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Carol Herbert Obituary
November 11, 1934 - May 19, 2017
Carol Jeanne Herbert's vibrant, shining life force left this world on Friday, May 19th. She was 82. Carol passed at home in the loving embrace of her spouse, Linda Lee.
Carol grew up in Washington, D.C. She was the daughter of Charles and Martha Summers and the youngest of her siblings Ethel, Dott, Wes, Marv, and Betty Lou. They were a loving and fun family.
Carol attended Maryville College in Tennessee for 2 years and then married Ed Herbert, a friend from home. They had five children—Colleen, Ed, Kenny, Chris, and sweet Carin, who graced their lives for a less than 3 years. Ed's career took them through nine moves across the country.
Carol completed her bachelor's degree at Canisius College in 1979. She worked as a housing rehabilitation specialist in New York and later in Cincinnati. She was divorced in 1983 and began a wonderful life filled with love and contentment with Linda. They spent the next 25 years in the Cincinnati area, including 12 years of novel adventures and quiet peace on 28 acres of land in Adams County. Carol became an avid gardener and woodworker. This talented woman made everything that was wooden in their house, including the kitchen cabinets, and later made furniture on consignment. For the last 9 years in Cincinnati, she cared for two boys who were very special to her.
Carol and Linda moved to Port Charlotte in 2007 and were married as soon as the law was established in 2015. All they ever wanted in life was to be together.
Carol loved life and she loved people. She sparkled her smile, her infectious laugh, and her love over everyone she touched. She will be missed more than words can express.
Services are private. Should you wish to donate something in her name, Carol loved the Harry Chapin Food Bank of SW Florida, Tidewell Hospice, and Elsie Publishing, but she would treasure any individual way you wish to remember her.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
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Sponsored by National Cremation and Burial Society - Sarasota.
Linda Lee
September 18, 2020
Sandra, I don't know if you'll ever see this but I've searched and no longer have your email address. I just saw your most recent message and want to tell you how deeply touched I was. Yes, I loved Carol more than words can express and wrote her obituary the day after she passed. It helped me through that day. I just began a book about our life story and the ways in which I've managed to encompass the empty space that used to have her physical presence. I'm hoping it will help others. I'm so grateful that I feel her presence with me always. Blessings on you in every way. You are an amazing person to reach out as you did. Thank you so much for thinking about me during this time. How wonderful of you. My email address is [email protected] if you would like to have it.
Sandra Carrington
May 18, 2020
I wrote in Carol's guestbook on May 24, 2017. I was looking for an obituary of someone I knew and came across Carol's, a woman I never met. I found Carol's obituary profoundly moving. No, I never had the honor to meet Carol Herbert, obviously a very kind, unselfish, well thought of and talented human being. I wish I had. What an interesting life! Carol's obituary read like a love letter written by someone who adored her and would forever miss her. I think that person was Carol's beloved spouse, Linda Lee, or she was the light behind the caring tribute to an extraordinary person. When I posted in Carol's guestbook, I included my email address and Linda Lee emailed a thank you, saying said she would pay my action forward. I'm sure she has. She too, is an amazing human being. I don't meet many special people that share gratitude by paying it forward. Linda, I've thought of you many times over the years, wishing you eventual peace and happiness. You and Carol were so fortunate to find and love each other. I hope that love surrounds you every day. I will give a donation to Harry Chapin in celebration of you and Carol.
Maryville College Alumni
July 3, 2017
Maryville College extends sincere condolences to Linda and the rest of Carol's family. What a lovely tribute this obituary is to the memory of a beautiful spirit.
May 31, 2017
So many fond memories of Aunt Carol Jean...her beautiful smile and infectious laugh, wonderful stories, and boundless love for her friends, family, and especially - Linda. We will all miss her earthly presence but know she's still with us in spirit.
Linda, Betty Lou, Carol Jean
Karen Portch
May 31, 2017
Carol Forhan
May 27, 2017
Peace and love to you, dear Carol. I can only estimate your love on earth by the love of those who you left behind.
Buddy
May 27, 2017
Aunt Carol Jean is surely going to be missed by lots of family and friends. Especially her "big" sister's kids! We all love you Carol Jean.
May 24, 2017
I never met Carol but felt like I knew her through the wonderful letters Linda wrote telling me of their wonderful, exciting life together. I wish I had the right words to ease your heartache Linda.
Pauline Klein
May 24, 2017
Linda the two of you were some of our original Rainbow Sisters and the life and love you both brought to our group has been a blessing to us all. Carol's laugh, smile and great storytelling contributed much to our gatherings. She will be very much missed. Your love is an inspiration to us all. May the memories of wonderful years shared and adventures experienced bring you comfort. Hugs. Pauline
Linda Lee
May 24, 2017
Dearest Family and Friends:
I can't begin to tell you how much the words you're sharing here and in person mean to me. Your love and support are getting me through each day. You capture Carol so beautifully in your descriptions---you make me hear her laugh again. Thank you so much for your love.
Sandra Carrington
May 24, 2017
I never met Carol but after reading her obituary I wish I had. She must have been such a creative and interesting person. In her photo she looked happy and joyful. Linda, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I think you probably wrote or helped write Carol's obituary. It's obvious to someone that doesn't even know you, you loved Carol very much. I wish I had the words to ease your pain. Please know, you're in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you love and peace.
Dakshika Bandaranayake
May 24, 2017
It's a beautiful tribute. Carol was a wonderful, extremely talented, kind and an amazing person. It was a privilege to know her. My thoughts and prayers are with you Linda!
Kathy Willman
May 23, 2017
What a beautiful tribute...she was a brilliant light and I can still see her big smile. Deepest condolences
Linda Lee
May 23, 2017
Linda Lee
May 23, 2017
Kate Krival
May 23, 2017
Carol brought life into everything she did, and taught me the right way to eat cold cuts, too. You two shared a love that most of us only dream of, and to be around the two of you was to feel that joy. Much love to you ❤❤❤.
Dr. Jim and Mari Garfield
May 23, 2017
Linda,
we were so sorry to learn of Carol's passing . She lovingly took care of two of our grandsons and was so much more than a babysitter to them. Our family will long remember and appreciate all the care, stories and love that Carol gave. We offer our deepest condolences to you .
Joan Schell
May 23, 2017
So sorry Linda. We shared so many pleasant events with you both and other SOL friends.
Carol had lots of energy and enthusiasm in our group
May friends and neighbors support you.
Tammy Downey
May 23, 2017
She was so beautiful and kind. She will be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tammy
Laura Kretschmer
May 23, 2017
Few can say that they have shared a love as strong as you and Carol. We use the furniture and shelves Carol made for us every day and particularly the fabulous bed so of course we think of her after every peaceful night's sleep. Thank you for letting us know. Our sincere condolences. Laura & Richard
Dyanna Baker-Buckles
May 23, 2017
So beautiful my prayers for the family on the loss of such a special lady
Shay Csonka
May 23, 2017
What an amazing tribute to such an extraordinary woman! Heartfelt condolences to all her family and her wife Linda! Xo shay
May 23, 2017
So sorry for your loss. May you find comfort and strenght in God's promise found at John 6:40
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