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Neil Bordelon Obituary

BORDELON Neil James Bordelon, Jr. Funeral service for Neil James Bordelon, Jr. of Marrero will take place on Friday, November 16, 2012 at the St. Peter's Catholic Church of Bordelonville, beginning at 11:00am with Msgr. Steve Testa officiating. Visitations will be held at the St. Peter's Catholic Church Hall on Thursday, November 15, 2012, from 11:00am to 10:00pm and will resume Friday morning at 8:00am. Burial services will commence at the St. Peter's Catholic Cemetery. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, November 17, 2012 at the Visitation of Our Lady Church in Marrero, beginning at 1:00pm. Neil Bordelon, Jr., age 50, passed away at the West Jefferson Medical Center in Marrero on Sunday, November 11, 2012. He is preceded in death by his grandparents, J.C. & Margaret Baudin and Cleophas LaBorde. He is survived by his wife Karen Perrin Bordelon; children, Neil Bordelon, III & wife Jamie, Blase Bordelon of Ruston; and their mother, Cecile Bordelon; his parents, Neil & Bettie Bordelon, Sr.; step-children, Pio, Brent, Leah & Adam Bourgeois; grandmother, Sybil Charrier of Bordelonville. Services and arrangements are under the direction of Escudé Funeral Home.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Nov. 12 to Nov. 14, 2012.

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Tina Gentry

November 7, 2023

I sure do miss seeing Neil at my camp! Miss both of you!
Tina

Lynette

November 20, 2012

I couldnt bring myself to write anything, until now. How I wish I'd taken you party animals up on all the wonderful invitations you extended to me, once you returned home. How I thank Neil for his enthusiasm in giving the shirt off of his back so that I could have a date (inside joke), and for being such a wonderful husband and friend to my gal. My hope is that your love will inspire others to love as much, although I think it's hardly possible. Karen, you have an angel watching over you. This is nothing new - except he's watching from above now, instead of beside you.

Johnny and Paula Gros

November 17, 2012

Mr. Neil and Ms. Betty,

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

P.

November 17, 2012

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Mary Davenport

November 17, 2012

Karen, I was shocked when I read Lyd's post on FB. We are so sorry for your loss. I wish we were there to give you a hug and be with you'll to comfort you in person but know we are praying for you and your family, too. There are no easy words to say that take away the sorry but I pray God will carry you and yours through this very difficult time of grieving. The hard part is for those left behind.
God bless you and keep you.
Love you.
Mary

Carl Jackson

November 16, 2012

To the Bordelon family sorry for your loss and keep God first and everything will be alright. I went to school with Neil at WJeff. Neil had a heart full of love and fun. God Bless you Neil (Bo-day)!!

November 16, 2012

With sincerest sympathy, I'd like to offer my heartfelt condolences to Karen and all of Neil's relatives and loved ones. Was only lucky enough to have known Neil for a short period of time as one of his co-workers. He will be greatly missed as a friend. Neil was such an easy-going and happy guy. Such a pleasure to be around and work with. He'd always comment on how close and happy he was with his family. He surely will be missed and remembered fondly by all.
Allen Mire
Momentive Chemicals
C Unit

Kristyn Denison Carvajal

November 15, 2012

Mrs. Betty and Mr. Neil and family so sorry for your loss. May God be with you in this time of need.

Peter and Sidonia Pizani

November 15, 2012

We are sorry for your loss. May our Father keep you close in His arms, during your time of sorrow

Jamie and Clint Bolotte

November 15, 2012

Karen, You and Neil both know how much we love you, and that will never change. It's hard to imagine a world without Neil in it, but he'll never truly be gone as long as we keep him alive in our hearts! Also, to Mrs. Betty & Mr. Neil along with Neil's children, and Karen's children and parents, our deepest condolences. Neil was truly a GREAT PERSON!! He will be missed by all who knew him.
Jamie and Clint Bolotte

November 15, 2012

Mrs. Karen I am so sorry to hear of his passing! I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Trisha & Blaine Cobert

Darlene & Lenny Ortego

November 15, 2012

Our prayers go out to the family.

November 15, 2012

Peace and Comfort to All, May the Perpetual Light Shine upon Him.
Deborah Nunez & Family

Gwen Bourgeois

November 15, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Rodney & Carol Desselle

November 15, 2012

Our condolences to Neil, Jr's family. His Mom, Betty is my 1st cousin. We have been there to support her and Neil, Sr. Our prayers are with the family!

November 15, 2012

Karen, Mr. Pee Wee and I are so sorry for your loss. We have fond memories of gatherings that you and Neil were a part of. Neil was truly an angel sent to you.
Karen, your faith in God, the support of family and friends, and your love for Neil will get you thru this trying time. Neil is now your guardian angel watching over you.
Love,
Ms. Pat

November 14, 2012

Bettie and Neil,
Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow.
Linda and Vicki

Teresa & Johnny Lomonaco

November 14, 2012

Bettie and Neal and Celie and boys, my heart goes out to all of you, please take care

November 14, 2012

Neil and Ms Betty, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. I didnt know little Neil but knowing you two only tells me what a greatloss has come to us.
Connie Hall
JPSO Photo Lab

November 14, 2012

May the God of all comfort provide you with comfort duuring this difficult time. 1 Peter 4:7

November 14, 2012

Deepest sympathies to all the family. May God give you all strength and peace in this time of great sorrow. Our prayers are with you all.

Jerry Trosclair
Bonnie Laird

Evelyn Bordelon

November 14, 2012

To all of Neil's family and friends may our Lord Jesus Christ...and God our Father...comfort all your hearts. With sincere sympathy and many prayers that God will give you all His help, His strength, and His hope during this time of your sorrow....

