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Brenda Saia Eschete-Nicosia
December 19, 2024
Justin,
You have been gone 19 1/2 plus long years and dad has been gone 21 long years. Everything I touch I have a memory of both of you. It has been difficult for me, but I am still here waiting. Your brother and sister miss you very much.
You would be proud of your nephew and your daughter. They are all attending college with great grades.
You and dad always watch over us.
Merry Christmas.
I love you always,
Mom
Brenda Eschete
July 1, 2024
Today is your birthday and you would be 48 yrs old. I do wonder if you would have met all your dreams if you stayed longer. Actually you did meet one dream because you are in Heaven. I miss you so much and I will always love you.
Love,
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete-Nicosia
December 29, 2021
Justin,
It has been a while since I have posted. I never forgot you and never will forget you. Life is lonely without you.
Your daughter is a grown woman now and is in college. She misses you very much.
I love you always and forever. My time is unknown, but I am comforted knowing I will see again.
Love,
Mom
Brenda Eschete-Nicosia
July 2, 2021
Happy Heavenly Birthday Justin.
We all miss you and love you very much.
Love your mom,
Brenda
April 1, 2021
HAPPY EASTER SON,
You are missed and loved by the day. I wish we could start our family over.
We had a very wonderful and happy family. Death and grief are very difficult in this life. I know you and dad are enjoying the eternal life that the Lord prepared for both of you.
Your daughter is so beautiful and intelligent. God gave her many gifts. You would be so proud of her. It will be college time soon.
Love you,
Mom
Brenda Saia Nicosia
December 22, 2020
Justin, Merry Christmas
Yes, another year has gone by and so much has happened. We all miss you very much. I hope you and dad have found each other. The crystal like river is where dad said to meet him. I will see you again in time.
We all send our love and your daughter misses you very much. You would be very proud of her.
I love you, som
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete-Nicosia
January 9, 2020
Fifteen years ago today was the worst day of my life. You left us in the blink of an eye, but I survived. It wasn't easy because the pain of grief is unbearable at times. Finally the pain has soften, but it is always there. I think about what your life could have been for you, but I guess it just was your time. I know you are in heaven with dad and you find comfort in the arms of our Lord. Without Him I wouldn't have survived. One day I will be with you. You are missed and loved by many.
Love you son,
Mom
Brenda Nicosia
December 24, 2019
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
I love you very much and I will see you again, my son.
Brenda Eschete-Nicosia
December 13, 2019
My son,
I love you and miss you very much. There is not a moment I don't think about you. I know you are in Heaven, but you are not here with me and it breaks my heart in half. I do have some good moments and those days I rest and release my stress.
We have had three losses in the family this year and I know you are aware of these losses. Your Aunt, my husband and your cousin. It really hurts, but I do know all three are painless and happier than here on earth.
We can't understand it until we cross over to Heaven. Mom should have been with you a long time ago, but there is a reason I am still here. God must have more for me to do.
Christmas is right around the corner. The day Christ was born. You must be so happy to be there with Him.
I love you and we will be together again.
Mom
Brenda Saia Nicosia
July 22, 2019
Son, another birthday has come and gone. Everyone still misses you and wish we could change time. Your daughter is beautiful and you would be proud of her.
Happy Heavenly Birthday!
Love,
XOXO
Mom
❤
Brenda Saia Nicosia
February 1, 2019
Brenda Nicosia
January 9, 2019
Remembering that day. We always will love you and keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Save me a place.
Love forever,
Mom
Brenda Nicosia
December 19, 2018
MERRY CHRISTMAS, MY SON. I LOVE YOU!❤❤
Brenda Nicosia
July 2, 2018
HAPPY HEAVENLY 42ND BIRTHDAY!
Today has been an extra long day. We always celebrated birthdays. Now it is somewhat different. I think of you all day long and look through your pictures. I wonder what would you be now. How many children would you have?
I do know that you are now in the arms of our Heavenly Father in the place he prepared for us. I do know I will see you again. When I think of that it comforts me.
I miss you with every fiber of my being.
Love Forever,
Mom
December 2003
Brenda Saia Nicosia
April 3, 2018
JUSTN,, HAPPY EASTER!!
Time goes by very fast here. I know you are happy and in peace and that keeps me going forward. The dog you wanted me to buy has passed over and I pray you have seen her. Thanks for your encouragement because she helped me. I miss her, too.
I will love you forever and will see you again.
Love always,
Mom
❤
Brenda Saia Eschete-Nicosia
December 27, 2017
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
Justin,
Son, it has been a long time since you passed. Everyday is difficult day for me. You were my baby, child, teen and a man and I loss you. I will never understand why. You are always in my heart. When I wake up in the morning or go to sleep at night I feel you in my heart. A mother never forgets her child.
I miss you and always will.
