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David Sloan Obituary

SLOAN David Matthew Sloan ("Matt") December 29, 1980-June 13, 2010 Matt Sloan, son of Judy Baron Sloan and Jerry Lester Sloan of 5417 Widgeon Drive, Wilmington, NC, (28403) died unexpectedly during the early morning hours of June 13, in Manchester, TN. Matt is survived by his parents, his sister, Lauren, his half-brothers Craig, Joel and Nathan Sloan and their families, and a host of loving friends. A Celebration of Life will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, June 19, at St. Andrew's-on-the-Sound Episcopal Church, across from Airlie Gardens in Wilmington, NC. Ashes will be scattered at a 4 p.m. service at Sander's Point, Trinity Center, Atlantic Beach, NC. All are welcome. Matt was working in New Orleans with Episcopal Relief and Development, and his desire was to see landscaping at the homes that he was helping to rebuild, so that beauty would be brought back, the birds would return, and the people living in these homes would not only have their bodies sheltered, but their souls fed. To this end, we ask that you not send flowers, but if you would like to help to carry out his wish, your donation would be very much appreciated.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Jun. 16 to Jun. 17, 2010.

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Velvet Lile

July 1, 2010

Pampers,
I am missing you so very much! I know I am not alone in that as we have lost the dearest soul.
I'm not sure why you were called home so early but I know whatever it was must command an amazing person. I'll see you on the other side.

Until then, I'll continue to pray and know you'll send love and strength from above for your family and friends.

Kelly Neubauer

June 21, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Matt and I went to New Hanover High School together and he was such a kind and gentle person, so pure with a radiating smile. I last saw him at PetSmart and we talked about our dogs. He was so genuine and loved everything about life, people, animals, and the not so fortunate. All I keep thinking of is his calm but happy voice. He touched so many in the short time he was here. My deepest Sympathies.

Cassandra Stroehmer

June 20, 2010

pass me by, christened arms lingering by my side?. resting on a feeling of passion gone awry the evening that you died?. your spirit's keeping me alive, yet holding me? down to a minimal life of wishin you were here, the burn of another tear??. so fly... and let it be?. so fly... let the sun set on this place, on this aura that's beholding me to you, please fly??. caught somewhere between all the angels and the earth. ?trying to take me with you but you know I can't leave, it's not my time. but ?it's so hard to say goodbye to you, since your soul? won't even let you go, but you must let it, it's not about me??. so fly... and let it be?. so fly... let the sun set on this place, on this aura that's beholding me to you?... please fly.

Kathie Jorgensen

June 20, 2010

Dear Judy and Jerry,
Please know how sorry we are at your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family. Matt was obviously a remarkable young man who touched many lives in special ways.
Phil and Kathie Jorgensen

Annie Anthony

June 19, 2010

Judy and Jerry, I am so sorry for the loss of your most precious angel. I know he is worshiping the King of all Kings with his most glorious gift God gave him. Hold tight to your precious memories of your lovely boy and the legacy will live on through the scholarship you have established in his honor. We know he had the heart of service like his parents.
Respectfully
Annie Anthony and the
Board of Directors of the Cape Fear Volunteer Center

Mary Fernandez de Castro

June 19, 2010

As we gather today to begin formally celebrating Matt's life, so many good accomplishments in so little time will be attributed to him and make us all aware as parents what our adult children mean to us and others. Congratulations to you on raising a beautiful Godly man who is a joy to hear about. Mary Calton Fernandez de Castro

Eva Burkhardt

June 18, 2010

May it comfort you to know that,
your loved one is safe in God’s care now. And that friends are praying for you in your time of sorrow. Matt was a great person with a big heart. He will be missed. So glad we had the chance to know him.
The Burkhardt's

Richard & Sandra Gemach

June 18, 2010

Matthew:
M--Magical
A--Always Spirited
T--Talented
T--Treasured by many
H--Heaven sent--Heaven bound
E--Loved by Everyone
W--We will miss you Matt! You were a very special young man!
In Friendship and Love
Rich and Sandy Gemach

Michael Stefano

June 18, 2010

My deepest sympathy for your loss! May wonderful memories diminish the pain!

