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Your Mom
September 26, 2025
Good morning Son, this is Mom. I'm missing you like crazy right now. It is Halloween season. Soon Thanksgiving and Christmas is around in the next few months. I know this is your favorite time of year. Not sure yet if I am cooking for Thanksgiving. But if I do, you can be sure I will make enough to have around for Christmas.
Son, Mom had to have a revision done on my right knee. It has been 3 months since but other stuff has been hindering my forward process. Right now I am praying that I am on the right recovery path so I can get stronger and back to work. Physical therapy alone will not work. I have to put in a lot of extra effort and work also. Stepping out on Faith and working more harder will help me get back.
Son there is so much more but it will take another time to tell you. Of course I know you already know what is going on with this but Mother always like to talk and try to figure it out at the same time. Tell your Grandmothers, Aunt, and Cousins I hello and I will hear from them soon.
I truly Love you, and miss you so much.
Your Mom
June 26, 2025
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY Son !!!!!! May your day be the Best !!!!!!
Your Mom
June 26, 2025
Good evening my Son, this is Mother. I am wishing you the Most Happiest of Birthdays that I can give. You are making 43 today. Just imagine yourself 43 years ago. So happy and with a smile that could light up the world. I am so sorry I could not make it out to see you today. I've just had surgery done on last Thursday, your Grandmother Marilyn's birthday. So far everything is ok. Just a lot of pain.
I had to get a revision surgery on my right knee. There was a lot of work that Dr. Chimento had to do but hey, one week at a time. Healing is here.
I hope be coming out to see you real soon. Exactly when I'm not sure, but I have to heal up first. I Love you so much and miss you just as much as I Love You.
I know this is the very first time I have not been out to see you since I left you in Lake Lawn Park. I know that your Grandmother Marilyn was probably asking where I was also because she likes to have fun at the party too. I am sure that as the day went by, all of the people out there was starting to celebrate you in the same manner that I would have. Well, maybe not the same as me but the party would still be in your honor. I will try my very best to not miss another Birthday coming out to see you.
Until next time Son, I Miss You and I Love You.
Forever,
Your Mom
Your Mom
June 26, 2024
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY Son !!!!
Your Mom
June 26, 2024
Good evening my favorite Son. Yes I know you are my only Son.
Happy Birthday to you. You are getting older and I need to start feeling younger. Yes, I still look good.
I was out to see you today and I noticed you were getting two new neighbors. They both arrived together in the same place so you should be meeting them soon.
I did not do our traditional Rally burger meal today. Instead I bought grilled chicken, waffle fries and a peach milkshake. I got really full really fast. Had to get home real quick because of that milkshake. LOL !!!!
I've been at peace for a while now but it was tested early this morning. I left to take care of my errands and my peace is in the process of being restored. Some challenges are just not worthy of your peace. Not at any cost.
I Love you Son and I still miss you ever so dearly. I will continue to pray and talk to you in my prayers.
Until another time, I Love you.
Daryl
March 29, 2024
Brother Donald! Brother Turtle! You crossed my mind today as I was getting some things together for my Athletic Program. I thought about what an amazing athlete you where when we played sports together in our NORD days. When I played against you at Pradat, you where our most feared opponent. When we became teammates at Goretti, you were my favorite person on the team. I was stunned at the news of your passing when I found out, but I wanted you to know that you were an amazing individual. Rest Peacefully my Brother.
Your Mom
June 26, 2023
Good morning Son. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
Yes I know it is a bit early but I've been waiting until the sun came up.
It has been really hot lately but we are all managing to stay as cool as we can. Me cutting the grass has been a bigger chore than I can remember as of late but I will blame it on the heat.
Most of the Family will be going to Port Allen for that Friends & Family presentation on Saturday. For absolute sure I may not be going. Work has Saturday as a blackout day so if you are scheduled you cannot take off. I'm not scheduled for Saturday, but Sunday I am. As we both know, one day off goes by so fast until you wonder if you really had time off at all.
I've placed a few family members and co-workers into the Prayer circle. Health issues are coming up but we know with the doctor's helping out, God will do all things.
I'm sure that you and all the Family that is there with you are planning a celebration that will include all the June birthdays. Also, with two grandmothers cooking up there, no one there will be without a plate or two or three and maybe some take home as well.
I will be out to see you today after my first appointment. I'm going to introduce you to a new dish I was introduced to. I will be bringing Cashew chicken for our lunch today. If you like it, then this will be our new favorite meal. Rally's will always be the ultimate favorite lunch but they seem to have changed something in their recipe so I am trying something new.
I cannot give a definite time I'll be arriving but for sure it will be before 3pm.
I'll see you later Son. Mother still misses you. I'll always Love You.
Cheryl Joseph
December 26, 2022
Good morning Son, this is Mother. Christmas Eve and Christmas Day has come and gone. I've missed you so much.
17 years have gone by since you've been gone.
I've missed you so much.
This Christmas I did make my gumbo. I made my BBQ ribs with my herb and butter rice. Every thing was so good.
I had visitors to come by but there is still a lot of gumbo left. I need to freeze most of it so it doesn't go bad.
Overall, it was a nice, very very cold day. The sun was out and the day was very pretty. I thought about you a lot during the past few days leading up to Christmas Eve and remembering that very faithful day. Every minute of it.
I've missed you so much since then.
I Love you so much.
I'll speak with you again soon.
I Love you,
Mom
Your Mom
June 26, 2022
Hey Son, one more thing. All of the family is wishing you a very, very happy 40th Birthday!!!!
Love you ALWAYS Son.
Your Mom
June 26, 2022
Good evening Son. I enjoyed my visit with you today. Yes, I did remember to bring your favorite Rally's meal. Burger with mayonnaise, pickles, and ketchup only with a banana shake. Do you know they charge 10 cent extra for pickles now?? That is just plain awful and I think illegal. There had been quite a few other people out there as well. I'm sure that by now the celebration for you may be just now starting to ramp up. Nothing like last Sunday though. By it being your Grandmother's birthday, Father's day and Juneteenth there was plenty to celebrate. I think the celebrating continued on into Monday morning. LOL!! Yes Son, last Sunday was really a trifecta of a day. Nothing like today though!!!! This was all for you today. I did not make it to the restaurant today, but I'll be celebrating you all week. I have not talked to Lil Phillip yet today but he is really a busy man. We will talk and get together later on this week. Maybe we will celebrate at a restaurant as well.
Now Son, Mother is not trying to leave just yet but I've gotten sleepy and I have an early day tomorrow. Triple Monday and Tuesday and just breakfast on Wednesday. The 12 hour grab and go starts for me on next Sunday. Work, work, work, work, work. I will be taking a few days off after this work cycle. The house is a mess and we have to buy the big groceries and almost all of the non-food items as well. We are even out of the box pancake mix. LOL. you know we need to go to the store!!
I Love you Son. I miss you so much. Especially when people start talking about their grandchildren. I am ok with that but I either ease away from the conversation or just stay quite.
Love you Son. Mother will talk to you later.
Your Mom
June 26, 2022
Good morning Son. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! I know it is early for you but since I have to be up early every morning for work, I'm up early even on an off day. However, today is special!! This is your 40th Birthday. Yet another milestone!! Now you will not know Mother's real age but "you" are getting older. All the nieces and nephews in your age group are getting older too. Even the young ones.
I've set today aside just for you. I'm coming to see you later today and I'm even going to a restaurant to celebrate you as well. I hope to enjoy a fantastic meal with Ivyraiel, the twins, and whoever else that would like to join us. I'll send out invites while I have a break after Church.
I will talk to you later Son. I've got to get ready for services and the for my visit out to you.
I love you. I miss you. I'll see you soon
Mom
Your Mom
December 25, 2021
Good morning Son, this is Mother. Merry Christmas Son. It has been a while since we spoke but you are always foremost in my mind. What keeps me going most is how when I think of you, my strength seems to get better. Being stronger with God and my Faith will be my focus for this coming year. I know when you hear the people say what their goals are for each year the first thing you say is "yeah sure". You know they've set the bar to high for themselves. Well Son since Mother has not yet gotten her 66 million dollars yet she has to keep working. My job in itself is very toiling and you know for yourself you need to be strong. And not just strong physically, mentally as well. I can make sure I'll give myself the best start that I can. My right side is a bit weak but I'm still working on that also. I will take those hand weights that's been riding in the trunk out and get them inside where I can at least see them. LOL.
Yesterday was a bit tough for me. You was the only person in the front of my mind. All those thoughts from that December 24, 2005 kept creeping into my thoughts. I remember that entire day so well. It's like time has stood still in my mind on that day.
Anyway Son you are so missed. Not just by me but every now and then someone will say something about what you and they were doing. They would be deep in thought and so would I.
Today is Christmas day and I miss you so very much. I'll try not to cry today but I know that is asking a bit much for myself, especially when it comes to you. Especially when I here people around me talk about their grandkids. I just stare into space with my fake smile so they won't know how deep I really am hurting. Sometimes I can hide but when it comes to thinking about you it is pointless.
Don't know what I'm doing today yet since there is no work but something should schedule soon.
I Love you ALWAYS.
Mom.
MOM
July 2, 2021
Good morning Son, this is Mother. Been up for a while and thinking about you today. The Fourth of July is Sunday and I can remember when you was just a week old, your Grandmother Marilyn wanted me to take you with them on the annual picnic we always went on at Audubon Park right outside the pool. We would all go inside the pool and swim all day. When we got hungry we would go to the fence and your Grandmother would give us food. Either fried chicken, a ham and cheese sandwich or just a handful of chee wees. Chips cost to much to get. We would eat then go right back into the water. That was a good deal because if you left out of the pool you would have to pay again and back then we had to save up for our pool money. Cannot remember what it cost then but compared to today's prices it was real cheap.
We had a lot of fun, kept cool and ate all at the same time. Fun was actually fun.
We sometimes would take the bus to Audubon Park pool. That Louisiana bus to the Magazine bus put you off right at the pool. You just had to walk from the bus stop to either the girl or boy side. We stayed all day and on the ride back home we got some chee wees and a cold drink to eat if you did not have food deep down in your bag. Everybody shared. We even drank out of the same cold drink bottle. Yuk!! That would never happen today.
Just sharing with you some of my July Fourth memories with you. And by the way I did not take you out on that picnic when you was just a week old. I still was recovering after having you and you was extremely to young to go anywhere without me. Your Grandmother wanted to bring you without me but that was a firm NO. She tried to insist saying "let the boy come out to the pool". I said no, you was to young. She finally said ok and they left us home by ourselves.
Thought you would find that story funny.
Love you Son. Mother will talk to you again soon.
Mom
June 26, 2021
Good morning Son. Happy 39th Birthday !! I know it may be a bit early for you but you know me. When you cannot sleep your day starts as soon as your eyes are open. You know I will be out to see you later on today. I have not been walking as of late. My mind has been on other things. But; to update you I did reach my goal of 3 miles. I was really maintaining my pace but arguments took me off my journey.
Rob has come to join the family. I'm sure by now you have crossed his path a time or two.
Tramika has come also and Kizzy is doing as best as she can due to the fact they both arrived just 24 hours after each other. To have a best friend and your fiance both leave at the same time can be quite tough. This pandemic has sent so many challenges toward so many people.
Naija graduated from her high school. There was 1,306 graduates from that school and every one of their names were called. Yes I went because she was the first of all the grand kids to graduate. The next two will be in 2023. Yes I wore a mask even though Texas has lifted it's mask mandate. I was a bit shakey being around so many people. Once I was in my seat, I was a little okay. During the presentation I took two or three naps. I was awake when they called Naija's though. We did her proud. We were all dressed in white and got many complements on how good we looked. We all looked very pretty on top but wore comfortable shoes on our feet. The shoes were very "blinged" out. She was very happy. When she leaves for college I think she will have almost everything she might need. Even a car. She got the car from August's brother who bought it for his daughter but she said it was to old looking so Natasha got it for Naija practically free. All she had to do was drive it back to Texas. Good for her. All she has to pay is $2,000.00 a semester because she got some good scholarships and grants.
So far all the rest of the children are okay. The twins will be one on July 17th. They have been walking all over the place. To the back, then to the front then to the back again. I know you are playing with them because they just look up and start laughing and trying to talk to someone. We know it is either you, your grandmother Marilyn, or probably Deandrea. You know they are her great grand kids. I'm not so lucky to have any grandchildren. I get sad about that from time to time. Someone to still have me closer to you, but I know you like being the center of "ALL" my attention.
Son there are some days you are all I think about, then something will happen as if God is saying "go do something else". Donald is just fine with me and remember He is not a kid anymore. And by the way, big sixty cookies are a big hit up here.
That makes me feel good to know that. I do still miss you and I still have a lot of what if's. Now Son, time as always has it's fleeting moments and right now this is one of them. Mother has to go help with Rob's memorial. Thankfully it is here and not in Texas.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Son!!!!! I Love you as always. Say hello to everyone. I will talk with you later. I'll see you later on today too.
Love you Son, Your candle is still burning bright.
Mom
Cheryl Joseph
January 3, 2021
Hello Son, this is Mother again.
I was wrong with Ivyraiel and the twins. Yes, she did have a boy and a girl and the girl really looks like Ivyraiel. The boy is starting to finally look like Ivyraiel also.
Taranisha has had a baby girl and guess what, she weighed the same as you; 8lbs and 4 ozs. What a coincidence on being the exact same weight!!
When other things come to mind I'll write back to you.
Love you, and talk to you soon.
Cheryl Joseph
January 3, 2021
Good morning Son, this is Mother. I know I am late with all my wishes for you but be assured I've not thought of you any less. My thoughts have been on you so much as of late.
Merry Christmas to you. Most of my focus has been on channeling my energy to staying well during these times that we don't know what tomorrow will bring. For a while I lost my focus. I'm still working hard to maintain my day to day but finding support is a bit hard because everyone is searching for support.
On yesterday I was thinking, this has been 15 years since you were laid to rest. January 2, 2006 was a very hard day. Now, 15 years later, YOU and your aura has been the center of my attention. I glanced at your memorials and I thought; where has the time gone ??
I know you've had a chance to talk with Lil Martinez. I know you told him he will be ok. All the things he has gone through, all the things that hurt him will "ALL" be ok. That is the goal I'm working on while here because I have a lot to do these days. I need to up my walking to at least 3 miles. I've been stuck on 2.5 miles for a long time and it is time to "step" it up. Pun is intended.
Happy New Year to you. We are so happy 2020 is out of here. Some things will remain the same, but so many things are going to change. We may even get back to work some time later this year. My computer game is improving and that is a good thing. Will try to find some classes to attend and try to get an upgrade on a laptop. I prefer a desk top but the mobility of a laptop can come in handy. I know more computer than I think. LOL, LOL.
I Love you Son, and I still miss you so much.
I will talk to you later.
Cheryl Joseph
June 26, 2020
Good morning my Son. Happy Birthday. Still missing you as always. I think of you a lot around this time. Mainly because it's your birthday but also heading into your favorite times of the year. July 4th, Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. These are all your favorites. I am coming to see you today and as usual I'll have your Rally burgers with me. Not sure of how they are letting us visit these days due to the Covid-19 pandemic but you know Mother, I WILL FIND A WAY. I always find a way to get to you. I know you and your grandmother Marilyn had a great time for her birthday last Friday and the two of you plus many others will celebrate you today. You are making 38 today. That is far to many candles for a cake but we are getting so creative with cake decorating so we can add over 100 candles and it will still be really pretty and not gaudy.
There will be new additions to the family soon as you already know. Ivyraiel is still saying she is having a boy and a girl but I'm sticking to my choice of two boys. Not sure what is going on with Taranisha but I'll keep you posted about that roller coaster ride. Still not sure how far long she is either but by July or August we will all have a more definite picture.
Son there are times I just look at your picture and have the conversation of what if. I miss you and I wish I could have the feeling of what it is like to have grand children but right about now that mind space is taken up by what is going on in this world today. Heaven has not experienced and NEVER will experience what we are right now on this earth. Laws of the land are being violated and followed both at the same time. Only in a few instances in life things can be right and wrong both at the same time. Fairness, Peace, Equality, Love, and Safety are the new words and the old words also. Tension and anxiety are things that are being felt all over this earth and a just a little FAITH and full Belief can ease all of this. No Son, Mother is not a couch preacher but I am trying to get my inner circle to first understand, to get educated, and then exercise what is learned to the extent that we are the ones that lead, teach others, and only follow the right teachings with full understanding. Not everyone will lead, not everyone will follow, but EVERYONE will have an understanding of what is needed.
Son I Love you. I miss you. I wish you were here with kids of your own but for now I have my "what ifs". Enjoy your day with family and friends. I will see Phillip today. You know hid youngest daughter's birthday is today too. I've been seeing him almost every day since May 1st. I started walking, added a few squats (my style) to help build up my endurance for when I get back to work. waiting patiently for that day to come. In the meanwhile the more I'm home, the more I see need to be done around here. Already replaced the bath tub. Now I see stuff going on with the windows. A way will be made to do all that is needed and all will be well for a time longer.
Love you Son. Mother will see you later.
Your Mom
January 2, 2020
Hi Son, this is Mother. I came out to see you today. From what I could see you have a few new neighbors. At least now you are not alone in your complex. I'm sure your grandmother's are seeing that you are happy and comfortable. The glittery gold leaf I left at your doorstep really made the place look nice. Also everyone else decorated for the Holidays.
Today makes 14 years you were left in your apartment. The years have gone by but how much I miss you has not gone away. I Love you Son. I will talk with you at another time. Love you always
Your Mom
December 25, 2019
Well Son, Christmas Day is swiftly winding down. I didn't go to LaPlace but Ivyraiel did. I chose instead to walk to Mr. Fatt's house. Over there is where all the people go that really has no other place to go. This was my second year there. You don't have to cook or clean just show up. The food was AWESOME !!!! Especially the merlinton casserole. I know it is one of your favorites. The drinks were even better. This year he had yet another bottle of something called Effin Raspberry for me to try. I told him I did and that it was great but in fact I really was having the Green Apple Effin. Now that was great!! He tells me all during the year that there will be something special there just for me. There was other stuff also but water was my other choice.
