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Patrick O'Brien Obituary

O'BRIEN, Patrick D. Patrick D. O'Brien passed away Tuesday, September 6, 2011, in Petaluma after five months of treatment for Melanoma. He was born October 2, 1959, in San Jose, CA, and came to Petaluma in 1960. He attended local schools, graduating from Petaluma High School in 1977. He attended the University of San Francisco where he received a degree in Business Administration with an emphasis on Finance in 1981. Patrick worked for Martiz for over twenty five years in many positions, retiring September 1, 2011, from the Walnut Creek office. As part of his job Patrick traveled to over sixty countries and established a world-wide network of friends and contacts in the travel and hospitality business. Patrick was predeceased by his partner Jason Conley; is survived by his daughter Heather Conley Reestman, Omaha, NE, and partner Joseph Cook, Petaluma. He was predeceased by his father Daniel O'Brien and is survived by his mother Kathryn O'Brien Lawrence, Petaluma, sisters Colleen O'Brien and Bonnie Johnston (Mark) and brother Jamie O'Brien (Rosa) all of Santa Rosa, and sister Timaree O'Brien of Napa. He is also survived by grandchildren Breann Urban, Gaige and Delaney Reestman of Omaha, NE; nine nieces and nephews. Friends are invited to a memorial Mass at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church, 35 Liberty Street, Petaluma Sunday, September 18, 2011, at 2:00 p.m. and a Celebration of Life following at 3:30 p.m. at the Sheraton Sonoma County at the Petaluma Marina, 745 Baywood Drive. In lieu of flowers, the family prefers contributions to Melanoma Research in memory of Patrick D. O'Brien. They may be sent to the California Pacific Medical Center Foundation, P. O. Box 7999, San Francisco, CA 94120-7999.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Sep. 15 to Sep. 18, 2011.

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Mary&Dennis Gonnella

October 2, 2011

Dear Kathryn, Colleen, Bonnie, Timaree and Jaime, and all,
I just want you to know that I'm remembering Pat on his birthday with lots of love and smiles. I know you must miss him a lot and hopefully you can spend today celebrating his life with lots of good and fond memories. Take care and know that I hold you all in my prayers.

September 17, 2011

Pat was a gracious, thoughtful and very considerate man. I never knew him to have an unkind word for anyone. I'm happy to have known him. I know that he will be missed by me and my family.
Rose Spitzer (Hidden Valley Lake, Ca)

Betty Wright

September 16, 2011

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss..... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this most difficult time.

geoff due

September 16, 2011

Patrick has been a good friend to many of us in sonoma county he will be deeply missed. and i am sure that Jason will be waiting for him as he starts his new journey ... we love you patrick and will miss you much.

love always Geoff Due

Deanna Reade

September 15, 2011

I'm so sad to hear of Patrick's passing. I worked with him at Maritz Travel Company in Mill Valley for five years. He was a great mentor and leader there and just a pleasure to work with. Thoughts & prayers to the family
Deanna Reade (formerly Daniels)

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