Love forever,
Mom
Brenda Nicosia
June 17, 2017
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, JUSTIN.
Your daughter misses you very much. She was only 18 months when you passed. Caroline is now 13 yrs old and very intelligent, kind, loving and beautiful. You would be very proud.
Everyone misses you and thank you Aunt Lorraine for remembering Justin. He is with his real family now. One day we will all meet again.
I love you, my son.
Mom
Lorraine Palmisano
January 2, 2017
Justin, I will always remember you as a very intelligent and handsome young man. So sad that you you had to leave us at such a young age!
You will never be forgotten.. Love Aunt Lorraine
Brenda Saia Eschete
December 30, 2016
Merry Christmas, Justin
I wrote to you in this guest book on the 27th. For some reason it didn't post. I don't remember my exact words, but I bet you know them.
Justin, I don't go anywhere without someone saying are you Justin Eschete's mom. Yes, I am! I am proud to be your mother and will always be proud of you.
Yes, I do still feel you had an "Unfinished Life". I can't question why this happened, but it was for a reason and God knows. Sure that was hard to accept. I am now in a place where I have accepted God's will. No more anger and that feels good. It took only 11 yrs to get here, but I am now here and all those negatives feelings have left and the hole in my heart has been filled by the grace of God. You are still in my heart and always will be because God gave me you to be your mother.
I know you seen the celebration of the birth of our Savior. It is something that I can only dream about, but one day I will be with you and share that joyful moment.
I love you, Justin. One day all of our unanswered questions will be answered and until that day I am fine.
Love, my son
Your mom
Justin & Brennen by the Calato's
Brenda Saia Eschete
December 27, 2016
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2016
HAPPY 40TH BIRTHDAY!
What can I share with all of my family and friends about you Justin. Well, you are still a wonderful son. I will forever love you. You are caring, loving, kind, giving and so much more.
My life changed the day you were born and it forever changed the day you were taken from me. Today I look at your empty chair. It is difficult to sit across from that chair. I now look and remember the joy you gave to me in your life.
You are my son and you will always be my son. I may grieve for you, but my love and joy you gave to me is greater. I love you on this 40th birthday. Mom will always love you.
❤
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 9, 2016
Son, today is the day you were called back home that God prepared for you. I hope you find the comfort in the arms of our Heavenly Father.
I look at Caroline and I see you. I am very proud of Lesley and her life is good.
Love you, Justin.
❤
Brenda Saia Eschete
December 25, 2015
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
Today we celebrate the birth of Jesus. One day I will be able to enjoy that birth with you, dad and many more.
Christmas is never the same; too many empty chairs. New Year's is right around the corner and we as a family always celebrated this together. Lesley and Caroline go by your sister's house. If I am well I go enjoy the family, too.
I love you so much, but I haven't given up on our search to the truth. We will one day know, if not here, I will find out in Heaven.
Someone recently told me they new you had to be my son because we look alike. I never thought we did, but maybe we do. If that person saw your mawmaw first I think that may change. Caroline looks like you. You would be so proud of her. Lesley is doing a good job.
I am thinking Heaven has all the angels singing because our Lord was born. I picture, stars, golden roads, clouds of color, waterways that looks like crystal and dad is sitting right there with you. No more pain.
I love you, my son
xoxo
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2015
Happy 39th Birthday, my son. I miss you and think of you every moment of my life. I will see you soon.
Brenda Saia Eschete
June 20, 2015
Happy Father's Day. Wish you were here, but I wish you were here for your daughter. She is a perfect gem. When I look at her she looks a lot like you. I miss your stories, you sharing your songs and just miss you bringing home all your friends. We had so much fun as a family. I enjoyed every moment.
My heart aches for you. I wonder what you would be doing and how many children you would have had. I know you wanted 6.
I love you so much. I will be home soon and it will be sooner than you think unless I prove the doctor wrong again.
I love you,
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
February 14, 2015
Justin, my sweet baby boy. If you were here you would get the same chocolate candy you always received and loved at age 27.
I know I will see you one day soon.
I ❤ U in chocolate
Sending you my whole heart!
Xoxo
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
December 31, 2014
Justin, my beautiful child; I love you more than my own life. I miss you all the time. I always thought I would trade places with you. A life for a life. Now looking back that would be selfish. You are in Heaven with our Heavenly Father. We will meet again I am sure of
that because we believe. There is not a place I go that we didn't create wonderful memories. I didn't realize that was the only thing that I would have left from you during this time. I just thought you would bury me first. We forget how many children die and the parent has to try and move on.
Christmas must have been beyond belief from what we could ever imagine. Remember, No More Pain. Dad loved your song and I do,
too. Your daughter is beautiful and the real memory of you. She has everything good about you and her mom in her soul. You would be proud that your wife is a wonderful Mother.