Richard & Sandra Gemach

June 18, 2010

Matthew:
M--Magical
A--Always Spirited
T--Talented
T--Treasured by many
H--Heaven Sent--Heaven Bound
E--Loved by Everyone
W--We will miss you and your happy personality,dearly!
In friendship and love,
Rich and Sandy Gemach

Drew Peterson

June 18, 2010

The Sloans,

I am so sorry for the loss of a soul that was too young to be taken. You will all be in my prayers through this very difficult time.

Connie and Norman Brooks

June 18, 2010

We remember Matt when he and our daughter, Carrie, were classmates at NHHS. He was a fine young man and we are not surprised that he went on to do such great works. We know he will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Sloan family.

June 18, 2010

Dear Judy and Jerry, I offer my deepest sympathy to your entire family. What else can I say? I know your loss seems unbearable. May God sustain and comfort you as only He can, even as Matt stands now in His radiant presence.

~ Betty Griffin

Ashley Wilhite Cheeseman

June 18, 2010

I went to school with Matt for many years while growing up in Wilmington. I was so sad to hear of Matt's unexpected passing. He was such a vibrant man with a good soul. I will never forget his bright smile, outgoing personality, and ability to comfort. My thought and prayers are with your family in this time of need.

Alton Lennon

June 18, 2010

So very sorry learn of your tragic loss. My family joins me in sending our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you all.
Sincerely,
Alton Lennon

Renee Hilger

June 18, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Charis Hill

June 18, 2010

I remember making videos with Matt for Winterlight, the year he was the "Mothman." It was great to be on a team with him that was in charge of entertaining. My years of friendship with Matt were full of great laughs and experiences at Trinity Center, Kanuga, and other youth conferences. I'll remember his trying to do cheer stunts in the pool at Trinity as well as our communications online while we were reading the most recent Harry Potter book in the series. I remember playing Ultimate with him, four square, experiencing Adventurers. What excitement we shared of the simple things in life! He will always be remembered with absolute love and fondness in my heart of hearts. Remember you are blessed.

Charis

Anne Russell

June 18, 2010

Your wonderful description of Matt makes me feel I knew him. I am glad he has been in our midst.

Christian McCullen

June 18, 2010

Matt I wish we could have gotten to know one another better. I will never forget how scary your pet snake was when he was hungry the first time I went over to your house. I think that was the last time we hung out until I saw you at your sisters and forgot how fun it was to be around you two. May peace be with you,
Christian

Jamie Osteen

June 18, 2010

I was very shocked and saddened to hear of Matt's passing. I was Matt's cheerleading coach at UNCA and really enjoyed working with him over the years. He was always so much fun to be around and was very dedicated to me and the team. I feel very blessed to have had him in my life! I will always remember him walking in with a smile on his face with his supercheerleader shirt on. He will be greatly missed!

Jamie Osteen
UNCA Cheer & Dance Team Coach

Daisy Mae Miller

June 18, 2010

Matt was one of the most incredible men I've ever had the pleasure of meeting and knowing. I ran into him a few times at Bonnaroo this year. He was one of the few people that I could share everything with and talk to openly. He was a truly giving man and a joy and an inspiration to everyone he came into contact with. I will miss him terribly but know that his spirit will watch over us all until we join him in heaven.

Richard Tremmel

June 17, 2010

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Matt. He was one of my students in the band at New Hanover High School for 4 years; he was always a respectful young man who loved music and being surrounded by his friends. I am thankful for the opportunity to have been a small part of his life and watch him grow up, even for a short while.

Bill and Denise Sparks

June 17, 2010

Jerry, Judy and Lauren,

Our family was very saddened to hear of Matt's passing. Although we can not be at the celebration of his life our thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Heather Pagles

June 17, 2010

I met Matt at Winterlight a couple of years ago and was saddened to hear this news. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.

June 17, 2010

Our hearts like yours know the pain of losing a son, brother, uncle and friend. There are no words to ease your pain but in time your memories will dance in your head and tug on your heart bringing smiles and happiness. We pray God wraps His arms around your family giving you the strength and courgage to go forward. May your memories be comforting and plentiful for these will last a lifetime. I hope you can take comfort from "REMEMBER ME AND I WILL LIVE FOREVER." God bless your family.

