Fire Island, NY, where he developed lifelong friendships. He was Commodore of the POW Yacht Squadron in the early 1970s and relished his time on the sea, racing his Thistle with family and friends.
Dr. Flagg is survived by his loving family: His wife of 35 years, Edith Postlewaite Flagg, daughter Danielle Flagg, Richmond, VA, sons Alex Flagg (Denise), Lafayette, CA and Michael Flagg (Erica), Wellesley, MA, stepson Jonathan Hanf (Liezel), Pataskala, OH and seven beloved grandchildren: Zachary, Tanner and Elise Flagg of Lafayette, CA, Addison and Samuel Flagg of Wellesley Hills, MA, and Zyrhrille and Jayce Hanf of Pataskala, OH. He is also survived by Cynthia Hixon Flagg, his first wife and the mother of his children.
Contributions may be made to the Yale 'Music in Schools Initiative' (Class of '57), New Haven Rowing Club, The Church at Point O' Woods, or the Sanibel Captiva Conservation Foundation A memorial service will be scheduled at a later date. To sign the online guestbook please visit hawleylincolnmemorial.com.

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Published by The New Haven Register on Jan. 15, 2022.

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Craig Firmender

October 22, 2024

Dr. Flagg was a phenomenal Surgeon and an exceptional person.
He saved me at 12 yrs old with his professional talents for many years but also came to our home on Candlewood Lake for BBQ and boating with his family. We had so much fun skiing or trying, tubing, sailing and just enjoying those days on the water. Its the memories from those visits at home which made him more than a Dr. but a friend, thank you Dr. Flagg.


My condolences to Edith, his children and so many more who loved him.

Craig Firmender

October 22, 2024

Dr. Flagg was a very special person, a surgeon, a caring Dr. who saved and ultimately helped shape the person I am. He was My Dr., the man who got to know me so he could help me. I was 12 and rushed to Yale after being Electrocuted, he was on duty that day and saved my life in many ways then and after. April 11, 1973.....thank you Dr. Flagg you've meant so much to me, done so much for me(not just as the best surgeon) but as a man talking to me a person.

Scott Walsh

February 8, 2022

My deep sympathy to Dr. Flagg's family and friends. News of his passing came to me through the Yale Crew community - we were all big fans of Dr. Flagg.

I always remember Dr. Flagg chatting with us in the locker room in the 90s. He once told me about his pre-race routine. He'd be up at the starting line, getting ready, and he'd look down at his quads and say "Legs, I know I've asked a lot of you over the years. Well, I need to ask you one more favor. I need you to go really hard today. It's going to hurt a lot. And I'm sorry about that. So I promise, if you help me out this time, I'll never ask this of you again. ... Now I know that's what I said last time, but I really mean it this time. Just this one more time."

I'd think of him and those words at the starting line every time after that. He was a good man. I'm glad we got to know him a little bit, and I'm grateful for the wisdom and encouragement he passed on to us.

Bob and Janice touloukian

January 25, 2022

Dear Edith and family, all Blessings to you, in loving remembrance of Steve and his beautiful legacy. Bob and Janice Touloukian

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Carol & Bob Gillespie

January 16, 2022

Steve was a remarkable , accomplished person who has contributed so much to all of us. I was honored to know him.
Condolences to the family.
Carol & Bob

Linda Mele

January 16, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss. Dr Flagg was an amazing man and surgeon. He performed surgery on me many years ago. His support pre and post op meant so much to me. It was a very difficult time for me and he was so supportive. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and family.

Carolyn Truini

January 16, 2022

Edith and Family
Dr. Steve Flagg was generous of spirit and a joy to be around. I enjoyed my professional interactions with him and our visit in Sanibel.
With sincere sympathy.
Carolyn Truini

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