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Victor I. Gailums

1941 - 2019

Victor I. Gailums obituary, 1941-2019, Sussex, NJ

BORN

1941

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Pinkel Funeral Home

31 Bank Street (Route 23)

Sussex, New Jersey

Victor Gailums Obituary

WANTAGE -- Victor I. Gailums, age 78, passed away on Wednesday, May 22, 2019, at Overlook Hospital in Summit.

Born in Riga, Latvia, to the late Henry and Olga (Ribkinskis) Gailums, Victor came to the Unites States on a boat and grew up in Andover. He graduated from Newton High School in 1960 and received a full football scholarship to Lafayette College. While in college, he was featured in Sports Illustrated as one of the top athletes at the time and was also a prospect to being drafted to the Brooklyn Dodgers.

Victor enlisted in the United States Army during the Vietnam Era and remained active in sports, where he played on their baseball team. When he returned home from the Army, Victor started his own business as a mason, Gailums Brothers Construction in Stanhope, retiring 10 years ago.

Victor was a member of the American Legion and the New Jersey Society of the Sons of the American Revolution. He continued his love for sports and enjoyed watching his favorite teams: the Cleveland Indians and the Boston Celtics. Victor was known for his sports talks, political views, his gentleness, and also for being a no-nonsense kind of guy who never sugarcoated any situation or story.

Besides his interest in sports, Victor liked to watch "Jeopardy!," "Matlock," "The Lone Ranger" and motocross and listen to country music. He enjoyed spending time with his family and friends; especially his time in Lake George with his late wife, Cassandra. Victor had a impeccable work ethic and told everyone he met that one should never miss work. He was a good friend and always saw the good in people.

Besides his parents, Victor was predeceased by his loving wife of 46 years, Cassandra, in 2016. He is survived by his two sons, Victor J. Gailums, of Sussex, and Gary Gailums and his wife, Leeann, of Sussex; his daughter, Diana Lepes and her husband, Mike, of Glen Spey, N.Y.; his five grandchildren, Eric Lepes, Jordan Lepes, Gary Gailums Jr., Gavin Gailums and Kayla Gailums; his sister, Valentina Gailums-Szczesny and her husband, Stan Szczesny, of Stanhope; his brothers, Jim Gailums and his wife, Jackie, of Byram, and George Gailums and his wife, Candace, of Budd Lake; his best friend, Dave "Tubby" Dellorusso, of Andover, that he spent much of his time with at the Lenape Lodge; his feline companion, Sami; and many nieces, nephews and friends.

Friends may pay their respects to the family at 4 p.m. Saturday, June 1, for a celebration of life held at the American Legion Post 213, 915 State Route 23, Sussex. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations may be made in Victor's memory to the American Legion Post 213 in Sussex. Private services have been entrusted to the Pinkel Funeral Home, 31 Bank St. (Route 23), Sussex. Online condolences may be offered to the family at www.pinkelfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The New Jersey Herald on May 26, 2019.

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Kip Pierson

June 18, 2019

So sorry to hear of Vic's passing. He was a good guy, and I'll miss talking sports and world affairs with him.

June 4, 2019

We were saddened to hear of Victor's passing.
Ed worked with Vic and was Monmouth Race Track "buddies" Whenever we were in Newton
Ed went to visit with him and was looking forward to a visit when we were in NJ the
end of May. We are sorry we were not able
to pay our respect to the family as we were
in Cape May for a wedding.

Ed and Nancy Welsh
Gladstone, Missouri

Alice Lockburner

May 27, 2019

Val,
So sorry to read of your brother's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mary Lou and Bob Rome

May 26, 2019

Tina and family... so very sorry for your loss. Just know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Hoping in time that your memories of your time together will bring you comfort.

Donald Roth

May 26, 2019

My deepest condolences to the Gailumes family..growing up in Andover have very fond memories of Victor...on & off the field...

Donald Roth

May 26, 2019

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