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Lucy Cilley Obituary
NORWICH – Lucy A. (Bullard) Cilley, 86, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, October 18, 2017 at Backus Hospital.
She was born in Norwich on June 26, 1931 to the late Roger and Ida (Leffingwell) Bullard. After completing high school, Lucy pursued a career as a nurse achieving her RN licensure and working at Backus Hospital for many years before working for the town of Bozrah/Fitchville as a public health nurse, and finally retired from the City of Norwich as a school nurse.
Lucy and Monroe "Red" Cilley were married at United Congregational Church in Norwich on Feb. 25, 1956. He predeceased her in 2006. Lucy and Red enjoyed antique dealing throughout their lives.
Lucy is survived by her daughter; Kim LaRue, a sister; Harriet Magee, grandchildren; Gianna LaRue and Mariah LaRue, two great-granddaughters and several nieces, nephews and cousins. Besides her husband, she was also predeceased by two sisters; Marjorie Bullard and Mary Carpenter.
Services will be private at the convenience of the family.
Memorial donations may be made to either the Yantic or Occum Volunteer Fire Departments.
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Laurene Shewan
October 24, 2017
Kim and Gianna, praying that God will give you an extra measure of strength as you go through this difficult time. Lucy was a kind and thoughtful woman and I'm glad I got to spend time with her and your family, throughout the years. May she rest in peace.
Darien Chalecki, MA, LPC.
October 19, 2017
Kim and family, I remember when we first moved to Hansen Road in 1983 your parents invited us for many picnics at their house. I would go with them on weekends to set up their antiques for sale at the New London Mall when I was in high school. Your dad "covered" for my dad for all those years when they worked for the city parks/cemeteries. Your mom always had a kind heart as a nurse and a person and a sharp mind...she would always remember a face and had a story to tell about old Norwich history, antiques or a local Yankee family. I cant imagine how much knowledge she had all organized in her brain. A remarkable woman...may she rest in peace!
Deborah Mish Zglobis
October 19, 2017
Mrs. Cilley was the nurse when I attended Fields Memorial and I remember her actually going to our home when my brother, Joe was sick. She was a wonderful lady. Many years later when I returned to Connecticut I ran into her and said hello. She recognized me after all of those years and called me, "Little Debbi Mish". I laughed and always said hello to her whenever I saw her. My prayers are being said for all of you. Cherish the memories and know that she made a difference in many lives throughout the years.
October 19, 2017
Kimmi and Gianna... love you both! Lucy had such a kind soul and a gentle manner. I will always remember her!
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Terri Warner
October 19, 2017
Dear Kim,
I remember when you "arrived" and how much love and pride both of your parents had for you. I remember so many gatherings at my relatives house on Hansen Rd. I also remember your Mom being a nurse in the school system. Hold on to the memories and share them with future generations. Love you and am praying for you and your family.
Joy Griffin
October 19, 2017
Dear Kim,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your mom was a kind, sweet, gracious lady and my family was very lucky to know her. With our deepest sympathy, The Griffin family
October 19, 2017
So sorry to hear of Lucy's passing. I remember many happy get-togethers my family had with hers, and it was my parents that introduced Lucy to Red, leading to a happy, long marriage for them. Lucy was such a wonderful cook as well, and I remember many great meals and cookouts on Hansen Road. I was so glad she could make it to my aunt's surprise birthday party this summer. Lucy will be greatly missed.
Kevin Gorden
Norwich, CT
Carolyn & Lee Horton
October 19, 2017
Dear Kim,
Your mom was a wonderful person and excellent neighbor. We will miss seeing her. She will be enjoying your dads company now. Our condolences.
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