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Elise Avery Sellman Hilbert

1937 - 2022

Elise Avery Sellman Hilbert obituary, 1937-2022, Bay St. Louis, MS

BORN

1937

DIED

2022

Elise Hilbert Obituary

Elise Avery Hilbert née Sellmann March 28, 1937-March 14, 2022. Born Easter Sunday, March 28, 1937, Elise was a native of New Orleans, Louisiana, and resided in Bay St. Louis, MS, since 2003. She was the daughter of Adolph Henry Sellmann, M.D., and Irma Lucille Anderson, both of whom predeceased her. She was a graduate of Louise S. McGehee School and attended the University of Alabama, where she was a member of the Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority. Most of her working years were spent in the Bell System, beginning with Southwestern Bell in Wichita, KS, then moving to South Central Bell in New Orleans, and finishing her career as a District Manager with AT&T Corporation. She was the loving mother of L. Brun (Florian) Hilbert, John Hilbert, and David Hilbert. She is also survived by her sister, Hennie (Jerry) Rodts, of Ponte Vedra, FL., six grandchildren, beloved nieces and nephews, and a host of dear friends. Elise found great joy in reading history, exploring the lives of Queen Elizabeth and George Washington, and endlessly opining on politics and current events. She served two terms as Chairwoman of the Hancock County MS Republican Women's Club. At this time services are pending. A celebration of her life is planned for later this year. The family has requested that remembrances be made in the form of contributions to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, which she avidly supported.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Mar. 16 to Mar. 20, 2022.

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Joyce Pavlicek

June 4, 2025

Sadly, I was not aware of Elise's passing until now. Although we were brought together by a brief work assignment for AT&T in 1981 in New Jersey, we became friends and kept in touch for years. Elise and I shared so many interests and I still remember her wit and sense of humor! Unfortunately, we lost touch after Katrina, something I truly regret! Elise, you were a blessing in my life and I truly am sorry our paths diverged and I was unable to locate you again. The last time we spoke you were living in Florida with your sister while Bay St. Louis rebuilt. My Illness and a 2008 hurricane in my area in Texas sealed our fate but, hopefully, we will meet again in the afterlife!

Kevin Guidroz

March 29, 2022

My condolences to David and the family. I have many fond memories of 'Mrs. Hilbert', who was a great mother for her sons. As Dave's friend, I was always made to feel welcome in their home when I was growing up. She even included me on some shopping trips for school clothes! She was well read and very intelligent, and challenged me to read classic literature, for which I am grateful. I recall her love of classical music, and it was always a treat to converse with her about history and current events. All my best to her loved ones, she was a wonderful person.

Brun Hilbert

March 19, 2022

Bay St Louis, Mississippi. March 14, 2022. A wonderful to place to be.

Virginia Langen

March 18, 2022

I worked closely with Elise when she was President of Hancock Country Republican Women as well as a personal relationship.
She was one of the sweetest and dearest person I have ever known. She remains alive in my memories.

Caroline Hilbert Farrugia

March 17, 2022

My deepest condolences John, Brun and David. Getting to spend time with your beautifully kind and intelligent mother in these later years of my life was a blessing to me I will hold in my heart.

James Casey

March 17, 2022

David and all of the Hilbert family, I am sorry for your loss. There are no words that can comfort you. All I can express is to hold onto all of the precious memories that Ms. Elise have provided all of you.

Robert R

March 17, 2022

Thank you John for telling me this obituary was available online so that I could read about this wonderful woman. I am sorry that I never got to meet her and I am so grateful to her for giving me an amazing friend and mentor to guide me in my professional life. She is/was the reason that I have you in my life and for that I will be always indebted to her.

Roberta Belle

March 16, 2022

My condolences to John and his family may your mother rest peacefully in heaven.

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