I love you, son
Xoxo
Your Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2014
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it's the memories of you that are the most precious.
By Lamaretta Simmons
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2014
Missing you so much today and every day.
Brenda Saia Eschete
April 22, 2014
Happy Easter, Justin. I miss you so much, but you are in my heart. I think about what you would be doing and what your family life would be like. You told me you wanted many children. We have Caroline and she is beautiful. She loves all the things you loved. Caroline enjoys sports, dance, piano and many of your other talents. One day I will see you again and I will finally know the truth.
Brandy is going to put your Spring flowers at the Cemetery. She always does a beautiful job. Pray for Chase because he will have test today to find the reason his lungs leaked.
I will always love you and miss you. My heart aches for you. Again, one day the pain will be gone and that will be when God unites us together again. A beautiful day.
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 13, 2014
Thanks Carol. He was so close to you and your family. Actually, you knew him since he was a child . He had respect for you and was proud that you continued your education.
Luv ya!
Brenda
Carolyn Tilley
January 2, 2014
Dear Brenda,
I think of you through out the year and hope with each passing day that the pain of your grief lessens. Justin was a wonderful son and all who knew him feels your loss.
December 31, 2013
Think of you often
December 25, 2013
Brenda, I know your heart is broken and it is so hard to find the words to say Justin had so much to live for..What you wrote was very touching I pray that God gives you peace that can only come from him!!! Love Ya, Aunt Lorraine
Brenda Saia Eschete
December 24, 2013
Merry Christmas, son. I miss you so much.
Love,
Mom
July 2, 2013
Brenda, Thinking of you all on Justin's 37th Birthday. I know he is watching down on you, and he knows he is forever in your heart. Much love, Becky
Father and daughter.
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2013
HAPPY 37TH BIRTHDAY, JUSTIN
GOD'S LENT CHILD
"I'll lend you for a little while
A child of mine," God said
"for you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
Or forty two or three..
But will you , till I call him back,
Take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
And - (should his stay be brief) -
You'll have his lovely memories
As a solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth returns;
But there are lessons taught below
I want this child to learn.
I've looked the whole world over
In my search for teachers true
And from the things that crowd life's lane
I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love?
Not think the labor vain?
Nor hate me when I come to take
This Lent Child back again?"
"I fancied that I heard them say -
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done
For all the joys Thy Child will bring
The risk of grief we'll run.
We will shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.
But should Thy angel call for him,
Much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand."
-Author Unknown-
God, for the brief twenty eight years Justin lived, we gave him all you asked of us. Our love was given to him unconditionally.
We taught him the lessons you wanted him to learn. He was kind, caring, generous, loving and he had such a soft and giving heart. We couldn't protect his kind soul and I don't think you wanted him any other way because he touched so many lives, his kind heart and soul.
I don't hate you God, for taking him home so early; sometimes the reason is not for us to understand now. One day we will all know why he went home so soon.
Justin brought us so much happiness and joy; I thank you for chosing me to be his mother. Even knowing his life would have been brief, I still would have wanted him.
Now you have my husband and our son. I couldn't be more pleased knowing they are back home again.
I was not prepared for the grief I was going to endure for the rest of this life, however, I would do it again and again to receive these special gifts; the husband that loved me,our children with all their heart and a son who followed his Father's footsteps and loved us with all of his heart, too. What a blessing.
God Bless.
Love always and forever.
x0x0,
Mom
~
Brenda Saia Eschete,
Abita Springs
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 12, 2013
Eight years and counting.I miss and love you so much. A mother's love never dies.
xoxo
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 27, 2012
Happy 36th Birthday
I think of you everyday of my life and always will. I love you son.
xoxo,
MOM
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 30, 2012
Nature
As a fond mother, when the day is o'er,
Leads by the hand her little child to bed,
Half willing, half reluctant to be led,
And leave his broken playthings on the floor,
Still gazing at them through the open door,
Nor wholly reassured and comforted
By promises of others in their stead,
Which, though more splendid, may not please him more;
So Nature deals with us, and takes away
Our playthings one by one, and by the hand
Leads us to rest so gently, that we go
Scarce knowing if we wish to go or stay,
Being too full of sleep to understand
How far the unknown transcends the what we know.
By Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
The Poetry Foundation
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SON.
XOXO,
MOM
Brenda Saia Eschete
February 14, 2011
Happy Valentine's Day, Justin. If you were here I would search for that special gift you received for the past 28 years.
I miss you.
xoxo,
Mom
Nicole Reynaud
January 9, 2011
Missing my dear friend today.
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 9, 2011
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 9, 2011
Six years today..................
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 2, 2011
Another year without you went by so fast and another year is ahead of me which I will take day by day. It is so hard to celebrate the holidays without you and Dad.