It was like a work reunion there. People who no longer work with us came as well as the same crew that was going for years. This was my second year and I'll continue to go as long as I'm invited. The walk home was also refreshing because I don't walk outside enough. The night was perfect. The only thing missing was you and your Dad walking with me. I had a song in my head and guess what; Everything was FREE. I didn't even have to bring anything. Absolutely nothing but myself and whoever else wanted to come. I ended up being there alone but the atmosphere was very nice. No need to be stumbling over anything or putting on airs because everything was so nice. Like family on TV. LOL.
Love you so much. Miss you so much. Talk with you later
Your Mom
December 25, 2019
I Love you. I miss you.
Your Mom
December 25, 2019
MERRY CHRISTMAS my Son. This is yet another Holiday without that wonderful smile of yours. So much has happened here but I'm sure you know all about it. I know you and Coach Marvin has gotten a team together that is so good on defense, that the other teams y'all play will just forfeit their games.
Mother is making the ends meet. This is the slowest last 7 months of my entire time working at my very nice job. I've used all my savings, emergency fund, and my secret from myself fund as well. I am ever so grateful to have had those funds because I have not had to ask anyone for anything. All my prayers go up and out so we are truly optimistic about everything now. The air has been cold but I manage to stay warm with my memories of you.
Today I went threw my phone and sent old pictures from 2014 til now. There was even two videos of Ms Melanie. I tried to send them but my phone is a bit old for that but I sent what I could. I'm home today. I let Ivyraiel take the car to work. Parking was free today so no tickets for street parking. She's off at 4 this evening. Not sure what we will do after but I know if it's not free then it will not get done. All is upbeat and people are gladly awaiting the new decade. There may be a New Year celebration at work so as usual I could be working bringing in this new decade.
All the rest of the family is having a tight time as well but they do manage to show up well for the children. Most to all are good health wise but we've all had to make serious changes. You know I don't claim age or old so I'm not claiming anything that goes on. We are using the power of positive thinking and yes I'm smiling when I say that to you. I miss you a lot around this time of year. Makes me see how much you mean to me. I never want to forget anything.
I did not write yesterday because the thought of 14 years without you weighed heavy on my heart. I kept it moving with you in my thoughts but my heart got really heavy about 6 yesterday evening. That is the time you left. I sat for a while but had to finish making pies for Ivyraiel's pot luck dinner. Made apple and sweet potato pies. Only my second time making apple pie. That is not as easy as it seems. Lots of work to get them right. I've the sweet potato ones down to a science.
Son I Love you. Mother will write soon. Love you
Your Mon
June 26, 2019
Well Son our visit is about over. You cleaned up nicely and the place looked great. I saw that the neighbors had lots of visitors in the past few weeks. I will visit more often so they won't think you are alone.
I really miss you. Today especially.
I Love you and I'll see you soon.
Also I did not forget about Phillip's daughter. I pass the house later this evening.
LOVE YOU LOTS
Your Mom
June 26, 2019
Good morning Son, this is Mother.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY. You are 37 years old today. Seems like time is going by so fast that I need to take a step back and look at all that has happened so far.
I know everything and everyone is fine up there. Some new people have arrived including Mr. Matt. He may have started his catering business there by now. You know this will be his most ultimate adventure ever. He will be so happy.
I'm planning to visit soon, today in fact. I'm letting you know early enough so everything can be in order when I arrive. You know I've always taken off work on your special morning so we can spend a lot of time together. All has been quiet all morning which is good so you and I can just reflect about things together. A lot of stuff is wrong now and I am very short on money because things are all breaking at the same time. That is okay because all will be well very soon. I'm going to start looking for another job to start bringing all the ends a little closer together. I know what you are saying right about now but it is nothing I have not said to my self already. I will be all right.
Let me start getting ready to come out there and we will talk more when I get there.
Love you Son
Your Mom
December 25, 2018
MERRY CHRISTMAS my Son. I truly hope your day went real well. I had to keep moving so I would not feel stagnate today. My car probably thinks that I've gone mad for as much as it has been driven in the last 4 days.
Everyone has been very kind to me but now is my quiet time with you. I'll talk more to you than I can write now because of all the stuff in my mind right now. As you know, when the dust settles that is when you have the most work to do. That is when your heart breaks and those tears that you've been fighting all day finally start to fall as soon as you get inside the door. Not much can be done about it because you are missed so much. Not just by me but a lot of people who know and love you.
I Love you Son.
I miss you so much more than these words can say. I will talk with you later
Love you
Cheryl Joseph
December 24, 2018
Hello my beloved Son, this is Mother. Today at 6:00 pm will make 13 years since you left home. I've been thinking about you all day. I saw Ms Bertha in the Kenner Sams on last Monday and she and I talked about you and her Son Daniel. You should have met him by now. He came there on June 30th. That was only a few days after your 36th Birthday. We both were talking and crying at the sparkling juice sample station. By the way the white one tasted better than the red one.
People are calling inviting me to various events today and tomorrow but I'm may just stay home. Anyway if I do go some place it will be in LaPlace. I may even go over to Chad Brock's house, but at this very moment I'll be staying home and talking to you. I'm talking to you and trying to decide at the same time.
My heart is full, I miss you so much.
I've gone to 2 secondlines this season. They both were really nice but the one last Sunday was cold and I had to gear up. I have pictures from both and selfies with some of the people out there.
Son I'm a bit sleepy now so I'll take about an hour before I decide what I'll finally do this evening.
I Love you, Miss you. Will talk to you later. Your Mom.
Your Mom
August 23, 2018
Good morning Son, this is Mother.
I'm sure by now you've made your way to see Mrs. Lillian. You should remember her because she was the lady who made up all the salt, pepper, and sugar sets at work for us.
She did this because her knees were painful like mine used to be and Mr. Matt let her do this until she could retire with her benefits. She also was the one who taught me how to drink wine and cocktails out of a coffee pot using a coffee cup as well. No one never questioned us drinking our "coffee". Those were some of the best days at work.
Mother has not worked for quite some time now but things are now looking up. I should be able to go back full time next month.
Ivyraiel has gone back to school now and I'm on my own. I've got to fix my own meals now but that is ok.
I know you also got a chance to celebrate both of your Grandmother's birthdays. Ironically they both have similar names. Marilyn and Marion. Funny how I just saw that similarity.
Anyway Marilyn's special day was June 19th and I couldn't do much but we all had a nice meal in honor of her. Marion's special day was August 11th. Last year your dad and I shared tomatoe soup with celery in it. That was so good til even now when I have celery, I'll add it to my tomatoe soup.
Your Uncle Martinez's birthday was on June 7th and this was the first one since he came to live near you. I smile while remembering these days.
Well Son, I will be saying talk to you later now. It's real early in the morning and I'm sleepy now. You were on my mind and I decided to send you a quick note. Miss you always and I Love you. Talk to you soon.
Your Mom
June 26, 2018
Hi Son, this is Mother once again. My visit with you was a very pleasant one. I'm glad I came out. I didn't bring the brunch food but I did bring desert. I know you would have loved the white chocolate mini bread pudding cups. They were truly fantastic.
It was raining a bit but I didn't get wet. The only wetness I had was the tears that came when I was singing Happy Birthday to you. I miss you so much. Oh how I wish you were still here but I know you are enjoying your basement apartment in Heaven. I noticed you have some new neighbors. I'm sure you are keeping it on a hundred. LOL, LOL.
I'm going to be ok just knowing you're ok. Talk with you later Son.
Love you.
Your Mom
June 26, 2018
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Again. Love you. I miss you !!!!!
Your Mom
June 26, 2018
Hello Son, this is Mother again. I forgot to ask you how was the celebration for your Grandmother's birthday. You know I told you we were traveling to Talladega College on Tuesday June 19th. You should also know that is a special day called Juneteeth. That was when the slaves were emancipated in Texas on June 19, 1865. I'm sure she had a great time. I know between you, your Uncle Martinez, and your Aunt Deandrea there was a lot of lemon/caramel doberge to go around to everyone. Maybe Coach Sean's mom surprised her wit a banana pudding. you know she made the best. Anyway I'm still trying to get together to make my visit there today. HAPPY BIRTHDAY again, talk with you later. I'll get out there today.
Your Mom
June 26, 2018
Good morning my favorite Son, this is Mother.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I wanted to tell you early because I know you will be busy as the day goes on.
I know you have been being entertained by your Uncle Martinez. He is one of the electricians the is re-wiring Heaven right now. It may be old school but he will show those young ones how to get it done one way or the other.
Also I'm sure you have seen Kenneth Love by now too. He is my co-worker that came to live with you guys in March. We miss him around the work place but we make reference to him always.
Son I know I've not written to you in a while but Bobby Joe just recently sent me another computer. I don't understand all of it yet, but over time I'll get most things straight. That phone computer is convenient but I like sitting at a desktop.
Anyway enough about me, Ivyraiel is starting her second year in college. This year she choose Talladega College in Talladega, Alabama. Again this was not my choice but as long as she is still attending any college that is fine with me. We made a visit there on your Grandmother's birthday last Tuesday the 19th of June. It was a special day because she got the days mixed up by a month but we were still able to get a lot done. We then drove to see Bobby in Georgia. He did a few things to my car and we got back on Thursday. Bobby told me about a Chevron gas station that sold a fantastic breakfast and he was right. They have something called a breakfast gumbo that is so good, it makes you want to drive to Mobile Alabama just to get it. It is stone ground yellow grits with cheese, topped with scrambled eggs, then chopped bacon, chopped sausage patties, then thick sliced smoked sausage. It is so rich you can only eat it a small amount at a time. They had other stuff too but I did not choose them. Ivyraiel got 2 breakfast sandwiches and was very jealous of my bowl of breakfast gumbo.
We got back but I was to late to make my first function Thursday morning but I did go Thursday afternoon. Son I've been tired ever since. All the functions were plated, with 2 and 3 courses. Those plates are so heavy now your Mother can only carry 6 at a time. To carry 8 has placed a strain on my shoulders. Those heavy plates have written a check that my shoulders cannot cash. It takes me 5 trips to serve 30 people. With the old plates, it only took 3 trips to get entrees served. I had to take an ibuprofen 200 pill just to get back comfortable.
So far I'm off this weekend but have no plans. Ms Eva has invited us to her house on Sunday but I'm not sure about that yet.
The Family is trying to plan a vacation for July but you know how that is. When it comes to money we all have to negotiate our finances. All bills first then extras later.
I will be out to see you later on this morning. Yes I will bring a brunch for us to share. I'll have a new burger though. I found that Rally's can make a bacon cheese burger dressed and the bacon is crunchy. No banana shake but I will have that peach/mango slushy drink. It is much easier on my stomach and you can add more ice and water so it is not so thick or sweet. Both taste very good and are now on my Fast Food Friday menu.
Well Son I'm going to start to get ready to come out there and I know you have some people that want to tell you HAPPY BIRTHDAY right about now so I will see you later. As always I truly miss you and most of all Love you. Talk with you later.
Your Mom
January 2, 2018
Hello Son, this is Mother.
Today makes 12 years we said goodbye at Lake Lawn Park.
I miss you so much. I can see your smile. I can feel your heart beat when we would have huggie buggie time even after you grew up. I still smile about all those times.
I remember when you first said you liked salad. You sure ate a lot of big ones especially when we would go to Shoney's on Crowder. You even liked ranch dressing. These days I like to mix 2 or 3 dressings together.
I also mix romaine, spring mix, and spinach together. Oh well, enough with the salad talk. I'm a bit hungry. I'll have something later.
I miss you Son. I'll talk with you later. Your Aunt Lenier is on her way here. She may spend the night but I'm not sure.
I Love and we will talk soon.
Love you
Your Mom
December 24, 2017
Hello Son, this is Mother.
I just wanted to say hello today and to let you know you are still missed so much.
This year I came on a short trip. There is a lot of activity going on. I was completely off from work. Imagine that happening at my job.
We are trimming the tree, baking cakes and pecan pies. Your Aunt Lenier is making that quiche that everyone says is good but some is ALWAYS left.
They know I'm talking to you now so everyone is yelling "tell Turtle we say hello".
I Love you Son and I'll be talking to you soon.
Cheryl Joseph
December 24, 2017
Hello Son, this is Mother.
Today is another anniversary letting me know how much you are missed. This is 12 years and I think of you every day.
I came on a short trip this year because we were off completely from work. Imagine how often that has happened.
There is a lot of activity going on today. I even found a Sam's and a Walmart and of course I had to go into both.
I just wanted to send you a hello today to make sure you knew I was thinking you. I Love you Son. I'll talk to you soon.
Love you
Mother
June 27, 2017
Hey Turtle I know I'm a day late but Happy Heavenly Birthday... love you lots Girlie
Mom
June 26, 2017
Hi, it's Mother again. Still working. Still thinking about you. Still have to call Lil Phillip to make sure he tells his daughter HAPPY BIRTHDAY for me
Just found out today that Whitney, my friend Antionette's daughter has gotten married today. That was a nice surprise for me. Another happy event on your birthday!!!!
I'm one of the cashiers tonight so I got to get myself together. Will talk again later. Love you Son.
Mom
June 26, 2017
Hello Son, this is Mother again. No I've not gotten there yet. I was suppose to come after my 3:00 am function but I'm a bit tired. Also I heard on the radio that traffic is really bad. That is not a good combination for someone who is already sleepy. I'll be at work til 10:00 pm tonight. I have a break now but I want to sleep. I'm on my way back to work in about 2 hours or so.
I'm wearing you ring to remind me of how close you are to me. I changed my mind about wearing your dirty socks because I wore them last week and didn't wash them yet. No I did not forget you wore dirty socks a lot. That old ragged tee shirt is now a dust rag and we use it to spread around how much we Love and miss you. I miss you Son and on today a lot. I'll talk to you soon. I will get out there to see you. Love you.
Your Mom
June 26, 2017
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Son. You are 35 years old today!!!!
Good morning, this is Mother. I am up early simply remembering you. I remember when I first started to notice you were on your way to me. I was afraid at those very first signs but I knew my first job was to get us the care we needed. At that time, we did not have a house phone. Did not have any cell phones either. I walked about 3 maybe 4 blocks to the pay phone on St. Bernard & Broad. Today you would never know there was a pay phone or anything else on that corner.
I called your Dad and he came to take us to the Hospital. We went to Charity Hospital. It's not there anymore either.
He dropped us off on the ramp and went to park his car. He had to go several blocks because there were no formal parking lots.
While he was parking, I was wheeled upstairs to the OB. I was a high risk pregnancy so I was seen quicker than some of the other OB patients. At that time, the fathers still were not allowed in the delivery area. Things have really changed in 35 years.
Your Dad told me he drank 6 cokes that morning. When he found out I was going to be okay, he left. Didn't see him again until you were born about a week later. Back then I went to my Mother's house. He was not coming anywhere near that house. I guess men had a respect for Mothers then. What they said was law and nothing else was said about the matter. Also babies and their Mothers were not allowed out for at least 6 weeks. Again, things have really changed!!!!
I remember you being born on June 26th, at 6:00 pm. I felt like the most fortunate person alive. I had the son I wanted. I was feeling some type of special and hungry. That peach ice cream, pancakes and chicken salad I ate all those hours ago was long gone.
My mom, and Ms Gisele got me a hamburger from Burger King across the street from Charity Hospital. Burger King was considered a treat for us.
They left us and that was when I knew I was going to have to do EVERYTHING for you and me both. Our life was starting and I never once looked back.
Sure I had my days if what am I going to do but somehow I never stopped. YOU were everything to me. NOTHING has ever come before you, except for GOD.
I will be out to see you today after I finish working my breakfast function.
Yes I'll bring Rallies and the banana shake. I'm sure you will enjoy them.
See you soon Son. I Love you and I miss you.
Your Mom
June 19, 2017
Hello my Son, this is Mother. I know you are with your grandmother Marilyn celebrating her birthday today. I'm sure she has her caramel and lemon doberge. That is her favorite.
Tell her we are all wishing her the very best for her birthday.
Looking forward to your birthday next Monday. Love you Son. Will talk to you later.
Mom
May 14, 2017
Hello Son, this is Mother.
Thank you for a day to remember.
I received the gift that you sent Marcus with. The card was really nice as well. I will wear the shirt on your birthday.
At church they asked all the Moms who had children that were residing in Heaven to stand. Prayers were offered to us and the word given was on the Power of a woman.
It was Jonathan's 29th wedding anniversary and he sang The Rose and More to his wife. I liked both songs and I am still hearing them in my head.
We finally got to Lacy at Ochsner after getting food from Roberts on Carrollton and Claiborne. Food was real nice and I will be making that Who Dat dip myself at home. Lacy has been at Ochsner since Tuesday. They are testing for the type and severity of her seizures. After taking her off all the medication, she has not had not one seizure. They've even tried to induce them and still not a single one. Ivyraiel and I will be back up there tomorrow for a brief time. Aunt Lenier has to attend Bailee's award ceremony and get to work after. She's been out since Monday. I work Monday also. We are hoping she will get discharged on Monday.
Ivyraiel's BIRTHDAY is on Monday May 15th.
She will GRADUATE on Friday May 19th. That is the same date I graduated on in 1975. Her Dad is hosting a celebration for her on Saturday May 20th along with her cousin who also is Graduating this year as well. We are all suppose to wear white but I know there will be some other colors there. The main color theme is gold and white with accents of royal purple for Ivyraiel and royal blue for her cousin Korae.
I am a bit tired now Son. I've been walking in my fancy sandles all day and you know I prefer tennis shoes, but today was special so I had to look pretty. I will talk to you again soon.
Mother misses you very much. I Love you.
Cheryl Josepn
March 20, 2017
Hello Son, this is Mother. This is the day after my birthday and it was such a wonderful day. The Sun was bright and no clouds anywhere!!
