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THOMAS RUOCCO Obituary

RUOCCO, THOMAS R. Thomas R. “Rock” Ruocco, age 61, of Newark, DE, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, June 15, 2016. Born in New Haven, CT on January 26, 1955, Thomas was a son of Gennaro and Victoria Ruocco. He attended the University of Delaware and was a graduate of both Farleigh Dickinson University in Teaneck, NJ and McDaniel College in Westminster, MD. Thomas proudly served his country in the U.S. Air Force and Delaware Air National Guard for a total of 23 years, retiring in 2004 at the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. He was a combat veteran of both Operation Iraqi Freedom and Operation Enduring Freedom where he served as a C-130 Navigator. A career educator, Thomas taught elementary school at Brandywine Springs, Forest Oak, Warner and Heritage Elementary Schools in the Red Clay Consolidated School District for over 20 years. In his leisure time, he enjoyed listening to music of all kinds, playing guitar, and spending time on the bocce ball court. Thomas will be remembered as a kind, loving and compassionate person and will be missed by all who knew him. He was preceded in death by his father, Gennaro and a brother, Frank. Thomas is survived by his mother, Victoria of Branford, CT; beloved wife of over 32 years, Betty R. (Fuller) Ruocco; children, Lauren Mease (Adam) of Townsend, DE, Michael Ruocco (Maria) of Newark, DE and Jeffrey Ruocco of Newark, DE; mother-in-law, Sarah Ruth Fuller of Fairhope, AL and Malvern, AR; brother, Jerry Ruocco (Nancy) of Windham, NH; sisters, Bettyann Sawicki (Wayne) of Orange, CT and Wenndi Freer (Michael) of Encinitas, CA; and grandsons, Owen and Shane Mease. A funeral service will be held at 4 p.m. on Sunday afternoon, June 19, 2016 at the Newark United Methodist Church, 69 E. Main Street, Newark, Delaware, where a visitation for family and friends will be held from 2 p.m. until 4 p.m. A committal service will be held at 10 a.m. on Monday morning, June 20, 2016 in the chapel of the Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery, 2465 Chesapeake City Road, Bear, DE. The family suggests memorial contributions may be made to the Gift of Life Family House, 401 Callowhill St., Philadelphia, PA 19123 or to the Fisher House Foundation Inc., 111 Rockville Pike, Suite 420, Rockville, MD 20850. To sign guest book, visit spicermullikin.com

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Published by The New Haven Register from Jun. 16 to Jun. 17, 2016.

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john p dibianco

October 18, 2022

My heartfelt condolences to the Ruocco family. I was friends with Tom at Notre Dame High. I played bass guitar in a band and he helped move the equipment for us and got interested in guitar. Very sad to hear of his passing. All my best to you. Rest in peace my friend.

July 17, 2016

I do remember Tommy as a young boy. I am so sorry for your loss. I have very fond memories of your family. I will say a special prayer for all of you Love Marie Consiglio

Cindy Opderbeck

June 23, 2016

I'm truly sorry for your loss.

My son Kyle was a student of Mr. Ruocco's three year go and Mr. Ruocco's teachings made him blossom. He will be missed dearly.

Joanne Cipolli Borelli

June 22, 2016

My Deepest Sympathy to the Ruocco Family. I was a friend of Tommy's from Grammar school. All I can think of when I describe my memories of him is how incredibly kind and genuine he was. His smile would always light up the room and he was always dressed so nicely. He was a special person who accepted everybody for who they were and never judged a single soul. He will forever remain in my heart and my thoughts and prayers are with the entire Ruocco Family. He truly was someone to be extremely proud of.

Hugh and Joan Ferguson

June 19, 2016

Our condolences to you, Betty on the passing of Tom. We're sure your family will give you the support you'll welcome.

Karen Walsh

June 19, 2016

Tom (Mr. Ruocco) will surely be missed at BSS. When he visited there not too long ago, I was hopeful that he would beat this and be able to return to us. I am sorry that it was just too much for his body to take. He truly was a kind and gentle soul. My condolences and prayers to Tom's family.

Nick Montano Jr.

June 18, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with Tom's family and the Ruoccos, especially my Aunt Vicki. When growing up in Connecticut, I always remembered Tom as cool and singular guy. He was someone I admired.

Sam

June 17, 2016

I loved Mr. Ruocco!! He made my days at Brandywine Springs wonderful. Listening to him play his guitar was awesome. Mr. Ruocco always knew how to put smiles on our faces and always knew how to make you laugh. I want to express my deepest sympathy to his family and friends. Thanks for everything Mr. Ruocco!!

Genanro Ruocco Jr

June 17, 2016

It is hard to say anything but I love you. You were and will remain a gentle soul. I wish this had never happened to you. With tears in my eyes and a smile on my face I remember you.

B & L Massaro

June 16, 2016

Gennaro, so sorry for your loss. This was a beautiful write-up. You and your family must be very proud of him. Our sincere sympathy, Bob & Lorena

June 16, 2016

Mr. Ruocco was a wonderful and inspiring teacher to all three of our children. He will be missed at Brandywine Springs. Our heartfelt condolences are with his family.
- The Wallace Family

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19

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Newark United Methodist Church

69 E. Main Street,, Newark, DE

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19

Funeral

4:00 p.m.

Newark United Methodist Church

69 E. Main Street, Newark, DE

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20

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10:00 a.m.

Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery,

2465 Chesapeake City Road, Bear, DE

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Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory - Newark

121 W. Park Place, Newark, DE 19711

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