Missing you so much.
xoxo,
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
November 25, 2010
Missing you on this Thanksgiving Day.
Love always,
xoxo
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
September 5, 2010
Every breath I take I am thinking of you.
Love always.
xoxo,
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 30, 2010
Thinking of you, son.
Love always.
xoxo,
Mom
Bobbie
July 1, 2010
((((((Brenda))))))
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2010
You passed away on Sunday, January 9, 2005. My son's birthday rolls around July 1st of each year and every year it just gets more difficult. I have been told by some really lovely ladies I met that the pain will lessen and actually be softer, but I haven't felt that way yet.
Today, I find family, relatives and friends can't look at me or say anything to me on his birthday, as well as, the anniversary date of his passing or just a regular day. I guess they don't know what to say. It is so much harder when no one whispers a single word about Justin or my late husband. I will never forget. He was given to me by God this very day and I thank God for this blessing. Justin truly was a blessing to our family. I miss him and I feel he wasn't finished living this life, but yet it was his time to leave.
I would prefer to celebrate the day he was brought into the world, rather than the day he left the world. Usually, I go to the cemetery and place balloons next to his headstone and I sit a while on our family bench. I have cried so many tears for him; I don't know how I haven't drowned in my own tears yet. Maybe, one day, the pain will soften.
HAPPY 34TH BIRTHDAY, JUSTIN
I love you.
xoxo,
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
June 22, 2010
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, SON.
Brenda Saia Eschete
April 11, 2010
And he himself has promised us this:
eternal life. 1 John 2:25 (TLB)
Brenda Saia Eschete
February 5, 2010
I love you, son.
xoxo,
Mom
DAUGHTER - CHRISTMAS 2009
January 10, 2010
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 10, 2010
Well, another birthday, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's Eve has gone by without you; however, you were with me in my heart. No one can fill that hole, but you Justin.
You have been gone 5 years. I thought for sure I would be with you and Dad by now, but I guess God has other plans for me. I haven't seen your face, smile, beautiful eyes and I haven't heard your voice or laughter. It is very quiet without you and Dad and of course, I am so broken hearted without both of you.
When I wake up in the morning I wish it was the way it use to be. We all were so happy. It almost was a perfect life. Life will never be the same for me.
Everybody else is going about their life and enjoying it like they should be doing, but for some reason I can't find the happiness and peace I use to have. People in general seem to forget about the decease and their families. The ones who loved you the most will always remember you.
I did get to see your daughter during the holidays. She is a beautiful child and she does wish her Daddy was here.
She is so young that time will pass and she will be fine. I am sorry to say she will not remember you. We tell her stories about you, so that will be her memory. Sometimes she has questions and we answer her and she is fine. She was just too young when you were taken away from us because that is what happened; you were just taken away. I silently wait for the truth.
Well, as long as I live I will continue to see your daughter and enjoy our time together. She really loves your sisters and your nieces and nephews. They love her very much. I hope you can see her from time to time. You would be very happy and proud of her and your family.
I always will love you and I will love you even more.......
xoxo,
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 12, 2009
HAPPY 33RD BIRTHDAY, JUSTIN!
I remembered your birthday, but I was in so much grief that I wasn't able to make this entry in your Guest Book. For some reason this birthday seem much more difficult for me. I don't know why because I love you just the same as I always loved you and I miss you just the same as I always missed you.
For your birthday we visited you at your resting place. Your nieces, nephews and your sister, Brandy were with me. We placed beautiful balloons in celebration of your life. Amii decorated the vases for you and Dad to celebrate the 4th of July. Both of you have flowers, balloons, flags and even rocks. It is quite the display, but it shows how much both of you are loved.
Maybe one day Caroline will be able to visit. I think it may help her knowing where you are now. It has helped your nieces and nephews deal with the losses. They bring you and Poppa small gifts to place near your head stones. Sometimes it is a beautiful hand selected rock that they thought you would have liked. This is their way of expressing how they feel.
In your adult life we celebrated your birthday with your brother-in-law, Louis. Both birthdays were so close together and even at times we would celebrate both on the 4th of July.
This year we celebrated Louis' birthday and you and Dad were not there. It has been a while since we celebrated Louis'birthday as a family since our losses. I think it was good for the children to get back to the normal routines in life.
Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. Matthew 5:4
I will mourn your loss until the end of time; you are my child. I will love you forever.
xoxo,
Mom
Jennifer Owens
May 16, 2009
Dear Eschete Family,
I was blessed to teach Caroline in Kindergarten this year. She is a wonderful, beautiful child. Her radiant smile lights up the room.
I just wanted to share with you all what an amazing job Lesley has done with her. She talks about her daddy and told us that her daddy was in heaven. She would always mention him and Aunt Lacey and the dogs during prayer requests/special intentions, etc. It was so sweet!