I went to Church, they sang HAPPY BIRTHDAY to me and gave me a monetary gift that everyone who could contributed to. That was so unexpected.
I then had breakfast with Bobby and Jamelia at IHOP. They sang HAPPY BIRTHDAY to me there too, then gave me ice cream.
Ivyraiel was my chauffeur for the day. We drove home after IHOP.
My next stop was the Paint & Jrink. I really liked going there. It was just the ladies and me. Lenier had all this wine, and I had some of it all. My artwork showed it too. The more you drink, the artwork was showing your mood.
The next stop was my dinner. Boy what a time I had there. This was my first time in many years that I went to a Benny Hanna type place. All our food was cooked right there on the grill. That was so much fun!!!! All the kids were screaming with excitement when those flames went up into the air. We all ate sort of healthy but when dinner was over; out came the cake, cupcakes, candied apples, pretzel rods, and oreo cookies all in my favorite color, GREEN!!!!
THEN, when I got home I had yet another surprise. You know my old reclining chair was broke. Nathaniel took it to LaPlace to fix it. It was fixed, he just needed to get it back to me.
Man I tell you I never noticed that new chair when I first gto in the door. When I did see it, I was so excited!!!! Lenier did a video of the whole thing. I thought Nathaniel re-did my old chair but this was an entirely new chair!!!!
That chair has made my entire day just kick up another notch.
I also got cards and monetary gifts from the family too. Bobby and Channel gave me the most beautiful cards.
Now everyone knows my real age. So far 60 is not so bad. Feels like all the other years. One other thing, my head is so big on that driver license renewal picture. I really need to take another one, LOL.
Son, Mother will talk to you at another time.
I Love you
Mom
MOM
January 2, 2017
Hello Son, this is Mother.
Today is 12 years to the exact day we said our parting words at Lake Lawn Park.
The day was just as this one is. Very cloudy, wet, and muggy for the start. Then there was a glimmer of sun if you were in the right part of town. Quess what; I was where that glimmer of sun was. It was not there for long but it was there.
It has rained very hard for most of the day and that was very symbolic of my tears. Yes today I've had tears for a while. I told your story today about three times. I miss you. My heart aches today in places I thought could not still feel anything at all. Guess the concrete that was poured all that time ago has shifted.
I've started 2017 in awe of a lot of things.
First of all at the swiftness of how 2016 went. Next, at a lot of events that closed out 2016 on a note that has all of us saying, "what just happened?"
With all this rain, and the recent floods in the river parishes just a few monthe ago people are wondering what will happen next?
Love runs deep into the soul Son and it does not just go away because you want it to. Watching all the football games lately I noticed how well the guys who were wearing the number 14 was playing. Almost all of them played with an intensity that you did when you were playing. I don't know what got me started watching the number 14's but I am sure it was you just constantly being on my mind the last couple days.
I will continue to go forward and look back for you to be just a few steps behind to make sure I am getting that encouragement I need to keep going forward.
Mother has a birthday coming in a few months, and some folks are saying "damm you are how old?" Yes I am 35 for the last 25 years. Maybe I'll finally make 45 this year. LOL.
Son, Mother will talk to you soon.
Love you very much. Miss you a whole lot. Talk to you soon
Your Mom
December 24, 2016
Hello Son, This is Mother. On today will make exactly 11 years you left us. There is still a large hole in my heart. A hole that will never fill. The smile has dimmed, that laughter is fading, but I will keep you in MY life. You are MY only baby and that will always remain so.
Christmas has come about again this year and this is the leanest year since you have been gone but I am very optimistic about 2017. Mother is doing her darndest to keep up with the big functions at work. I may not finish in the top 3 but I do finish. I see some folks that have retired, got fired, or just plain ole left and they ask me: "You still working there?" And I say YES I AM. 30 plus years and I am still there.
I smile when I think of you because the Christmas tree was never complete unless you put the candy canes on it. You also atr most of them too, espicially when I started getting the good kind with the nice flavors. Over the years decorations have grown but we didn't put them up this year because Christmas just came so fast this year.
Iyraiel and I got us some very soft blankets this year. We got them about 2 weeks ago and have been using them ever since. They are so so soft and pretty to.
I know Christmas is one of your favorite times of the year right up there with Halloween. It is the one Holiday that is celebrated at least a whole month.
Tamara is on leave for the next 2 days. but she will be in Poland in a few months. As soon as I heard Poland, I said road trip but I don't think so. Not this time.
Bobby came for Thanksgiving but can't make it for Christmas. Thanksgiving this year was the first all of his brothers and sister were together in a very long time. They took a picture and I have it in my phone. This Christmas all 6 of Lenier's children will be together. All of their kids will be there too. I hope they take a picture and send it to me.
I will be at the house tomorrow. Ivyraiel should be going to Baton Rouge for cookies and pajamas after she get off work tonight. She asked me to bring her but I got to think about it because there may be a lot of fog going out that way. Who knows, I just might go, But we all know I don't need no cookies. LOL
The Saints game is on and we are not looking to good right now. They are officially out of the playoff picture but we are looking to spoil the dream for maybe another team. You know the saying, If we can't go then nobody goes.
Son Mother is going to sign off right now. I am sort of tired and I need a bit of rest if I decide to drive later on.
I Love You. I will talk to you later
Your Mom
July 23, 2016
Hello Son, this is Mother. I am still thinking about your birthday all this time later. You made 34. I added those numbers together and got 7. That is a special number to me. Seven is the sign of completion. It took GOD six days to complete the Earth, and rest on the 7th day. Your Birthday fell on the 7th day. You made 34 on the 7th day and that is very special to me. I have been thinking about this since June 26th. I always knew you are a special person, but this just confirms it.
Everyone that came to celebrate you on Sunday June 26th had a fantastic time.
The food was exceptional, the weather was hot but tolerable, and the kids stayed cool with the water tether ball and the slip and slide. I even had an adult beverage with plenty of ice. It was a great day all around. I wanted you to know that I was still thinking about you and I miss you so much.
I LOVE YOU and will talk with you later
Your Mom
July 4, 2016
Hello again Son. Happy Fourth of July. I know this is one of your favorite Holidays. I went out to LaPlace for the day and everything was nice. I had several choices, but I chose LaPlace.
Lil Martinez has improved tremendously on his grilling. The food was awesome.
Anastasia set up some kabobs with the 4 different color peppers, sweet onions, beef and chicken. She also made some with shrimp. Both kinds were really good. No we did not have any hot dogs, but we did have homemade hamburgers with grilled chicken breasts and grilled steak. There was plenty of sodas, water, and juice for the kids. I didn't have to help with anything so I became the clean- up crew. Every hour I made a pass to pick up stuff so at the end of the day there was not much to be done.
When all the eating and drinking was done, Nathaniel did fireworks with all the kids. I am on my way home now because everyone else is already at home. A nice HOT day and a good time was had by all. Uncle Martinez finally stopped talking when he went home and took my ribs with him.
Love you Son. Will talk later.
Your Mom
July 4, 2016
Hello again Son. Happy Fourth of July. I went out to LaPlace for the day and everything was nice. I had several choices, but I chose LaPlace.
Lil Martinez has improved tremendously on his grilling. The food was awesome.
Anastasia set up some kabobs with the 4 different color peppers, sweet onions, beef and chicken. She also made some with shrimp. Both kinds were really good. No we did not have any hot dogs, but we did have homemade hamburgers with grilled chicken breasts and grilled steak. There was plenty of sodas, water, and juice for the kids. I didn't have to help with anything so I became the clean- up crew. Every hour I made a pass to pick up stuff so at the end of the day there was not much to be done.
When all the eating and drinking was done, Nathaniel did fireworks with all the kids. I am on my way home now because everyone else is already at home. A nice HOT day and a good time was had by all. Uncle Martinez finally stopped talking when he went home and took my ribs with him.
Love you Son. Will talk later.
Mother
July 4, 2016
Hello Son, this is Mother. I am up quite late or very early, depending on how you look at it. It is about 2:30 am on Monday morning. I have spent the last 3 hours trying to send you a letter. Maybe this short note will get to you. I Love you and I miss you. Talk with you soon.
Your Mom
June 26, 2016
Good morning son. HAPPY 34th BIRTHDAY!!!! I will be coming to see you today and after I get back home we will have a celebration in honor of YOU. Every day you are not here adds another stain to my heart. I miss you son.
Today is all about you. Yes they will hug and kiss me but all that is being placed on you. The young ones that know you remember you, and the new young ones are constantly being told about you.
I will talk to later on in the day. I LOVE YOU SON.
Mother
March 29, 2016
Hello Son, this is Mother. HAPPY belated RESURRECTION SUNDAY!!!! Sorry I did not get you an Easter basket this year. There was so much going on I just completely forgot. I also forgot about Lil Phillip's daughter. I usually would give him some money to get her and her sister a few peices of candy. I will get in touch with them later.
That rain was as bad as it could get on Sunday to. It was so dark crossing the spillway early that morning we thought it was still night. Me and Ivyraiel drove to Baton Rouge for a minute. When we got there, finding where Rosehill was having services was not easy. They were at the Rivercenter. So was the Jehovah Witness Convention. We called Lenier to find out the exact location but she was at work. Natasha was no help either because she did not get to services either. Ivyraiel and I stayed until after the music ministry and we left. Finding our way across town was easy after I found my way back to the Interstate. Baby Donald had called us while we were in the service but we replied after we were on our way to Natasha's house. He needed a ride. Well, well, well. Guess who broke down and went back to the same part of town where I had just drove from to pick them up? You are right; ME. He did not get a ride back from me becaues I was on a schedule and wanted to be on my way home by 4:00 pm. I continued on out the door headed to LaPlace.
We stopped in LaPlace for a short while. We were supposed to leave at 7:00 or a little after. We left at about 8:20pm. The drive home was okay but Ivyraiel did like you would always do to me. She was sleep before I got out of the block good.
We got home and I took me a very hot and long shower. I was a little tired but I made me a large martini and closed out the night with a few thank you text messages and one call to Bobby. Thought I was watching TV but the TV was watching me. Overall it was a great RESURRECTION SUNDAY.
Son, Mother will talk to you soon. I am about to close this note and go to Walmart to see what candy is left on discount. Love you Son.
MOM
March 22, 2016
Hello Son, this is Mother. I know it has been a while but time has gotten away from. Soon I will be on my way back to work. One or two functions a week to start and before you know it I will be back in full force.
I know you saw us for Mardi Gras this year. Yes we were back out there in the freezing cold with the people again this year. We went out about 1:00am that morning and guess what; there were people in every spot out there. We found a nice spot but it was not a perfect one but we made it work for us. We had our own personal port-a-potty so we did not have to deal with the lines at burger king or any of those other places on St. Charles Ave. near the spot we were at. This was my re-introduction to the walking world post bilateral knee replacement surgery. I must have walked at least a mile if not further to get to Walgreens. Man was I tired when I got back. Going I stopped to sit at a bar that had chairs sitting outside of it. Coming back I did the same thing and I am glad I pushed myself to do that. It gave me a point to work toward improving my stamina.
Shortly after that there was your Aunt Lenier's birthday party. I was the bar keep for the night so we could stretch the minimal amount of hard alcohol we had. I got us to the very end of the party with wine and a lot of beer left over. We even had water left. I made $10.00 in tips. I had wine for several weeks left until that time when every meal had to have wine with it; including breakfast. There went 2 nice bottles of wine real fast. A good time was had by all. We really had a lot of food lef and of course you know I got my portions so Ivyraiel and I could have some free meals that was not salad. Ivyraiel is not a big salad eater like I am but if there is nothing else then guess what; salad it is. Not many fruit smoothies this time because that takes work and I wanted to keep moving as fast as I could.
My Birthday as you know was Saturday March 19th. St Joseph's Day. I tell everyone it was named after me because my last name is Joseph. That way it will not be forgotten.
I had planed to spend the day with just me and Ivyraiel. She told me she was going to work the festival in Armstrong Park. I said okay. That would have left just me to celebrate all by myself. I cooked my favorite meal. Barbeque ribs, sweet potatoes, and asian noodles from the Knorr pasta sides collection. I made a pitcher of adult beverage and I had some caramel doberge. You know the one you really really like.
Son, do you know that Kizzy, Robert, and Nigel came to the house Friday night. They were going to the Zoo Saturday morning to the Easter festivities. Kizzy said they would be back to help me enjoy my dinner and told me I needed more paper plates. I finally decided to go get more plates when I thought I saw Natasha. When I got inside Walmart I ran into Lenier, Lacy, Jonquil, and Greyson. I had already told Lenier to save her gas and don't bother coming to New Orleans and that I would see them on the following Sunday which is Easter Sunday if I am not working. The next thing I knew there was a house full of people.
Son there was almost 40 people at this house and that was just family. One sister, one brother, and the rest was neices and nephews. I had already told Lenier I did not make enough food for 5 people let alone 40 but they came bringing food with them. They had Manchu's chicken, meatballs, made stuffed eggs, sandwiches, and a big birthday cake. YEAH, they did not have to have any of "my" caramel doberge!!!!
As usual none of the children had adult supervision and as a result Ms. Brenda from across the street called and told me they were destroying my tree. Zander, DeMarcus, and Jayce pulled 3 large branches off my tree and no one got punished for it. I did get the truth out of them as to who did it though. The next gathering will be for Ivyraiel's 18th birthday. There will be no furniture in the front of the house at all. Everyone will have to bring their chair. If not there will be plenty of grass to sit on. Bet you they'll supervise their kids this time. I had a great time considering my tree was de-branched. Forgot to mention LaShira was here from Texas, and Geminese was here too.
Today is your Dad's birthday so send him some well wishes for a nice day.
Well Son this is the time I do not like at all. It is when I have to say that I will be talking to you at another time. Since I have been off from work I have developed the gift of conversation and can really talk a long time especially if it is to someone I really like. In your case I really LOVE you. I think it is very late or very early depending on how you look at the time. I will need to get some form of rest because I plan to run that lawn mower over the front and back grass as soon as the sun is up good.
I LOVE YOU SON and I will talk with you at another time. Love you!!!!
Mom
January 2, 2016
Hello Son, this is Mother. I waited until today to speak to you again because as you know today makes ten years you moved in to your basement apartment. I am not sad today but you are so much on my mind. In today's time there is so much going on with people being just plain ole reckless and not having any remorse for their actions. I truly Love you but with you being where you are I am a little bit at ease. So many Mothers are seeking a better time and outlet for their Sons. Life is a matter of seconds and it can be stressful for the most part. I am trying to learn to be as peaceful as I can.
Bobby came down for New Years Eve and he bought Todd with him. Kizzy wanted to have her own New Years Eve celebration in Baton Rouge with her brothers & sister. Well as you would have it, Bobby & Todd were the only ones to show up. Taranisha said she had to dance in a wedding and Baby Donald and his wife are supposed to be getting to Baton Rouge today after his wife gets off from work. Todd decided to stay in Baton Rouge forcing Bobby to make another trip there to pick him up so they can get back to Georgia on Sunday. Bobby's girl friend has to get back because her kids have school on Monday.
I cooked breakfast Thursday and Friday morning. Saturday they had to fend for themselves. You know Bobby ate the leftover pancakes & bacon. I fixed the red beans Todd wanted today and he is not even here to eat them. We got some Brothers fried chicken and for a change all was right with the world. I really put my foot in those beans. Ivyraiel, Bobby and Tynita ate and I did hear a sound. They ate and all I saw was smiles. You would have enjoyed those beans. I always make a good pot of creamy good red beans!!!!
Son I wanted to send these words to today and to let you know you are missed. I have sat and thought of so many things that you and I can be doing now. I did learn that your Dad has a love for fireworks just like you do. I can remember you and your grandmother Marilyn going to Slidell by the giant Gorilla to get your fire crackers. He told me he put on quite the show. Wish I could have seen it but I am sure that you had the best view for every firework display that was presented. I saw a few nice ones but it was cold out so I went back inside. Bobby gave a beautiful Prayer at midnight and then the fireworks began.
Right now I am watching my third football game but I wanted to take some time out for you. I will get back to my game now and I will talk to you soon. Love you and Miss you
Mom
December 25, 2015
MERRY CHRISTMAS Son!!!! I hope all is well there and everyone is HAPPY. May the Joy and Peace of today cause everyone to remember what this day is really about. I Love you and will you wish everyone there a MERRY CHRISTMAS for me. LOVE YOU
Mom
December 24, 2015
Hello my dear dear Son. Today almost to the exact minute makes 10 years that your eyes closed and your smile was dimmed to me. Mother has spent the day at home being very quiet, watching a movie and trying to fix something to eat. I finally gave up and went to Popeyes. I should have gone to Kentucky for the $10.00 I spent. I know I would have gotten double the food. Prices are outragious these days for fast food unless you want those 4 for $4.00 deals they have out now. I know you would just love those, especially the Rally's one. Anyway I know you are with me today because that heavy saddness has not come over me. Yes I MISS you so much. Ms Brenda from across the street brought me a very pretty flower arrangement made of Christmas flowers. She knew what today was and how long it has been too. I really wish you were here because you are always the one to lift the spirits of all the grinches in this family and sometimes that has included me.
Son on today it was so much like it was 10 years ago. Raining, muggy, and the last minute people that forgot to get rolls or the vanilla extract. One difference is I am not living in a hotel room but I am home. Reminds me of that Stephanie Mills song about home.
The rest of the family is getting ready for the cookie and pajamas party at Nathaniel's house. That is becomming a tradition for the children. They should have lots of fun. They made it a taco bar theme this year but I just perfered the regular party food. We had a texting conversation about menu changes at the last minute but their minds were made up on the taco bar theme.
Mother will be spending as much time as she can talking with you both here and spiritually but I know you are busy with your grandmother Marilyn. You and I both know she liked to decorate inside and out for Christmas. She also cooked everything but the fried turkey ahead of time so she could bring all of us kicking and screaming to Church on Christmas morning. Then when she returned everybody would be amped up to open presents, ride bikes, skates, and play those darn video games. That is where most of you stayed until y'all heard the words: "all y'all need to come and eat".
