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Shirley May "Lucy" Poleto

1937 - 2022

Shirley May "Lucy" Poleto obituary, 1937-2022, New Orleans, LA

BORN

1937

DIED

2022

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Lake Lawn Metairie Funeral Home & Cemeteries

5100 Pontchartrain Blvd.

New Orleans, Louisiana

Shirley Poleto Obituary

Shirley "Lucy" May Poleto passed away on Sunday, February 6, 2022 in Kenner, Louisiana at the age of 84. She was born in Garyville, Louisiana on November 15, 1937 to Frank Joseph and Leona Marie Poche Poleto. She went on to earn her high school diploma at St. Stephen's. Shirley enjoyed gardening and spending time with her family, especially her grandchildren, who she adored. She was preceded in death by her parents, Frank and Leona Poleto; and her brother Frank J. Poleto, Jr. Shirley is survived by her daughters, Janene Messina Allen (Derrick) and Ann Carmen (Shawn); sons, Frank Messina, Jr. (Debra) and Errol "Roy" Elcock; grandchildren, Adam Allen Jr., Adrion Allen, Brittany Allen, Brianna Allen, Frank Messina III, Samuel Messina, Jennifer Marsilia, Sarah Marsilia, and Alexandria Carmen; great-grandchildren, Amiyah Allen, Adalyn Travis, and Adam Allen III; companion of nearly 40 years, Paul Pembo; and her son-in-law, Adam Keith Allen Sr. The family would like to express their sincere gratitude to the staff of Passages Hospice, especially Starr Lynne and Anthony Christiana. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Catholic Service at Lake Lawn Metairie Funeral Home, 5100 Pontchartrain Blvd. in New Orleans, on Thursday, February 10, 2022 at 12 p.m. Visitation will begin at 10 a.m. A graveside service will follow the chapel service in Lake Lawn Park Mausoleum. To view and sign the family guestbook, visit lakelawnmetairie.com.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Feb. 8 to Feb. 10, 2022.

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December 19, 2022

Good morning Daughters of Shirley I knew your mom by way of my dad whom she was married to I live out of town so I didn't know her as well as my other sisters but I remember her being very sweet I just found out about her passing last night I'm sure someone in the family probably told me but I don't remember so in talking with my sister last night she mentioned her passing so I just wanted to send a note saying that I'm praying for her and y'all

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