Our Sympathy,
Another Grieving Family

Beverly Jensen

June 17, 2010

We are so sorry for the loss of your son, Matt. We remember him playing in our neighborhood and was a friend of our Son, Ben Jensen. Ben was at Bonnaroo , but didn't see Matt this time, he had run into him at other concerts and they were always glad to see each other. Matt was a fine young man and doing wonderful things for others. I know you are proud of all his accomplishments and what a heart he had for the Lord. Our prayers are with you in this time of grief.
Sincerely,
Steve and Beverly Jensen

Tonya Prince Ludlum

June 17, 2010

It was a pleasure meeting Matt in the High School Band. He was a very nice young man back then and that carried throughout his life. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Barbara Trevigne

June 17, 2010

To Matt's Family;
Although, I never met Matt, he was a God send to New Orleans. New Orleans is a better city to live in because of the volunteer efforts of Matt. Thank you for sharing him with us.

Barbara Trevigne

Bobby Jackson

June 17, 2010

Dr. Sloan and family,
We wanted to your know that we are so sorry for your loss.
We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
In friendship and love,
Bobby, Gail & Toby Jackson

Beatrice Kuhlmann

June 16, 2010

Met him only briefly but his impact was noticed. He's been an amazing friend to people very dear to me. I was very saddened by the news of his death and send my heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.

Tina Thibodeaux

June 16, 2010

Judy and Jerry, Words could never express how sorry i am for yorr loss. I know Matt was a very loving,giving and careing man. He was the greatest reflection of his mother and father. You are a great family and i feel blessed that my family has had the chance to be a in your lives. GOD BLESS! I LOVE YOU!

Amy Catanzaro

June 16, 2010

My husband and I attended Bonnaroo 2010 but we did not have the opportunity to meet Matt. We just want you to know that your family is in our prayers and we are very sorry for your loss.

Sam and Amy

June 16, 2010

Matt,
I consider myself blessed that I was able to meet you, even if it was for such a short time. It is evident you are loved by many, and I know I, and others, will miss you greatly. Rest in peace my friend.

Julia

June 16, 2010

To Matt's family and friends, I'm stunned and deeply saddened for you. I met Matt in high school and he was someone I never forgot. The full impact of his too-short life and deep generosity have not yet come to fruition, but it will in time. I pray for consolation for you all.

Kelly Brown

June 16, 2010

Jerry and Judy,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim and Kelly (Sloan) Brown

Don Oesterbo

June 16, 2010

My deepest condolences to Matt's family and friends. I was Matt's lacrosse coach at D.C. Virgo Middle and will never forget the leadership he provided in the goal. It truly foreshadowed the way he lived the remainder of his shortened life. Recently, we were able to reconnect at the Empie Dog Park and as expected he grew into a great man. "Da Goalie" #00 may you Rest in Peace.

Coach Don

Nancy Dieffenbach

June 16, 2010

I am so sorry to read of the loss of Matt. Words cannot make this less painful, but I hope that knowing Matt's life made a difference to so many in such a short time will ease some of the pain.

Dona McLeskey

June 16, 2010

To the family...I am a friend of a friend and was so sorry to hear of the loss of this fine young man. You are in my prayers.

Adrian Hauberg

June 16, 2010

You don't know me however I was a patron of the Bonnaroo 2010. I don't know David however I wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with the family in this time of grief. God bless his soul.

Sincerely,

Adrian Hauberg

Anna Woodall Lee

June 16, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kathy & Jim Pawlowski

June 16, 2010

Jerry and Judy,
We were so sorry to hear of your sudden loss of Matt. We know that Matt was doing good work before he died and that he will sorely missed by many. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of you,
Kathy & Jim

Sarah Keagy

June 16, 2010

Matt i know that you will be a very special Angel in Heaven. You have touched so many lives in 29 years.I am happy to have gone to middle and high school with such an amazing person. I know your strength of giving will continue for many years to come and to you know you made a impression on everyone you met. You are going to be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with your family through this tough time and hope they know how many people cared for you.

Sarah Elizabeth Keagy

Jolene Haymans McGill

June 16, 2010

Matt may no longer be with us on this earth, but his kindness and generosity will live on in our hearts. My deepest sympathies during this difficult time.

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