During earlier times you and I would share our own special Christmas mornings. You always wanted banana pancakes with bacon and sausage. Sometines your dad would come and share that time with us. As you got older you wanted to have your own special moments other places but I still have that picture of you in your underwear and tee shirt holding up a skate board while wearing a toy double holster silver gun set and a cowboy hat. Seeing that picture from time to time makes my heart happy. Today I would never think of getting you a silver toy gun set.
I saw Lil Phillip a few days ago. He looked tired but his girls are always happy to see him when he is home. It can get busy around this time of year depending on where you work.
I do not think I will make the cookie and pajama party this year. I am going to elevate and ice my knees one more time tonight before trying to make that banana pudding they ask me to bring to Aunt Jennifer's house tomorrow. You also know I am going to eat that $10.00 meal I got from Popeyes while I have the ice on my knees. No wine. At least not yet. LOL!!!!
Son I am going to go start that process now and I will talk with you soon. I LOVE YOU and I MISS YOU ALWAYS. Talk to you soon
MOM
November 27, 2015
Hello my Dear Son, this is Mother. Sorry I am late for Happy Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving came and went and I am no worse for the wear. I am home now and very much sore. You see Son, 4:00 am, maybe a little earlier Wednesday morning Mother hit the kitchen floor. I was trying to move the cases of water out of my way. I tried to make a side step and boom. Shop was closed. I was taken and had no choice in the matter. Good thing to because I was "NOT" managing any pain but I WAS finished with the dinner. Ivyraiel told me she wanted Thanksgiving at the house, but she went to Baton Rouge with her mother. So much for our Thanksgiving at the house. Taranisha was here for my ordeal and wanted to know how did I get to the kitchen floor? Like I said I really don't know.
The weather here was nice but it felt a little muggy for me. Tamara came from Kansas. Depending on how my next appointment is I may consider going there to live again. Not really sure but I will think of something soon. Aunt Lenier had all of her kids together for this Thanksgiving along with all of her grand kids. All 10 of them. That makes me feel left out a little but "oh well". I am up early because I never went to sleep after getting home. You think I would like the quietness but not last night. Jennifer also had all of her kids and grand kids too. She has 9 maybe 10 too. I do know that next year one more will be added. Our Family is growing but by now I should be excited about all that growth but it lets me know how much more I really miss you. The 10 years have come so qiuckly that my memories keep comming and I remember something new every so often.
Once again Bobby Joe's Birthday fell on Thanksgiving. His Birthday happens a lot on Thanksgiving. Maybe because it is the 26th of the month and a lot of times that is when Thanksgiving is. I did not make it to LaPlace for the Thankful moments before the dinner, but I am sure next year I will be there for them. I like it when the little kids are so insightful when they say what they are thankful for. I don't think the adults give as much thought into their thankfulness as those kids. Maybe we need to listen a little more to what they are saying. Also a lot of our adults in this Family need to look "AWAY" from their phones a bit more too. I wonder if they have sore necks from looking down so much?
Well Son you know I can talk, but Mother has to get ready for some early visitors. Tamara and Bailee are comming to the house this morning. They will also bring Ivyraiel back too. They may sit a while but I'm not sure. I also have a friend visiting from Mississippi. He is the band director for Mississippi Valley State Univ. He also will pass through on his way back home. So the morning is looking busy right now. I will talk with you later. Miss you & Love you
MOM
November 3, 2015
Good morning my Beloved Son. This is a Tusday morning and Mother may be a little tired. I waited up most of Sunday for a return call and the next thing I knew it wqs time for me to get a move on. I had two appointments but I made a stop at the Verizon store in Metarire only to not have all my issues solved with the phone. I will try another store at another time. Physical therapy ran a little long but I still had time before going to Dr. Pappas which is why I stopped. Got to Pappas early still but had to wait for my actual appointment time. I got the monitor and I was out. I bring it back Wednesday after the therapy appointment.
On Friday Son, Ryan got married. The invitation said for 6:30pm but we did not start until 7:30. We had to RSVP for the reception. Good thing I called Lil Phillip because they forgot to give me the admit card with the location on it. When I RSVPed I also sent a note stating I would need a person with me because of my recent knee surgery. I sent my phone number but no one responded. Lenier was supposed to be with me but you know your Aunt Lenier's timing. Late, late, and more late. I already was forced into driving when Ivyraiel wanted to go to LaPlace for the family fun day on Friday since it was going to rain so much on Saturday. Her mother was going to be there so I said okay. From across the River at Karr school I started. Into the river traffic, thru the Metarie traffic, over the Spillway traffic we went. It was a good decision to bring my wedding clothes with me to avoid going back home and then to the wedding. Lenier was supposed to meet me in LaPlace but at 5:00pm she had never left Baton Rouge. So guess what? Mother was back to driving again. No pain yet, and I was not expecting any either. Traffic was the word for the evening. I guess since everyone was urged to celebrate Halloween on Friday a lot of last minute details had to be done before that 6:00pm hour, thus ALL THAT TRAFFIC!!!!
I got to the church finally, got my seat on the aisle so I could be in all the pictures, and waited for the ceremony to start. While we were waiting, a man knocked over one of the glass candle vases that was on the floor. He kept walking like nothing happened. We all thought he went to look for a broom but he never came back. The flower people replaced the candle vase but that man still never came back. The church staff had to use paper towels to remove the glass that was broken and still he had not returned. I was getting so cold in the church I was thinking about just going to the reception location but by the time I finally made up my mind the ceremony was starting.
I know you remember Ms Pam who coached your 8 year old baseball team. She was there and she asked about you. I told her you were home in Heaven and she was a little sadden about that but I kept smiling and I guess that made things a little lighter for her. She told me Brett was with her but I did not see him until the reception. You know Mother is her most beautiful self when I am dressed up, with makeup and pretty clothes. I am the most beautiful person at the event. I seem to have a glow about my self when I am at these events where I am around your friends and their families. Brandon Spann was there also and he did not know you were in Heaven either.
The wedding was a simple but very elegant event. Ms Alice and Big Phillip were very well dressed. The maids dresses were a pretty dark blue and the groomsmen were in that same dark blue tuexedo. All simple but very elegant. The Brides gown was a form fitting A line top with the flounce and ruffle bottom. Both Bride and her maids were strapless.
When I got to the reception you know I took advantage of my handicapped parking tag. I was right in the front. I was statring to get unsteady with walking because I was not used to doing all that driving and a lot of walking outside. Just as I got to the door the Bridal party cars were arriving with the car horns in fill blast. Ryan & Brittnay were in a Rolls Royce. The rest of the party was in these stretch type Hummer cars. Very very fancy. They pushed me into the doors, I checked in, and that was that. I found a good seat close enough to where I could see everything. I was in enough of their pictures. LOL, LOL, LOL. I got one Apple Crown on the rocks and 1/2 cup of Moscato and I was good for the rest of the night. When the buffets openrd I went to the desert table first because the buffet line was really long so I got in where I could first. When the buffet line was gone then I got my food. I was not used to eating the regular stuff but you know I tried it anyway. I paid for it later on. Again, LOL, LOL, LOL. I made my way around the reception to speak to everyone. More of your friends remember me than I remember them. When I spoke to Brittnay, I told her we had never met. I told her I was your Mom and that they called you Turtle and she knew who you were because they talk about you from time to tome. I felt good that those Brock boys keep you in their memories and their prayers.
Your Aunt Lenier finally made her way thru all that traffic to meet me at the reception. We stayed a little while longer. I was getting more tired and starting to get sleepy. When the second line band came, Lenier realized it was her step brother's band so I sat back down while she danced and talked with him. A little later we were headed for the door when she told me she had a late night date. I said okay and I drove home after making sure she had the key to the house. Lenier never made it to my house. She choose to drive back to Baton Rouge.
The kids told me they had fun at the family day. They had pizza and salad. I was on the salad detail so I brought it there when I bought Ivyraiel to LaPlace. I was out of my pepper jelly vinegrette dressing so I got a straberry vinegrette instead along with the buttermilk ranch and honey mustard. All three dressings were good. The cranberries and cheese with the sprinkle seasonings just make my salads the party hit all the time.
I missed out on the first batch of salad so I fixed some on Saturday when I had to go back to LaPlace to get Ivyraiel so she could work with Paster Carter at the game on Sunday. Channel was having her Birthday dinner on Sunday and I was not sure I would be going. When Ivyraiel decided to stay at her Dad's house Saturday night I knew I was not making any moves on Sunday at all. Home was where I was going to stay. Then all the messages started to pour in. I must have gotten 10 to 15 messages asking me to come to the dinner. Finally about 12 noon I started my way back to LaPlace. I think that last trip back was a bit to much because nothing was sitting right in my stomach, if you know what I mean. I left shortly after the game, got Ivyraiel from Downman & Chef and we came home. She had to wait up for her Dad because she left all her bags in his truck. I was in the bed before 5:30pm and did not move until I started my day Monday after waiting for my return call from Sunday night. Now we are back to where we started from, Tuesday morning. I LOVE you Son and Mother will be talking to you soon.
MOM
September 12, 2015
Here is your candel Son. I forgot to light it for you in my earlier not to you. Love you. Talk to you soon.
MOM
September 12, 2015
Hello my beloved Son, this is Mother. I am about a week or so late to tell you about Labor Day. We all were in Laplace on the Saturday before to go to Lil Nicky & Daniel's football games. Son things have changed a bit since you used to play park ball. But anyway it is football after all. It was HOT out there. I had gone to the jambaree the week before and had "NO" equipment. No umbrella, no tent, no big hat, just a sun visor. You even had to pay to get in!! Right then I made a promise to myself that this will not happen again.
The next week I had my tent, a big hat, Lenier was off so they had umbrellas in the car. Even Greysen came to his first game at 1 month old. Tamara and Bailee were in from Kansas too. Tamara was on leave for a short while. She is moving up the Army ranks in a fast pace. I am glad for her.
At the jambaree they were so slow with the french fry orders until I just changed my mind about them and got natchos instead. "EVERYONE" knows that if you have a lot of kids at an event, you really should have the "BIG" pot to fry the fries. It seemed like they were frying 10 fries at a time. Not 10 orders, 10 fries!!!!
Anyway the next game was their first league game. I had all my equipment , but Anastasia said we did not need the tent. WELL guess what. We needed that and more. Lenier did have a couple umbrellas in her car and they went to get them. She asked if I wanted one but of course you know I told her; I'm a soldier. Sorry I made that statement because it got even hotter with that sun beaming directly on me. Won't do that again.
Daniel had a second game but I did not go because I wanted to go be Jennifer's house and Anastasia bought chicken. Spicy, spicy chicken. I was hungry so I ate some. WELL, I will not do that again either!! Me and spicy are not friends.
Finally made it over to Jennifer's house and we stayed a while. Ivyraiel did not come to LaPlace because she was working with Paster Carter. When we were about to leave Lil Martinez said he wanted to boil some turkey necks, pig feet, corn, and potatoes on Sunday, so the plan for the day before Labor Day celebration was started. I told him I did not care for pig feet and would he boil everything seperately. He got that smirk on his face and said " I don't know Antee Cheryl. We will see". Everything was boiled together. Good thing I bought salad and dressing. I bought frozen fruit cubes too because a fruit tray cost to much and not that much fruit. That big bag of frozen fruit was a big hit. The salad was a bigger hit because I added my special touch. I used the spring mix, green onions, cheese, cranberries, mushrooms, and garlic butter croutons. I sprinkled a little salt, pepper, garlic powder and onion powder. We had several dressings. Ranch, balsamic vinaigrette, ceasar, cole slaw dressing, pepper jelly vinaigrette, and italian. My salad really was very good.
Later on in the day we were making snow cones for the kids. Under the patio in Jennifer's yard was very cool. She had 2 or 3 fans blowing too.
Things got real special for me as I start to remember you and your grandmother Marilyn. I started a speech about how all of this family got started with one person; Your grandmother Marilyn. It is so hard to be serious when you are trying to speak and no one wants to listen but eventually they all did listen to me. I will speak at all family functions from now on.
As you know Lil Martinez is an instructor at Nunez Community College. I am really PROUD of him. He is a licensed electrician and with that he is now an instructor at the college. I told him don't be surprised if next year I am taking his course.
Son I miss you. The other day I was on the sofa and Ivyraiel laid on top of me. I told her that it reminded me of when you and I would have "Huggy Buggy" time. I started to cry because that was a special moment for me. I was glad she was there to share that with me. She is just a big baby herself until that attitude rears its ugly head but for the most part she is really good.
Got to go now Son. Got to finish getting this house together before Tuesday. Finally I am getting my left knee done. Will not be going to rehab. I will be coming home. I know I will progress better home than in rehab.
I will keep you posted on my progress. I know you will be giving me that extra nudge especially when I don't want to exercise. I know that is the ultimate key to my speedy recovery. Mother Loves you. I miss you. I will talk to you soon. Love you!!
MOM
July 8, 2015
Hello Son, this is Mother. I see Tripp is still in contact with you. He should come by the house sometimes. I would love to see all the little Tripps.
The 4th of July was fun for me. I was by Gemenise's house for her son's birthday. He had a water slide and of course I was posted up to make sure all the kids played nicely. Nathaniel & Anastasia bought their 4 kids. Lacey came with Natasha, her 4 kids and some fella named Austin. He was quiet but he looked like he was having fun. I got there early and stayed late. I tried to make sure at least the kitchen dishes were washed and in the dish drainer. Tried to start the washer for all the towels, but as you everyone has their own way to start their washing machines.
I was home alone from the Friday before the 4th to this Monday. Ivyraiel was working at the Convention Center with Paster Carter. I know she had fun even though she got some work wounds. She burned herself slightly on both arms. She took pictures with Trey Song, Uncle Charlie Wilson, Tamala Mann, and David Mann. You know Mr Brown. Tamala Mann was really pretty in the pictures. Ivyraiel was really cheesed up. I have never seen her smile that big. Anyway I was really glad for her. She did work very hard those three days though.
Nathaniel had gotten a smoker for Father's Day. He tried it out for the first time on Sunday past and he burned his hand badly. I saw it when he came to get the kids on Monday. It reminded me of the rock man in the Fantastic 4. He thought it was funny because he said Antee Cheryl I remind you of the Thing. I said yes. We both started laughing. The pulled pork he made was fantastic. I got some of that with the homemade coleslaw. The peice of rib he gave me looked like it was from a brontasauras rex. I took it home, heated it in the oven today for lunch and man!!!! That rib has me wanting to go buy some so he can smoke them for me!!!! Yes son I have the kids again this week. They spent Monday at my house and I went to LaPlace on Tuesday. Today we had dental appointments so Channel kept them a few hours. Tomorrow they will be here and I don't know about Friday. When I was in LaPlace on Tuesday I made the best pot of oatmeal. I never use the microwave to fix it. I used milk, a little sugar, cinnamon, and sliced bananas. It didn't need any butter either. I didn't want any bananas in mine. It was so good.
Ivyraiel said she would go to band camp tommorrow. We will check the bus schedule for her best times to travel and for the best connections. I will remind her to bring an umbrella for the sun or in case it rains. Either way she will be covered.
Well Son, I am at the part that I don't like. When I have to go because I have something else to do. You know how I like to talk. Anyway I Love you and we will talk soon
July 6, 2015
Wats up big bro sorry but happy birthday .... I know I'm last I still got blackidious lol man I got mi kids this summer and its been none stop ripping and running man yo God son lil Marcus is getting big hell he almost taller than me ....... Ha ha I know you said a short joke lol man just wanted to tell ya I miss ya and love ya and Happy Birthday love ya big bro ....... Tripp
Mom
June 26, 2015
Forgot to tell you earlier that Phillip's baby that was born on your birthday is having a party tomorrow. Son she is three already. I had planned to be at the Jilles family and friend day. Hope they have barbeque ribs. Or barbeque something. I know I will not make both events but I will definitly be at one. I will go now to continue celebrating you. Love you Son.
Your Mom
June 26, 2015
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SON !!!!!! You are now officially 33yrs,and 4 hours old. I wanted to send this greeting to you at this time because I wanted the exact age for you. Just kidding you know I usually start my birthday greetings to you way eariler than this. This morning I forgot Nathaniel's kids were coming. ALL 4 of them. When I tell you I was frazzeled that is an understatement. They had been coming all week but for some reason I forgot about this morning. I know you were on my mind all day Thursday and I started your birthday celebration late Thursday night. I finished a bottle of strawberry wine that had been in the refrigerator since forever. Even with that I still could not sleep because I really was thinking about you. I was up at about 3:00 am. I ate a bowl of cereal and still could not sleep. I guess I finally fell asleep right when they were ringing the doorbell. All week I have been up waiting for them but not this morning. That pushed me into getting a late start with everything. Finally their mom called and I met her at Washington and South Claiborne in that Taco Bell parking lot. That lot is a real mess around lunch time. I made a wrong turn thinking I could go in one way but they had another plan for me. I had to go back around and then into that lot. They were happy to see their mom and I was too. I could now plan my trip out to see you.
I went around Earhart to beat the traffic heading West toward Baton Rouge. I remembered that regular on ramp was closed. I made my way out and stopped to get you your Rally burgers. Yes I did remember mayonaise, pickles, and ketchup only. Went to Dorgnaics and got your petite fours. I remembered you did not like the chocolate ones. The nice lady also gave me some candles so I could sing to you. Both of these stops were off Veterans. I finally got to the green Dollar Tree on Williams Blvd. They had everything I wanted. The one on Morrison is not as well stocked as this one is. I got your balloons, card and a few other things and made my way out to see you. To my surprise it was very clean out there. Everybody had fresh flowers and new vases. That made me feel good.
I set up your ballons, card, and flowers in the vase. This time I got you the black stones for your vase. Your vase from last year was still there. That made me happy. The lady who goes out there every week told me she would help take care of your area too. She kept her word to me.