God is so good and He has a purpose for all things. While praying for Lesley's family due to Lacey's accident, I came upon this website and saw the pictures of Justin and read the entries. It sounds like Caroline has amazing qualities just like her daddy and mommy. Thanks for sharing his life with us and how precious it will be for Caroline to read all of this when she is older.
God Bless You All!! I promise we will take care of our baby girl, Caroline.
Love and Prayers,
Jenn Owens
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 1, 2009
Justin Lyle Eschete
"An Unfinished Life"
July 1, 1976 - January 9, 2005
I will always love you and I am so sad because I know you did not get the chance to finish your life long dreams. This journey was too short and I don't even understand.
Another year has gone by and you continue on your new journey which is eternity, God's promise. When I look at it that way you no longer have an unfinished life because this was God's plan for you.
I will never stop grieving for the loss of you, Justin, my only son.
We will meet again. Remember we talked about it. We will all meet by the bench near the river where Dad is sitting patiently waiting for all of us. Now the two of you are together, Father and Son and that is where I will join both of you.
xoxo,
Mom
Gail Broussard
October 16, 2008
You will be remembered always and we are proud to have known you. We will remember you in our prayers always.
We miss you!
Aunt Gail & Uncle Jim
Brenda Saia Eschete
October 14, 2008
GOD'S LENT CHILD
"I'll lend you for a little while
A child of mine," God said
"for you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
Or forty two or three..
But will you , till I call him back,
Take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
And - (should his stay be brief) -
You'll have his lovely memories
As a solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth returns;
But there are lessons taught below
I want this child to learn.
I've looked the whole world over
In my search for teachers true
And from the things that crowd life's lane
I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love?
Not think the labor vain?
Nor hate me when I come to take
This Lent Child back again?"
"I fancied that I heard them say -
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done
For all the joys Thy Child will bring
The risk of grief we'll run.
We will shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.
But should Thy angel call for him,
Much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand."
-Author Unknown-
God, for the brief twenty-eight years Justin lived, we gave him all you asked of us. Our love was given to him unconditionally.
We taught him the lessons you wanted him to learn. He was kind, caring, generous, loving and he had such a soft and giving heart. We couldn't protect his kind soul and I don't think you wanted him any other way because he touched so many lives because of his kind heart and soul.
I don't hate you God, for taking him home so early; sometimes the reason is not for us to understand now. One day we will all know why he went home so soon.
Justin brought us so much happiness and joy; I thank you for chosing me. Even knowing his life would have been brief, I still would have wanted him.
Now you have my husband and our son. I couldn't be more pleased knowing they are back home again.
I was not prepared for the grief I was going to endure for the rest of this life, however, I would do it again and again to receive these special gifts; the husband that loved me and our children with all his heart and a son who followed his Father's footsteps and loved us with all of his heart, too. What a blessing.
If you haven't met God, I can tell you one thing for sure, God is good. Get to know him; you won't have one regret.
God Bless.
My love to all,
Brenda
Melissa Hendry
September 30, 2008
You were always very kind to me during Junior High and High School. Others did not understand or support my religious beliefs and the stand that I took for what I believed to be truth and right. You always supported me and were so kind to me. You were a friend to all in school despite the clicks that were formed. You were so handsome and well liked and you never looked down on anyone. I still remember you after all of these years and I thank you for being different and for treating others with love and compassion. I miss your smile!
carolyn tilley
July 2, 2008
With love and remembrance for the little boy who lived next door. Always in our hearts.
JUSTIN'S 28TH BIRTHDAY AND HIS LAST BIRTHDAY WITH HIS FAMILY
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2008
HAPPY 32ND BIRTHDAY, JUSTIN
Your birthday is a special day....one that's just for you.
Where do I begin? How can I explain how I feel about you? When you were a child and I looked into your eyes I saw love, strength and patience.
As you grew with each new phase of life I saw the same three things, but even more. I saw a wonderful young man with a caring and kind soul who knew how to love others.
Your next phase of life you became a Registered Nurse who gave all to your patients. It didn't surprise us that you would dedicate your life to care for others and you just didn't stop there you wanted more and continued to pursue your life long dream and was accepted into LSU Medical School.
You soon became a loving, giving and caring husband and father. How I wish your daughter would have known you.
Whenever, I think of the people who made a difference in my life, as well as others, I think of you. You were a person with an open heart who understood. You were a person that had fun just doing whatever and whenever and filled a room with laughter.
Life can be so unpredictable, but there's one thing I know for sure--I can always say you were there for everybody and that is one quality I know you wouldn't change.
I love you as much today as I ever have--maybe more--because now I realize how rare and beautiful a loving son like you really was. I was blessed to have been chosen to be your Mother.
The only comfort I receive is knowing you are with our Heavenly Father. You no longer suffer and you have "No More Pain" written by a wonderful artist and that artist was you.