Lori Eschete

November 13, 2012

Karen, Marty and I are so sorry to hear about Neil. Although we never met him I have heard everyone say what a great man he was and how much he loved you. Lydia said he was an angel that was sent to you. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Keith Harvey

November 13, 2012

Karen,so very sorry to hear about Neil's passing. Our prayers are with you and your family.

November 13, 2012

So very sorry for your loss. His love will endure. Our prayers to you and the family. Suzette Belsom Perrin

Sidney and Jeanette Bourgeois

November 13, 2012

Karen,No words can describe how we felt when my mother Elaine told us that Neil was gone. But Know that he will paitently be waiting to show you all the new wonders in Heaven that he is sharing with his beloved now and for ever. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and all of his survivors. May God bless and fill all of Neil's closest family and friends with strength and peace hereafter.

Ina Thibodeaux

November 13, 2012

Karen you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

Philip & Nadine Lombas

November 13, 2012

Karen, so sorry about Neil's passing. We will keep him and his family in our prayers. May God comfort you in this time of great sadness. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers

November 13, 2012

So sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family.

Tim, Michelle, Kayla, & Kyle Trauth

Jamie Bordelon

November 13, 2012

Little Neil says that the late and great golfers are going to have one hell of a golf buddy. You will be missed very much but not soon forgotten. Until we meet again.
Neil III and Jamie Bordelon

Paula Medina

November 13, 2012

Karen your in my thoughts and prayers, I am so sorry to hear.

Armand, Lisa, Ashley, and Cameron Pizani

November 13, 2012

We were so sorry to hear of Neil's passing. We're praying for the family, for peace and comfort which comes from our Heavenly Father.

Julie Hernandez

November 13, 2012

Karen,
I was so sorry to hear of Neil's death. Although I didn't know him, I know how happy he made you. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,
Julie Hernandez

Sandra Duet

November 13, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time. Remember "Death leaves a pain no one can heal but Love leaves memories no one can steal", may you be comforted by great memories! Keep your Faith!
Love Sandra, Daniel and Christian Duet

November 13, 2012

Karen, so sorry to hear about Neil's passing. I pray that your family, friends and your faith see you through this difficult time.
Sharon and Mike Gondrella

November 13, 2012

KAREN,SENDING OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU & YOUR FAMILY MAY GOD GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO GET THRU VERY TRYING TIME IN YOUR LIFE ,PRAYING FOR ALL OF YOU
KATHY & IGGY ROJAS

November 13, 2012

Bettie, I'm so sorry to hear of your son's passing. You and Neil are in my prayers. Sally Fletcher

Kelli Champagne

November 13, 2012

Neal, Jamie,Blasé and Celie,
I am so sorry for your loss keeping you guys in my prayers during this difficult time.

Betty Brown

November 13, 2012

Bets, "little Neil" was such a grand guy. I know your hearts are overflowing with sadness. There are no words of solice, just know that we are crying with you and love you very much.

November 13, 2012

Bets, there are no words to comfort you. Just know that you and Neil and your family are in my heart and I am so very sad. One of my fondest memories of "little Neil" is him racing down Timbalier Drive on his crutches. He was always so cheerful and easy going and such a pride and joy.

Mildred Desselle

November 13, 2012

My condolences to Neil's wife, children and his Mom & Dad. I am his Mom's aunt. My heart hurts to watch his parents grieve. Their hearts have been torn out of their bodies. Praying for the strength the family needs.

November 13, 2012

Neal, Jean and family,
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Words cannot express how sorry we are for you. Love Kay Brown Giambrone and Dayton Bordelon

Rene Bridges

November 13, 2012

No words can express how much you will be missed. You were such a wonderful amazing man with a huge heart. My memories of you will live forever in my heart. Spread those wings and watch over all of us.

ELEANOR DUBROC

November 13, 2012

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.!! YOUR COUSIN, ELEANOR DUBROC

November 13, 2012

My heart hurts so much for all of you.. Neil was such a wonderful and great man who had such a huge heart. You will be missed by everyone... My thoughts and prayers for his family during this most difficult time...Love, The Boutte's

Tina Oseguera

November 13, 2012

He was such a great guy. He was always happy and laughing. He was such a great friend to all of us. We miss you very much. Will pray for all of you.

Lewis Family

November 13, 2012

So said to hear about Neil. Our thougghts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Bob, June, Joey, Troy and Dawn D'Angelo Lewis.

Ronald Cooper

November 13, 2012

With deepest sympathy and prayers.

Tyrie & Daniel Plaisance

November 13, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jan & David Trauth

November 13, 2012

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Beth & Jimmy LeBlanc

November 13, 2012

Karen, may God hold you and your family in his arms and give you the strength needed to get through this difficult time and may the angels lift Neil in their arms to his resting place.

Eric Scivicque

November 13, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your Family. And when we grow afraid of the things we might forget, A Face, A Voice, A smile. No need to fear forgetting, Because the HEART remembers always, R.I.P. My Friend

kelly johnson-holder

November 13, 2012

karen, my prayers go out to yall. if you need anything iam only a phone call away.

Tina Gentry

November 13, 2012

Karen, Mike and I are saddened by the news of Neil's passing. Should you need anything or a place to just get away, call us.

Mike and Tina, Campti, LA

November 13, 2012

Karen and Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of Neil. We are so very sorry. May your family, friends and your faith see you through this difficult time.

With love,

Lynette and Jimmy Hatty

CLARA LABORDE REGGIO REGGIO

November 12, 2012

BETTIE & NEAL. PLEASE ACCEPT OUR LOVE, SYMPATHY & PRAYERS AT THIS TIME. PRAYERS ARE BEING SAID FOR YOU. SINCERELY, CLARA & RICHARD REGGIO, METAIRIE, LA.

November 12, 2012

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

November 12, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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