I finally got everything set up and took a bite of Rally burger with you. I took pictures of the ballons and the petite four with the candle in it. I sent it to a few people. They all liked it. No I did not take a selfie this time. My hair was to messed up and my face did not have its usual glow.
They had several postings on Facebook, Instagram, and Pintrest but I still don't have all those things so I asked them to tell me about them. I am starting to cry now because I miss you so so much. I wish you were here with me especially now because of my knee. You could be here helping me work out and it would not seem so hard. Don't get me wrong, the pain I used to be in was really horrible. Now it is just really sore muscles and stiffness. The more I move the soreness seems to keep coming on but I will get to a good place once the swelling goes down. Ice is my new best friend but keeping enough is hard on my ice maker. Some how it manages to keep up.
I did talk to Big Martinez, Lenier, and Nathaniel. A few others like to text but I perfer a phone call. Guess I am still behind the times on that subject. I really really miss you Son. So many times I call your name and just talk to you.
We had a 40 year class reunion a few weeks ago too. I could not go to everything. Money was a little tight. I did go to the church service and it was very nice. I saw a lot of people that I remembered. If I must say quite a few still look good. Not as good as your mom but they were alright. A picture was taken and I may get a copy. If not then I will get a copy from someone. After service there was a rush to get to the buffet lunch reservation so I was the very last person left at the church. I was going to Monchell's wedding so it did not matter that much.
Monchell's wedding was extremely nice. It was at the Balcony. This was my first time going there. The place is very nice. Food was good, and they served a lot. Ther was no shortage on Spumante either. I had so much fun. I tried to dance with my cane and got a little embarrsed for going to get so many glasses of Spumante. The bartender knew what I wanted before I got to her. Guess I was not moving that fast.
Well Son I probably have talked enough right now. I think you will read this in seperate sessions. Tell your grandmothers Marilyn and Marion hello. Your aunt Shelia and Lil Martinez too. I Love you Son. Miss you much.
MOM
May 12, 2015
Hello Son. This is mother. Yes I finally had the knee surgery. It was an ordeal but my staples came out today and I am in much pain. A LOT OF PAIN!! I went to a rehab place after the surgery and quickly found out that it was a mistake to even have gone there. Lets just say; no one should have to put up with that type of facility and have it paid for by the insurance. FOOD: TERRIBLE!! ASSISTANCE: NONE!! You do get your therapy sessions and that is about all!! Anyway you saw what I had to endure so I will not continue with this conversation. It pains me to much.
Lil Nicky got baptised on Sunday, May 10th which was mother's day. Uncle Martinez came and got us and Big Nathaniel got us back home.
The church service was very good and I did enjoy it. There was a small gathering at Nathaniel's house after the baptism. I enjoyed that too. Lil Phillip gave me a card, and I got a rose from Jarrod. Your Dad called and that completed my day. I got back home and ran to my bed so fast you would have thought I was walking without the walker. I am so limited because I cannot drive until another 4 weeks. I may have forgotten how to drive after all that time. Channel has been a really great help to me. She comes out whenever I call. I give her gas money to get back and she asks for very little else.
Ivyraiel's birthday is Friday, May 15th.
I am trying to give her a birthday moment on Saturday and invite the family, and maybe a couple of her friends. You know just the usual stuff. Hot dogs for the kids, pasta for the adults with sodas and water. Cake and ice cream too.
Anyway Son mother will be talking to you later. As always I Love you and I really miss you. Love you Son.
Mom
March 20, 2015
Good morning my beloved son. This is Mother. As you already know I celebrated my birthday yesterday. I had a great day. Everyone texted, called or even sent me phone videos. Lenier sent me an ugly hand puppet singing happy birthday to me. She said it is on the phone settings but you know I have an SG4. Shas an SG5. Maybe I have it but can't find it yet. I've only had the phone for a year. I told you about it when I got it. Nathaniel and the children sent me a birthday song video.
Son all the stars must have been in line for me on yesterday. I did my knee therapy, then went to the Chase on Veterans to get a money order. I was going to treat myself to a Starbucks caramel frappe but the bank had coffee. They had a creme brulet flavered coffee. Why go to Starbucks when I had a very very good "free" cup of coffee. I really don't drink coffee like talking about because of the caffeine but that was one good cup of coffee. I wanted another on but as you know the second one is never as good as the first one.
I only got $22.00 for my lottery tickets. I save them and bring them out to Clearview when I get a chance. When I got there a lady was getting several checks totalling $20,000.00 She had a stroke of beginners luck because I heard her daughter say that this was her first time buying lottery tickets. Guess she took all the luck of the day with her because I got that small amount.
I came home, ate lunch while channel surfing the basketball games. Remember that is what we did during the March madness games for two weekends back to back. Never stayed on the games because I had to catch up with Scandel.
I left home and went to the Walmart on Manhatten. I went there so I could be close to Karr for the report card conference time. Ivyraiel was supposed to stay but she caught the bus home. I got a really good parking spot for Walmart. Sams was across the parking lot so I went there. I wanted barbeque baby back ribs for my birthday dinner. I got a good parking spot for Sams too.
When I got to Karr the #26 parking spot was open. I thought about you and parked the Malibu right there. The conversations with Ivyraiel's instructors was stressful to me. She can do all the work but because of outside situations she has shut down. I need not tell you what that is.
Comming home was a lot of traffic. I had to cross the CCC and I was sure that was not going to be fun. I called Nathaniel for something and he gave me the best tip. Just stay in the lane next to the white line and you will be fine. No need to merge into a lane because you will already be in one and it will be up to you to let people into that lane in front of you. Guess what!! That worked and I will use that tip from now on.
Had to make a stop way uptown and that is when the rain really started. I saw a rainbow at Broad and Conti. I made a wish on that rainbow for your Dad to call me for my birthday. It had been a while since I heard from him. You know he "FORGOT" me on Valentines day. He still had not called even when I got to Chef and Crowder. I took the ground all the way home. Rain and I-10 just don't mix. I still was going to fix my ribs but when I got to Crowder and Chef the barbrque man was out there; hard rain and all. Cars were pulling up to buy food and I said why not. I made that U-turn and got some food too. His ribs were tender and had a lot of flavor. You know I ate one in the car. I was not going to give Ivyraiel any bueause of the report card but I changed my mind when I got home. She say she does not eat potatoe salad because of the mayonaise. Well guess what I do and I did. Ate the rice and beans too. I did give her the other ribs because I got full just off the side dishes. Oh!! I got som carrot cake flavored M&M's. They only come out around Easter time. They taste so good!! I was just about to settle in for the evening and get ready for Grey's Anatamy when I got my wish. YES!! Your Dad did call!! He had not forgotten. After all how could he; it was St Joseph Day. The day is named after me. Anyway my wish came true. I was already happy but now I was even more happier. You really lined those stares up for me Son and I am so happy. THANK YOU. I Love you and will talk to you soon.
MOM
February 22, 2015
Hello Son. This is Mother. Happy late Valentines Day. I Love you and miss you a lot. No I did not get any Valentines Day cards, gifts or even a peice of candy but I had to work so I guess that was my gift. As usual your Dad forgot about me AGAIN. YES we have finished another Mardi Gras season at work. Of course you know I had to work the day after so what is new. Son, do you know after 17 years of not going out to actually do Mardi Gras I went out there. The last time was the year you were making 18 years old. We "ALL" went out there. Well almost all. Kizzy, Robert, Todd, Baby Donald, & Bobby did not make it out. Aunt Jennifer & Mr. Emanual went someplace else. Tina, Rodney & their kids did the LaPlace thing. Even Ms Gaynell came from Baton Rouge with some of her family. One of those fellows really did not have on enough clothes to keep warm. I gave Ivyraiel specific instructions on how to dress. Then I left it up to her. She must have listened to me because she did not appear to be cold.
Yes Son your Mother was out there with the people and liked it. I got out there about 4:00 or 4:30 that morning. I was a late arrival. There were so many people out there already until I thought I missed the parades. IT WAS COLD. But we were ready. Your Aunt Lenier was supposed to be out there about 2:00 or 3:00 that morning bur the trailer we borrowed did not get hitched up until Tuesday morning because it was raining Monday night. Uncle Martinez called me about 3:00 and asked me where was I. Of course I was late but I told him I was on the interstate. We had to get in where we could. We settled on a spot at the corner of St. Charles & Polymnia. I had a fire pit for us to keep warm. Across the street there were a lot of young people. They were burning boxes to keep warm. It was a cozy setup until the police woman told us to take it down. That was about 7:00 that morning. I put up 2 tents with the chairs we had and waited for everyone else. Of course we were told to take the tents down because we were not on the neutral ground. We even had a tent with a small potty for the children. That was a nice setup to. They did not use it very much because it had a bag attached to it. I personally went to the Burger King that was very near by. You had to by something and show the reciept or pay $1.00 for a one time use or $5.00 for an all day pass. One guy paid his $5.00 and did not take his pass. The lady gave it to me and Ivyraiel. She had already purchased 3 coffee meals so she had a 3 time restroom use on her reciept. We shared the all day pass and that reciept. They also had 4 portalets in the parking lot. That option was faster than going inside after the day went along. I went back to burger king to get me a small burger because I did not want the bar be que chicken. as I sat and ate my $1.00 burger I was collecting reciepts off the floor to make sure the family had even mors rest room options. After they dropped them I waited a little while then I scooped it up.
Everybody bought something. I bought jambalya. We had sandwiches, sodas, water, bar be que chicken, and grilled pork chops. Boiled corn, potatoes,and sausage. The big hit was the candy apples and popcorn balls your Aunt Lenier made. They really were good. So good until whenever one of those kids took a bite out of one and set it down I finished it for them.
There were so many grills and boiling pots out there until it started to feel like a huge cook out site. Since I have been out there the rules have changed. I had to put out the fire pit. That police woman wanted us to put out the grill and boiling pot to but we told her we had food on the grill and in the boiling pot. As the day went on I guess she got tired of telling people to put out grills and pots. There was just that many. Next year we will have another plan. Yes I do plan to go out next year. I actually had fun.
Ivyraiel lost her phone. Someone found it. The rest of the family said they questioned everyone to see if it was theirs but no one asked me or her and we were right there. You know how that went, I got mine so move on. It stayed in the area because we were tracking it. We constantly called it when she discovered she lost it. You know Son, everybody we asked said they did find a phone but gave it back to who it belonged to. That was really nice. At the very end of the day when we were headed home Ivyraiel asked if I wanted so food becaues Paster Carter had her food truck at St. Charles & Clio. We turned around to go get the food. While I was in the car waiting I decided to call her pnone myself. I got an answer. A police officer had her phone only a block away from Cliop street. He got it to her but we had already ordered another phone. She used her money so no loss to me. When it comes we will send it back and hope we will get a full refund. We got the fish and chips order and that was really good too. we really did not wait to get home to eat. we used a lot of hand sanitizer and just started eating. The only thing we could do when we got home was shower and go to sleep. We had 8:00 am dental appointments Wednesday morning.
Those kids caught so many teddy bears and toys. I asked Nathaniel what was he going to do wit all he had. He told me they will put them in the attic and they will become Christmas gifts. That sounded like a great idea.
After all was said in done Ivyraiel got her phone back, everyone had a great time, and your Uncle Martinez got a ticket for parking the wrong way on Polymnia street. I texted everyone to text me "YES" if they made it back home safe and reflected on the day. IT WAS A GOOD ONE. I Love you Son and will talk to you later.
Always
MOM
January 26, 2015
Hi Son, this is Mother. Well this was another weekend of very long hours. I know you can guess by now we had Zulu on Sunday night. It was the King & Queen's party. Only so much of everything was ordered. We work so hard on this function until they give most of us the next day off. They also accept call outs by the truck load. So many people called out until the floor people had 9 to 12 tables by themselves. Mr Wendell had to serve 6 tables by his self. I'm talking 4 courses to 60 people. The most we ever had to do was 4 tables by yourself. He was in the middle of the VIP section. Then when the rest of the tables around his station saw he was serving his station then they wanted to be served as well. Mind you only the so called "VIP's" were supposed to get served. The rest of the people had to walk to the buffet. Of course nobody wanted to stand in that very long line. Only 1,200 were invited. People were everywhere. Your mom had the desert station. I had it set and well stocked with plates, spoons, and forks. They had bread pudding and mini carrot cake squares. Well son the worse happened. We ran out of bread pudding. It was not our fault. I even got a small scoop to control portion sizes. Guest was taking 2 to 4 scoops at a time on one really small plate. You should have heard some of the language they were telling me after that bread pudding ran out. I at least thought people would not talk like that on a Sunday. Anyway they stll had carrot cake peices left. I stopped making the station look nice and just started putting the whole tray on the station. At one point I put three trays out at once. By the time the 3rd tray was on the table the first 2 were gone and I used a cart to bring them into the room. That was totally against the rules. Son with my knee I had to get an advantage any way I could.
I hit a curb last night on my way home. Partly because I did not see it and partly because I don't drive in the quarter because those cabs do not let you move how you need to move. I hope the car is okay. I am just now waking up and I wanted to talk to you today. I did bring the car to Banner on Thursday and I had 3 recalls on that car. They could not finish with it the same day so Ivyraiel & I caught the bus to her appointment on Friday morning in all that pouring rain. When we got to the doctor's office we were told he had an emergency surgery and that everyone was called to reschedule. Well it was just our luck we did not get that call!!!! Angry could not describe how I felt. I left 3 contact numbers to call. She missed another day of school and I was in the cold and rain. we missed the next bus but the one after that was only 20 minutes or so later. We got to Banner, got my car, and was driving home when I hear those famous words; "I am hungry". Okay so what do you want I asked. "To go to the new buffet in Michoud" It was $6.00 a person so we went. A buffet is a waste for me because most times I can not make a good decision on what to eat. We finished and I wanted to rest before going to work. There was no rest to be had because the phone kept ringing. I soon turned it off and got my 2 hours in. Then off to work.
Ivyraiel cut the back grass and wanted to put the fire pit together. Yes I finally got on for a really good price. I guess you keep hearing about my good prices. Yes son your mother is CHEAP. Money is spent only on necessary stuff around here. I was going to get a pedicure that I really want but the $40.00 for that I keep holding thinking I will need it for something else. Bur you know what; I am going to get it done as soon as I have another Monday, Tuesday, or Wednesdy off. It is cheaper on those days. Plus I can get my nails shaped up for the same price.
Well son I am going to get something to eat now and I will talk to you soon. Love you always
January 22, 2015
Good morning my special Son. This is Mother. I was supossed to get back to you but as you already know I got sick. then sidetracked with with going back to work too soon, then over working as you know I can do.
Your Aunt Lenier's birthday was Tuesday January 20th. Her kids that are local called me and said they were going to celebrate on Monday the 19th of January. This was after my friend Denise in Mississippi had called and when I answered she said good morning and I had to ask, "was it morning already"? Those long hours are cathing up with me. I did 22 hours Saturday. I could not get back for 4am Sunday morning but I did get back for 9am. That was the first time I could not do my back to back triples. Yes I lost the money but the "rest" was needed more. Denise was calling to tell me our friend Blake and his band was marching in the Martin Luther King day parade in Mississippi. He is the band director for Mississippi Valley University. We played music together at Woodson a long time ago. The last place I played was at my Civic Symphony audition. I was an alternate for them.
Anyway, Jonquil called me after that and I had to shift gears to slow motion. I was already in no motion. They asked me to do the salad and some spinach for her. She had requested her favorite dinner which was: T-bone steak, smothered spinach with chopped egg, and romine & spinach salad. I said o-kay. I would get the T-bone steaks, salad, and frozen spinach for the smothered spinach. The rest of them got the other stuff because money was short for everyone. I got a really good deal at Rouses on the T-bone steaks. I started asking questions to the buther guy and he just gave me a good deal after I told him what I wanted to do for my sister's birthday. Me smiling in his face didn't hurt either.
We all finally got to LaPlace and went to cooking. I marinated those steaks in worchesire sauce, olive oil, and a very little organic apple cider vinegar.
This was after the powder seasoning and a pounding from the tenderizing mallet.
I made a vegetarian smothered spinach with all the green seasoning and beef and chicken boullion cubes for my secret flavor. Even the little kids ate that spinach and the salad too!! I asked Lenier to broil her own steak because I was not sure how she wanted it. She cooked it perfect. Ivyraiel cooked one on top of the stove and it was perfect also. Everyone who wanted a peice of steak got some. I am not a big steak person but I did have a peice. Yes!! Those steaks were seasoned and tender to perfection!! I had done well.
We had birthday cake with Ben & Jerry's ice cream. They had a convention at work and I got a chance to bring home some Chocolate fudge brownie, and some Chocolate chip cookie dough flavors. I got to taste a Magarita sorbet and a Caramel mocha fudge swirl. Those are 2 new flavors that will be out in the summer. Do you know that their ice cream is expensive in the stores? If it was not for that convention I never would have tasted Ben & Jerry's ice cream. This was my very first time. We also had meatballs, stuffed eggs, and a fruit and veggie tray. We sang Happy Birthday, got cake and ice cream and wrapped up the party.
Ivyraiel was supossed to spend the day with her Dad but she soon realized she would have a better time in LaPlace with us. She also knew that the Race Trac had the king cake flavored coffee she likes. Some how after I paid for the gas they gave her the coffee for free. I told them thank and we drove away; me with my gas, her with the coffee. On the way back home she stopped back by her Dad's house and got the ribs he prepared for her. Now she had dinner for the next 2 nights. Just needed to add the veggies. Over all it was a good day.