Grieving your loss forever,
xoxo "xo"
Mom
Carolyn Sullivan
January 13, 2008
Brenda, I miss you and wish I could hug you right now, but we now live far away from each other. A child's love and affection is something a mother craves and now Justin's love can be continued on through his daughter. I pray that she will make you proud all her life, just as Justin did. Stay dedicated to the Lord and He will continue to provide for your needs. I love and miss you.
Son, I am with your legacy; the future.
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 10, 2008
Caroline,
Always remember,
There is hope for your future, says the LORD.
Jeremiah 31:17 RSV
Love always and forever,
xoxo "xo" "xo"
Grammy
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 10, 2008
Today, January 9th is a journey that I never dreamed I would take in my life. On January 9, 2005, was a road I was forced to cross and didn't want, too.,
For you, it must have been glorious to see our Lord. For me it wasn't; because at that moment in my life I didn't want to let you go and couldn't see through my anger or tears.
I couldn't see the peacefulness, love and tranquility you would receive upon entry to heaven. Now, I see it and feel the peace from moment to moment in this life. Knowing in my heart that you are safe from harm is comforting and I do know where you are and I will be with you again.
My aching heart feels as though someone is stepping on it all the time. It doesn't have to be January 9th, everyday I continue to feel the pain.
What do I do? I live quietly and pray silently because I am overwhelmed with tears while waiting for the closure.
Son, I remember everything about you; now my memories are treasures.
I know there is a place where we meet God and you believed in him, so I don't cry when I think about how you must feel today and everyday. I am happy for you because you did complete your journey.
I guess the tears are for me, you are my loss because I was and am your Mother.
Until we meet again. Hugs and kisses to you, Dad, and everyone before you.
All my love, always.
xoxo "xo"
Mom
You are my refuge and my shield; I have put my hope in your word. Psalm 119:114 NIV
Uncle Justin and his Godson 2002
July 1, 2007
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 1, 2007
HAPPY 31 ST BIRTHDAY
Lord, today was almost more than I could bear. I am afraid to face tomorrow. How can I know that things will be okay when everything seems so wrong right now? I have no strength left inside to take the next step, so I am asking you to pick me up and carry me. I know you offer your grace as a gift of sufficiency, providing me with everything I need to go on. I accept your grace. Help me rest in the knowledge that you will be with me, taking me through each moment that lies ahead.
Today is my son's birthday and life just keeps going on without him. I know I am not the only one that has suffered a loss, but time is not healing my heart. My wounds go deep. If I feel this way has my son ever been at rest?
I love you, Justin, and you will never be forgotten.
xoxo "xo" "xo"
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 24, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
2 CORINTHIANS 5:7-8 We live by faith, not by sight. We are confident, I say, and would prefer to be away from the body and home with the Lord.
January 23, 2007
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 22, 2007
I wanted to share this picture to all who views my son's guest book. It is his resting place in the Abita Springs Cemetery.
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 21, 2007
It has been two years and eleven days since you have been gone. For me your loss has been extremely painful because I am your Mother. I was blessed and given the honor by given you life. I never thought that you would leave at such a young age. Most parents never dream that they will ever have to bury their child, but it happens everyday.
Of course, I think about you all the time. There is not a moment of my life that you are not in my thoughts and prayers. You are loved and missed by all your siblings, family and friends.
Everytime a child is born I remember your birth like it was yesterday, however, I remember the phone call informing me that you had died. When a child dies a Mother should never hear of her loss over a phone call. It is truly heartless, but for the caller it wasn't so personal because it wasn't their child that died and the caller really didn't know you and love you like your family loved you. It was simply a job to do. I know all around this world this happens to so many parents.
Your sisters miss you so much. Twenty eight years is a long time to share so many moments with a wonderful brother like you. They wish they could have had so many more years with you.
The only thing that I know for sure is you are with our Heavenly Father and enjoying the wonderful rewards of Heaven. Knowing that I will see you again comforts me.
I love you, always.
xoxo "xo"
Mom
Brenda Eschete
December 12, 2006
I will never forget you. I remember when you were born, took your first steps, said Mommy and grew taller. I remember when you got your new bedroom set and you proudly sat on the top bunk. I remember your first day of school and every year after. I remember when you talked about your dreams. You had your own goals at such an early age and you continued to work so hard to meet them. I remember every birthday party, Easter, Halloween, 4th of July, Labor Day, Summer, Thanksgiving and Christmas. You went to dances, football games, drama plays, swim and track meets, karate lessons. I remember when you found your music. You always wanted to experience more on your own. I remember your first love and how special that moment was for you. I remember when you tried to help friends, family and every pet that you came across. I remember our talks; just you and me. I remember sharing every joy you had and I remember wiping tears away from your eyes the day your father died. I remember how much you loved your father brother, sisters and family and friends. I remember when you became a father and how proud and happy you were that day. And I remember the day you died; I died with you.