Oh, son, I forgot to tell you that I DID go to Coach Duhe's funeral back in November. It was Saturday November 8th. I got there early and stayed until the end of the service. I heard Coach J.T. Curtis say on Friday night football that Coach Duhe was a coach among coaches. In fact he is a very good man.I did see several people there. Ms Garner your math teacher. Ms LaPagie, Ro Brown, Coach Flurry, Coach Hawk. Coach Hawk asked about Nathaniel. J. T. Curtis came along with Coach Archie and Mr. Reed from Edna Karr. Coach Curtis Johnson from Tulane, Kenyan Rounds the attorney, and Lois Gould one of your grandmother's friends. All these guys were coached at some point by Coach Duhe. Paster Luter from Franklin Ave. Bapt church also spoke as one of Duhe's players. Jason(old folks), Justin, Ducross. Harry, Lionel(Phillip's cousin), and a few other guys who remembered you and me but I could not remember them. Sorry it took me so long to tell you because I know by now you have seem him.
Still got lots to say but I have to try to replace the access panel on the bath tub in my bathroom. It came off and I stuck it back on and it came off again. Mr. Flot said to get some industrial strength velcro to stick it back with. Well guess what; it came off again. Now I have been using duct tape to hold it in place. This has been working but I have to use so much duct tape now until I went to Ace hardware and got instructions on just how to really put it back. Mr.Flot also wanted to screw it on with smalls but I will try the way the Ace man told me first.
Son, Ivyraiel saw a mouse in the garage!!!! She said she sprayed Bengal on it. She said the next time she saw it was by the lawn mower not moving. She called one of those fellows off the street to come and get it out of the garage. Needless to say My times in the garage are slim and none. I try to get her to get my things out when she goes out there for something she needs. Channel has come to help me (for a fee) really clean some areas in the house. Since the bronchitis and the knee pain, stuff in here has been lacking with me working and Ivyraiel in school til late every evening. You know how long I am at work. We will keep things up for now though. We have to make that garage a family project. Invite all who will come, offer food and drink, maybe some money and just get it done. Still have to arrange your room too.
Son, mother will talk to you soon. I must also get the car to Banner. I got a recall notice so I am going to find out what it is about.
LOVE YOU FOR REAL
MOM
MOM
December 24, 2014
Good morning my most beloved Son. You know you are still my MOST favorite person. I have been up for some time already. I have missed you so much. I miss you especially today because you were called 9 years ago today. My heart has not repaired since then. You are still the light I look for after working those 18 to 20 hour days because I know I might see that smile of yours. I still show your picture to people from time to time and they all say you have a nice smile.
As you know everyone is all excited about Christmas tomorrow. I made a promise to Lacey that I would make a sweet potatoe bread and bring it to her. Well I made it but as you know the car can only do so much. She has called me already to find out if I am going to make it to Baton Rouge. I think she called me in her sleep because that was really really early for her.
Bobby has come for 2 days to be with me. He said he did not want me to be alone today but he has to leave on tomorrow. He rode that Mega bus from Georgia. Mookie was on the same bus too. He got on in Alabama. He goes to school out there. They thought one another looked familiar but neither one said "hey don't I know you". I guess guys are not as open these days. Anyway they did remember each other when they got off in New Orleans.
Bobby asked me to fix a gumbo for him. This was my best one yet. Must get some more shrimp from Ms Wanda when the season come around again. Ms Wanda and her family are shrimpers and they sell them to us fresh off the boat. You can taste the difference. I had one bag left from 2 seasons ago frozen. I think Ivyraiel was cooking my shrimp and not telling me. She is not here for me to ask her though. It took some time to defrost, peel, devein, and wash them but I finally finished. I have not made a pot of gumbo since the last pot I made for your dad a long while ago. I forgot about all the prep work that goes into making it. Finally after all the prep work was done it came together. I like to make my roux from scratch. Do you know they have it in a jar now!! How can a real gumbo come from a jar? I will eventually get some to Lenier but when I am not sure. There is not enough for the whole house to get some. Man this one is really really good. I used a secret ingrediant that I will keep a secret. I know you know what it is though.
I have so much to tell you about the past few months but my 6:55 alarm ahs been going off for 20 minutes and I should get a move on.
Son I really wanted to start my day with you today. You are all I have been thinking about for a while now. Got more stuff to tell you about the past few months but I hear Bobby stirring about so I promise I will talk to you later today. Mother loves you. Talk to you later. Love you Son.
November 5, 2014
whats up big bro man I know you see all that's goin on in mi life ..... crazy rite yea I know smh dude I really miss you a lot just haven't found no one that I can talk to like I could wit you man I miss you hell I know you would just tell me Tripp you gotta keep tryin if that's wat you really want I know this but man this was a lot easier if I could just hear it come out you mouth man I miss you and love you
MOM
November 3, 2014
Good Morning Son, this is Mother. I hope you and all the people there had a wonderful time on Halloween. There are a lot of people that coralate Halloween with evil but I do not. To me it is a time to start the harvest for the winter and the start to the holiday season. I noticed the stores are getting the Christmas stuff out earlier and earlier. Soon it will be out in the summer and maybe all year round.
I know you got a lot of candy because your grandmother Marilyn bought it for you. You know she stopped that trick or treat stuff for all of you when you all were very very young. No one came to the house this year for trick or treat. I even set outside for an hour or so and no one came. I wanted to make chicken salad and punch just like in the old days but Ivyraiel went trick or treating herself with a classmate, her mom and little brother. She was all smiles to have done that. She managed to collect a bit of candy as well. Taranisha is scheduled to graduate in June but we don't know. I will keep you posted.
Natasha and all the kids came by this weekend. She said she wanted to go out but I know they felt I was having a hard time so it probably was to be with me. They all also know I am not working so they got a dinner together Saturday and had a nice time. Cody was here also. He got sad just being in the house without you. They talked about how I would bring home food that I borrowed from work. The ribs were the most favorite followed by the cookies and brownies. Do you know Cody has (8) kids? That is more kids than Nathaniel, Phillip, and Sean has combined. Overall I am glad he has his family to keep him busy and happy. He smiles when he talks about them
Coach Duhe has now joined you there. He arrived on last Tuesday. I am sure you were with the first people to greet him. It will be no doubt he will be starting an old school football team up there. He is a good coach and I know you will play on his team. You know I always thought you were the best player on any team you were on. The coaches saw it too but they had to remember it was team sports you played. No "I" in team but there is "me". Ha ha I made a funny.
I miss you son. I miss you a lot. Mother will be talking to you soon. Love you.
MOM
October 27, 2014
Hello my dear son. Just a few things you may want to know. Lil Martinez got married last Saturday Oct 18th. The ceremoney and reception was very nice. Lots of really good homemade food. Regina was a very beautiful bride and we all were very beatiful as well. Everybody was dressed so pretty. Lenier has introduced me to this consignment shop that has really nice things with very reasonable prices. You can almost say cheap. Most of the items are designer made because we have researched the labels on the web. I finally wore that pretty gold and silver beaded top I have had for years and never wore. If I must say Son, your mother was almost as pretty as the bride, but everyone was very pretty and handsome too. Bobby came in town and everyone was glade to see him. Of course you know I was because that gave him a chance to look at my car. (Do you know we went to pull-a-part that same morning). Between him and Natasha I don't know who had the most fun at the reception. They both were quite sore the next morning after all the dancing, beverage consuption, and acting like everyone was 15 years old. I took some nice pictures but I can't wait to see the official wedding album. All the kids had a great time too. Only Jonathan, Baby Donald, and Todd did not come.Oh by the way, Baby Donald got married and no one knew about it. I have already had my difference of opinion with the mother in law. Well guess what. Mother had to let it all go. Stuff that was held in for years just got let go. YES IT FELT GOOD!!!! Mother got the knee injections on October 6th. That is when I found out it would take at least 6 weeks for anything to start happening as far as the pain goes. That is also when I found out that if it is not about the other people you can forget about any support. My heart is very saddened by the fact that I have had to let some things "GO" that were very dear to me. I will be okay but I have to remember; being taken for "GRANTED" and then being told that you are not important does not feel very good. My tears are not dry yet but I keep hearing those words; "you will get over it".
Work has been the same maybe a little harder because of my knees but I keep going. The hours are getting longer, the pay rate a lot less but I keep going. I don't remember telling you that Ivyraiel is staying here now. It is still taking an adjustment but she is doing okay in school. At the report card conference all of her instructors told me she is capable of having "A"s in all the classes. She does have a lazy spot though. Going that extra mile is just a few blocks for her. She will stop at the corner and then decide if she wants to go any further. I hope with my constant going she will see that you have to keep going even if you are dog tired.
Ivyraiel is also not feeling well today so we went to the Doctor's office. Of course we have to set up other appointments for a week in advance. What ever happened to if you can get there in a few minutes you can get seen. Also nothing is close by anymore. What if I did not have a car? Or gas money? Or whatever? Anyway she will get what she needs even if I don't get that pedicure I've been waiting for. The show must go on!!!! The weather is real nice right now and I have to cut the back grass. It is not very tall now but you know at any given time it could have a growth spurt. Then I would be in trouble. Should try to cut it soon.
Well son, mother has to finish with some other stuff so I will talk to you soon.
I Love you and I am really missing you now especially because it is Halloween time. I know how you like this time of year. This officially starts the Holiday season for you. Am I cooking for Thanksgiving; I don't know yet. If Bobby comes in then I will at least try make a gumbo and a baked turkey. Maybe a scrath cornbread dressing. (The last gumbo I made I saved some for special reasons but that got taken for granted as well. When Bobby came for the wedding He and Ivyraiel ate that and the special soup I was saving). I just don't know at this point. I do know that since we have had so much bad happen within the family and so many unsure things that we are trying to get closer and keep some kind of happiness going. Keep an eye on Taranisha because there is a lot of turmoil there. Will talk about that later.
Love you son.
MOM
July 5, 2014
Hello Son, this is Mother. I enjoyed my visit with you on your birthday. I see you finally have neighbors. I hope they are good ones. I hope you enjoyed your gifts. I tried not to make much of a fuss. I know your apartment is small. HAPPY 4th of JULY!!!! Yes I know I am late but Mother has had a week filled with excitement and a Fourth of July equally as exciting!! On the down side, I have not worked a single day this week. There were simply no work. Not even the ESSENCE old school party I usually work on the fourth. They moved to another place. I sure do miss getting my tee shirt, fried alligator, and smothered turnips. Never ate turnips until I tasted them at that party.
On Monday June 30th I told you I was going to be with Natasha as she had her baby by Ceasarian. C section as they call it. Well; I was there and that little fellow was waving at me and screaming all at the same time. I got a very good video of all that and more. I got pictures of the foot prints being taken, the wash off of his body, video of him getting all his vitals being taken and I held him and took a selfie. His name is Jiles Alexander, 8lbs 7oz, and 20 & 3/4 inches long. Natasha and I took a selfie before they took her to the prep room. I was given a set of scrubs, shoe covers, and a face mask. I kept it all to. I did not need gloves because I was not going to touch anything.
After all that excitement; Natasha was getting her tubes tied and that is when all the other excitement started. I was pulled out of the area by my shirt sleeve because they had to do an emergency surgery on her. I was slow to want to leave because she was getting upset but they started to wave the "Hospital Policy Flag" at me. Everything got hectic. The head doctor got scrubed in because the residents were going to need his help. He was very sharp with telling the staff they needed to clear the room of non essential persons. Guess that included me. Jiles had to go to the transitional nursery to wait for his mom. Within 15 minutes or so Lenier was there from work and we all went to the transitional nursery to see Jiles. When we got back we spoke with the charge nurse and Natasha was doing fine. After about 20 more minutes we were able to see her and you know me; I had that list of questions. I'd say about 10 or 12 of them. Natasha was woke because she was only numb from the waist down, and she was very aware of everything.
Lenier went back to work; when she saw for herself Natasha was just fine under the circumstances. She was brought to a room and reunited with Jiles. Ivyraiel and I stayed that night because she would need our help.
The next day the Pediatrician came and he was a very lively fellow. He was most pleasurable to meet and of course answered all "my" questions. LOL(: Several others came to meet Jiles as well and to handle all his paperwork. She had to stay in there until Thursday. She will be nursing him so she also saw a lactation nurse. At first he could not catch on about how to nurse but he soon got the drift of everything.
Finally the Head doctor came and boy did I have a mouthfull for him. At this time he was most humble and apologetic to us; me especially for the way things were handled. I told him I had been in surgical procedures before, but there was that "Policy Flag" again. He did however state that he would get with his staff to find better ways to handle those types of situations and also thanking us for bringing it to his attention.
Nathaniel went to Mississippi by Jonathan for the 4th. He had his two boys and Natasha's son. Anastasia went to Texas for the 4th. She had the two girls. She was supposed to take Madison, Natasha's daughter but due to bathroom issues, she left her with me. Nathaniel took her with him. She wanted to see Uncle Boom too. Taranisha went with Nathaniel to help with Madison. She tried to play the "Oh I changed my mind" game but I reminded her very sternly that when the house is gone you will be going with some one. Once again she tried to tell me, "Well Antee Cheryl, I am old enough to stay by myself". Again I very sternly told her "WHEN THE HOUSE GOES YOU GO, ESPECIALLY IF IT IS OVER SEVERAL NIGHTS". She GOT the message.
Son, my 4th was a lot of fun. I went by Mr. Westly in Kenner. Ivyraiel came and got a friend to come with her. I told her there would be food for a multitude of people. AND THERE WAS!!!! You name it it was there. However this year; no alligater, no goat, and no whole roasted pig. He DID have; fried fish, char grilled oysters, boiled shrimp and crabs. White rice, red beans, seafood etouffee, jambalaya, macaroni & cheese, barbeque chicken & ribs. Whole beef brisket & ham on the carving station. Bread pudding, cake, muffins, and brownies. Not to mention any and all types of drinks you could ever want. And that did include iced tea and water. Mrs. Westly made her special "PUNCH" and this one was the best one yet. I was driving with passengers so my limit was tea, water, and only two cups of punch followed by more water. Watermelon, strawberries, blueberries, cantalope, and honeydew melons. All so sweet.
There were more types of food but I cannot remember it all. I sat next to a man who was there for the first time. He wanted to know what kind of people this was that cook like that just to have a 4th of July party? I told him Banquet people. Mr. Westly is so used to doing this he can do it in his sleep.
Yes; we did indeed eat. You know I only ate the things I do not get very often. We also made go plates but Ivyraiel's plate did not survive the ride to see the fireworks.
This was my very FIRST time going to see the dueling barges with the fireworks. SON!! That was the most fantastic thing I ever saw. I filmed some of them on the phone, but the best part was the end. Oh man that was so good. The view from Natasha's room was beautiful, but those fireworks were just the best!!!! I know you saw them just as good as I did. I will be doing that again.
As you know the ESSENCE FESTIVAL is going on at the Superdome. I can't afford the concerts but on Sunday I will be going to the Convention Center. The bags are real nice and I know there is a lot of free stuff in there. Ivyraiel and I will be going to that for sure. You know she has no energy so I have to push and shove her to get her moving, but we will be there. Of course the friend will be comming along so I will have to go pick her up again. This time that will not be a problem because everything will be close by.
Son I have an early day tomorrow. I have a service to attend. I may or may not go to the repass. That will depend on where everything is. I will say good night for now and I will speak with you soon. I Love you.
Mom
June 26, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SON!!!! You are 32 years old today. How does that feel?? Although you are not officially 32 until 6pm this evening I wanted to get an early start on your BIRTHDAY WISHES!! I would have started at midnight but I was sleep. I am being told to rest a bit more than I have been. I am comming to see you today with some of my celebration stuff. Only so much can fit in your apartment.
Stuff is going OK. Mother had another set back but we will talk about that later. Your Dad is comming along just fine but contact with him can be a real obstacle. We can discuss that later as well. The car is just fine now. Mr Michael, Ms Thea's husband fixed the leaks. I had to bring him the car today but I forgot because of the excitement about your day today. There was another leak but that was just some old clamps not holding the hoses tight to the pipes. Sounds like plummbing work.
I am going to be with Natasha when she has the baby on Monday. Hope they don't ask me to leave the room when I start asking all my questions. You know me when it comes to that. I try to write down all that I need to ask but sometimes I forget to bring my question list. I know; I bring a new meaning to "are there any questions" LOL!! See I can talk computer/text too. I have learned a lot more thanks to your Aunt Lenier and Ivyraiel. Ivyraiel helps me out a lot with the phone. I've only had it since Feburary 17th. I think I told you that. Your Dad got it for me. And as it would be the SG5 came out that following Monday Feburary 24th. I am still up to date but Lenier has the SG5. That phone is way to big for me.
Paster Carter and some other people are trying to get Ivyraiel into Warren Easton and/or the NOCCA Culinary Arts Program. She may can do both, but she is a bit low on energy but I will get her moving. Also trying to get Kizzy and James Eugene on the same page is like wearing snow shoes in the swamp.
Almost all the kids are at new schools this Fall. Taranisha may be in LaPlace for her Senior year.
I am going to try to do a parttime job in my spare time. Lenier is going to introduce me to a new kind of medical field. The pay is good and I sure do need it. Anyway son time is moving fast and I want to get to see Lil Phillip's daughter before I come to see you. Remember? She was born on your birthday too. She is a big girl now. I am sure you would be the Godfather if you were here.
Again Son, HAPPY BIRTHDAY. Will see you later, and will talk to you soon.
MOM
May 25, 2014
Good morning Son, this is Mother. On Wednesday May 21st Mother purchased another Malibu. No, it is not that 2014 that everyone was suggesting I buy and I kept asking who was going to pay the notes on it. Son, Mother is afraid of debt. Even though I am in it up to my ying yang I can sort of manage what I have now. I went to the Toyota dealership on Friday May 16th. I got Ms Helen to drop me off over there after talking to Jimmy Jam. He knew a dealer over there and on his word I went there because he told me I would be "taken care of".I called the guy and made the appointment. He continued on to tell me that people of our comunity have certain special financial situations and he could help me with that as well. (I never needed his special financial help because I am in excellent shape. I am just cheap and don't like debt.) I arrived an hour late due to my function going over its time. Ms Helen had to come all the way back for me. She had been to the East already. The dealer had another client when I arrived so I was asked to wait. He finally finished with them and it was now my turn. I expressed my wishes and was totally ignored. He told me he could place me in a 2014 Toyota for about 500.00 something a month. I told him I could not afford that. He then asked me what about 300.00 something a month. Could not afford that either. Then he asked "what can you afford"? I said 100.00 to a little over 200.00 a month. He then asked how much I make a year. I told him then he told me "oh then you can afford what I am offering". We bantered back and forth and finally he said "maybe the Cambry is not the car for you". The hairs went up on my neck but I continued on with this appointment. We went to look at cars. He showed me a Chrysler Touring. Several of them were available. He had to walk off for a minute after I started asking to many questions. I called Bobby and asked him about them and all he said was "NO". The dealer came back, told me he was expecting another client, I told him I soon had to get home. He remembered he told me he would help me get home. His clients arrived moments after that. He went to see them, I walked around looking a little more, then sat on a bench outside. He never returned. I went to sit in his office, still never returned. People were passing his office probably wondering why was I in there. I got my bag and jacket and stood in the hall. Went down the hall and still no sight of him. Went outside and no sight of him there either. I started walking toward the service road on my way home. Called Helen, no answer. Called Lil Phillip and was still walking. Cars passed me and dust went in my face. I was upset to tears. Phillip was on his way but I kept walking. A strange man saw me and asked if I needed a ride. I said yes,I got in his truck and he brought me home. He told me it was to far and dangerous for me to walk on that service road. I called Phillip from that truck to tell him not to come, I had a ride. The man's name was Antonio and he knew someone down in the block because they flagged him down. That dealer did not call me back that night either. He tried to call Saturday but I would not answer his call. He even tried to call from other numbers but when I heard it was him I said I was on the floor at work or just hung up.
I did however purchase a 2006 Malibu. Mr Barry was helpful in me finding this car. He was in the barber shop and a young man who is his church member mentioned he had a Malibu for sale. This fella also has a car detail business. Mr. Barry called me as soon as he heard the word "Malibu" for sale. I saw it and everything moved very fast after that because other people wanted to purchase it for more than what I did. Paid it out and immediately had to place new tires on it. I got the insurance, paid the taxes, got the temp tag, temporary registration, and the brake tag all in the same day. I lost work but I had to do what I needed to do. It has a lot of bells and horns on it but I must go on line to find the manual to see how to work them. Will do that after I finish talking to you. Guess what; the name on the title was Ms. Hazel and Mr. Norris's daughter Natasha. I called them to ask about the car. They did not know much about it so I asked them to ask Natasha or her husband to call me about the car. I would like to know all the secrets on the car that I can. Still waiting for that call. I will text Mr. Norris later today.
As you already know, I have been ringing Bobby's phone off the charger. I have slowed down a bit but I have a new set of questions every day. It rides real well but I have a chunking in the wheels. Bobby cannot come down here until he finishes some more of his certifications for his job. He had to give up the shop because of angry competitors. He had dogs as his security but they complained so much until he moved them. As soon as he done that the shop was robbed of everything except the lift and the toilet. Even the tool truck was taken and "no one heard or saw anything". Very convient when you want something some one else has.
There was a Kindergarden graduation and two pre-k ceremonies on Thursday May 22nd but no one told me about them. I found out when Lenier told me she was going to LaPlace for Daniel's pre-k ceremoney. Zander graduated from kindergarden, and Remaia had her pre-k ceremoney. I may not have made all three but I could have given it a try "if" I knew about any of them. Am I displaced about any of it; yes I am!! I would like to attend as many exciting events for those kids as I can. I attended almost all of their parents events and would like to continue my tradition with this especially since you went to live with your Grandmother. Those events let me see clear and honest happiness and excitement. I Love that feeling those kids have when they accomplish those milestones!!
Your Dad is healing just fine and has to be careful of certain things. I spoke with him and he is having a bit of cabin fever but he does have the chance to get out but not by himself yet. Will keep you posted about it as time goes on.
I am listening to some very good Church music this morning. I listen to it every Sunday morning that I am home. I start at about 5:30 or 6:00 am until 12:00 noon. Then I either continue listening to the secular music (you call it that on Sunday) or turn on the TV. Most times I have to start getting ready for work. While listening I fix something to eat or just do a little lite cleaning and washing. Today I am going to look up that car manual, eat and get ready for work. I am off the next three days so inside work is what I plan to do. I cut the grass yesterday. Ivyrail's dad, James Eugene cut my front. I had to go back over it because he missed a lot of spots. I cut the back and discovered there are birds living in a hole that is in my overhang on top of the air conditioner outside unit. I called Nathaniel to come seal it up. He will come as soon as he gets the chance, I guess. Hard to get good "FREE" help.
I had to pay that photo ticket. That took a chunk of change out of my pocket. Now I have to deal with Enterprise because they said I damaged the bumper on the second rental. The first rental got a flat. Will talk later about that. I am going to go now Son. Mother Loves you. Will talk to you later. Love you
MOM
May 11, 2014
Hello Son, Today is Mother's Day. I'm sure you know that already. By now you know the Malibu is officially your car now. You recieved it on Tuesday. The life support was removed on Wednesday April 30th. That is when I was told it was totalled. My heart just dropped. What am I going to do? I have no idea even now. I was offered $2,000.00 for it because of the nimber of miles on it and the way she looked. Some paint was gone and other issues. When I first got the Malibu she had only 311 miles. You got her at 293,000 plus miles. I am really sad to let her go because it was running like a dream. Just got a tune-up, oil change, timing chain gasket, throttle body gasket, transmission screen and new transmission fluid. Was getting new tires the next morning after the tire blew out. That blow out took out the whole front passenger panel. The headlight, the wires for the dashboard, and so many other things. That was the same tire I got a plug put in and as you know I never get a plug, I always get an inside patch.
I had a closed service for her and it was very sad removing all my things from a car I have had since 2001. Had it thru Katrina,a number of trips to Georgia, Houston, Florida, Arkansas, Baton Rouge, and of course LaPlace. There were other places including going to work and back; but I am going to really remember living in that car after Katrina and after you left as well.
I still had the original bill of sale, the original red and white registration paper. I even still had the original temp tag that was placed on the car. ASI still had the original title because they tried to deliver it after Katrina but as you know we had nothing going or comming after that bad situation. They are mailing it to me now and it should be here no later that tomorrow.
I really hope you continue to care for the Malibu just as I did. It will serve you longer than it did me because I know in Heaven all things are new and reborn.
Your Dad is doing well after the heart procedure. He sounds like he is getting stronger but he said he never felt sick or weak. I have all the details written down so you can read my notes later on.
No, he did not call me for Mother's Day. I think he had enough on his mind thinking about his own mom and sister and maybe some other things. Time can get away from you when you are sitting,thinking, and trying to work things out in your mind.
Ivyraiel did go by Kizzy this weekend. Her Birthday is Thursday May 15th but with no car I cannot even bring her cupcakes to the school. You know how I like to do those things. I am going to treat her extra nice on Thursday. I will probably curl her hair and fix a special breakfast. It will have to be early and fast because I have a ticket hearing on that morning. Can you imagine me with a photo speeding ticket? Me, Ms I go the speed limit and under while driving? I know there is a mistake. When I finish talking to you I will get the bus information so I can get there and back. Sure hope it is not raining or to hot.
I was in the rain on Friday night. Man it was really raining. And raining HARD!! I got dropped off at the bus stop. The Broad bus was right at Tulane and Broad. I got out at the next stop up. Waited 1 to 2 minutes and got on. At Canal and Broad we had to change busses. And yes it was still raining. I got home in good time but cannot tell you how long because I tucked my phone inside my bag to keep it dry and from potential theft. I did not feel afraid but I know I MUST get another car. I will as soom as I can stack enough money. That is the real trick "having enough money"
Oh, before I forget, Mr. Barry's son was drafted into the NFL on Friday night. I was invited to the draft party but by me not having a car, I could not go. He did not have time to come to get me either with all of the excitemint surrounding the evening. Now I REALLY KNOW someone in the NFL. If there is another party I will be sure to make it to that one, I hope.
Ms Helen had her 50th birthday on last night. It was a total surprise to her, just like you all did for me. She was so happy and surprised at the same time. I helped to set up a few things which is how I got to go to the party, her daughter came to get me. I had such a fantastic time until I cannot say how much fun I had in enough words. I HAD SO MUCH FUN!!!! The red beans were so good I ate some three times. Thought I would have more than 2 drinks but after the 2nd one I was on water for the rest of the night. I had so much fun!!
Well Son, I am going to say goodnight and I will talk to you later. I LOVE YOU. Tell both grandmothers, your aunt, and Lil Martinez hello for me. Tell the rest of the people hello too. Keep a look out for me a nice car and let me know about it ASAP. Love you again Son. Talk to you later
Mom
April 20, 2014
Hello Son this is Mother. Happy Easter to you. As you know today was an action packed day. London was Christened today. And as with every Easter all those two to three times a year church people were there. I parked around the block and up the street from the church. Thought I had on a comfortable shoe but the top of the shoe rubbed against that bone at my big toe and man I tell you I just wanted to scream and LOUD!!
The service was very very nice and special. It was communion Sunday on the same day we celebrate Christ and His rising up from the dead. So it was not often in my lifetime that I have gotten to celebrate the Body and Blood of Christ on the same day He rose. The word for the day was "Good news from a bad place."The meaning simply ment that the Angle had sat upon the rock that had sealed the Tomb where Christ was and delivered his four messages right from that place in the graveyard; the bad place where the good news came from.
After the service and communion. London was Christened. She slept through the whole thing. Oh if I forgot to tell you she is a miracle. That probably will be the only one I will accually see in person for myself. But, who knows there could be many others.
After that we all went to Lil Marty's house and I immediatly started working. We had a lot of food and did not run out of nothing except wine coolers. Big Martinez was a little grumpy because he did not have any Heineken beer but he soon found something else to fill its place.
Son as you know we cannot "ALL" come together without a problem or two or three. We will talk later about those. Overall the day was very nice and my salad was completely OVER LOOKED. I had the spring mix and the spinach and kale mix. I added cheese cranberries,green onion.and brocolli slaw. A really nice salad and two pans of it too. I even brought three different dressings with it. A nice honey mustard (I know you do not like mustard), a good ranch and a very good pepper jelly vinigarette. Natasha bought the pepper jelly vinigarette with her and I bought my ranch and honey mustard back home with me. I know I will eat my own salad.
When I left even more people were comming. I had to get home because I have errands to run tomorrow. Once again Baby Donald need another birth certificate. Well gess who has to go get it? Son I must run on you now, I am getting sleepy writting to you. Mother will talk to you later. I Love you Son
Mom
March 22, 2014
Hello Son this is Mother again. I forgot to tell you I got a new phone. Can you imagine the surprise to myself when I finally admitted that I needed another one? I should have gotten a new when the flip crashed. Just had to tell you that.
Love you Son
Mother
March 22, 2014
Hello Son, this is Mother. I know I am late getting back to you but Mother has been tired or busy or maybe just plain out of time each day. I celebrated my birthday on March 19th and today is your Dad's birthday. We did get a chance to talk on both today and on Wednesday. I am happy about that.
After all is said and done we both did actually make 57 years old. And the irony of that is we both were born in 1957. Sounds like good lottery numbers. Also when you add 2014 together you get 7. As you know 7 is a completion number and so far I have ben able to complete almost everything I have started. What do you think?
Yes I had to work on my birthday and your dad did a few hours on his as well but got off, went to sleep for a while I guess and then continued on to a very nice day; I think. Will try to talk to him tomorrow.
Today was the Bunny Brunch at work. The Jilles family had a prior engagement but the Cushenberry family was in full force. All in all 7 of the kids came and just two of the adults. They had a grand time. I know one thing for sure, I cannot eat what those kids can and not spend a lot of time in the rest room!!
Tina is in Tulane Hospital. Her gall bladder has caused another painfull attack. Normally it would have been removed but at 11 weeks pregnant they are being very careful.
Chaniya's birthday is tomorrow and they are planning a party for her but I have to see if I want to go to LaPlace after I get off work. I have really been more tired lately. I should be sleep now but I wanted to talk to you. There is a lot on my mind but we will talk later. I can tell you this; that 160.00 photo ticket is really weighing on my mind. I cannot afford that kind of extra bill. There, now I've said it out loud. No more talk about bills.
Lenier went to visit Jonathan in Mississippi, Natasha is planning to move closer to Baton Rouge, LaShira will graduate as an RN on June 26 which is your birthday. By the way she is in town to visit Derricka.
Lacey is moving into an apartment by herself and Ivyraiel may be moving back to Baton Rouge as well. Lil Martinez did his first professional commercial electrical job this week and did rather well according to the reports. Nathaniel decided to add the refrigeration and air condition courses to his work load at school. This will extend his time in school but it will be well worth it.
Son I can still go on and on but mother has to be up at 2:30 am and it is now past 11:30 so I will talk to you later. I Love you Son,
Mom
January 30, 2014
Hello Son, this is Mother. We are finally comming out of the deep freeze. It really has been record cold around here. And as you already know that heater of mine only works when it wants to. It shuts down over night and runs at will during the day no matter what the thermostat is set at. Oh well I'll get Nathaniel, Lil Martinez, or your Uncle Martinez to check the thermostat itself. They have checked every thing else.
I was off on the Tuesday and Wednesday for the deep freeze. I made out ok but I still want to hear from your Dad. I also know now that I need to insulate behind all of the sockets in this house because a lot of cold air comes through them. I found this out during our deep freeze weather.
I made a pot of gumbo and a sweet potatoe bread. I froze a lot of gumbo but we are eating the sweet potatoe bread at will. The consistency was not what I wanted but it sure is good. And yes I do have a container for your Dad. He just has to pick it up.
Ivyraiel stayed with me during the freeze also because they did not have school on those two days. The LaPlace children did not have school for three days. I guess they will go back on Friday.
I forgot Nathaniel's birthday on the 29th of January but I called him today. I usually send out an SOS message telling everyone to call the birthday person but I just plain ole forgot. We were supposed to be going out to dinner Saturday to celebrate Lenier, Nathaniel, and Anastasia's birthdays but they cancelled. Other stuff came up and Lenier and I have to work.
Son mother is going to say good night now. I am sleepy and the morning comes real fast when you have to get up. I Love you and will speak to you later. Always,
Mom
January 18, 2014
Hello Son, this is Mother. As I told you last time I was going to make a bread pudding. Well I did and it was beautiful as it was baking. It was smelling good and the house was all warm and cozy. Even outside was smelling good. It has been a long time since I had outside smelling good with me baking or cooking. That bread pudding even looked light and fluffy when I took it out of the oven. When I walked to the back and stayed about 2 seconds it fell. That bread pudding had fallen and was not getting back up. I then said ok let me taste it. Well!! It was ok but I know I will do better next time. I had asked some questions about making it to some other people and the only thing I did wrong was not soak the bread into the liquid mixture. I just poured the liquid mixture on top and let it soak into the bread from there while it was in the pan. I now know better on what to do.
I did go to LaPlace on Wednesday afternoon to see Daniel. He was doing okay but he told Channel on Tuesday that his "n***" hurt. I told him that those were not the proper words to use and then told him what to say properly. He told me in his soft whinney voice "okay Antee Cheryl" and gave me a great big smile and a big hug.
We made ice cream cones out there. We had cake cup cones, waffle cones, and waffel bowles. There was also the half fat caramel ice cream which is my favorite. I made all the kids cones with vanilla ice cream. I first put some white chocolate chips and butter scotch chips into the bottom of each cone. Then I put some caramel syrup on top of the chips. Then the scoops of ice cream and colorful sprinkles on that. The cones were beautiful with a nice surprise when they got to the bottom of the cone. We had fun. The cones were so popular that the bigger kids wanted a second one. The cones were not all that big. As for me I crumbled up a waffle cone and put my stuff on top of that. It was so good.
The nurse finally came to see London on Friday. I really wanted to be there but I was very sleepy at 6:35 that morning so I called to see if your Aunt Jennifer was going. I told her and texted Lil Martinez that I was sleepy. He said he was okay and to get my rest. Later in the day I called and he said everything was set up for the nurse to come everyday to make sure the meds were given okay and labs were taken. I also told him to tell Regina to stop being so passive when it comes to the nursing staff comming when they are supposed to.
I will try to cut the weeds growing around the fence on Sunday then watch the game. Maybe the game will watch me. HA!! HA!!
It is still early son and I am going to try going back to sleep for a few more hours. Then it is off to my very nice job. Better get all my rest now because I have 3 triples next week. Two of the back to back. I Love you Son. I will be in touch!!
Mom
January 14, 2014
Hello Son. This is Mother.
The best thing happened on yesterday!! London has gone home to LaPlace!!!! your Uncle Martinez, Lil Martinez, and Regina all took London home!!!! She had a scan done on her ears before she left to check the inside of them but I am sure they will be fine.
I just found this out as they were taking London home from Lil Martinez. I will check on him later on this evening.
As you already know the Saints lost to the Seattle on Saturday. Sounds like a tongue twister doesen't it? They do not know what the outlook is for the team next season but you know some old faces will not be there. They are already talking about the budget being 17 million over the salary cap. Go figure.
Son today we had the chef's charity lunch. Usually this is a fun event for me because I work the wine station. Well guess what; your mom had the desert station today. There were only two of them and I got slammed. It was the Leah Chase bread pudding and you would think they never had bread pudding at all in their lives. I could not taste it because it had nuts and coconut in it. I was the last station in the room to finish. My feet are still hurting and my legs are still stiff and my knees hurt. I had to serve just about 500 or maybe more people on my side. 1200 people were invited. We still had lots of bread pudding left too!! That was a first in the many years I have worked this function that desert was left. I did taste the Emeriel biscuit chicken pie and the shrimp and grits. The grits were very very loose, but the dish did taste good. The chicken pie was also pretty good. I liked it the best.
They also had my favorite Malbec wine but who had a chance to get any? I really must find that Dona Paula
Malbec in a store somewhere. Maybe Rouses has it at an affordable price.