I remember everything good or bad and I loved you unconditinally. I am so proud to be your Mother and happy that you knew you were loved by me. I love you and I always will.
xoxo "xo" "xo"
Mom
Mom
September 21, 2006
Thinking of you daily. I love you, son.
xoxo "xo"
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
August 6, 2006
I love you Justin.
xoxo "xo"
Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
July 7, 2006
Happy 30th Birthday.
Saturday, July 1, 1976, was the happiest moment of my life. My son was born.
You are so special to me. Not a moment goes by without me thinking of you. Every tear drop I have is for you.
I count the days to meet you again. Sure, I know where you will be with our Heavenly Father and your Dad by the river. Wait for me, I too will rejoice just like you did and all before you did.
I love you.
xoxo "xo"
MOM
Brenda Saia Eschete
June 9, 2006
I think about you every second of the day. Son, I love you more and more everyday. Hugs and kisses to you. Mom
All children play "sweet eyes" with their mother; I will never be able to see those beautiful eyes again.
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 23, 2006
The supernatural gift to
believe in God,Our Creator, and all that He has revealed,
trust in the evidence of things not visible to the eye, recognize that miracles do happen---
These are indeed aspects of hope.
You were my baby boy; my only son. How do I live without you? I love you with all my heart and soul and we will meet again.
xoxo "xo" "xo"
MOM
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 10, 2006
01/09/06
Many friends and family feel today is the worst day of my life....No the worst day of my life was Sunday, 01/09/05 without closure.
I love you my precious son and I am so happy you knew you were loved by your family.
I am sure heaven is everything you dreamed it would be and I know you found your way home with ease.
xoxo "xo" "xo"
Mom
Curt and Carol Keay
January 2, 2006
Brenda and Girls, know that our thoughts and blessings are with you at this difficult time. May your future path be safe and glorified by your beliefs.
With our love,
My son's 1st Christmas (1976) and his last Christmas at home (2004)
Brenda Saia Eschete
January 1, 2006
Christmas Day, 12/25/2005, was my very first Christmas without you and Dad, my son and husband.
This season is a good time to put into words the feelings too seldom expressed. I am so blessed that your Dad and I did not need a special day or a certain present to share our feelings with you and your siblings.
You knew how much you were loved, how we wished all life's brightest and best for you. We gave you all we had; our love, affection and praise. We watched you grow stronger, you had joy that grew deeper and love that touched everyone's heart.
I now realize that grieving is a journey, not an event; it is a lifelong process. It is about love and relationships.
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our sisters and I will continue to love and keep each other, as our "Heavenly Father" taught us to do, as we continue to love and cherish each memory of you.
I didn't know you would be called home so soon, but I find comfort knowing you are spending eternity as Father and Son with Jesus in the heavenly home He prepared for you.
All my love always,
Mom
Brenda Eschete
November 7, 2005
Lesley and Justin's Wedding Day!
Brenda Eschete
November 6, 2005
I know a lot of people have already forgotten what today would have meant to you. You would have been married two years.
You died so young and I truly believe you are now much happier where you are today.
You will never be forgotten by your family and friends.
xoxo "xo" "xo"
MOM
Brenda Eschete
October 31, 2005
I love you, my son.
xoxo "xo" "xo"
MOM
Lesley Eschete
August 15, 2005
Daddy,
Your sweet Caroline Elise turned 2 years old today. Our daughter is a bright,busy,and brilliant star in my life.This birthday was bitter sweet without you.I wished her Happy 2nd Birthday from mommy and daddy. I just wish I could hear a Happy Birthday to Caroline from your guitar one more time.
Joseph Gelis
July 26, 2005
I did not know Justin very long as I just met him last December while he was on his retreat in Alexandria. We were roommates and I am also a nurse. I was absolutely floored when I learned of his passing, just this week. While in Alexandria, we shared some of our experiences in nursing and also some problems we encountered. One thing was very clear about Justin; he loved his wife and daughter dearly. He often showed us pictures of them and was so excited that he was going to be able to leave early and spend Christmas with them. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Justin's family.
Glenda Bennett
July 6, 2005
Justin lives in our heart and memories of him are precious. I was lucky to be invited into the Eschete family in 1983. They made the holidays special for me and my son because my other family lived so far away. We miss Justin and think of him and Calvin often. We love you. Glenda, RL and Travis.
Lesley Eschete
July 4, 2005
HAPPY 4TH OF JULY,JUSTIN
You watch fireworks everywhere tonight, as they are sparkling in your eyes. I remember the 4th last year, it was so special.We spent with family and friends, but most of all each other. Your fire for life burns eternally in my soul, and I fight everyday to stay whole without you here. As I listen to the fireworks outside tonite your all I think of. Please continue to watch over Caroline and I while we finish our christian walk, and I can not wait to be your arms forever. Love You, Lesley
Carolyn Tilley
July 2, 2005
We loved you as we watched you grow. We love you still,you will always be in our hearts.
Carolyn,Jennifer and Heather
Emmy Cifreo
July 1, 2005
Just as the morning dew refreshes
Then vanishes in a moment
Justin too has come and left us
So much a part of our lives
Today it seems like a dream
He lived and loved as we do
He has left this earthly home
But is never far from our heart
Happy Birthday Justin
Love, Emmy
All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. Psalm 139:16 (NIV)
Brenda Eschete
June 30, 2005
JULY 1ST
SON, HAPPY 29TH BIRTHDAY
On your birthday and always wishing
you heaven in your heart...
starlight in your soul, and angels in your eternal life.
God had a master plan, and all of us played a special role in it.
Today, Friday, July 1, 2005 we celebrate the part where you came into our life.
Every year as long as I can remember you wanted to hear the great story of the day you were born.
It didn't matter how old you were; just last year I told you the same story on your 28th birthday. You seem to enjoy hearing it over and over.
Well, now I know you do not need me to tell you your story; for you have now seen it through the grace of God.
Just because you are not here with me, I will never forget that wonderful day that God sent you to this family.
As I wipe my tears away, I close my eyes and I can see you so clearly as you were placed in my loving arms. You are my flesh, my blood, and a special gift from God to share with so many others.
Love says it all when it comes to you, Son -
Love says it all in your voice, in your eyes, in your jokes and your laughter.
When it comes to you, Son, love says it all.
I know in my heart that this will be the most glorious birthday of all for you.
Love, my heart
xoxo "xo"
Mom
t;Dad's love is with you.
FATHER AND SON
Brenda Eschete
June 20, 2005
A FATHER holds his children's hands for a while....their hearts FOREVER.
Happy Father's Day to my son, Justin and the late Calvin J. Eschete, my husband and your father.
Love always Justin, Mom
Love always Calvin, Brenda
April Torres
June 9, 2005
My heart is so heavy as I view the photo gallery. What a beautiful soul he is. The handful of encounters I had with Justin, were brief. But in those brief moments, I picked up on the deepness of his soul. His music, his love for his family... We are all left with such a hole......... such a void. My prayers go out to his Mom, his wife, Lesley, to his sisters and to his baby Caroline. May the God of peace bring you solace and rest. May he fill the voids that the loss of Justin brings. We are all so very proud of all of who he was and is. Such a beautiful soul. Such an incredible soul.
Brenda Saia Eschete
May 18, 2005
I am unable to sleep tonight, one of many sleepless nights, I love you Justin and no one could love you more but God. xoxo "xo"xo"xo", Your Loving Mom
Brenda Saia Eschete
May 8, 2005
MOTHER'S DAY
Justin,
This is my first Mother's Day without you, my son. I never even thought I would experience this in my lifetime.
Justin, along with his Dad and sisters made everyday special, but Mother's Day was always extra special. Their Dad would take the children to buy flowers just because they loved me, but Mother's Day was even better, the children would get to select a special corsage for me to wear to church on Mother's Day. My husband, their Dad made it a tradition. Last year we loss a great man known as Calvin/Dad. When Mother's Day came by Justin didn't forget to get me that special corsage. I believe I got a few that year.
I saved all the cards given to me from my family and I did find one that Justin gave me and it touched my heart. I know if he were here today he would feel the same and bring me a beautiful corsage to celebrate the day.
This is the card as follows:
"Mother, I am so grateful that you are my mom. The spirit of your love is shown to me in so many ways as you care and sacrifice for our family. You don't often receive the thanks you deserve and yet, you never grow weary of giving to others. Mom, I hope that life has given to you the same joy you have given to me as your child. Your love for me is so important. I will always have a place in my heart for you, Mom. Love ya, Justin
Justin, you gave me much joy in my life and I was proud to call you my son, you were only 28 yrs old when you met our "Heavenly Father". I pray it was just as you imagined. Mom just wasn't ready to let you or your Dad go.
Justin and Cal have a very special place in my heart for both of you, as well as my daughters.
I am still blessed that God gave me these two fine men in my life who loved me so much; they may be gone, but God still has blessed me with two daughters, one daughter-in-law, five grandchildren, siblings, nieces, nephews and loyal friends, etc.
Today, again I will wipe the tears away, so I can cleary see the gifts I still have and thank God for them. xoxo MOM
I will never forget what Justin said "I will follow my heart and dreams and never die with regrets; do this & you will have a blessed life." He did what God sent him to do. The last few months were painful for you; you can finally rest without regrets.
May 1, 2005
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