This house is cold once again so I have to heat it up to about 76 to get comfortable. Do you know my Entergy bill is $150.00 and I have solar panels. The sun did not shine very much last month. Your Dad reminded me of that. And it is also going on time I start to cut the grass. Now figure that one out. You know every year I hope it does not grow back but it does. What I have now is mostly weeds but around the fence they are getting really high. Will have to find time soon to cut it. It got so high last year I had to send out an SOS to help me.
Tonight Son mother will try her hand at making her own bread pudding. Don't know where to start but your Aunt Lenier said to check out bake.com and plug in bread pudding. I will let you know how it comes out if I even try it at all. I am still tired from today. I did not even make it to Zumba. Will definitly do something extra tomorrow.
I am going to say good evening now Son. I may have gotten long with this conversation but I miss talking to you. And besides ther was a lot to say about a lot of stuff. Most importantly London is now HOME!!!!
Have a good evening Son, Mother will talk to you soon. I LOVE YOU!!
Mom
January 3, 2014
Hello my dear dear Son. This is Mother. I am sending you this note today because I could not bear to do it yesterday. Yesterday made it official that 8 years has passed since you left us. We all talk about you often and especially around this time of the year. Ivyraiel is here with me today and as you well know she is still the touching person she has always been but not as much because I don't have any new stuff to explore.
Ivyraiel is applying to NOCCA's culinary arts program for the next term and I hope she makes it in.
London had a surgical procedure today to place a tube into a main artery so she can continue to recieve her antibotics more efficiently. The line in her hand was not ment to be a long term thing. Son do you know those doctors gave up on her but we know that they do not have the final say so. GOD does.
The Alabama football team stayed with us and also as you well know any team that stays with us losses. Oaklahoma was very prepared for Alabama. They prepared that "red" shirted freshman very well over the season break. Oh by the way Coach Burns is also a coach at Alabama. I still call him Coach "Berky". Every morning he came in for breakfast and for every meal during the day also. You would have loved working those functions because the food was so good. Not only that there was a protein station between every meal. Along with the carbohydrates I consumed I did not slack on the protein either. I did not gain any weight but at least one of my muscles got firmed up. That was a funny that I am laughing at myself.
I am going to say good night now Son because Ivyraiel wants to go home now. Oh; before I saw your Dad today. He needed a jump for his sister's car and I was close by at work. Anyway I will talk to you later. I LOVE YOU SON
Mom
December 25, 2013
MERRY CHRISTMAS Son, this is Mother. Do you know it has been 8 years since you went to live in Heaven. I really miss you but not as much as today. This is one of your favorite days. And yes you do know the true meaning of Christmas.
I know by now you have a very good idea as to what has been going on here.
London was born. She is the first born of Lil Martinez and the second born of Regina.She has been a very sick baby but you know what son; God is good. He is allowing London to stay with us longer than what even the doctors expected. She is a fighter. She is strong. She has the strength of the entire Joseph family and you remember the saying you used to tell me; God didn't make no "junk".
We are offering all our PRAYERS and support to them and we just know that everything will be OK.
I Love you Son and Mother will talk to you later. Miss you so much!!!!
Mother
November 29, 2013
Good morning Son, this is Mother. I know you had a good time yesterday with all the Family there with you. I did not see anyone until late. People were leaving when I arrived. As soon as I said hello some were saying goodbye. The next thing I knew I was in the living room almost by myself. I said my goodnites and was back home before I knew it.
Your Aunt Lenier bought a waffle maker yesterday after she got off work. She wanted to use it this morning but she does not have the stuff to make the waffles at the house. It is 27 degrees out in Baton Rouge and she does not want to go into all that cold. I don't have to go out into the cold because I can experience it right here in this house. The heat has not worked since last Friday or Saturday. Someone will be out to fix it at some point.
I go to work on Saturday until 1 in the morning. You know that means we will get out about 2 in the morning. I really hope to get out sooner than that.
I know you will lots of leftovers. That is what a great food Holiday like Thanksgiving is all about. you are probably on your way now. That has put a smile on my face. A smile on my face has not been easy lately but I have one now just seeing you in action. You will make the turkey sandwich with blue plate mayonaise and cranberry sauce on the brown and serve rolls.
You know what Son, I think they forgot to make the eggnog!! Maybe they will make it tonight or just save it for Christmas.
I saw where Channel burned the pound cake on one side. How she did that I don't know. I did not ask any questions.
Son I am going to talk to you later on. Love you, talk to you later
Girlie
November 26, 2013
Oh hey turtle ????????this is your time of the year .... It's crazy how we all wanted to be wherever you were for the holidays .. Sadly things haven't been the same since you left I pray that 1 day it will get easier. I want to have a ballon release on Christmas Eve for you I really miss having my big cousin around... But I know for a fact that your protecting me & my kids I love you kiss the family for me I'm sure our grandmothers are a mess & Teedy chillin & Marty just enjoying the view ????????????????????????????????????????????????
Mother
November 23, 2013
Hello my dear Son, this is mother. I just wanted to talk to you today because there are a lot of things I need to tell you. I Love you. I miss you. I really wish you were here. Right about now we would be getting the seasonings together for the dinner next week. Finances have been a little difficult right now so there will be no dinner at my house this year. Not even the gumbo. I'll just add some more chicken to that soup I froze earlier and enjoy that.
I know every year we do the round table of what we are thankful for at the Thanksgivivg dinner. Even the babies say what they are thankful for but I will not be at any of the dinners where ever they may be. Mother will be home still trying to get her strength back after the last few weeks. I have been cleared to go back to work next week. I have 2 days. That is enough after being out for so long.
I am sure your both of your Grandmothers are going to have that gumbo battle along with Ms Patsy. You know the gizzards will be clean because you and Lil Marty will be shown how to clean them. I know all of you will have a nice time gathering with each other.
I am going to go now Son and mother will speak to you soon. If my plans change I will be letting you know.
I Love you
Girlie
November 1, 2013
Good Morning turtle I know I been was supposed to write .... But anywho. I love you and miss you dearly. I can't stress it enough but mannnnn it ain't the same it had never benn the same ????????????????????
Mom
October 31, 2013
Hello my dear Son. This is Mother. I've been thinking a lot about you in the last two weeks. You really have been on my mind. I truly miss you. I know today is Halloween. This is one of your favorite days. I know you remember how we used to have the family Halloween parties at your grandmother Marilyn's house. We even had a few at our house. We had them because we did not trust all of you going trick or treating about the neighborhood. Eventually we let loose on the reins and let all of you go after everyone was a little older. No one ever went very far or stayed very long because we had the best party around. There was the famous chicken salad that no one can make better than I can. There was the punch with the secret ingrediant which really was peach and strawberry flavored water from Winn Dixie. The concentrate came from Sam's on Bundy. That was the only store to sell it. We had a Pinata stuffed with all the good candy. NO CHEAP CANDY was allowed. All the children would swing the stick to hit it but it did not come apart until your Uncle Martinez would hit it so hard that all the candy would fly everywhere. You all would dive to the floor to collect it with screams of happiness and joy. Everybody would get a lot of candy. Those that did not I would sneak them a bag from the secret stash I kept on the side.
I know you thought I did not know about your two bags of candy. Yes I did know and every day you went to school I would remove a handful at a time so you would not eat all that candy. I really miss those days, especially today. I talked about you with a lady I met at the ADA Conference. We will keep in touch by e-mail later on.
No one called me this year about a kids party for Halloween nor did anyone call me for Grandparents Day at any of the childrens schools.
I miss you Son. That is all I can keep saying. I will be home for Thanksgiving. You should hear from me before then. I cooked some beans and froze about 4 containers. I am melting one on the stove now. I also made some chicken and vegetable soup. I froze a lot of that. I even froze a container for your Dad, but he never came to get it yet.
Well son I am going to go now because I think the beans are warm now. I Love you and I will Talk to tou soon
Mom
October 15, 2013
Good morning my Son. This is mother. Another co-worker will be meeting with you soon. She arrived on Sunday. She has been living in Texas since Katrina. I know you know Ms Patsy. She was the first person to take you onto another function to work away from me. She said you would be OK. You remember when you first started to work with me I always wanted you and Channel to work with me. Ms Patsy was the first sub-captain to break up that practice. She said the both of you had to learn away from my watchful eye.
Ms Patsy is also a person that dressed well and had an impecable taste for all of the finer things such as clothes of which she made most of them, furniture,art,china, stemware and many other things. The people in Heaven will now have another well rounded designer to join them. Son get ready to start moving furniture around because she will want to re-arrange the look of things up there. Just sending this bit of news to you this morning before I head out to my "nice job". I Love you, I miss you and Mother will talk to you soon. Later!!
TRIPP
September 27, 2013
Man I'm in mi head right now just thinking man all man so many years has passed and still no one knows time or place so while I'm here I'm making the best of everything I can and everytime I get down and ready to say forget all I hear your voice in mi head saying never give up never cuz we never know where the next 3 steps will take us ..... Yea I hear you loud and clear big bro I,LOVE YOU,DUDE AND,MISS YOU MUCH,......
Your Mom
September 20, 2013
Hello Son, this is mother. Thinking about you for a while today. Wanted to go with the girls tomorrow but I need to work more. Yes I could have used the hair salon, nail shop, massage spa, and the happy hour to close out the day but Mother needed to work more.
By now you know Ms Pam (Boo boo's wife) has joined him up there with all of you. She truely loved him and now they are in heaven together forever and ever.
Your Dad and I spoke of you about two weeks ago and I got to really wondering what would we be doing at this time. Well for the last 12 to 14 days Mother has been working her face off. Yes it has been painful but we all do what we got to do. Your Dad has returned to work after everything with his sister,your Aunt Shelia. I am sure she has asked you to come shopping with her and speaking from experience after the first one or two trips your feet will notice a difference. She goes everywhere and then goes back to the first place. You might remember how I could never get anyone to come with me to Walmart after those first few times. I would read all the labels and make you read them too. Remember, NO BROMATED VEGETABLE OIL!!!!
Anyway Son I just wanted to touch base with you. I Love you and I will talk to you soon.
devin moore
August 26, 2013
man its been years on years since we played every sport @ goretti but I still remember the summers we kicked it by phil house beating chad up lol and the way we used to go punch for punch in the hallways at reed anyway love u dude ill see u again one day
Mom
August 21, 2013
Good morning my dear son,
This is mother. There is another person comming to meet you up there. This time it is your Aunt Shelia from your dad's side of the family. This is his last closest link to himself. He called her his twin. Just like his Mom whom he Loved dearly he loved his sister just as much. Now Mother and daughter can shop until their hearts are content. I have gone with Shelia on a couple of her shopping trips. We would be gone from morning to late afternoon. She could be a handful sometimes but I am sure you are going to enjoy meeting her. There will be a new kind of liveliness up there that the people has not seen in a while. One thing is for sure, the cooks up there better not miss a beat because she will tell them how to fix it the way it should be.
I will talk to you again soon son. I Love you
July 7, 2013
THINKING ABOUT YOU REALLY HARD THIS MORNING. TRYING TO DRIVE TO LAPLACE TODAY BUT I DO NOT KNOW. WANTED TO GO TO THE SEMINARS AT THE CONVENTION CENTER BUT I DO NOT KNOW THAT EITHER. I DO KNOW I WILL DO SOMETHING TODAY AFTER 12 NOON.
FINALLY CUT THAT WATERMELON BUT I CANNOT EAT A WHOLE SEEDLESS WATERMELON. TOLD NATHANIEL I WILL GIVE THE REST TO THEM. AUNT JENNIFER FORGOT HER COFFEE HERE ON THURSDAY SO THAT MIGHT BE AN INCENTIVE TO DRIVE OUT THERE TODAY. AUNT LENIER MADE TO MUCH COLD PASTA SALAD ON FRIDAY. SHE LEFT SOME. I ATE SOME. WILL FREEZE THE REST. ANYWAY I STILL KNOW I WILL DO SOMETHING.
HAVE A GOOD MORNING SON, MOTHER LOVES YOU. WILL TALK AGAIN SOON.
Your Mom
July 6, 2013
Hello son. This is mother. There was a time to be had at this house on July 4th. Everyone was here. Big and Lil Phillip came with the children and grandchildren. Your Uncle Martinez barbequed the entire day. We did not have a lot of food but everyone brought something for the grill. You know I made my famous red beans with the sausage, pickle meat, pigtails and diced ham peices. I used the smoked turkey necks to get that great flavor. They were so good. I have some left to share with your Dad when he has the time to get them. I saved some for Ivyraiel and Taranisha also. They had to work with paster Carter for the 4th at the Essence Festival.
Ther was a water slide that you would have loved. They all put together money to get the slide. All I had to do was provide a place for it to go. It was taller than the house and the adults could get on it as well!! I did not get up there but I sure did get wet from all the water splash. You would have never gotten out of that water.
The neighbor kids came by but they were so bad and no adult wanted to come and supervise them so Aunt Lenier sent them packing. All our children were orderly and had no bad language. NOT EVEN THE ADULTS HAD BAD LANGUAGE!! The weather was very nice. Not so much sun you could not bear it. Besides we had 3 pop-up tents for the sun. We put 2 in the front yard and 1 in the back for the adults to supervise their children. The snow-cone machine and radio was back ther to. YES I DID SAY SNOW-CONE MACHINE. We had 5 or 6 different flavors. Everything was so nice it was as if you, your grandmother Marilyn, and Lil Martinez watched to make sure all day was perfect.
Just as the day was perfect, clean-up went just as well. Not one peice of paper, not a cup, or nothing was left on the ground. I had to yell a few times for help but that was because everyone was still having fun. Tables, chairs, the tents, even the kiddie pool was taken down before dark. Lenier and I sat down in the driveway after everyone left with some ADULT PUNCH and just reflected on the day. As I said at the start; it was a day to be had.
I Love you son and I will talk to you soon,
Jannel Joseph
June 26, 2013
Hey Turtle! I miss you so much I still can't believe your not here we was supposed to grow old together but God had other plans! I was reading some of your older post and Aunt T.Cheryl kept you posted ! You ain't miss a beat! She smiles at us but she misses you dearly :(.... love you turtle you are truly missed!
Nathaniel II
June 26, 2013
I miss you everyday I wish by R Kelly always make me think of you I wish you was here there are things I can I let go because reminds me of youI love you
Mandy
June 26, 2013
U are truly missed... I remembered the fun times I shared with u and Phil...High School days... R.I.P Turtle
Tamara Jilles
June 26, 2013
Hello cousin. This is my first time writing to you and I regret not writing earlier. Better late than never. :-) Your little cuz have a daughter now. Her name is Bailee. She is the sweetest little blessing God had ever given to me. She is my world. You would have loved her so much. I'm pretty sure you come to visit her and play with her. I know my Dad does and grandma. I wish you could have met her. Your momma love's her to prices. I also joined the army and will be deploying pretty soon. I'm not to happy about that. Hey I signed up for it. To defend those who can't. You know God has me covered and I will make it back to her. Happy birthday Turtle. We miss you and love you. Rest on Turtle.
Gemenese Malone
June 26, 2013
Hey Donald this is Gemenese i'm just dropping a line to wish you a happy birthday even though you no longer here with us. I was just sitting here thinking about the times you, bobby, marty and johnnie used to come by the house and watch the fights on pay per view. Or when you needed to do a paper for school you would come use the cpu. I was talking about you the other day, how i was mad when you came up to the hospital when i was in labor with mj and you brought some food and i couldnt eat it.... Boy was i mad!!! I know if i ever needed a big cousin to talk to i could call you! I sit back and laugh and think about when yall came for my graduation and u and aunte cheryl was riding n the truck n she got mad cuz you had the music sky high and you was laughing at her right along with me n my momma. I must say I truly miss your presence,and you being there to pick up the phone when i called you and being there for some of the most important times of my life!
I love you and miss you! Tell everybody up there i said hey!
Love Gem,
June 26, 2013
HELLO ITS BEEN AWHILE CANT SAY MUCH BUT I MISS YOU AND THE I LOVE YOU BEFORE I WAS UPSET BUT NOW I REALIZED YOU JUST GOT THERE EARLY TO RESERVE A FEW SEATS SO KEEP HOLDING IT DOWN MY BROTHER
YOUR MOM
June 26, 2013
HELLO MY DEAR, DEAR, SON. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU. AT THIS VERY MOMENT YOU ARE 31 YEARS AND 31 MINUTES OLD. I CAN STILL REMEMBER ALL THE EXCITEMENT GOING ON RIGHT BEFORE I HAD YOU. I ALSO REMEMBER THE VERY FIRST TIME I SAW YOU, AND YES I ALWAYS WANTED A BOY. YOU WERE AND STILL IS THE MOST HAPPIEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME. I KNOW YOU, YOUR GRANDMOTHER, AND LIL MARTINEZ ARE HAVING A NICE TIME UP THERE. I HOPE YOU HELPED TO CELEBRATE YOUR GRANDMOTHER'S BIRTHDAY ON LAST WEDNESDAY JUNE 19TH. WE ALL DID HERE AND HAD A NICE TIME ON FATHER'S DAY BY YOUR UNCLE MARTINEZ. HE DOES VERY NICE BARBEQUE. MARY HAD TO WORK SO SHE WAS NOT THERE.
MUCH TIME HAS PASSED BUT IT ALL SEEMS LIKE A FEW MINUTES. I THINK OF YOU SO VERY OFTEN. I TALK TO ON MY VERY HARD DAYS AT WORK SO SOMETIMES THEY DON'T SEEM SO HARD. I ASK GOD AND YOU TO HELP ME CARRY THOSE TRAYS AND WALK THOSE DISTANCES IN THE BIG ROOMS. THEN I COME HOME, RUB MY KNEES UNTIL I FALL ASLEEP AND GET READY TO DO IT ALL AGAIN.
I LOVE YOU SON AND NOW MOTHER IS GOING TO SAY THAT SHE WILL TALK TO YOU LATER.
MISSING YOU MORE AND MORE
ALWAYS
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